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Worriedguy6699:
Please what does this mean?

My girl has a low sex drive. But we still do the do from time to time. She told me that when she goes to school, and I can’t hold the Konji, that I should have sex but only on the condition that I’ll use a condom.

God knows that I don't have anything to do with a brokeass girl with low sexual libido or less she is Dj cuppy I can manage

Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

you will speak for yourself and ethnicity and not generalize,In my community and kindred in imo state it is unheard of and a taboo for a man not to get married,no matter the scale of your achievement in life if you are not married you will still be regarded as a child,,excluded from many activities and when you die you will be buried as a child and all your assets is owned by your brothers,95% of our men in imo state in particular get married before 40years,it is not even a matter of choice,the stress alone that comes from not marrying is not worth it in my location,also we have very beautiful women which makes marriage not a bad idea afterall

Obavoh:
She harvested some foodstuffs from her small farm. She sold off some and used the money to buy things for our household.

She fed i and our 4 kids today. She did not keep 1 Kobo for herself.

She is heavily pregnant with our 5th child and breastfeeding our last born.

The God that blessed me will bless you all with a good spouse and family. Much love

this is too much for the poor woman to bear,a heavily pregnant breastfeeding mother expecting a 5th child that goes and harvest corn from the farm to cook for you to eat?what mouth and appetite do you even have to eat that corn,I don't even think you know the enormnity of the task ahead of you in training those kids,

duro4chang:
What has Simon Ekpa done that Nnamdi Kanu did not do?

nnamdi kanu did not declear sit at home every Monday,does not burn and kill policemen and soldiers does not kill and behead innocent civilians tagged as sabos,the case of Simon ekpa is very strange,it seems that the Nigerian government likes what he is doing,what will it take our president to invite the Finnish ambassador and read the riot act to him ,even why can't the Nigerian government charge that sonofabitch to court in Finland,WHY?I am having a feeling that the guy is acting out a script in cahoots with elements with hidden agenda against the igbos.

Alphamale101:
As early as possible

For the female child between ages 2 and 3 years and then their counterparts from 5 years cuz the rate at which children of nowadays take dey spoil ehn

That's how I was watching Family guy on my laptop my little cousin of about 10years jus shouted he is watching private film nah so my jaw drop

come on man what do you know at age 2-3 years,what should be taught to kids of such age is how to greet good morning and say thank ma,female should be taught about their complex body and sex immediately breast start forming,for make child I don't think their is any need for sex education because the dick has already been programmed

BurntDodo:
I met this pretty girl at a restaurant a week ago and we started talking. She spoke well, we had so much in common and our chemistry was just right.

But I noticed when I’d ask her questions about herself, she would always lie at first and it’s only until I catch her in her lie that she says “I was just joking”. For example, one time I asked her what sch she attended, she said unilag. It wasn’t until later when I caught her in the lie she came clean and backed it with her usual “I was joking”. This kind of situation happened at least 5 times.

Another major issue I have is that she says she’s a Yoruba girl but she looks so much like an Igbo girl and even her accent is Igbo. All her friends are Igbo. And she talks a lot. She talks too much even saying she has jobs waiting for her with prominent people in Nigeria but she doesn’t really look the part. Worst of it is she loves documentaries about serial killers.

I overlooked all of it that maybe it was In my head and so day before yesterday, for the first time, she came to my place. We started making out and then she started acting like she was autistic. Her legs would swing, she’d make a fist when I kissed her, sometimes she’d spread out her fingers apart, at a point she even suggested using a bedsheet before having sex. A LADY IN HER LATE 20s. And yes, I know when a lady is excited and I know autism.
I even as politely as possible asked her if she was autistic and she actually said “YES” smiling.

Yesterday, I wanted to try to understand her more so I could know how to be a better person to her and asked if she could tell me more about her autism. She first said she didn’t say she was autistic, later she admitted it and then used her usual “I was just joking”. I became extremely anxious. She was like a chameleon.

The issue now is, she’s told me a lot of major things that made me conclude who I'm sharing my space with, things about her family and life, but I can't find out if they are true. And I’ve shared a lot of info about myself with her. What if I’m with an olosho that’s perfected lying to appear clean? Does she have an evil spirit? Abi am I tripping? I could not even sleep properly last night.

did you finally nack her?

