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JJYOU:
tot u are both saying the same thing

Ini Edo is a very pretty girl she is just rough around the edges. Just like many other nigerian females we are blessed with hips and breasts the only bad part with that is that those come with a tendency to gain weight. Ini needs to lose some weight and also do something about the way she presents herself. Those of you saying she is ugly know that it is simply not true.

I know people who had sex on their first date and are still happily married. It depends. Does she have a history of doing this

Please don't go and be doing belly dances when someone is mourning his mother's fate. Focus on him should be the point. Sex should not even be a big issue but if he wants it no big deal. Don't start lighting candles and trying to be romantic when he is dealing with such a devastating thing. Focus on hm and let him no that you are available if he needs a shoulder to cry on

St Funmi even to a boy it should be the same. The pubic hair means puberty and puberty means a lot of confusion about sex and feelings. That is the wrong time to be touching your child's privates.

So do you need to be told that you have to leave this man. Husband to be!!!!!!!!!!! You are free woman. Don't be a fool. He is a liar.

That is a no no. He should never have started the shaving. There are other methods besides shaving to remove hair so that he does not have to be all up in his daughter's vagina. Haba. The shaving might even be making the itching worse because with shaving the hair does not grow out finer. The new woman should not shave it either. If she is itching uncontrollably she needs to be seeing a gyno. I don't care how hairy you are you cannot possibly itch that much that you have to start shaving your daughter's vagina. The woman being there is a plus but she too needs to be careful because this is simply abnormal to me.

Don't pity him then. Being sympathetic does not mean you pity him. You just have to be a rock for him. Watching his mother die is not going to be easy and he will need to know that he has someone that can be his strength

fegflu:
It is Only in Nigeria that u need qualification to do everything. the world has change far away from such ideas. Experience is wat matters now. Go out of the country and c if qaulification is an issue 2 get a job.

If you want a good job anywhere in the world with good benefits you simply have to have an education. Period. Don't let anybody con you. Sure you can get a good paying job but you are limited to just what you have experience in. I recommend an education any day if you want to go far in life. You do not even have to degree but you have to have one f you plan on working for someone and not yourself

8oracle I don't see your point. Every business idea starts somewhere. This might be the beginning of research that will be implemented 10 years from now. You just do not know. Nairaland might not be the best place (in your opinion) but Lucrabasi had an answer. Maybe the poster will now decide that that was not really want he was going for or maybe that might take him to the next level in his strategy of achieving his goal. Abeg chill.

[quote author=St.Funmi link=topic=242294.msg3546730#msg3546730 date=1236216142]Thank your God he wasn't a pedophile.[/quote]You are so right because my parents trusted him so he could walk in our house anytime he wanted. It would have been so easy to convince a 14 yr old that thinks she is in love with you. On the other hand though I know I probably would have screamed for help if he tried anything

You can tell your parents that one way that they can connect the families together forever is f your mom has a child for your dads friend. You guys don't have to tell anybody and they do not have to ruin your life because of their selfish needs. They can just ruin theirs instead.

Don't mind them. It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean. What's the point of having 20kg of penis when you don't know what to do with it.

Well the women lay down like meat in the market place. Nobody told them to put themselves up like that. They acted like trash and he treated them like trash. Shows like this take women back 250 years. Can't stand it.

I had a crush on a pastor when I was in Nigeria. He was so cute. We called him Pastor Nosa. Now looking back I bet you he knew cause I was so silly with t. I was like 14 or 15 years old.

This man just said he was going to kill himself. What f what you wrote was the last thing he heard. He has already planned the whole thing out and you are encouraging him. @ the poster take the advice already given. Log off the computer and go out. Go to church, be a worker in church, find a hang out spot, be involved in something etc. You do not have to be super outgoing but you do not need to sit in front of the computer all day. Don't you have family? You can PM me and if am online we can chat. Abeg no kill yourself o.

29 and not doing anything productive and on top of that the family of the girl are now blaming her step mother because she is not married. It goes to show you that she has always been encouraged by her family to be irresponsible and put her issues on others.

Thank you Lucrabasi for answering the man's question

This is so sad. Another Nigerian man and his six year old daughter drowned yesterday in atlanta when the car he was driving went into a lake. It took an hour to get the vehicle out of the lake and by then it was too late to do anything for them. This is all so sad. May their souls rest in peace

JJYOU. I think the family member's bathe their loved one's corpses in nigeria. I don't believe that we have funeral homes in nigeria. Families plan the whole thing

Do you love her? You said there is chemistry but that does not equal love.

Your wedding vow is an oath.

The poster is married? 

Some people just open their mouth and I just want to stuff if with dirty socks. Do you people even know what rape is. So ignorant to say that the victim is the cause of rape. Even if she is walking around with nothing on and touching herself no man has the right to touch her unless she says so. That is what differentiates a human being from a wild animal. This Nigerian mentality of what did she do for that to happen to her is totally barbaric. You are a human being and if you feel the need to rape simply because the woman was dressing seductively or you spent money on her then you should be locked in a cage like the wild animal you are and made to eat feces

LOL @ tpia. It is more than just "kitten". There are feelings that were not addressed in the past or given the chance to blossom.