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Hello.

Please you want to read this, as this is important and part of our #MonthOfMedicine. And please share, because even I didn't know the last important info here.

We intereviewed a Dr for how you should handle common accidents in the house:

https://nefescorner.com/emergency-safety-tips-for-your-little-one/

Please share. Thanks

Hello.

Please you want to read this, as this is important and part of our #MonthOfMedicine. And please share, because even I didn't know the last important info here.

We intereviewed a Dr for how you should handle common accidents in the house:

https://nefescorner.com/emergency-safety-tips-for-your-little-one/

Please share. Thanks

Hello pushing mamas, this one's for you. Concerning how you can help yourself to an easier labour.

https://nefescorner.com/5-dos-and-donts-for-giving-birth/

*cough*

Just gonna drop this here.

Instagram: nefes_corner

Our month of Medicine is still going on o! Are you following the
Blog: www.nefescorner.com
Instagram: @nefes_corner
Twitter: @nefescorner

We will be updating you with what Drs and Nurses wish parents knew before stepping to the hospital.

Our month of Medicine is still going on o! Are you following the
Blog: www.nefescorner.com
Instagram: @nefes_corner
Twitter: @nefescorner

We will be updating you with what Drs and Nurses wish parents knew before stepping to the hospital.

Hello mums!

Sorry o, I made smmmmaaaallll mistake I gave the slots for our Q n A sessions with doctors to the other writers and they brought their villages for consultations . So I've bounced some and the mums here can now submits questions and I'll put some to them.

The team of doctors are

3 consultant Paediatricians
2 paediatric dermatologists
1 consultant gynaecologist
1 neonatologist

And the most powerful of them all, one 9-time Grandmama

So, to submit, you must be following us on Instagram (@nefes_corner) or Twitter (@nefescorner). Then send your question via DM on either platforms. No names will be published. Try and send it in no later than Wednesday next week please. Oh, and they said they won't make specific answers that recommends certain drugs (they all won't prescribe medicine unless they see the patient).

Thank you!

Hello guys.

The last 2 weeks, we've been sitting down with health care professionals from the different fields and slowly picking their minds on what they would like patients to know. Please see:

https://nefescorner.com/healthcare-for-all/

https://nefescorner.com/its-all-in-genes/

We will be speaking more and we are planning a QnA session. Hopefully we will be able to take questions from here. Thanks.

Hello guys.

The last 2 weeks, we've been sitting down with health care professionals from the different fields and slowly picking their minds on what they would like patients to know. Please see:

https://nefescorner.com/healthcare-for-all/

https://nefescorner.com/its-all-in-genes/

We will be speaking more and getting more info. There's a Q n A session coming up which will be asking for questions to be submitted. Thanns

Good morning mamas.

Please are you following us on Twitter and Instagram? We will be posting weekly safety tips there. We just posted one now that even I have been guilty of. Please check it out:
Twitter: @nefescorner
Instagram: nefes_corner

Thanks.

Good morning mamas.

Please are you following us on Twitter and Instagram? We will be posting weekly safety tips there. We just posted one now that even I have been guilty of. Please check it out:
Twitter: @nefescorner
Instagram: nefes_corner

Thanks.

iwuoahsamuels:
Rash like between high thigh and waist and another small spot with pus on a 2weeks old.
Been using pampers diaper for new born, could it be he’s outgrown the size? I use about 15 dia
pers daily as I don’t let him sit in wee or poo so don’t get why he would have a diaper rash. What else could this be pls? What say u experienced Mummys
I’m applting aquaphor though and clean with warm water sometimes instead of always using wipes
Anything else I can do?

Leave the diaper off for 30 mins to air him. Take him to a Paediatrician so they prescribe the right ointment to dry up the pus, though it won't work asap as the skin is not broken yet (they won't want to prescribe oral anribiotics).

As promised,

We keep seeing "where is the beat place to do this or that", especially in terms of hospitals. Guys, we did the homework for you. And we all use this service, infact the only time I personally think it's overreated is for my eyecare. Otherwise, the day I needed to be rushed to the hospital, I was glad I wasn't looking for cash on hand. Please read:

https://nefescorner.com/healthcare-for-all/

As promised,

We keep seeing "where is the beat place to do this or that", especially in terms of hospitals. Guys, we did the homework for you. And we all use this service, infact the only time I personally think it's overreated is for my eyecare. Otherwise, the day I needed to be rushed to the hospital, I was glad I wasn't looking for cash on hand. Please read:

https://nefescorner.com/healthcare-for-all/

spiceeamiee:
She takes orange quite well. I haven't tried watermelon. I hope she takes it. She is quite the picky eater. Does not eat beans, plantains, egg etc. Don't know where she got it

All Firstborns are picky. Most subsequent children are not picky eaters. The only constant here are the Parents, who are usually overwhelmed for their first child (and give in to their every whim and wahala) but Time and Experience makes them not be manipulated by other children.