Kudman:
Ok

what a socialist rubbish,even the governor that is saying this supposed to be ashamed of himself,begging for #8k for his people,this is an affront and gross insult to the sensibilities of sane Nigerians,what type of idea is that?did this people in government not have advices?why can't they use that money to rehabilitate roads instead of this dumb idea of pallatives

OperationalVehi:
Quick question.

This 8k will favour me and my family. True or false?

please provide your answer with reason.

you are blessed with one good pot of soup with two painters of garri,after two to three days you are hungry again.if you give a man food today by tomorrow he will be hungry again,but build an enabling environment with the sorely needed infrastructure and Nigerians will find their own food

enemyofprogress:
At what point do you feel she has finally been conquered?

A: When kissing her

B: When your finger is inside her

or

C: When you're finally inside her



Omo C na my own o, especially when the cap is already inside her

I think you forgot option D,when a woman spreads her legs wide and holds it for you to lick and suck her throbbing pvssy is the peak ,her unclothedness and most private part is glaring at you in close range and you can do anything with it,you can blow it like ballon,lick it like lollypop,suck it like Capri sonne or my personal favorite shaveing the pubic hair iwith dronco shaving stick with her holding the legs up high,every woman will feel conquered after such an ordeal.

finegirl233:
The 8k no make sense but we fit manage am like that. But i'm not too sure if the money will reach the common man.
COVID-19 pallatives is a good case study

manage what?you are talking as if you and your family can receive such,the #800 million dollars will disappear into the endless money pit of corruption in Nigeria,it is better he give setraco that money to rehabilitate major federal roads in Nigeria,that is a better pallative

gbaskiboy:
I see handful of Ghanaian roaming the streets. Am not a prophet nor son of a prophet, don't ask how!

do you think because it is banned in Nigeria it is not been used,infact it is better they legalize it because the ban is laughable,you can buy weed at every three to four nepa pole anywhere in Nigeria and it is available for everybody,the ban only benefits efcc and ndlea people the sells goods they seize

naptu2:
Even more.

of all the things I don't like about civilian government is the use of agbada blanket cloth,that dress type is synonymous with greed,corruption, ineptitude,backwards and reactive ideas,I wonder how a president of a country like Nigeria will dress in such wanton masqueradedic regalia in glaring abject poverty and still pretend that all is well

Samantha124:
Leave her alone, she's just a curious teenager... I was once like her during that age...

and no churchillian speech can make her stop watching porn that is 80-90% sure she is masturbating and enjoying sweet climax from it,but just advice her and let it be,the power of her hormones is more than any speech you can think of.

Tinububalls:
I like you oh, but do you bleach?

dat no concern you,na woman she has right to try and look more beautiful,well done my sister it is not easy to be a business person in nigeria

Manuella4ace:
I doubt this your 16hrs on 6kg
I get 26hrs on 10kg of gas on itec 3500
16hrs on 6kg? Abeg check well abi you put choosen sticker for your cylinder?

the two results are not too far apart,your itel was 0.38 kg per hr while the other guys sumec firman got 0.37kg per hr,the slight difference may be generator type and load

irumole1975:
Hello guys. Something bothers me. I need to ask

I started going to gym recently. Becaus I want to get bigger. Usually I think about having sex all the time and this has made me an object of extortion from jezebells who don’t genuinely want me, but for my money.

However, since I started lifting,my sex drive decrease rapidly. It’s insane. One of the girls just left 3hrs ago ,and to her surprise I wasn’t begging her for romance like I used to . While she was here my mind didn’t even think about sex whatsoever. I didn’t move close to her even. She messaged me on WhatsApp just now asking me if she offended me and my behavior is unusual. I know it’s becaus I didn’t beg her.

Note: she was also angry that she came all the way from Ojota to my place and I didn’t even act like I want her in my place. We both live in Lagos.

Is it normal for sex drive to wane like this?

that is why they say an idle mind and body is the devil's workshop,you are even gyming which is controlled exercise,if you do hard physical labour everyday under the sun your dick will have a new change of mind

JeffreyJunior:
It's funny how people blame an imaginary cult somewhere for killing someone who already condemned himself to death by the lifestyle he chose.

There were and still are gang related violence amongst blacks in America and Tupac as well as Biggie were just another casualties.

Those boys were barely young adults but they lived and died by the guns. The state might have also tried to quench the growing gangsterism back then by taking out the two figureheads. Case closed.

