Celebrities › Re: John Boyega Is Against White Racists (Video) by Ogaonos: 12:27pm On May 28, 2020 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY: Boyega replied him perfectly. Racism by whites against blacks is the mother of all racisms. That is what Boyega was addressing when that guy jumped in and attempted to lecture him on other forms of racism. this racism matter is deep Nd full of pretense.have asked my self one question why do liberal news media still report Africa frm d village Nd slum without showing us both slums Nd uptown.why is dt d liberal whites haven't fought illicit drugs consumptn Nd say let put it as patriot act to stop taking cocaine etc because of our black brothers since it affecting them.u knw if a white say they don't hate blacks but still take cocaine don't mind if it gotten from gangs in d black/lation ghettos DT hypocisy.nd hypocrisy is d reason why d racism is deep.even rappers are still guilty u promote gun violence praise drud dealers Nd gangsterism Nd be anti racist DT hypocrisy |
Celebrities › Re: John Boyega Is Against White Racists (Video) by Ogaonos: 12:01pm On May 28, 2020 |
Artwasdcase: The other guys statement was on point and john boyega jumped the gun in replying him. Racism is Racism irrespective of who's at the receiving end. It dont matter if you're black, white, Oliver yellow If you're discriminated against on the basis of color, that's racism but white racism is bad.but have notice DT black race is d most hated race on d world which is sad but also notice DT we as black don't like to look inward to our race.there too much of disunity in d black race.for example African america look dwn on Africa to be point DT they don't want to be called African American s but black America DT d reason why they are suffering economic reproach how because they turn there back on ours Africans .we see white investing in Africa thru south Africa like Forbes mag,MTV Netflix but u don't see ebony mag even bet came late Nd u remember hw they treated our Africa artiste in their awards.america is good south Africa racism is d worst they live in isolation DT why u hardly see events DT pple frm white/black attend.nd instead of d black south Africa to have sense Nd collect d brain in Africa Nd dev.give only biz visa.or visa DT only bring brilliant minds to d country Nd develop to be strong.they choose xenophobic.dt why I respect d Israelis they look inwards form their nation Nd became grt Nd move on. |
Celebrities › Re: Osita Iheme Pictured With Eddie Murphy by Ogaonos: 8:41pm On May 27, 2020 |
abumeinben: Dolemite is my name....and......
Who can finish..? is d movie interesting |
Gaming › Re: Infinix Note 7 Gaming Review - PES 2020, Call Of Duty Mobile & Asphalt 9(photos) by Ogaonos: 1:55pm On May 27, 2020 |
festwiz: You really should be using AnTuTu V8. Test Fortnite and Dragon Raja. Those are the heaviest Android titles right now.
Good luck.  dragon raja e bam |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by Ogaonos: 12:10pm On May 26, 2020 |
Lifedonor: I will have to go straight to the point.
The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe. Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.
Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.
Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession. They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.
This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.
She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me
She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)
I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs
She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day. bro Neva ever fall in love with a gal DT 23nd below they are all players.or any girl DT still in school.when nxt u meet a lady don't look at her good/kind gal peesonality. na packaging.check on her maturity level Nd youthfulness level.but be liberal fun guy with them.let them be free Nd fun with u Nd they carried away as u study this area.but if a lady ask u wat u like in a lady like u wat intelligent lady.na d game b dt.nd finally no dey believe girls wer dey form church gal.have it in mind DT there are no born again church gal.or born again church married woman.dt Wen Dis Ur bae marry she go turn born again.na so their life be nwadays.a girl life is enter campus Nd become a player you'll nysc Nd after DT go back to d secondary sch good gal personality some even turn to prayer warrior for Facebook to clean their past. |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 11:16pm On May 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: yeah, my point is that there are strict parents and STRICT PARENTS some parents out there will just lock their kids up and say "dont go out", "dont talk to stranger" "dont do this or that" without making that child understand why they shouldnt do it. so these children dont do these acts simply because they were FORCED away from these act (which imho is wrong).... while other parents will instill the proper values into their kids AND simply make these children understand why it is wrong to do a certain act, so that in return that child wont do these act, NOT because daddy is forcing them away from these acts, but because they understand that it is wrong.