The best cure I've found for pick eaters is another person feeding the child or other kids. One of the blog writers uses the 2nd trick: one of her neighbour's elderly mum stays with them, bored. So she became everyone's grandma. All the kids in the building head there after school for early dinner. They eat well. When I struggled with my picky eater (3 menu options per meal), I sent her to grandma for a while and it ended miraculously. Same thing happens in schools: your picky eater wants to eat with his best buds in class.

As for hubby sneaking it behind your back, I too have a badly behaved husband when it comes to sugary stuff. I usually plan with my paed during visits: I tell the Dr what I want, and he comes out and tells Himself what I said, backed up by non-existent medical jargon the Dr just made up. It's working! Himself believes in fake Maltina that causes Kidney relapse, hard sweets and Ribena causing allergic reaction due to Tannin and glucose levels.

I also use his mum and my mum, so they can call him and in the middle of discussing family meeting, go "OMG papa Emeka was crying to me, Emeka's teeth have all rotted off and he's just 14 months!".

Because I got tired of arguing and always being the "Bad Guy" when it came to saying no to sugary drinks everytime.

Himself knows most of these shenanigans are false, but he goes along with it.

spiceeamiee:
I know its not healthy but she throws so much tantrums and then hubby sneaks and gives it to her when i am not looking. She wont even take Gerber yogurt anymore. I will try the watermelon and orange juice but thing is will they still taste ok if not made fresh? Electricity is available but trying to blend fruits everyday is the one I don't know if I am cut out for.

I have inquired at the GH close to me and they said its only Vit A and something booster that will be given.

You shouldn't be juicing watermelon, as it's 92% water already. Just give her the watermelon like that. Freshly squeezed juices don't preserve well in the fridge so if you're not up to it, don't kill yourself. But if you put oranges in the fridge, they come out chilled and delicious.

For her tantrums, well as I type this, Spud is in the midst of a full-blown tantrum. She's still alive (barely! Because I'm getting pissed and her life is flashing before my eyes dangerously) so that proves that tantrums don't kill children. We will have to do more scientific research on this tantrum thingie. ...

And the tantrum has stopped. Massive Ignoring seems to be the cure. Perhaps try ignoring your LO when she freaks out about Ribena.

Hey guys,

New post up! Food hacks. I hope you like it. Please try that yorghurt hack, my kids don't like regular ice cream anymore because of it and it's sooo healthy. Plus yorghurt is so good for them, even 8 months old babies.

https://nefescorner.com/6-food-hacks-for-your-baby-and-toddler/

spiceeamiee:
Good day everyone! To every mama replying questions and making comments,you are all doing amazing. Please I have a couple of questions o.Thanks in advance for the response.

a. Besides Dano, which other full cream milk can a one year old baby take? Kerrygold and Oldenburger, are they full cream?
b. Please how much did you guys pay for one year immunization o? The cheapest I saw was 40k. Hian. I know some mamas said they paid 18k abeg point me the direction of the hospital. I dont mind anywhere as long as its in Lagos biko
c. Is taking ribena every day healthy? Like we run out of a pack every two weeks. I have tried to incorporate other drinks like tea but she wont take them. She wont even take diluted ribena. Is there any other drink I can switch her to that is healthier?

Noooo to Ribena daily. Woowwww, please end that. Abeg!! Our new bestie is a Food Scientist (Ph.D) and she has started explaining how our gut works and why we should not be loading up on sugar.

See, I got this cool hack. Daddy was annoying us with too much ice-cream. I got whole milk unsweetened yorghurt with pineapple, fruits and maybe a smigde of honey. Taste better than ice cream, healthier than ice cream and cures any type of constipation. Plus it is a great dessert for guests. Juice, try chilled OJ or pineapple (squeeze if you can). Watermelon is juice and fibre, just serve it chilled.

Immunization, go to a GH. I think they're still on strike but it's the cheapest. You need a HMO. MUCH CHEAPER. I'm reviewing some plans and will post on the blog this week.

Full Cream is always written on the packet. Dano's website actually says it's not suitable for children under 2 years.

