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adeolaSexy:
I've been a guest on this platform for a very long time and today, I decided to register. But, one thing I've noticed on the romance section of this forum is they way men bash ladies about not having any inherent value other than their body.

I don't know the kind of girls this men have been frolicking around with, but all I have to say is that you're all wrong on that one.

What tires me so much about women is that most of them seem to have no use of their brains. Many of them just seem to carry dead weight in their heads.
Most of what they think of is their faces, their hips and butt, bleaching creams, hair, make-up kit, phone, money, breast pads etc.
I can count only on one hand the amount of female monikers that have opened threads, in 2020, discussing topics like programming, cryptocurrencies, stock investing, politics, binary options, history, REITs etc. But topics on wedding, reality shows, fake celebrities or sex scandals, they'll comment up to page 15!
All what most of them know is how to track and hook rich guys, find sugar daddies, apply for reality TV shows, pageantry or try to force popularity on social media space... forcing 'notice-me' on whatsapp status, recording their faces swiveling their tongue and licking their lips like dogs...

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virginprincess:
You wouldn't know the definition of a real man because you are not one, a real man is a man that treat his woman like a queen, values her, provide for her needs, stand by her to defend and protect her always, not people like you that see women as sex tools, that why i like that guy called Nnaezeemnaunel, he knows the value of a woman that why he is ready to defend us at all time. .

Thanks for Proving my point further

I do not understand the word real man.
Whenever A Guy comes up to Talk about why Spending money on Women is not His Responsibility,Women and Their loyal Servants (simps) will come up And call him immature and Not A real man(because a real man is one who Worships women )
Then whenever Simps like Nwaezeemmanuel Comes up to talk about how women are Harmless, beautiful Creatures who deserves to be worshipped, Ladies like Zzor Shortyy And Virginprincess will Start raining praises on Them of how much of a real And responsible man They are.
This generation of men, who have seen their lowly existence become defined by the ideals of women is outrightly convulsing.

Shortyy:
Let anyone do whatever the hell they please. At the end they'll bear the consequence.

Aunty Your time is Ticking! You have About 15 years to go before you Hit the wall, become an evening Newspaper with Saggy boobs, Stretch marks,slacked pussy And of course the Inevitable Menopause.

I dont know About you bro,but I have Tested,ingested and Digested the Redpill and I know for a Fact that All it's Ideologies Are 100 percent Correct,Applicable to real life situations (Most especially the shit tests part) At least to me.




And I'm also 100 percent sure that ladies will soon flood this Thread telling you that you are "A real man" Who Will keep on seeing women for the "Harmless and beautiful Angels" That the Society has Painted them to be

virginprincess:
It is really annoying sha, but if you marry those type of guys, you as a woman wouldn't face stress one day, infact you will use him as you like.

This is why You ladies use Those kind of men as a Retirement plan for marriage when you want to settle down.
Emphasis on the word "Use" In your comment
Ladies Normally take Advantage of nice guys/simps and Use them For Validation,Magical Atm to extract resources from, Bodyguards to protect them Etc
Ubunja was right when he said Women are naturally Redpilled

Akhigbeblog:
Guys your girl loves you so much and she likes your attention...... Just take your time and understand her needs, don't let go of her. All wetin you dey talk na so my girl dey even worse but I later got to understand why she's like that.

I'm sorry to say but you are a very stupid Person.
The girl is clearly Using him as a Doormat for validation,and as an Atm where she can extract resources from

Shortyy:
Do I look like the chewing gum girls you role with? Boy if you don't geddifok

I just checked your Profile picture And you actually look like the "Chewing gum girls I roll with"

Zzor:
You are so wrong, I love my dad more than any other person on this planet, then my grandma,then my mom.The bond between my dad and I is so strong that I sometimes don't want to get married because I don't know how I will cope without being around him, I stubbornly refused schooling abroad because of him, I'm sometimes scared of ever living far away from him.My mom always say the man that will marry me has alot of work to do as he will need to somehow come between my dad and i lol. My dad is my super hero, so eat your shit that you wrote.

I know you are only saying this because your father was Slaving away at Work,trying to Provide for you And your mother. And he's probably Even rich too.
But take Away all that Money and Resources,would you Still "Love" him Like that?

virginprincess:
Op what are you saying? nowadays female children are even closer to their fathers than the male children.

Because the Father provides.....Take that Provision away And watch her crawl back to her mother

Shortyy:
Yeah, I watched the movie "I am Woman" and I saw it all

I hope you wont Expect your Husband or Boyfriend to foot all your Bills,since you Are an independent Feminist

Jodha:
My dear I'll advice my brother to do same too...if he genuinely loves her...

Keyword "genuinely" not lust or loneliness or something

This is why I will keep on Telling Guys not to Take Relationship Advice From women.