there will come a time when you have to trust your child and what you have instilled in them... because everyone knows that sooner or later, they will have to face the world on their own. thank u my brother kyom doesn't undastand.u jux don't take sides Nd attack pple atacking op u educate them not posting links DT pple don't read DT only explain it theoretical nt practical. like wat u doing is great u educating pple here on nairaland.dt. op she may have problem in parenting she might be too soft on her children because of strict parenting.to add to urs half strict/ half mentor is dt best.like me my mum was strict but I had a cousin who took time to educate take me on life.also told me Nd my sibling about d horror of cultism.nd how they operate which made me fear.dt help us during our university.in op case her dad was a disciplined man Nd most dad like hers don't explain stuff like u said.they run their home like barracks.op was not educated while receive d caining.nd I have notice parenting a girl is different from a boy.i don't knw how to parent a girl because I Neva had a sister.if someone can help me on what to do because every guy u see here fear as a dad's is to have a daughter with body counts(olosho) after labouring to make Ur family ok.which is easy for daughter's to become.because d entertainment media inspire it directly or indirectly.in terms of materialism |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 10:49pm On May 25, 2020 |
Mutaultope: I just disciplined my son by canning him for what I have warned him severally to stop doing...... the only thing my wife could do was to get angry with me for disciplining him that way ..... that was the end of our night and she went to bed wat Ur wife is doing is nt cool but oga don't be too strict try dey Cain am well with dignity.break e stubbornness but try give am warmness no b everything dey use Cain try mentor am too.nd dey observe am.look for a wise way to mentor am regard d opposite sex make Ur son dey open in that area.be friend to him in DT area.pray to God in these area very necessary u knw why pornography is something DT every boy is expose to Nd as a father Wen u knw e don dey reach adolescent u need advise me against immoral video Nd d danger of mastubation.because these area na where music of nwadays dey influence our youth.wen Ur son wise with d opposite sex Nd knw papa go break my neck if I give girl belle.porn no fit get am.another na to pray to God the wisdom on coaching in d wisdom of knowing good frm bad friends.both girl Nd boys.nd against drugs.because a these area music of nwadays dey get our youth.try to inspire him has u wire e yansh Wen he do naughty things |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 10:30pm On May 25, 2020 |
Kyom20: Ur concerns are addressed in this article https://www.webmd.com/parenting/news/20120223/overly-strict-controlling-parents-risk-raising-delinquent-kids no b d same thing I dey talk oghene na wa for u.half strict half mentor no b d same thing as authoritative parenting as Ur link describe.but Ur link didn't explain hw to train a girl.like my reply a gave my own practical training on boys like mentoring on opposite sex.like having female friends nt having one female friend.fit make him fall in love.making Ur female friend side friends.only Ur mom Nd sister is Ur main friend.make Ur son knw DT he k needs to be confidence Nd bold Nd wise around ladies.didnt u read my writeup kyom.u jux copy Nd post link from a site.do u think pple have time to read links.abeg read my write up first then u knw there am coming from. |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 9:35pm On May 25, 2020 |
Kyom20: The issue with u as with most people on this forum is that they dont try to understand what the poster is talking about. Please read it again. She never said you shouldn't correct your kids, she simply spoke about how strictness adversely affected her. It is definitely not compulsory for everyone exposed to such to behave the same way but often times we see kids being negatively affected by it.
Please read the article attached to my previous post for more clarification. u try to read someone quoting u before u start attacking.u even read my reply at all.u jux like d ones judging DT lady.i attack u nt her.because u nt a parent.parenting is a very sensitive area.nd I went to explain DT one have to b half strict Nd half mentor.because these days children are influence by trap rap music who promote sex,drugs,violence which is what op was expose to.most guys in campus are expose to yahoo Nd drugs by toxic music of nwadays.shagging of yahoo boiz is a norm with campus girls.then I went to explain DT half strict half mentor is d way forward.so my stand is try to educate would-be parents on d wise ways to parent in our immoral world we live in.which most of u don't do u jux take sides Nd don't educate DT why nairaland is becoming too shitty |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 9:21pm On May 25, 2020 |
Kyom20: The issue with u as with most people on this forum is that they dont try to understand what the poster is talking about. Please read it again. She never said you shouldn't correct your kids, she simply spoke about how strictness adversely affected her. It is definitely not compulsory for everyone exposed to such to behave the same way but often times we see kids being negatively affected by it.
