₦airaland Forum

This love thing is something else o. I have been in love o but the things I read on nairaland make me wonder if most people are not mistaking love for madness. Take it easy abeg. It was never love. Focus on something else. Will you now die because of her. Abeg be a man. There are many other girls out there

I am glad you are talking about it sha. Don't let useless pride cause trouble for you guys. Why should you not feel free. If the tables were turned would you expect her to feel like a loser. Don't start getting thoughts in your head now. It is y'alls home and not just hers.

The truth about acai berry is that you just have to incorporate a healthy lifestyle to get real results. You can not have a whopper for breakfast and a bg mac for lunch and think that you will have a banging body just because you wash it down with acai berry juice. What I love about it is that it cleans the excess build up of gunk in the digestive system and also prevents future build up. It's also rich in fiber and prevents fluid retention. So it is not a miracle pill but it helps you maintain your weight when you incorporate a healthy life style

I think you might be too much for him. He will eventually start getting intimidated by you. Insecurity in men can lead to many evils. You have basically said that you do not think he is man enough for you. Trust me, he will sense it and it will become frustrating to him. At your age you have not even seen life yet an older man is immature for you. You need to have a partner that you can rub minds with. You want to talk about politics and he wants to talk about orange, you want to talk about planning the future and he was to talk about the delcious hamburger he had yesterday, you want to talk about how many kids you want to have and he wants to talk about the latest gym shoes etc. It is endless and can cause you alot of stress. There will never be a perfect match but you can help eliminate alot of drama by not turning a blind eye to real issues

After you find out that the child is yours just hang your head in shame and be ready to be a fool for her for the rest of your life. If you find out that you are right then run as fast as you can unless of course you love the boy like your own and want to stay in his life

If only we listen to that inner voice sometimes. You cannot rush these kinds of decisions.Your parents fears are valid

Gamine:
There are naturally "blond" black people

i have never won blond weaves or wigs,

But i may dye my hair honey some time

Nothing wrong if done well and if it actually fits the person. . . .

Dont generalize your preference

Absolutely agree. Levels dey. You just have to know what you are doing

You know before she came and posted I already knew what the wife's story will be lke. Why will she like your older brother when he is moving in with a newly wed couple. No shame and still wants to complain about anything. I knew he was also lying when he said he had only sent 120 pounds to hs mom for a year. He basically told on himself when he posted. Any married woman that read what he wrote would have known right away what was going on. She says he cheated in the past and was even being verbally abusve when she was pregnant. My advice you guys should not reply to any more posts here and focus on repairing your marraige or leaving it. As for me sha I cannot forgive a man that will mistreat me when I am pregnant or bad mouth me to his relatives. If your husband was doing what he was supposed to do as a man his brother would not dare run his mouth. These kinds of things is what separates married men from married boys. If your blood pressure is high imagine how high your wife's was when you told her that you regret marrying her when she was carrying your child. You were very inconsiderate. I am very sure she is now bitter and even being spiteful now. A man who treats his wife with respect will also get respect back. You are not more important than her and she is not more important than you. If you do not see her as number one before your mother or siblings then you cannot even open your mouth to ask for respect.

If I get a chance to punish a person that does such a thing I will not even want a weapon. I will ask God to give me physical strength so that I can use my bare hands to rip them to pieces. A pregnant witch. You are carrying a child and yet still as wicked as the devil. I just pray that that child will end up okay inspite of the mother's wickedness.

Apart from my engagement and weddng ring I own no gold. I wear alot of bright colored beads. Even when I wear all black or all white I always wear bright colored beads and shoes and I always get compliments even from gold loving Nigerians.

This is so sad. Someone is even saying 'it will whiten you"

Green and orange look very good together and like people have said it depends on the shade of green

Actually it is the opposite for the most part. Whitney Houston and Mary J rock blond/gold and that shade will look totally ghetto on a light skinned chic

Na wa oh. Poor children

To be honest this is just normal newly wed stuff and if we ask your wife we will hear something else. I don't believe that your wife waited till your wedding day to decide to start hating your family. You have not said anything that you have done or said that would make a woman change overnight. Also you talking about her mother not being as submissive as your mother is another thing that makes me feel that you want her to be less herself so you can feel happy. If she was never suspicious of you before why is she now? Be honest if not with us then with yourself. Like someone said there is no smoke without a fire

tpia:
there's no race or country on earth that Nigerians havent dated or married, so yes, there should be Somalians in Nigeria by now.

Isnt Tai Solarin's son married to an Ethiopian? I'm not sure though.

So is one of Ibru's sons. Ethiopian or eritrean

I just hope this will not bring trouble. Igbos have already had enough trouble.

My mom will say the child that said his mother will not rest will not rest either

She will say things like if I descend on you I will break you into four

She once told my brother that he looks like abakaliki yam when he did something bad

Anything that reached her hand became an instrument of correction. My mom really mastered the art of ass whooping. She won that award hands down. That woman put the fear of God in me sha. My dad on the other hand is an angel and will always be to me. No wahala man. The good about having a mom like mine was that people just did not mess with her and she fought for what she believed in. She has so many people that respect her and I had to be an adult to finally understand some of her choices in the way she raised us. I still think she was too hard on us but I appreciate a lot of it now.

omolola what are you talking about. The father can choose to leave him out. He is not entitled to anything by law simoply because he is the son. Stop arguing where there is no argument

You just made my day by posting this. God bless the little one and congratulations on this wonderful blessing

spike cylinder and temi I agree with you

Is this a business arangement or is this guy his father. How can he pull him of a show that was already scheduled. Etim should take it all the way and sue that man also. The man sounds like an idiot asking Etim to apologise before he can work. Is it a school playground. SOme people are just plain illiterate it does not matter how much education they have. Mr Etim should dtand his ground and I sincerely believe that Okocha knew about the search. Why would a random person decide that they will start searching people's bags becasue another persons phone was stolen.

You will find another woman that you will love this much and she will love and you right back. It's not the end of the world

Thank God someone is talking. I personally think is laziness but then again, I was interested in a piece of land recently and I called Nigeria about it since there were no pictures. First I found out that the land really exists and then I talked to someone else in Nigeria and his co worker actually took the phone from me and told me not to consider buying the land. He says he and his wife spent the whole saturday driving there and when they got there there wereno roads to get in. The place he said was very remote. Pictures would have solved the problem. I would have not had to turn into a private investigator

Men just shrink

He wants his parents to check you out to see if you measure up or maybe he really loves you. It is all up to you. Do what you feel comfortable with. I personally do not like the idea but I can't tell you to do anything else. Who knows he might be your one true love

No wonder he is leaving you out of his will. Grow up.

Any man will do it if he knows he will get away with it.

Whatever. Even if she was the most dedicated police officer. Did she really think that her bony nyash will stop a moving vehicle. She should be thnakful that she did not die that day