Yea, Bob Marley's death could be apportioned some meaning but no very clear meaning yet.

too much conspiracy theories,2pac was in a fight at the hotel were they watched Tyson's fight,the guy they beat up went and got a gun and ambushed them,biggie was killed in retaliation,which I don't even believe biggie has a hand in pacs death,but Suge Knight knows about Biggie's death,America was very violent during the 80s and 90s,which influenced the music at that era

Thelastjoker:
Chai, man marry man
what is the difference between him and that lady

she has a pvssy which is very important and I have a sneaky suspicious that the pvssy will have a big clit like children penis,slim girls like that always have a weird pvssy,which is quite interesting to explore.

Dunionk30:
Chioma is Beautiful but Why Davido Like Ugly Girls as Side Chicks...

No Waoooo.

that is men for you,they are naturally curious to know,if i date a fat girl I may be tempted to taste a slim girl to know,if I date a beautiful girl sometimes I may want to taste an ugly girl to know,

TheBillyonaire:
It is just a story, it did not happen.

it is possible during the ancient times

SKYHIGHfx:
"Let's endure a little and pray for our leaders, whether selected or elected, and things will be alright. It's time to remove all subsidies."

for how long do we continue to pray?did you not read that we are giving these countries power but we have none ourselves,what misplaced priority

Baronthecelebri:
Leave the marriage, divorce that bastard.

very funny advice,how many husband's in Nigeria can afford to send their wife abroad just to give birth,that woman doesn't lack anything and want her to sacrifice everything and go back to her papa house and start from scratch,just because of another pvssy?you are encouraging her to sacrifice a comfortable life?if she dares divorce that man she will cry tears as big as October cabbages when she will realize that a common pvssy Is not worth sacrificing her marriage

izonborn098:
A woman is more likely to misbehave when u are bleeping only, but when u bleep others join she begin to respect u. In all women like competition.

that is okafors law no 2

Fineman2:
I am a 30year old lady. My husband and I got married in 2021 and I traveled to the UK earlier this year to give birth to our first child. My husband could not join me due to his work and businesses but he has been with me through the journey through communication and it never felt like he was not over there with me.

I decided to make my come back a surprise by arriving a week earlier than I told him. When I got back, he was not home. All clothes and traces of me were gone in our room and home. I later found out that my items were locked in one of the other rooms. In our matrimonial room, I met some ladies clothes and underwears. I am a plus sized lady while the items I met belong to a slim lady. When he got back that day, I confronted him and questioned what was going on.

He said that he wanted to renovate our room and that he mistakenly bought the wrong size of clothes and underwears for me. In my continuous attempt to make sense of the situation as his own clothes were still in the other side of the wardrobe and only his pictures are all over the house, he started shouting, called me all sorts of name and stomped off.

He has since turned everything on me. His friends, brothers and mother are in support of him. They asked that I apologize for asking him such questions. Another thing one of his brothers said was that he is entitled to 4 women.

I felt my world shatter infront of me. This is the man that I have sacrificed so much for so that our marriage can work. I have cried to the extent that I feel sick. Do I apologize for peace to reign? How many times will I have to apologize for what I didn’t do wrong? Should I still stand on my grounds to find out whose items I met in our home? I do not know what to do. Please advise me

I don't even think you know the meaning of what you said about your world shattering before your eyes,you married a loving man that trusted and financed you to go abroad just to give birth,which means the man is a wealthy and loving , in your naive mind you think a wealthy and healthy Nigerian man will stay months alone in a duplex without misbehaving,stop thinking like a child and face reality,just scold your husband and shame him,he will apologize and let it go,mange your home,a man will love his wife very much but can be fvcking another woman,fvcking and loving are two different things.

Obainoman6:
As for me i don't simp,

Girls dey wey i don Bleep for free,
Girls dey wey i don Bleep with indomie,
Girls dey wey i don use igbaju comot der pant and its between me and them only.

The highest amount i ever sent to a girl is 2k.

One detty cheap h*e i was tryna bang i sent her 2k and prepared indomie and she didn't show up, the next day i beat the hell out of her, she threw stones at me and went and called her 67 year old boyfriend to come and fight me, i looked at the man and said God save you if you dare.


I hear about and i read in news that guys spent so so huge amount to Bleep a girl, never me. Not in this life.


