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Doesn't the 20 yr old ashewo know that he is married. He obviously has no respect for himself and neither does she. This is not even a case of him leaving her alone. She is also coming on to him. @ poster you are too old for this shit. Grow up

I like you list ravensque.

Finances
Inlaws
Religion
Children (if there will be any)
How disputes are settled
Sex


In no particular order

What so you people mean by tolerate her. Are you saying that this woman should cook for a 29 year old and then do her dishes for her? Please lets be reasonable. There is nothing like tolerate her. She is a member of the family and will always be even after she is married so the 29 year old needs to be told that she is acting like a child. If her father will not do it then her step mom will just have to tell her step daughter that she is a lazy, spoilt brat. If the man feels that it is okay for his daughter to be useless then he should put her in another house and get her a house help there. Na wa.

So one reason is that there is not one honest person in office and secondly it is too expensive and the Nigeria just does not have the kind of money it will take to implement this? I am willing to buy the first one but the cost should not even be an issue. The money is there but laziness, lack of knowledgeable people in office and just plain greed is what is holding Nigeria back

Jakumo what sort of question is that. Can someone please explain to me what the real reason is why it is so difficult for even one state in Nigeria to implement this.

ok I have wondered about this and I get frustrated about it. I just don't understand why a country like Nigeria should have this problem. I had expected that YarAdua would have made it a point to make that a problem of the past because let's face it, the day we start getting 24 hour elctricity in every state and village in Nigeria that will be the day that people will again dare to hope in Nigeria. My question I guess is how complicated is it to get this done and how expensive can it be. It does not have to be a federal thing. Why can't states have their own power supply. Am I just looking at it in a simplistic way. Why can't one governor come into office. Come up with a budget and a 3 years plan to have 24 hour electricity in the state

I like the first one. How many bedrooms and bathrooms. What is the square footage of the buildiing. Can it be built with an attached 2 car garage? I am assumng the 10 mill does not include the cost of the land

I think you should tell her. It might affect your friendship though. If you never tell her you will never find out how far you could have taken it.

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Have you recently changed ur birth control. I am not a doctor but I suggest you go see one. I am pretty sure you will not mind spending that money on clothes for the kids or a shirt for your husband. women sef

go separately then

You just wanted someone to come on here and tell you to hold on to a man that is not a man. He does not want you. I don't understand all this "fight for your man" when y'all are not even married. If he has not married you and he is acting like this do you think he will behave better after you marry him. If you do not respect yourself he will not respect you. You are the one that will teach him how to treat you. He has said he does not have any chemistry with you but he does with another female who I am pretty sure he is already sleeping with. At the end of the day it is still your choice but if I were you I would not hang around where I am not welcome

If you are not pregnant make sure you do not get pregnant. The man is a cheating dog and does not even consider you a relevant person. You don't need anybody to tell you what you need to do. You know already that you just need to move on with your life.

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The man should not have gotten her pregnant. If she really fights with weapons then she can kill him even if it is by accident. Abeg he should move on abeg. Broken bottle ke. If she was not pregnant he could even completely erase her like she never happened.

As far as I am concerned they absolutely have to be married. In fact I would prefer someone who is divorced to someone who has never married. As a married woman there is so much that I understand now that I simply would never have understood when I was just dating.

Are you dating the vagina or the woman

spikedcylinder people like that will not get turned on by mature women. They want it that way. The man should be thrown in jail were hopefully he will be raped everyday by a very big ugly man. Bastard

You can forgive them but don't give them a penny. Honestly I am saying forgive because I know it is the right thing to say. I don't think I would be as gracious. Even if you hated your brother's wife. What did innocent children do. In fact don't forgive

From the man's original post anybody would have realized that he is just running from the trouble he caused himself. The husband did not make it clear that his wife is off limits from abuse from his family so why is he crying now. No one will ever be 100% in the wrong or 100% in the right but this guy did not lay the foundation and knowing nigerian families sheesh. You give them a millimeter they will take 20 miles.

Thanks coolgenius. will definitely check it out

PREACH IT Ladej

There are two pieces there that can go well with about 4 pieces that I have. Lovely

This should be in the business forum
Moderator abeg do your job LOL

I don't know why you are still calling him your husband. Overpampered lazy man. Thank God you have a good sister n law

I think these guys do not even know the first thing about wooing a woman. He is giving her money and then coming here to cry. Can't you guys even engage your brains. Sheesh. What happened with good ole hanging out and enjoying each others company. Getting to know each other. All I ever hear from most of these Nigerian relationships is I bought this, I bought that. I gave her recharge card, I gave her a cellphone. Does all this giving make you are man. You all are not being played you are playing yourselves