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Nairaland GeneralRe: Generator Fumes Kills 3 In Benin, Edo State (Photos) by openmine(m): 2:06am On May 23, 2017
taemilola:
There is more to this than just a generator fumes.
have U heard of CO carbon monoxide?
CrimeRe: Young Man Beheaded In Rivers & His Head Dumped In A Dustbin (Graphic Pics) by openmine(m): 1:29am On May 23, 2017
UGLEEBOI:
The yeast and Bad news... lipsrsealed
Are U sure U know wat U r saying...?
PoliticsRe: Military Destroys Illegal Refineries In Okrika, Rivers State (photos) by openmine(m): 10:59pm On May 22, 2017
how is it possible that the army destroyed this illegal refineries only for these same refineries 2 pop up again at dat same location...some one isn't doing their job properly...!
TravelRe: 23-year-old Unilag Graduate Dies In Fatal Accident, Few Days After His Nysc by openmine(m): 2:15pm On May 22, 2017
Once again we have lost a future leader,a potential scholar,a future father or husband...and not just him,but so many young men and women who have lost their lives in one fatal accident or d other all because we failed to do anything about it except coming to every thread about accidents to type "RIP"....or "its not my portion or that of my family"....
In a saner clime,the youths of the country will utilize the social media and force their leaders 2 bring a lasting solution to such avoidable incidence...

keep up with the "RIP" as if that's the solution to the spate of accidents on our roads....
RomanceRe: Opinion!! Why Do Handsome Men Marry Ugly Women?? by openmine(m): 10:03am On May 21, 2017
sweerychick:
I dont really like very handsome guys they are cheats
smiley smiley
One very important fact of life:Don't Generalize!
Cheating has little or nothing to do with ur physical appearance!
Even Ugly guys cheat too!!
CrimeRe: Man Nabbed For Beheading Son At Adidaase, Western Region, Ghana (graphic Pics) by openmine(m): 8:43pm On May 20, 2017
Ohh my God....this is unthinkable...unimaginable... all because of what? Greed? Ohh no....
PoliticsRe: Don't Call Me "O BOY", Be Respectful - Man Tells Policemen In Ebonyi (Video) by openmine(m): 5:29pm On May 18, 2017
NothingDoMe:
-laughs in Buhari-
Na u sabi
PoliticsRe: Don't Call Me "O BOY", Be Respectful - Man Tells Policemen In Ebonyi (Video) by openmine(m): 3:00pm On May 18, 2017
NothingDoMe:
The westerner would have said yes sah! Modify my name as you like sah! Please don't shoot me sah!
Bro this has nothing to do with tribe or where you come from.....
Thats not even bravery,that foolishness on that guy's part....young men have died through this means and have been labelled armed robbers or militants afterwards!
Even the legend late president nnamdi azikwe once said that "you dont argue with a man holding a gun"
TravelRe: Bride-to-be & Her Fiance Die In Auto Crash Enroute To Lagos From PH by openmine(m): 12:40pm On May 18, 2017
I really feel bad when i hear that one more life has been added to the list of victims cut short by the spate of accidents on our roads all becos of sum reckless drivers who think they are bigger than life itself.....i even feel worse and perplexed when some individuals on the forum attribute such to superstitious beliefs or witchcraft angry angry

As much as i want to believe such evil vices exist,am shocked to hear when people attribute even a simple head ache or fatigue to spiritual attack!

Even our politicians or senator believe that the reason why roads haven't been constructed in their communities is becos of evil forces or spiritual vices shocked shocked
Wat kind of mentality is that?
No wonder things are not working in nigeria...and thats because everyone including those who can effect positive change in our society have such mentality.....and we think we are growing?

An accident occurred maybe as a result of recklessness or bad roads and sum one is blaming witches and wizards for their deaths?
When are we going to start looking at the root cause of accidents in nigeria and stop attributing it to spiritual attack?
When are we going to force our leaders to make proactive policies that will save guard the lives of our loved ones on our roads?
Abi na only people way dey enter aeroplane dey more important??

If we must do sum thing great in this country,then we must first stop all dese vain beliefs that lead us to no where.....
TravelRe: Terrible Accident In Kaduna, People Burnt Beyond Recognition(Graphic Pics) by openmine(m):
Anoda recurring incident.... and people on this forum will type "RIP" or "it will never happen to me and my family in Jesus name"....
as much as I affirm to that belief,I think its rather selfish to only think about urself and ur families only....
God can't come down and stop all dese avoidable accidents....we are d ones that have been put here by God esp in positions to stop these sad and unpleasant occurrence but we are doing nothing and expecting God will do everything.....
a reckless driver is over speeding and the passengers keep mute as if the lips were sealed....
u are about to board a bus only to discover that its a battered bus with an obviously terrible sitting pattern....rather than complain and refuse to enter,U rather say a prayer and hop in hoping the lord will protect U from a deadly bus...?
Everyday we hear about fatal or minor accidents,rather than seek what can be done 2 avert future occurrence, we start saying "its not my portion".....
why do we hardly hear such in developed countries....?
is it because they have a proactive system that avoids a fatal problem before it occurs?
faith without acting is useless....
Speak up or this carnage will never stop happening every day....cos there are some we don't get to know....
no more RIP....let's start being proactive...
"Evil prevails when good men stand by and do nothing...."
PoliticsRe: Christopher Hobobo Assassinated; Stabbed To Death In Bayelsa by openmine(m): 6:56pm On May 17, 2017
hmm....
RomanceRe: Covenant University Graduate Searching For A Husband Lists Specifications by openmine(m): 4:48pm On May 17, 2017
good luck with ur ultimate search...u r going to need it in years to come grin grin
BusinessRe: CBN Makes SMS Alert Mandatory For All Account Holders by openmine(m): 4:19pm On May 17, 2017
disabled my sms alert a few years ago when my bank charged me a whooping 1k500 sms charges for the month....and i could remember not making much transactions during that month....Just recently,i found out that i was sent an sms for an online recharge card that i bought...this is pure extortion!!
CelebritiesRe: Video Of Jane Emoka Lesbian Sex Leaks, Lady Behind Miss Anambra Cucumber Sextape by openmine(m): 8:30am On May 17, 2017
i tot this same third lady has already been exposed before now...whats the point knowing or digging up her profile?
Una get time ohh huh huh
PoliticsRe: Patience Jonathan Greets Bukola Saraki At The Launch Of Dino Melaye's Book by openmine(m): 10:43am On May 16, 2017
benedictnsi:
at the sight of the first pic..... I almost thought she was rocking abi twerkking for Dogara. gringringrin