My brother kingofthedamned i would like to hear your opinion on this

no need to beat a girl because she didn't come to your house,most times from our write ups people can get a fairly accurate picture of the type of person we are,the most expensive item I have got for a girl is a phone of #15k in 2012 which is a lot then and the most expensive gift I ever received from a girl is a car in 2011.i look back at those years with nostalgic memories because I can't even think of doing such now,no holds barred wild years,there is time for everything,if the time passes you can never get it back again,

optionalY09:
Ilorin is Yoruba land we will do the Isese there regardless of your explanation. Ilorin is not a fulani city tho we gave you chance to stay there and you shouldn’t stop us from performing our cultural rights.

We will declare another dates for these series of events and nobody should issues a statement against our festival. Respectfully live and let’s live. We love and respect everyone wether you’re muslim Christian or whatever you worship so long as your religion didn’t pose any kind of violent risks on the Yoruba people and our society, everyone is free to practice their religion but don’t try to stop us from practicing our own religion. We will fight back we own this place.

Thank you

Respectfully

you are dreaming when you wake and realize that the EMIR of ilorin has spoken you will then know how a conquered people will feel,you have lost kwara state to the fulanis and that is the reality

slimjohn2k5:
Even Gen repairers, spare part sellers

it will be a domino effect,infact I am of the opinion that this subsidy removal will do more harm than good,the impact on all sectors of the economy will surpass the #7trillion that will be realized,this is just a classic case of throwing away the dirty water with the baby,soap and sponge inside,it is sad to note that Nigeria could manage the subsidy with good accountability and zero tolerance to corruption but unfortunately they choose to solve the problem by cutting off subsidy which is the general palliative for all nigerians,that problem they didn't want to confront that made subsidy not to work is still there and it has a new master plan to also make this subsidy removal not to work

IconicR:
😂😂😂 they lose their sense of reasoning when it comes to coitus matters. Wise lady

was she wise?my thoughts is that she was really enjoying the sex until she cummed and her eyes cleared,she didn't pretend,one robber can never rape a determined woman,

Kingsley34:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKqdjBLsJ_g?t=8

A married woman experiences public humiliation within her community for allegedly engaging in an extramarital affair with her neighbour.

A video making the rounds on social media captured the moment individuals of a community paraded a mother of six (6) over an alleged affair.

While specific details about the event remain unclear, reports suggest that the woman, who is said to be pregnant, was discovered in a compromising situation with her suspected lover.

The video, which has gained significant attention, shows the woman being scorned and paraded while being taunted and insulted.

this is barbaric and disgraceful,she is a matured adult with basic fundamental human rights,I guess the whistleblower might be a man she scorned

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

such is expected in a new marriage,not unusual but after giving birth to some children and facing numerous tasks and challenges facing us in Nigeria today she will learn to be humble,don't concern yourself with such trivial issues if a woman decides to cheat you will not know

KingintheNorth:
Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria??

buy land and build a plaza of shops,hostel,residential buildings,hotel,he should run away from investments he cannot control or manage directly or less it is for the manager and brothers to smile to the bank but property management is more rigid and inflexible, doesn't encourage mismanagent or less your brothers and sisters are collecting rent.

OtuologyProf:
This was not what I planned for, visiting Nigeria.
So I would be very brief.
I saw a curvy lady in a Burial ceremony today, I was very sure my dik would have gone a little bit above 90 degrees using a protractor. But thank God for the jeans I wore which reduced my erection to angle 25 degrees.
The thing is, I was thinking about my life on earth and the other guy being laid to rest.
I was lost in thoughts, like, shey one day everybody go die, so what's all these about sex sex sex on this forum.
At times, it's always good to advise yourself that there is more to life than sex. It is our good deeds on Earth that will always count and leave a lasting memory on folks we left behind.

So after all these reflection, I saw that same curvy lady when I was leaving the compound of the deceased, I stopped, gave her a lift, my dik come rise again.
We exchanged contacts afterwards.

I am totally relieved to read at the end that you collected her number,follow it up and make your dick happy,we live only once in this cold wicked world,the burial ceremony is an eye opener,your happiness is the most important thing and there are stages in life and as a young man your dick is entitled to rise up and demand satisfaction,later in your life you will look back at those wild years with fondness and nostalgia