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Read Ur Bible U will understand why.

The Bible is not to be interpreted. It is to be understood and understanding comes by divine revelation by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

All interpretations of the bible by any denomination or person are wrong. Can carnal mind understand God?

In the most disagreeable way. All that peaceful end to relationships is hardly ever effective long term especially when there was sexual contact. Best for Ur future partner that U were at logger heads with Ur ex when u quit or were quit on. At best it's good that u are no more than just acquaintances when the emotions have been processed.

Na this kain topic some babes dey like. . . so dem go fit make case for their wayward lifestyles.

Truth is the typical woman under 30years of age in the world today is likely to have had more sexual partners than the men of the same age group. They just would rather hide it and the men would rather exaggerate their numbers.

Abi why settle for Fanta when U can have the orange plantation.

Pimpress pimping the pimpables.

Meanwyl that babe for that pic na photoshop help am.

Girls are attracted to comfort and sometimes its just their strong maternal instincts at work. They are drawn to anything that suggests all round security to them and their children and sometimes it overrides their judgement. Cest la vie.

She probably will end up marrying someone else. U are doing friend friend with her. one day she will feel u know her too well to be excited by her and she will move it.

Mehn I don't know about U o postee but I'd rather a girl I really liked didn't provide the opportunity to get sexually intimate especially too soon. I'm a traditional man. What I get easy I feel any other guy as smart as me can get too and knowing I would rather feel like one champion among champions with the woman I would love, I'd rather not feel she were easy. If/When we marry she can be reckless about unleashing her sexuality and I won't mind but before, ha! If we don't marry she will always have my respect cos I will take pride in the fact that I have a good eye for better things.

Sensibility in a woman is sexy as is discipline. Everyone of us that will be someone should learn to say no to the things we can have but whose time has not come.

Anyway, I'm not against formal education for the women. I'm just saying they are being put through the wrong curriculum and it is affecting their worlds obviously negatively.

Life is a balance. Energy is neither created nor destroyed. We pay for what we want with what we have. Everything is being recycled. We choose what we want and give what we must. No man has it all but everyman can choose what he wants and give something to get it. U want career fulfilment U have to give up something for it and usually that something is marital stability and peace at home. Works so for men and women but with a woman at home she would more easily balance for a man's absence. What a man can do a woman can do better applies here. A man can be a father and a mother but cannot combine that effectively as a woman can. Men are terrible at multitasking. Women have an ease with which they can do several things on several fronts at the same time and manage to bring them to completions at relatively the same time to a satisfactory degree of efficiency.

Having said that, won't it be proper to conclude that a woman being first a wife and a mother can still succeed in accomplishing the other things she desires, and more so easily with the love and support from her family whom she nurtures, than she would otherwise.

Women are designed to be be submissive. The meaning of that term has been abused thanks to our sensual pursuits in wisdom and our corrupted understandings due to our sinful rebellious nature. A woman will submit to a man one place or the other. Either to her husband at home or her bosses in the office. About the only thing a woman cannot do at the same time is submit to more than one man. Funny thing is a woman hardly ever realizes she is submitted to a man because it is a natural pattern for her and hardly ever needs conscious effort where she feels she is in the right place.

No man can serve two masters. U will serve God or mammon. No woman can serve under two men. She will love(submit to) the one and hate(rebel against) the other.

Yes different strokes for different folks but the law of cause and effect & action reaction supercede that principle.

There are things if U do that will bring U satisfactions u did not expect or dissatisfactions too irrespective of how U feel about them, in line with the natural patterns of things embraced by humanity long before U came to existence.

A woman has always been more of a "feeler" than a "reasoner." Her feelings are as potent as the reason of man and sometimes more accurate than the logic of man. Formal education awakens in her the "unnatural" inclination to be logical and to reason with logic more than she naturally would do more accurately with her emotions, hence bringing out in her the man within.
(*Note: we all have bits and pieces of the opposite gender in us. There are masculine men, feminine men, feminine women and masculine women)

When that man within becomes the dominant sex in the woman, she subconsciously concedes some of her feminine appeal, making the natural man subconsciously perceive too much masculinity in her no matter how feminine she appears. This in turn does not make her as attractive for marriage to the predominantly available masculine men or the masculinity in the feminine man as would have been the case otherwise.

Furthermore, the awakening of her logical faculty prematurely (cos it was unguided and fast-tracked according to an academic timetable without paying attention to the other aspects of her person), leads to her becoming competitive in the wrong fronts and her unpolished use of her logical capacities while condemning and abandoning the emotional, leads her to make gross errors, hence making throwing her world into silent chaos.

I wish I had more time to expatiate on this but I don't right now and when I return I might not feel like continuing on this. Lets see sha.

infidelguy:
because some women actually have better things to do with their lives than to become a wife or breeding machine

it is not every woman's goal to be married as soon as possible and there aint nothing wrong with that!

different strokes for different folks!!

Misplacement of priorities. Better in the short term shey? Do U realise that the joys and satisfaction a woman gets from child birth if only for a moment, a period or a life time are more than the joys or satisfactions she could get from most other places combined? Now take that woman and give her a home and a legal marriage to a husband with whom she has that child, and add love between them and peace and comfort and tell me what would compare to that obtainable from any career pursuit without the above listed.