StrongWoman333:
Mamas please my baby makes one funny sound every night especially when asleep as if she wants to pass out hard poo. The sound always get me scared she only does it at night please what could be the cause?

Also, what can I do to start grooming my baby's hair? She is 12 days old. Please help a first time mum...thanks

What does the sound, sound like? It may just be nothing.

12 days and you wanna groom hair, gurl, put the comb and ribbons down . Her scalp is a bit too tender for that just yet. She's pretty just as she is right now (perfect skin, chubby cheeks, fluttery eyelashes)

Good morning ladies, how are we?

Just wanna drop this here, in case you have some questions about hiring a nanny. It's best to start looking now, don't wait till after the baby is born (you need a month of trial and you don't want to waste time changing till you get the right fit.

https://nefescorner.com/hiring-and-keeping-the-right-nanny/

Please feel free to subscribe as well, so you can see posts as they come and be entitled to discounts from any sponsors. Thank you

Good morning ladies, how are we?

Just wanna drop this here, in case you have some questions about hiring a nanny. It's best to start looking now, don't wait till after the baby is born (you need a month of trial and you don't want to waste time changing till you get the right fit.

https://nefescorner.com/hiring-and-keeping-the-right-nanny/

Please feel free to subscribe as well, so you can see posts as they come and be entitled to discounts from any sponsors. Thank you

Hey guys. I got a nice lady to talk about ideas on planning those birthday parties. She really stressed that you should not overspend (she's actually worked with an event planner but I told her to write it as a mum). So here goes:

https://nefescorner.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-a-childrens-party/

Pweetiebabe,

Your journey is not over. I know that everything may look bleak now but can we talk here?

Firstly, how wonderful you got to have your angel! He was with you for a short while but he blessed you and your family. He was lucky to be born to a special place in your home and in his short time here, he was happy. So well done, mama! You are a great mum. You ARE, not were, ARE a great mother.

Please know that sometimes God sends us these small moments and He takes them away because there is a final plan. And it's a good plan, it always works in your good. The final outcome always will be victory for you.

Some days will be painful but one day you will be at ease to know you experienced your son's pure love and that he knew you loved him too.

Dont ever forget your angel, we all remember the names of our angels: Ikubor, Harry, Bebe. He was and will always be your firstborn. Even in Heaven, he's waiting to meet you one day and be with you under God's loving gaze.

Don't leave this thread. This place is for mums and you're one of us, okay? You always will be a mum and your voice is always welcome here. I don't know about others, but mention me and I'll always reply. You're always going to have a spot here.

Accept my condolences.
.

babythug:
Had some carpet grass planted in my garden today. I expanded the size too. The old plants I moved to another hedge and will share pictures later.

Fingers crossed on how the grass turns out. I'd be grateful for any tips. For now we water it every two days!

CC- onegai

I have great memories of carpet grass! I also recall it needed a lot of watering and I hope you don't have snakes in the area sha (they love sleeping under carpet grass).

Well done o! Your place is really shaping up, happy for you.

Pweetiebabe:
We are currently @ A&E here @ general hospital, DS was diagnosed of Asthma and currently on oxygen mamas plssss pray for us we so need it now

He's going to be fine, by the Lord's grace.

Contem2011 and NoQualms1, I don't know any swim schools there. Unless you look up Crawford Swim on Instagram and ask if one of their trainers will come over and then find a gym that will be the venue.

Please, ask your schools for their food policy, in addition to this:

https://nefescorner.com/picking-right-pre-school-and-nursery/

Our school has a policy of 3 times a week, no sugary drinks or snacks, only fruit and water. And there are water dispensers around the classrooms. Which makes it so easy for children to avoid eating sugar. And it forced most parents to stop giving their kids sigary snacks. I have never bought: Biscuits, Ribena, Caprisun, etc for school (however Daddy is badly behaved, so I'm currently hiding a bag of lollipops he bought in my pant bag ).

I recall someone's school where the teachers were the one egging her on to give her child Chivita juice (neat, no dilution with water!) and now her oldest needs teeth filling already. So when you're doing your school research, ask "what is your food policy?". If they offer school lunches, don't jump into it yet. Start school and monitor and see if your child wants to eat with his friends whom are eating school lunch. So you don't end up paying for food that never gets eaten.

We rotate: rice, beans, yam pottage, spaghetti with vegetables, sweet potatoes and egg sauce to school. Snack is usually carrots or fruits. No juice. One of these days, I'll try a sandwich but her school likes food kids can eat with a cutlery (helps them with Dexterity).

