Don't fool yourself bro........ Go an further more on your education. Don't think she can stood low and accept your move.

Chaiiii this is disheartening and also you have a blame as well. At that period, you didn't value the guy to the extent maybe he can be somebody. Don't you know that your roommate appreciate all what that guy did to you.

You exposed ur financial ability to her in the first place of ur short term in Germany and that's why she's using that to drain you. What you need now is to play along, act Asif things were not moving fine like b4 and if possible to change the school of u daughter to a minimal one. Just act first and heard her reaction. Also, don't take ur child to where is not safe. If possible to leave her there and pending the time you'll be okay financially or better still consult the family and seek for other people's help. But don't pay her children school fees ooo because she might be using the money for business or building house. Whereas, she also have ability to per her children school fees.

How old is your mother? And, How old is you too? And it's like your mother has no shame and the boy himself shows that. He's a chronicle fornicator.

There's nothing bad to move along with her once you both love each other and he's already pay your dowry. But try to tell him to make you work atleast 2month salary before wedding and also, you a teacher and you can teach in anywhere you found yourself if you are good at teach.

It's well with you. Just take it easy okay. Economy is very bad and we can't blame any company that downsize at this trying period. God will console you.

If you can work in real estate but it's commission level sha ooo. Leverage on contact you have to give you money.

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If is not advisable to you,leave him for another productive lady to marry him na.

Someone is earning 100k and u can't grab him with love and what you can also put on table.

Some both family didn't earn up to #100k in a month and they have children in school.

Think of what you can do to support the home.

Why these folks they always disgrace themselves in India na. Everytime na Uche, kelechi, nnamani, Obi, Kenneth, Uchenna chaiiiiiiiiii

squash47:
I can relate. It's not only SAPA that does these things to people Sha, sometimes it's a product of high isolation.
Most times, we need to move out and mix up with people....

You are right seriously �

Why can't you try Malta. It's more cheaper and saver. There's job to asap there too.

It's worth to celebrate bro but keep your eyes focusing. Be prayerful and knows who you ought to make friends with. Don't be deceive and engage on illicit acts. Cheer's.

Look at this tiny olosho Kobo Kobo. Someot spent his hard money on you in a night club and you couldn't thank him but all you have to say is that the toaster is phone repairer. Sense no dey for her.

This is pathetic and I pray to God to console the owner and the staffs. Indirectly, it's affect me seriously.

I love davido but this attitude is uncalled for. He should know that everybody is playing their game and they only give portable a job to do. If other big artistes were called to campaign for APC is that how they davido will unfollow everybody. Haba.

Alhamdulilahi robili alamin �. Eid il Kabir on advance to all Muslims across the globe.

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My dear brother, my kindly advio for you is that, don't welcome her into your home oo. Tell her that she should not bother because nothing to clean up like that and if she insist ensure that she come along with her husband. Becareful bro.

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

Early morning sun works and you should consult local herbs for it. If you don't like herbs, visit general hospital and they will treat your baby accordingly. 60% of new born baby comes with jaundice but you have to act now.

If you truly love her. Go an pay her bride price. You are lucky to have her but that number 4 statement is dangerous. If she can't change now, she can't change when you married her. I'm talking from experience bro.

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

Nobody is worry about them. It's their headache. Soldier go soldier come and no be dere papa position.

Na now you get sense. Yeye PDP

Of course. Dapo deserved to be called ELEYI and will stamp it gbam��

Obi need a strong hands and a large mobilisation of political members beyond online rant supporters who has no voters card but can brag....... Tueh

ebijimi7:
Good day guys
I'm a single guy but I have a family to carter for, and that's my mum and sister.
The problem is I earn 80k in lagos and I don't know its just not enough for me
And I'm not paying a rent I live in family house.
Can someone please tell me how to manage my resources because very soon I would want to stand alone and start my own family.
Thanks.

Try as much as possible saving 50k monthly as contribution with your co workers. You are lucky self. No house rent, no transportation and probably no. NEPA bill. Guy think well and earn better investment for yourself.

koldej:
I'm sorry to disturb you sir/ma, I'm currently in a position I feel I needed a serious advise.
I rounded up my service year, Nov.2020, luckily I was able to secure a job in a construction company jan.2021 although m on probation (1year).
I managed to secure an half plot of land this month somewhere around Ogun state from my little savings(as a result of this I don't have any savings in my acct)
my probation period will be over by dec. With little chance of being retained.
I'm actually planning to rough things through to Dec. again this year so that I can do the foundation of the land(which means I will not be having any savings) with high probability of not being retained.
Is it advisable to do this when m sure I will probably not be retained or I should save to invest in a business?
Still below 26yrs, pls I need ur opinion and suggestions..thank you

If the land is safe and has a proper documentation In place. While hurrying my brother. You better safe to invest because only valid investment will help you to actualize that building. I works with a reputable real estate company and they have better investment package than bank.

bigeliot:
Alot of people have given up in looking for jobs Uppandan. I've stayed almost a year. Thank God for parents. I frustrate ehh

How long would you depend on parent? You can work for yourself without seating in office. If you are interested to work in real estate. Kindly send Ur CV to oxfordcastleharmony@gmail.Com

Ahmadmoh86:
I need a job ooo please any help from anyone, am a graduate and am really depressed too.

Don't be depressed. If you can work in real estate. Kindly forward ur CV to oxfordcastleharmony@gmail.com

rottable:
the highest for me is 2 months. Op how did you survive? You were staying with your parent abi

If you are in lagos state and you need a job, you can work in real estate. Kindly send Ur CV to oxfordcastleharmony@gmail.com

Mophasa:
Hello guys, let me go straight to the point without wasting much time.

I'm a programmer working and living in Nigeria but I recently got a job in Europe, Spain to be precise with an opportunity to travel and live in Barcelona.

Every documentation has been concluded pending the issuance of a travel visa .

But I recently got another opportunity to work in Germany, Berlin to be precise with a higher pay although the documentation has not commenced yet.

Right now I'm confused on which of the offers to choose and I need advice please.

The offer from Spain is 90% set while that of Germany is about 50% ready but both of them are very feasible.

Process the two at the same time with careful. One must be done If you don't leave one for another.

Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

Take it easy bro if truly you loved her. It's normal from such a family to ask money from their sister's husband or boyfriend. Those guys might still behaving as a child and once they grow a bit and they earn for themselves it won't happen. Don't just let that worry you since both parents were happy to give you their daughter....

casperuk:
I got the same text as you did. I have gone through their websites and the registration. It is my conclusion that it is a scam. The owner of livessavers.org is the same person as wecertifing. If you try to buy the course you will be giving your debit card details to scammers. How can a global certification company have no physical address or telephone number. They know about sim registration, so they don't want to be caught. Better stay clear. this first course will be first billing. lol

Definitely it's a scam.. even a fresh graduate job hunting will think twice........

Kingsolar:
Please help me, am really in need of what can keep me busy while I sit at the office doing nothing everyday and my salary is just 40k n nothing else attached. I need your advices please.

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philest222:
Bro, please help my life too, if at all there's opportunity at your place, I mean job opportunity, please bro help my life.

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