Please read the article attached to my previous post for more clarification. d problem with u is dt u didn't read all of my reply u jux reacting because I quoted u.wat I said is u DT instead of u calling pple hypocrite give us d wisdom of parenting.we all learning here.wat happening to op is d side effect of our entertainment industry who promote sex,drugs to d youth.which most teenagers are expose to.now those who judge op are d ones DT were born in 80s had strict parenting when d entertainment industry wasn't toxic like now.then it was more moral.society.if it was then op wouldnt be DT rebellious.in sch only area children wer rebellious was Wen parent force their children on course to read or who to marry.then I went to explain my own wisdom in parenting by being half strict half mentor or didn't u read DT part abeg go Nd read my reply fully.then u add Ur own contribution to how best to parenting kids in this immoral world will leave in today.because d rate at which campus boys take drugs due to influence of trap music is alarming.nd shagging yahoo boiz is a norm with campus gal.we all be parents Nd our children genratn is going to be worst.nd we all need good parental skills. |
Family › Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ogaonos: 8:30pm On May 25, 2020 |
Kyom20: I can totally relate to this. Nigerian parents often make the mistake of trying to force or suppress their kids to be a certain way so as to avoid them making "mistakes". What they fail to realise is making mistakes and learning is part of life.
This then leads to rebellion because often times these children want to have these experiences for themselves. Its just human nature. What i feel is important for children in this situation to understand is that everything should be done in moderation because at the end of the day its still your life, and you would suffer most the consequences of your actions. @ op, you are normal and i hope you learn from your parents mistakes when training your own kids.
I Hope this article sheds more light https://www.webmd.com/parenting/news/20120223/overly-strict-controlling-parents-risk-raising-delinquent-kids
Modified I really feel the need to add that people on this forum are very judgemental without even understanding where the poster is coming from. Did any one read her story at all? Her dad was very strict which led to her having to pretend when at home while being a totally different person when out of the house. Can we really say that is a good thing? Or have we never seen this happen in our society? Do we not see that this parenting skill breeds hypocrisy?
Some are even going as far as judging her. That makes no sense, so many people are mistaking strict parents for disciplinarians. The one thing we need to understand is that strictness often results in rebellion which often shows up on in our society as hypocrisy.
The reason why so many Nigerians are quick to judge but what they do in the secret is most disgusting. my brother instead of attacking respondent give pple d wisdom of parenting.i don't think u have kids.parenting is a very sensitive area DT need wisdom.guy our kids of nwadays don't greet some will talk to u as if u na be mate some don't knw how to say thank u if u do a kind gesture towards them.nd I heard is worst in d western world.in parenting one needs to be half strict half mentor.there area in children life u need to mentor which are :making Ur children wise in relating with d opposite sex there a series called I need to know DT talk in d 90s starring funke akindele about this area because d problem nwadays sadly is dt we now have a entertainment industry DT promote wayward( sex,drug Nd violence) behaviour,Nd lifestyle in youths Nd teenager DT wat affected op.dt beyond parents control .as parents u need to be strict on one hand Nd be friends to Ur children.for instance if is a boy u as d father need to discipline him on one head esp.if his showing some stubborn behaviour.nd then mentor him to be wise with d opposite sex.bd make him open to u in this social area.by letting him having many female friends instead of one is better because he will fall in love Nd his age is to be confident around d opposite sex Nd wise tried them like side friend or sista but knwd only main friend he has is his mother Nd blood sister because they will b there in hard times.but this I said look easy but requires wisdom o.because nt all kids DT come out frm d womb is d same. |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Reacts As Cynthia Morgan Reveals All That Jude Okoye Made Her Lose by Ogaonos: 10:52am On May 24, 2020 |
sexylassie2: There is nothing like greed, business is business, even foreign record companies operate like that.
In the world of music, it is better to be an independent artist than to sign record deal.