Mama peace and GEJ, always accorded with 100% respect anywhere they appear...... proof of superiority..... some people may not like this!!!

this thread is from Lalasticlala himself ooo so let me use this medium to remind him that this is the 4th day in nairaland without any SNAKE thread in FP..... hope all is well with you and NASK (National Association Of Snake Killers) ..... na joke ooo before you nack me ban. gringringrin
Lol...which one come be NASK?

RomanceRe: Man Catches His Best Friend In Bed With His Wife, Beats Him With Machete(video+p by openmine(m): 4:23am On May 16, 2017
If U ever one day start having feelings for sum one else aside ur partner,first break up with the partner and den u can freely proceed to anoda relationship....dere is no point cheating on ur partner....
RomanceRe: Choosing A Life Partner. by openmine(m): 11:35pm On May 15, 2017
number5:
Op u forgot one grin grin angry


She must like football grin cheesy cheesy

Well, for me anyway..

I cant Imagin me gisting with friends abt football den my wify comes in and is like "who scored the loosing goal"? cry
grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Choosing A Life Partner. by openmine(m): 11:31pm On May 15, 2017
chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.
U don spoil cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: Choosing A Life Partner. by openmine(m): 11:26pm On May 15, 2017
3. Social Compatibility:
I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible.
Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has
shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters alot.
Imagine telling your partner that Chelsea just scored and this response pops up..."na drogba score?....he is a very good defender" grin grin
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-kayode, Others Rearraigned For Money Laundering in Lagos (Photos) by openmine(m): 4:58pm On May 15, 2017
lol...U don't even need medicated glasses or a soothsayer 2 know wat this government will do next...so predictable and clueless....once sum one starts to mock the presidency they use EFCC or DSS to shut dem down...their pattern is so obvious... smh
TravelRe: Speeding Accounts For 60% Of Road Crashes In Nigeria - FRSC by openmine(m): 4:28pm On May 15, 2017
I agree....esp greedy drivers who to do multiple trips all because of money to the detriment of passengers!
CareerRe: 8 Signs You Are Dealing With A Perfectionist by openmine(m): 4:23pm On May 15, 2017
'some' of the things perfectionist do are worth emulating but I think 'balance' in whatsoever you do in life is the key to self-fulfillment....
PoliticsRe: Truck Owners, Freight Forwarders Protest Over Poor State Of Apapa Roads by openmine(m): 2:52pm On May 15, 2017
Beremx:
Meanwhile, Joe Igbokwe still blames Jonathan for the deplorable state of that road on his Facebook page.


Useless government!!
Unbelievable shocked shocked

RomanceRe: 6 Things men want in a relationship by openmine(m): 10:30pm On May 14, 2017
smiley smiley
HealthAnger Management: 10 Tips To Tame Your Temper by openmine(op):
Keeping your temper in check can be challenging. Use simple anger management tips — from taking a timeout to using "I" statements — to stay in control.

Do you fume when someone cuts you off in traffic? Does your blood pressure rocket when your child refuses to cooperate? Anger is a normal and even healthy emotion — but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships.

Ready to get your anger under control? Start by considering these 10 anger management tips.

1. Think before you speak
In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger
As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise
Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout
Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions

Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements
To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge
Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension
Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills
When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help
Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Manchester United (2 - 1) On 14th May 2017 by openmine(m): 6:53pm On May 14, 2017
So after all the initial gragra they will still end up in their default
position 6th....now they are trying to console themselves with a trophy that hasn't been won yet...#drawsoupkings grin grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: A Friend Came From Abuja For An Interview But The Office Looks More Like A Shop by openmine(m): 6:43pm On May 14, 2017
cheesy cheesy

Christianity EtcRe: Zimbabwean Pastor Eaten By 3 Crocodiles While Trying To Walk On Water Like Jesus by openmine(m): 5:34pm On May 13, 2017
what was really the reason for such?
Or was he trying to show off?
So that he can boast about his ability to walk on a swamp filled with hungry crocodiles? huh huh
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Celta Vigo :Europa (1 - 1) On 11th May 2017 by openmine(m): 11:00pm On May 11, 2017
draw soup kings...they never disappoint!!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Atletico Madrid Vs Real Madrid : UCL (2 - 1) On 10th May 2017 by openmine(m): 8:29pm On May 10, 2017
yesssssooo....3 goals in d bag
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Atletico Madrid Vs Real Madrid : UCL (2 - 1) On 10th May 2017 by openmine(m): 8:18pm On May 10, 2017
one more goal from Dis match please....
RomanceRe: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by openmine(m): 12:58pm On May 10, 2017
Some one on this thread said sum tin dat just wrapped it up for the OP.....
"U ARE BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP NOT A FACTORY!!!"

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