You Know fully well that That lady is just giving Him greenlights because she can easily manipulate him And turn him to An ATM where she will extract resources from so she can take care of Her Pregnancy and maternal stuff,while she Fvcks the absentee father Of course

Whenever Women say the usual "Men are scum,some guys will start Asking what about her Father,brothers and male cousins?
When are you guys ever going to realise that Women In General dont really Care about their fathers(he's just there for Provision and nothing more)A Girl will Always Choose her mother over her father No matter what(Most especially if he loses his job and is no longer able to provide)

They will choose their Best friends over their brothers because their brothers are just there for protection and provision(if the Boy is Elder).That's how A girl was telling me that She bills her brother a lot(he just promised her 30k,Then I asked her if she cooks for him,she said no that He should eat their mothers food! then I asked her what actually has she contributed to his life she went mute)

Then the cousins are nothing more than just Friends to them.
Women don't love men,we are seen as providers and bodyguards...Nothing more!

Hintona:
The words in pictures up there are very similar to the misogynistic nonsense male nairalanders spew here every day. Their brains and the way they think is still stuck in 1900.

Feminist wey dey always beg for urgent 2k And recharge cards,is that one a feminist?

But on a more serious note,do you really believe in Gender Equality? if yes,then Be prepared to Feel and know what it is like to be A Man
can you work in the Mines for Weeks non stop?
Can you Do the regular Hard labour Men do everyday? I'm sure you know what those are.
but no,of course you Just want to Be sitting down under AC Working in an office not by Qualification or merit,but simply because you are woman

Truvel:
It Seems She Likes U. Maybe U Are Not Just Sensitive Abt It.

Dude Wtf you are a simp for saying this



Ubunja Pansophist pls Come to Their Rescue

I see some guys here saying what about her Father,brothers and male cousins?
When are you guys ever going to realise that Women In General dont really Care about their fathers(he's just there for Provision and nothing more) They will choose their Best friends over their brothers because their brothers are just there for protection and provision(if the Boy is Elder) Then the cousins are nothing more than just Friends to them.
Women don't love men,we are seen as providers and bodyguards...Nothing more!

Adsexpert:
Your sincere veiw or advice will be appreciated.

I happen to meet this Lady 2 years ago who is now a mother to my baby girl , infact we really loved each other and seems inseparable, she comes to my place almost daily but after sometime the girls mother started behaving strange talking bad about me, in their Church, Street and everywhere and also, saying why do I and this Lady talk on phone every time, to the extent she fights with the father as the father supports our relationship, but due to her pressure calling all their family reporting to them that it's the dad whom have given me wife oh, without bride Price..

My Girl is 24 years as of now. Not a small kid.

And at times my lady will come to me explain all and when the mother sees me , she pretends and says nothing. To cut the story short Alot happened to the extent that she frustrated my Girl's dad till he sent her out , while the Girl came to my place and stay for 3 days.

On the 3rd day na so them both. Come oh draw her out beat her blue black , draw her for hand all my neighbors , see disgrace we I take see then..

Then the lady went stay at their place 3 days we did not see each other, on the 3rd day , I had to call my mom to come visit me so we go to their , infact there was a previous occasion I was told to bring my mother so we can plan introduction, I carry my mama reach their family head place, not even the mother who was at home came. And no list nor plans to move forward..

So on that 3rd day, the girl came to meet me and told me that we should go to ikotun side, that is synagogue church side so we can know what's really happening spiritually to pray and to know if we are meant for each other..

I told her can she do this she said we should go, so that night I took of with her there, on getting there we were told we would Lodge and me no to get money, 2k per night, ok we stay there and on the 3rd day money begin deh flow in , later after a month we discovered she Was pregnant.

But the funniest part is, that day she told us to leave for ikotun side , when we calculated the day she conceived, it was exactly that day we left for ikotun side to go pray.. I was surprised and what if I had been separated from her that time. Na so them go take call me later seh she get Belle after staying there place for 3 days not to talk of after a month, which man will believe that one..

During that time that do call us but we did not say where we Lodge or where we were and we stayed in ikotun I was paying for Lodge for 4 months.. now after sometime I got enough money , I rented another house around that place..

And because she's pregnant, we been deh fear seh make her male no talk seh make she remove am, or make them no go withold her , then when she Born make them no allow me see my baby..

We both pack to the new house and when the pregnancy was like 5 months, we both went to the parents house, they were normal everybody play, them even give me her load as I shatter cab take her load.. and we both agreed that when I have the money we will discuss about the bride price and other things.. so we left everyone was happy.

Then around 6 months again we visited them , and as well attended their Church.. no wahala happened..

Now It got to a timei got into finilancial probs things was tight that I had to sell my tools and even my big phone to feed us all till this November..

Now when things got tough, quickly left that house as something fishy is in that house, at times some house no deh favor person destiny..as we rushed then to get it as I was paying for Lodge at ikotun for 4 months, we really loved each other..

we visited their place hoping they would render help like they've been claiming she should come and take something as an in-law to their child.. the next thing the mother that is my Woman's mother took my baby girl run commot for house.. and that time I been deh complain seh chest deh pain me small small.. but who cares??

Na so the papa come In , talk seh that my baby no be me get her oh as I never pay for bride price,and seh them both lyne.. e first shock me , that I will have to leave the girl and the baby behind for them that they want to take care of them, and my girl was like what's the meaning of this, she said we should go to the police I told her no, so I felt bad and left...