Most people sign deals without reading or out of desperation then claim victims when things go bad. keep judging it can happen to anybody my dear is jux God Nd caution.imaging I c Ur talent Nd I knw it will fetch me a billion naira in 10 yrs.wat do I do I give u a contract of 5million plus incentives for u Nd Ur family like 2 jeep house like d one mercy eke dey in.shopping allowances all these are offical allowance owned by my company.like three yrs later under a certain circumstances will u have a contract to have private jet allowance ( in my jet u may notknw)u were dey talk go fall. |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Reacts As Cynthia Morgan Reveals All That Jude Okoye Made Her Lose by Ogaonos: 10:41am On May 24, 2020 |
Flier: Anyway we need to hear the other side of the story As popular she is,she has no reason to go broke or depress because I can’t understand why she can’t just start her own label,rent a big hall,hire a very good DJ and hold a concert, beside she knows it,several millions is already in her account As for MR,he should thread carefully Kiss Daniel faced the Same problem and bounce back hard e b like sey u no knw d situation she was in.her name was locked in Jude label even though she start her label her name is lost Nd have to bear new name .though I think she didn't have a good legal adviser.to change her name in a way DT still sound Cynthia Morgan but spelled differently dt wat kiss Daniel did.by changing it to kizz Daniel.but she change hers to Miranda DT starting over again.name is important.in d entertainment industry.even 2face or yemi alade or tiwa salvage loss their name or change e go affect them.d name is a brand |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Reacts As Cynthia Morgan Reveals All That Jude Okoye Made Her Lose by Ogaonos: 10:33am On May 24, 2020 |
lalasticlala: Peter Okoye reaches out to depressed Cynthia Morgan after she revealed how she fell out with her record label owned by Okoye’s older brother, Jude.
Cynthia Morgan while on an Instagram Live chat, revealed how she lost her stage name, Instagram account, royalty and VEVO account due to the contract she signed with Jude Okoye and now battling depression.
Peter Okoye reaching our to Cynthia Morgan via his Twitter account., wrote:
"And some people thought i was stupid when I made the right decision. My dear C Morgan! it’s never to late to be what you might have been. God will surely see you through and carry you through the storm. Keep believing��."
"My dear C Morgan, The decision i made 3yrs ago was never about the firm,money or power! It was for my FREEDOM!�� Sad you rejected the contract i gave u. Just because they made you see me like the bad egg. I pray you understand that God has a purpose for everything. Never give up"
"The Truth shall prevail. God will surely see you through C Morgan... Gnight"
"My dear C Morgan, The decision i made 3yrs ago was never about the fame,money or power! It was for my FREEDOM!�� Sad you rejected the contract i gave u. Just because they made you see me like the bad egg. I pray you understand that God has a purpose for everything. Never give up" make she handle her name fit change am to c'ta mo' an or something DT will sound cnythia morgan.nd she should venture into fashion Nd acting fit giving music a try failed |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Asks Governors To Reopen Churches & Mosques (Declares Them Essential) by Ogaonos: 9:27am On May 23, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Seyi Shay's Semi-Nude Photos: "My Instagram Account Was Hacked" - Singer Says by Ogaonos: 9:25pm On May 22, 2020 |
OKorowanta: The first thing that came to my mind... Na life wey no dey fair o! Hence, the relevance chase. I think she's good at her craft,she sings good but Only God knows who will be relevant weda you sabi sing or not.. tiwa salvage is blocking her shine |
Celebrities › Re: Itel Mobile Unveils Olamide As Brand Ambassador by Ogaonos: 9:23pm On May 22, 2020 |
SamuelLoch: Chai! See what lockdown has caused! itel! itel!! itel!!!
Wizkid signed up with Tecno, he's using iPhone Davido is with Infinix, he's also using iPhone Now, Olamide signed up with itel...
The phone name just dey do me somehow.