When it comes to food, please don't over think it. My first, I did all the doables and read up the readables and bought and bought stuff that ended up being thrown away. Then I spoke to my friend (who's Indian) and her laughter cleared my head (we will be doing one on Nutrition on the blog because of her). She gives common sense advice about a lot of stuff.

Top of the rainy morning to everyone!

Gonna drop the blog link here:

www.nefescorner.com

Anything you've ever wanted to know about babies, children and you, knack there for the tori.

Aaaaannnddd, since we are being Intentional and Deliberate, like in this post:

https://nefescorner.com/be-intentional-in-planning-for-kids/

Because I have been speaking to some knowledgeable mothers and they are all individually saying the same thing and doing some things alike and seeing good results (when someone's daughter is developing an app and has already raised seed money for it at age 12! I can't dull myself and leave my kids' future to chance) and these people are not connected to any big name, it's all on merit.

So for our able blog subscribers, there will be discounts to certain events, summer camps for the upcoming holiday. And there will be a post for Financial Planning from the Ogbonge master of Personal finance himself. There's also a QnA session with a Child Psychologist, a Speech Therapist and one very deeply annoying Consultant Paediatrician coming up. Things are gonna be so exciting!

Hello pushing mamas. This is just to encourage everyone who can't sleep, pleaae try to. And try and avoid stressing too much the closer you get to your due date. My BP shot up and I needed to work on stuff to relax. Try and take long walks, no phones and tv (there is too much depressing news out there, switch off your social media for an hour or 2 daily). If you're already on your maternity leave, arrange baby things and start looking for a hobby (please don't start thinking "how will it make me money", not everytime worrying about that). My friend's BP shot up and she started going to hang out with those roadside gardeners near here (they gave her free plants like Mint and herbs). She has discovered a new hobby and her BP is down to normal levels. Hth.

For those with babies already (yay!), I posted on ways to help out tummy time for newborns and infants

www.nefescorner.com/infants-newborns-get-in-here/

Hello everyone. So have posted on ways to help out tummy time for newborns and infants

www.nefescorner.com/infants-newborns-get-in-here/

Forevergirl, we cleaned with soap and water and a washcloth to avoid water getting into the cut. Always use an ointment (Aquaphor, Neosporin or whatever balm they give you plus a gauze) to cover the wound. Hth

modupsie and every mum experiencing this,

Please don't burst it. Please check a few pages back for my post about which dermatologists to go. This skin issue IS GOING ROUND NOWADAYS AND IT IS ATOPIC DERMATITIS. This will be cleared up with antibiotics but needs a Dermatologist or a Paediatrician (who has experience in dermatology). Ask your doctor to give you a contact for one (a good doctor KNOWS his/her peers, if your doctor is unable to send you to a specialist of another branch of medicine, that may be a sign you're not dealing with a doctor (a medical lab scientist was caught running a clinic, Nigerians will do anything for money). I've seen a lot of bad advice passed around here very confidently and it is one reason I stopped posting. Please.

I have seen that pus-filled eruptions on babies and we just got ours cleared up too (5 days medication). It looks like acne not a boil, right? Is your baby covered in rashes that won't go away? You shouldn't be using a cream on it. I will advise you to take your child to a Dermatologist. That is who helped with ours because the Paediatricians tend to prescribe an anti-bacterial ointment (won't work as it's not topical and you need to treat from the inside).

Dermatologists are at:

General Hospital, Lagos Island (most major GHs have a Skin Clinic)
Healing Stripes, Oniru
Emel Hospital, Festac
Lekki phase 1 (I know 2 there but can't remember the name of the clinic. There used to be one at Childcare Hospital but I think he's left, but go and ask their paed, he should have a contact for him)

You need a Derm. Not a pharmacist (someone ignored me and went to a pharm who proceeded to really fvck up her child's own). Hth

Happy Children's Day! We will always enjoy our little blessings...even when they flush our phones down the toilet

Please the blog is up! Check out and follow www.nefescorner.com for as much info as you want. If you want to ask questions, that's the best place to leave a comment (I'm kinda wrapping up on NL). Lots of interesting topics by so many knowledgeable people coming up (by the way, those that came for the Children's Fair, hope you learned, I wish I could have met some of you because there were some people I wanted to direct y'all to. I got so much from it and had a chance to sit one-on-one with MMWN, a truly lovely and accomplished woman).

So yeah, www.nefescorner.com. Thank you!