To cut all short , Am very broke as of now, and cus of that , my Woman's parent seems to take advantage of this.. and not even let me get my baby out of their place .. or let me ND my woman have free long time together no to talk of 3 of us.. but my woman do bring me things she check me up in my sister's place very well..

What do I do now, if you no get money to talk I'll, it will be hard. And at least I got to spend time well with my child and woman at least but the father and mother no deh gree, to call her on phone sef at times it will be off.. cus her sim is in her mom's phone...

What do you advice I do?? Do I go report to the authority cus of my baby, or I just be patient till I get up back to rent a place and sneak them away?? As for now me no deh think of bride price na rent I deh find for now.. and see where demons deh corner me..

Bro how sure are you that Your Daughter is actually your daughter? for all we know,you Girlfriend might just be another hoe who got pregnant for another man and Has now tied you down with The responsibility. I'll advice you do a DNA test to confirm The paternal status

spoked:
I have learnt to give benefit of doubt to people so as not to judge them wrongly or hastily. There is this lady I started liking and thought of marriage, but she made some statements that made me bothered, and thinking of changing course with her. Truly, I am not looking for a perfect person, but a person that is good. Please can this be true? Or can I still give some chance?

I do call this lady and we enjoy gisting, but there have been issues at some points...

(1) I called her one day and as we were gisting, I stopped hearing her on phone. The reason she gave was that "her phone fell down".... Your phone fell down while gisting?

(2) I sent her a WhatsApp message, I didn't force her to reply, but she said "I didn't have data to reply". But she has data to see it.

(3) I called at a time, as we were gisting, I stopped hearing her and her reason "I slept off"... This was not at night ooh!

Guys, I am not a SIMP, I just want to be more mature in handling this, and do not want to act hastily.... I want your views or advise because I want to go for someone..

Pls dont take Advice from any woman here.They don't care about you,they are just looking out for their Fellow woman,so they will Give you any advice that will benefit only her(which might end in tears from you)
And as for your Girlfriend,bro she is lying to you and she's not interested! Ignore her for A few weeks let her come back to her senses

wkkwl:
Please your views would be really helpful.


Thanks

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Zzor:
As soon as possible, you know how difficult it has been lately, don't delay in helping and reaching out to people. God bless you

As always,you never disappoint.


@Op, Pls I will Advice you not to Ever take Relationship Advice from A woman(not even your sisters) Because they really don't care about you,so long as Their fellow woman benefits from it, they will give you any advice at all.
Pls bro don't ever Give your money to any Nigerian girl(unless of course she's a prostitute). If you give her today she will say thank you
Don't give her tommorow,she will call you broke and stingy

Thia shit Can never happen in Nigeria,The Americans and Europeans are slowly loosing their Masculinity! Very soon Their women will Become not only their equals,but their superior.

Zzor, Shortyy And Virginprincess, A "Real man" has just been spotted

Shortyy:
Go girl. Men we have these days ain't worth it.

In about 15 years from now,you would have turned to an Evening newspaper,with menopause setting in
So See you in Shiloh 2035

Lawliet:
A woman is the sole existence of a man

If you will kindly Explain Your comment...

Nobody:

Absolutely nobody at all:

Zzor, Virginprincess,shortyy,fati2001: You are a Real man,don't mind all those redpillers who will come here and discourage you from Treating women Like Queens

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MrTAnonymous:
Dear men, you can not kill yourself trying to satisfy her. Yes, I mean you can not kill yourself trying to satisfy her attentions.

Most ladies like exchanging words with their guys even when it is not necessary. This is what you face when you are a cool or a calm guy and unfortunately you come across the most hot tempered lady in the world.

A lot of ladies are full of that tempting habits. Even if you are not in the mood for an argument or a fight, they try to find any means just to get your attention. Avoid such girls. I repeat, avoid such girls. If not you may end up engaging yourself into something you never wished for.

To have a long lasting relationship with her, always ignore her whenever there is trouble. I mean, when there comes an issue between you which you know would probably end up in a fight, just leave the house to a friend's place or the beach side or anywhere that you can get a refreshment.

This is what a gentleman like you should do. Some ladies usually get on your nerves intentionally to see how self controlling you are. Do not fall a victim into their tricks. A gentleman is the one who does not and will never lay a finger on her woman no matter how annoying she is. Though it is hard to overcome this temptation, you should always be focused. Any man who lays his hands on a woman is considered less a man. If you do not want to loose that title as a man, never lay your finger on your woman.

I know that from your heart, you truly love her and your greatest fear in life is losing her but she keeps nagging. Sit her up and talk to her, she will probably change with time.


Your thoughts?

Lalasticlala farano Rocktation

Incase you don't know na me talk

So I should not retaliate if she Attacks me right? I should just stand there like a Gentleman while she claws out my face with her fake nails

It is Quite obvious that The male Gender has The Biological Advantage. We are stronger,faster,We make more use of our logical thinking capacity,and we don't go through all these Menstruation,menopause, pregnancy shit

JovialJune:
So how is that your problem? No one forced you at gun point to pay sanitary pads for them.

My problem is that you ladies are quick to call Guys Broke,but you and your cohorts are the ones running around begging guys for urgent 2k