Who's going to sign up with Bontel in the nearest future? at least he smile for them.unlike WizKid where stone face.but DT Tecno advert no b here o.they spend money |
Investment › Re: Investors Rush To Nigeria - Bloomberg by Ogaonos: 3:50pm On May 21, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright
investment is a future. These investors know that the future is bright for Nigerians And Nigeria is gonna be bright in the future
No matter what we are passing through right now Nigeria Will be great There is always light and fire at the extreme end of our weed
Oh! Sorry! I mean There is always light at the end of the tunnel We can't give up at this moment. God bless Nigeria don't be a fool.is audio investors.one thing I hate about Nigeria is dt we don't have economist what will have is economic analyist.until Nigeria go back Jonathan blueprints of export refined oil produces Nd gas to West Africa we have no brightness yet.most economist in Nigeria talk rubbish.always calling figures is dt wat they tell illetrate bubu for Aso rock like adeosun was doing Wen she was in finance minister.bro for Nigeria to better we have to alter global goods Nd services flow into Africa esp West africa.by making global goods pass thru Nigeria .by manipulating our exchange rates with euro.nd have a low key deal with Europe thru Germany Nd Scandinavia nations mind my spelling.imagine a euro to 2naira Nd a naira to other Africa countries range from 10 - 40 of their money.design in a way u boost Africans purchasing power of global goods.imagine milk Africa consume 30% is frm Nigeria cows Nd 70% frm Europe cows.whicch is re-export frm Nigeria to africa.u don employ every bdy |
NYSC › Re: My NYSC Hookup Experience... by Ogaonos: 2:55pm On May 21, 2020 |
Surfacebaba: coro go I beg make I enta camp u wan entacamp to knack my brother u no go c o.u might be scammed by corp gals they go chop Ur money for maami market.unless u want dey knack village gal wer dey come camp come watch cloth or village ashawo.some even knack their secondary sch students DT why op u want talk in details.is beta u.make female friends for camp.thougb is true DT most ladies in nysc cheat due to konji.dt why if u notice ladies don't always talk about nysc they avoid it.or say little about it.but d guy DT knack corp gals which are b best to knack no drama are d guy who make female friends quick. |
NYSC › Re: My NYSC Hookup Experience... by Ogaonos: 2:46pm On May 21, 2020 |
Chuky7: I really don't know about the generalization that ladies who go for NYSC are cheaters. But I do know things go down. I think serving is just an opportunity to let off steam especially with certain factor like moving to another state. You will likely come across various people. They are cases where even your oga at your PPA will be shooting shot and you may be in a relationship but temptation sets in.
Some cases can also be like where you are the one doing the chasing... I have seen cases where you are posted to a school only to start going after your female student as a guy.
My own experience goes like this... During my time I served somewhere up North. Well to keep it short I knacked a lot at lodge that year... Girls in neighboring communities O, other corp members, there was also a time I had a short fling with the lady daughter that cooked for some of us at our PPA.
Well like I said things dey happen, it's not necessary a one way thing.. What were your own experience like? warning to those will be corp member.dnt listen to most male nairalander about nysc.they overhype d knocking DT goes on during d service.is true that ladies in youth corp cheats due to konji until less DT d truthnd knocking Ur fellow corp gal us d best sexmate u can get.let me give u tips on this area.first never go looking for pussy on camp u get scammed.go buy food from maami market eh.by d 3rd week u get news of her redeployment.what u do is to make female friends.most guys DT knack corp gal na d social guys the ones DT knw hw to make female friends easily.knw how to pet tease flirt with a lady without thinking of love Nd lust.niw those u tell u they knack for camp most of them na village teenagers dey knack wer Neva bath well wer dey come wash corper clothes.only. very few ladies knack on camp.such activities start happening on d 2nd week.of camping.so after camp if u deploy to village u get little or no nysc gal pussy.is more of village gal own na still can be dangerous if u give any belle wahala don set in if u run they use JuJu remote u come village Nd be hussy going to farm.u be warn about this in camp by nysc official they use d them don't over socialize with village ladies.bcis they respect corpers alot.nd in d village corper randy ones knack village secondary gals they don't say it here in details so DT they don't get into problems.d fun part is in the main city of d state.they were all d female corpers are.some g far length to serve in d city.dt Wen u can get corp gal to knack but if u d pervert Nd nt good in woman matter u get konji Nd end up knack ashawos.where to see them are corper lodge,mostly run by churches.nd CDs meetings on Thursday or so.if u are fine tall dude na bonus.u start notice some will start getting close Nd familiar na konji.is innysc I knew ladies also get konji.sone will carry their bf pic Nd be knacking a corp member.note is d guy DT Sabi met female friends na they get corp member Nd knack d engaged ones.sonetimes when e no dey Ur mind to knack but u jux friendly with them tease flirt pet shw small care DT Wen it will jux happen |
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Romance › Re: Dutch Official Advice To Single People: Find A Sex Buddy For Lockdown by Ogaonos: 1:12pm On May 16, 2020 |
wagazala: Make sense. Religious folks wont like this though. If only they understood the impact of sex on mental health. but to make a lady Ur sex buddy e no easy o.for ladies na 1+1.but for guy e hard |
Travel › Re: How To Succeed As A Man In The US by Ogaonos: 1:06am On May 15, 2020 |
pDudd: Most people of every color love Trump. What you see in California band New York and on CNN isn't the reality. America is a huge place and CNN coverage doesn't do it justice. are u sure with covid19 death rates.so hw trump love rates at this covid19 pandemic |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ogaonos: 7:54pm On May 14, 2020 |
2buffagain: First of all, understand something. The laws in place in the west were setup by white male simps due to feminist pressure. White men are generally spineless when it comes to their wives. I like the idea of feminism, but it's implementation in many accounts is lacking.