Na we dey cause problems for ourselves. U have spoken like a girl who was raised with little or no guidance and was allowed too much liberty, so much she feels whatsoever she feels is right is necessarily right. Don't be deceiving weak minded and unknowing people with Ur corporeal wisdom abeg.

Sleep with another man's wife then be prepared for the fullness of his wrath and don't expect anyone to look upon him with disdain when he takes it out on U, or on you with pity.

geoger:
I want to go into forex trading, but I need to understand it well. But I have been doing some research on it. I have been practicing with a demo account, but seems not to get some things clear on my head. For a example GBP/USD =Bid 1.6432 and Ask 1.6439. My Question is

1. With what currency is my account on? Or what currency am I using to buy the GBP/USD with?
2. If I buy GBP/USD I.6439, when will I sell it ? is it when the bid goes up to 1.6442 or when the bid goes down to 1.6430? And why should I sell it like that?

I believe trade is all about buy low and sell high, but I don’t understand forex trading well. Please I need your ideas thoughts and experiences for me to understand it well, so that when I trade with real money I will not loss, rather I will profit from it . Thanks

1. Ur account is denominated in just figures that bear numerical resemblance to the amount U funded with. No currency unit; however U are operating transactions with the broker in the currency of transaction which is the denominated currency u used in funding the account with them.

3.U buy the dips and sell the rallies. Buy when the quote is low and sell when the quote is high. Low and High here are relative terms.

Everyone makes losses in fx. and only 10% of traders remain profitable. It's about banking ur profits and cutting Ur losses. Don't be decieved by what they say at seminars, This is a ful time job and not a get rich quick market.

Happy trading.

First of all U want the paste consistent, then u want to pour gently in the middle of the oiled pan and spread out by tilting the pan in circles till U get the outline. Let it heat for a while then when it solidifies, flip. That should work. That's how I do it and it works always.

If it could we'd all be infected or dead by now I guess, Either that or we would have found the cure for AIDS.

Okija_juju:
I will trade in all these worn-out, old-school, Ekiti ti.tties for just one of that Jabulani.

Na old women wey fit born U U go dey call "worn-out" shey?

Natural any day. As long as na my activities make the thing go flat or natural ageing process i no mind. There is beauty in ageing.

That silicon thing puts me off totally. Breasts should have character and mood swings.

Bukittes:
I don't know again o but do these things guarantee a woman getting married these days? Good character, Pretty in all aspect, sound education and all packaged well were prerequisite in those days for a lady to get a befitting husband. THese days, with all these yet plenty unmarried female. What is happening?
and don't tell me about the ratio of men to women because that doesn't count!!!!!!!!!!

1. Boys dey fear girls ambition.
2. "The population of "marriable" girls is on a sharp decrease," so boys generally feel say the risk of marrying the wrong girl too high to just enter the thing like that.
3. Where the money when every thing don cost and girls no dey help matter they struggle typical male jobs with men still expect say we go settle down quick marry them.
4. Girls dey look for "invisible man." They want it all an when there's just one thing lacking they go looking for the next candidate.

The list plenty. Make we no even start.

So lets say he struck gold somehow cos fortune smiles on him, Will his English still be a problem?

I understand what Ur saying o and I agree with u on every other point of concern except the grammatical insufficiency.

I also believe if some other man of better means wasn't weaving his way into Ur heart all these issues will not be so magnified.

Anyway, leave this dude since U've made strong cases against being with him and then hook up with some other guy. 6months isn't too much time to want to hold on, unless of course U've bonded with him more than some people do in a year and more.


Probably U've been sexually intimate with him. If that's true then it's easier to see why U would be indecisive now.

vivaladiva:
u wanna get married at 21, wat in petes effing name have u achieved, this aint the 19th century u know
still its your perogative, do wiv your self wat u will,

Na this type thinking pattern dey make some of una expire ontop shelf.
Shey marriage na place where all possible achievments na grave get them?

Lacrissa:
I am 21, wouldn't say too young for marriage but i have started meeting guys, not just any guy but guys that want to settle down and most of them are good men. I am a little bit nervous and scared though it feels good they see me as a wife material but is it better to wait and keep meeting people till a certain age or what do I do?

Be smart and hang on to the best of them till U are ready. In the mean time work on whatever it is that's making them come to U. If it's a character strength, polish it and they won't go away till one of them or someone else has U.

Many girls Ur age usually feel they are too young for marriage. Three to four years later they wonder where the marriable men went to. 7years after they settle for anything in pants.

Be smart. Talk to ur mum about it. Hopefully she wll give U good advice.

So na sentence no be name? Abi na phrase oyinbo dem dey call am sef.

How Ur own come be? How dem dey take pronounce Vik2k3? na Vickie be that?

U want her back but best not have her back unless she has forgiven herself is repentant. The hard part of being forgiven is forgiving one's self.

Girls no dey hear word. Never hold them too tight and never make them feel like U r all that into them. They'l fall Ur hand when U least expect it but can see clearly is likely.

Always be ready to let go.

Nope, Don't strike her back but make her wish U did. U don see where U keep quiet, look girl for eye she start dey beg U to even insult her if na the only thing wey u go talk be that?