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Ujujoan:
So when you are pouring into a girl, you are completely oblivous of the fact that she could very well get pregnant? Oh yea right, you have options!

You probably think that she's barren or u r impotent!
Or if she gets preggi, she can go be intimate with herself!
or if she doesn't want to risk having a child, she could stuff herself with contraceptives that will very well affect her later in life!

*shakes head*

_{Why do guys think they have no part to play when a lady gets pregnant for them}  

Good morning to U too.

Chic, just cos U let a guy stick it doesnt mean he wants U to have his baby or that he want's to marry U. We've had this discussion before and I clearly explained to u how it's easier to get a guy to commit to U without sex than it is to give him sex and expect him to commit to U.
Why do girls generally believe that they are the givers of sex sef? Ur giving and getting and we give and get so U've paid me and I've paid U and the illicit contract did not include babies or marriage. U should always read the fine print.

Once again I've made a case for the girls by cautioning the guy above not to encourage girls to think a bun in the oven will give the a guarantee to marriage and U make it sound like i'm against Ur species.

Is it that U are surrounded by guys that insensitive to a woman's predominantly emotionally based reasoning, and therefore think we are all like that?

Before U continue let me give U some advice, Never go after the crusher. Chances are they have U on a pedestal and U wil not be able to keep up with the imaginary U that's perfect in ther heads. If U must go after a crusher, pls do when the crush has abated and he/she just see's U as a normal person. U'll have better chances of having a more stable and meaningful relationship that way.

1Cor 13: 4-11

^^^The men on which planet?

kayc33:
@poster, dump the punk a.s.s he's married to your friend already 

Married why? Cos he's having a kid by her? No dey yarn this kain yarns abeg; U wan go encourage girls into the stupidity of believing that if dem cary for u U go marry them shey?


Meanwyl, postee, the decision is in Ur hands. I'd advice U to let him go and endure the heart aches till they heal cos if U take him back that child will always be a part of Ur life and depending on what conditioning he gets from his mother (among other things), myt be a pain in Ur relationship with his father for a long while.

y me:
because they are tired of eating same pot of soup quote from a married man tho

Then shame on them for not asking their wives to make another soup and providing the necessary "ingredients" and conduceive environment for her to do so; and shame on their wives for being too lazy and not showing creativity and versatility in "the kitchen."

Which kind of woman desn't know that one kind of soup all the time can become unappetizing?

No kissing feet for me. Doctors order. Massage and rub, allowed. Kissing and worshiping, not allowed.

It's not about satisfaction. The ladies can;t be trusted so no need committing to one when she really is looking to sow her wild oats too.

Are they married?

Maybe Kevin runs a secret underwear dry cleaning service and those panties were just work he brought home cos he couldn't finish at the office?

Ok seriously, what's she complaining about? Are they married? Is she not doing the same thing with him the other girls are doing? What legal rights does she have to his manhood and what right does he have to his?

Humans we no dey hear word. She never near to cruy and no be her go cry last.

Maybe he was drugged and had his seed exracted from him when he was passed out, then they did one of the test tube thingy's for the other woman?

Ok! Just kidding.

Hmmm, technicaly neither of U babes actually had him. He's not Ur husband so all U can do is be bitter. U were doing smth with him U shouldnt have been doing knowing fully well the kind of guy he is. My advice, better not have a third until he puts a ring on it and if he doesnt, take good care of Ur kids and do with him as U please without expecting him to change for U.

Sad for U.

Good girl

The rich mugu nko?

Creamish:
seemz like it was your project topic in school

Huh? What is school? is that another name for Nairaland? What is a project?

Creamish:
meant your pix silly!

Oh no! Oh no no no no no!!!

My pic is not for public consumption on sites I don't frequent. I've added U. We'll proceed from there one step at a time. Good enuf?

Some guys ask to know whether the girl will more easily go horizontal with them and how much (or less) work it would be to get her to let them hit it. These guys just want sex. the girl is a forgo-able near alternative.

Some other guys want to know what to expect should things turn sexual.

Some guys (with gross misconceptions and screwed up servers in their heads) want to know so they can tell how "good" in bed she should be based on how many guys she should have "learned" from.

Some guys want to know if she's just not their kind.

Some guys want to know if she's a "good girl" or a bad girl (Like there's such a thing as good girls )

Some guys just want to know so they can have stuff to gossip about.

Mehn, so many reasons why people ask. Can't list them all.

Lucky for me I'm a guy. No need to choose; just be or become.

I guess this depends on the kind of relationship U have with the girl in question. Personally I'm not the kind to share my woman with anyone. If we can't survive comfortably on what I have either I up my earning capacity and make additional provisions, cut back on our spendings temporarily till we get ontop of the situation, she gets a job to support our relationship, or we just break it off.

Why should my girl need other men to take care of her. U don;t know Santa clause is just a fairytale? Abi na charm me and her carry take fal all the men mugu wey dem no go wan repayment in kind?

Bulls*it mehn. There's no excuse for sharing my woman with anyone. Period!

Creamish:
. . and I'm one helluva curious chick . . so when do i click to check?

Done did it. U have a pending add request.

Creamish:
How " FYNE " r u? . . . pix pls

Lets just say I'm one helluva "shy boy."

How old are these shy fine boys and what breed of crop are they, ?

Wait o. Ys I agree, it's true; "we are always shy," Therefore all the single ladies with dangerous curves on their bods and booty to die for should pls come for our shy boys frat party. Feel free to dress to kill. It's a science experiment we nerdy fine boys are conducting trying to prove the hypothesis that black men do blush too.

U need not worry, we'll be so shy, nothing wil happen.

Perhaps she is perhaps she isnt but a gir swearing never meant she was being truthful.

Girls swear too often to be trusted.

There's a saying that goes "If u think they're cheating, then chances are they are."