Secondly, You say "family power" is useless. That shows you lack understanding. "Power" is not about who is in power. Power is about who controls who is in power. Like the old saying goes, the man is the head but the woman is the neck. The neck will always control where the head points.
Women are smart. Being the neck means you can rule without necessarily having to take responsibility for your rulership choices when things go sour. Through incompletely thought through yet suggestive requests, these men in power figured it would be good to allow certain laws. Women and children first has always been the motto. Men have always considered themselves expendable.
They felt like knights in shining armor after creating these laws because who wouldn't want to "protect women"? In so doing, laws that were meant for one thing i.e protection from physical abuse blah blah blah, have been abused by these same women to one-up men in any domestic dispute that happens.
Even look at the naming of some laws. VAWA...Violence Against Women Act...not Violence Against Spouses Act. That shows the intent of these laws and their originally altruistic intent. But as lawmakers never learn, before passing laws, always think about how that law can be abused, and make adjustments accordingly. Sadly they did not tackle these adjustments fast enough and now an entire industry has been built around the intimidation and oppression of men through divorce thuggery.
Whenever an industry has been built around a societal failure, that failure then becomes harder to rectify due to special interests. Just look at the diabolic persistence of the generator industry in Nigeria as a result of the government's failure to buildup its infrastructure in time.
The only way to truly be safe as a man of his own accord in the west is to simply not marry and to not live together with a woman long enough for common law to kick in. That last one is something not a lot of guys know. Common law is also a nasty trap as well. The way it is set up in the US, women should be the ones paying men groomprice to marry, because they basically can take everything from you if they wake up one morning and are tired of you...even if you have proof that she cheated. There is a saying, "It's cheaper to keep her".
To the matter of prenup, yes it is very helpful, but only if you already had some assets from before you married her. Because after you marry her, any new assets are within her grasp. Prenups are not bullet proof though and many family courts do throw it out the window, and all she would have to prove is "He made me sign it under duress" which, if she has a good lawyer (who you would also likely be paying for), could probably be "proven" on some esoteric and weird level. Also, if you ever want there to be a penalty for your spouse cheating, a prenup is the only place to define that. The family court will not factor in that she cheated when raping your wallet and giving her your house in the event of a divorce.
However if you must marry, Honestly, the best strategy for western marriage as a man...
- Marry a woman who has and makes her money on the same level as yours or more. - Never take on a woman as a financial project. - Encourage her to always think on what to bring into the union as supposed to just what to take because she is a woman.
This will mean a more fair resolution in case things break in the future. That is the only pure way to not get ganked as a man in the West.
"I am a woman and a real man would xyz blah blah blah" Is an old, cheap and outdated trick used on easily manipulated men, and women know this. Your wife too should also buy you gifts not just one way. I saw a video of a woman surprising her loving husband with a brand new Tesla. No be human she be?  op frm wat u have written something jux came to mind does these laws apply to same sex marriage.if a lesbian divorce.who will collect d property Nd who will get d child support |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Ogaonos: 5:44pm On May 13, 2020 |
pDudd: The Akata I was following was from a rich family. She didn't ever live in the ghetto. I didn't follow ghetto people. Her family is into real estate and have several properties all over the place.
Her problem was that she was a rebellious child and her rebellion got her into trouble with people. ahhh this one serious o.see me they think our 9ja sista bad but na d broke ones but here na both.is it DT bad.ok gist me about d white ladies hw they be |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Ogaonos: 5:02pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Sanwo-Olu Mulls Another Lockdown by Ogaonos: 7:58pm On May 12, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: Do you think the government can afford total lockdown for that long period? where will they get money to pay their workers? is it going to be possible to keep people locked down without palliatives? where will government get the money to fund palliative for a long lockdown?
 DT wer d govt is 4up.anyway lagosians need to atleast practice the social distancing Nd stop be arrogant because it affecting us too in Benin but pple still try to practice social distancing.dt y obaseki have nt be force to do total lockdwn..because of d compliance Nd election which is a good thing for us d citizen Nd govt.partial lockdwn is beta than total lockdwn.but in Lagos lagosians obey social distancing to slow to spread.d governor go dey soft Nd implement partial lockdwn but arrogance Nd ignoring is only going to be bad for lagosians u knw hw our govt can b.sense is lacking in lagosians because covid19 is affecting every one in d country. |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Sanwo-Olu Mulls Another Lockdown by Ogaonos: 9:32am On May 10, 2020 |
KingKingKing: Nigerians are very stubborn people!
There was a lockdown they whined and said the Govt was insensitive! They said okay we would ease the lockdown,all you gotta do would be to wear facemasks and gloves, we said okay!
Lockdown was eased and people flouted these rules , refused to wear face Masks, gloves and observe social distancing! Most Nigerians are foolish, stupid and ignorant!
Sanwo olu please lock us Down for 5 months except there's an improvement before then, then throw the keys into the Atlantic ocean!
WE GO LEARN BY FORCE covid19 has shw lagosians are very uncivilised Nd arrogance pple.for example in Benin here there is partial lockdwn but d resident are complying.it very stupid of lagosians to flout rules because has d govt as ease d lockdwn.they ease hustling.so flouting social distancing rules.is quite stupid.because their welcoming total lockdwn for a longer period which means longer hunger |
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Deletes Chat On Facebook After Conversation by Ogaonos: 11:12am On May 09, 2020 |
MichealKin50: My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?
Good day all.
The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.
Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.
I can't figure out what this means. na smart bae but ask urself one question which is hw much investment have she invested in d relationship Nd u.secondly is she matured in her reasoning.if she pass in this two area ( i.e her investment is high Nd nt little)u no get problem |
Health › Re: COVID-19 Patient Flees Bauchi Isolation Centre by Ogaonos: 8:03pm On May 06, 2020 |
Mokason28: Seriously speaking Ndi Hausa are problematic and problem to Nigeria I’m sure Gowon must be regretting why he didn’t allow Nigeria split up so dat he Flee to rest his head in Biafra ... away from Aboki people u right northern are backward Nd ignorance fools.do u knw if it was Jonathan administration they will be saying it's genocide.but nw Buhari they can't blame him .do u knw they are running away from d north they intersecting truck in Edo carrying truck full of northerners. |
Celebrities › Re: Which Celebrity's Death Pained You The Most? by Ogaonos: 7:03pm On May 04, 2020 |
rottencorpse: If I have an opportunity to see you, I'll pluck out your eyes and feed them to the birds u free to see me.but is d truth.we all love mj but DT would have happen to him.if r Kelly have die 5yrs ago u be saying this.but if he die now will u come to pluck my eyes for r Kelly now |
Celebrities › Re: Which Celebrity's Death Pained You The Most? by Ogaonos: 11:18am On May 04, 2020 |
rottencorpse: Which celebrity's death made you lose appetite? Which celebrity's death made you cry? So far I'd say Michael Jackson and Kobe Bryant but if I were to choose one, I'd pick the King of Pop Michael Jackson.
What's yours? Michael Jackson death saved him.if he was alive eh .what u seeing happened to bill Cosby Nd happening to r Kelly would be a child play.mj could have being battered.d disgrace could have being too much.imagine after his death.allegation was still coming up. |