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GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

You cant. I know the human thing is to try to fix the marriage but the reality is once the love is gone, it will never come back. At most you patch it up for like 6 months but everything will still fall apart eventually.

I know this isnt what you want to hear but someone has to tell it to. Start making plans for a life without her and under no circumstances must you get physical/violent.

Source: Breakfast Experience

Nice movie

I was totally useless at cooking. Not because I was lazy, I just didnt like anything I cooked so I preferred to eat other people's (read ex- wife) food.

When I was served breakfast, the first thing my mom worried and asked about was 'kilo wa ma ma je bayi?' (what will you now be eating)

Thank God for YouTube - SisiYemmie and Sisi Jemimah. In under a year I became an expert but I am still so critical of my own cooking that I seek validation from my kids everytime I cook for them when they come over.

Some of my samples attached

madridguy:
Commercial banks can accept them from citizens but they will only credit accounts and not pay cash. And the banks can redeem them from Central Bank. A very good move from the CBN.

Are you an illiterate?

Ruto that Obidense people like to compare their messiah to was also stoned in Kisumu county, Kenya


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_xKZzx9L5A

Wiseandtrue:
Come Dunsin Oyekan, variety is the spice of life!

Not all secular music has evil lyrics

Some of these secular music are great too!

Let's stop putting each other down! We will go far in life if we judge less!

Even the Bible has varieties, song of Solomon dey, lamentation dey! Pick the one that suits your mood

What is important in life is that we don't hurt others, love! The greatest commandment.

My banana o, come chop my banana, sho ni power o, Elemi lo mast!

That one na world music na

AbdulMagaji:
I think there's no marital status as

Married by Court
Married by Church
Married by traditional

Once you are married, you are married and if your wife wants a divorce abroad, it's as simple making a phone call.

Please pray before getting married o, because as humans when dollars starts coming in then you will know the true Color of such person.

Wrong.

Traditional marriages are not recognised abroad (UK/USA). Only a marriage where a certificate has been issued by a registry or a church that has such powers vested in it, will be recognised in those countries.

Its a good idea not to enter into the evil contract called marriage but note that if you live together, have children, buy property together, invest together e.t.c, you will go through all the motions a married couple go through except a formal divorce.

nurey:
300km/h
VW phaeton
6.0L W12 engine
Abuja kaduna highway

Limiter removed, lost 2 tires after the stunt, they melted prematurely.

Liar! 186mph even on the German Autobahn is no mean feat

yerokunphilips:
In a saner climes the IG himself will resign .
I don't think there's any country on earth where the police murder her citizens like Nigeria. A friend ones said it's better you have argument with a mad man holding a gun ,than having a conversation (not argument )Nigeria police.

Nonsense! The police in the US kill people everyday and no one resigns. Stop being dramatic.

When Jean Charles De Menezes was killed in London, Cressida Dick who was in charge of the operation got a promotion and eventually became the Commissioner of the Metropolitan Police.

Stop being dramatic for likes.

jeromestarks:
It's surprising how this idiot thinks he stands a chance to be president of Nigeria.

He is as delusional as a man who married a woman he didn't disvirgin and hoping to have a peaceful and lasting home.

Anyways, Nigeria needs foolish people like him to prove a point.


No matter who becomes the president of Nigeria come 2023, you can never have peace of mind if you married a woman you did not disvirgin because she will forever compare you with the first man who fvcked her and that will make her misbehave as the wedding progresses.


Don't pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (a virgin) by a boy who only gave her two eggs and indomie. Only a fool will do that. Are you a fool?


Do not Marry a woman above 23. Women gets clumsier with age. Most women who are single above 27 are battling with one serious disease or the other. Do you want to spend your hard earned money treating a woman disease which you know nothing about?


Once a woman has lost her virginity before you met her, she has lost her glory. She's empty. She's now a disaster. You can not grow old with such a woman. Just fvck her and go. Never wife her.


If a woman did not give you her best years (18 - 23), do not give her your best. Most of them spend their best years enjoying life and after they are used by yahoo boys, they look for a home to retire. Do not let a girl above 23 retire into your home.
Most girls who aren't virgins have been used and they don't even know it. If you marry such a girl, you business will crumble and your life will be a hell on Earth. You will never rise again.


Finally, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Who hurt you? I have been hurt too and I am very wary of women but this is too much.

You are way too bitter. You need to let go and move on lest your bitterness consumes you.

Suspicious

Let me not say pim!

Upton:
I can’t see where Mbappe’s father made this statement. Most likely made up quotes. Personally, I don’t believe it. At 18/19, Mbappe was already a star and was very well under France’s grip. I don’t think they ever considered playing for Cameroon.

You are one of the few with sense on here. This is no different to those fake Putin, Mugabe, Xi Jinping, Gadaffi quotes/essays about Africa that are posted on Facebook

TUANKU:
Mumu. Go back and read to comprehend, the man was attacked in his house.

Why was a married man hosting a group of cultists at 1am outside the confines of the four walls of his house?

We know he is a cultist and was attacked by a different group during their jorjor session.

Funny this. I bought golden morn and peak milk (powdered) just 2 days ago. Before then the last time was over 22 years ago when I left Naija.

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

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correct nicca! You can always tell a man that has been served breakfast and is now wise.

Fake News

How do you know they were Fulani herdsmen?

Did they identify themselves a such or did the escaping victims manage to deduce their ethnicity in the midst of the panic and confusion?

MALIGNANTGuest:
All my SPOUSES heaped heinous LIES @ my eardrums. Including their MOTHERS.
Only marriage brings a man closer to his grave.
I'm coming up with a BOOK.
Men of my generation will deescalate this marriage fever that has ravaged Africa for too long, it's not just necessary. All you need in life is just happiness and good health.

Please let me drop a verse in your book. Reach out.

Testified against me in crown court on behalf of her boyfriend that I caught in my house which resulted in an altercation. The police told me not to return to the house and I still paid the mortgage for another year while her boyfriend lived there until I signed my half of the house over to her. If I had been convicted, I was looking at between 1.5 and 3 years in prison. Me! The Father of her children o

Even though the love was long dead, until she stood in the box and testified I still didnt hate her cah we had come a long way. Once she finished her testimony, she died in my heart. On the day she dies, if she dies before me, I will throw a big party.

sukkot:
he will be out in 4. he already done 2. by 2026 he will be released. prison year is 6 months

Fake news! Not in the US. In federal prison he will serve a minimum of 85% of his sentence. Expect your hero back home in 2028/29.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Lol


No sane person take Obi serious

Not even the mad man at upper iweaka who happened to be his special adviser

You are also a barsteward. You pipu want them to sack me in this office. LWKMD

Toluwanise247:
Obi is not wise, very weak. I don’t think he can even perform on bed . DNA loading

You are a barsteward! I laugh I wan die

I dont know about other countries but Ruto was not an internet champion. He was the vice president and a long time member of the establishment. He got bloc votes from the Kikuyus who have everlasting beef with the Luos (Odinga).

When Ruto visited Kondele in Kisumu (Luo heartland), he was stoned by the locals.

PS712:
If you understand Hausa you'll know that the words from the lips of those guys and what you are hearing aren't going together. This most definitely isn't Nigeria. The person that posted the video did it with an intent to deceive people and cause more political upset because the guys are heard saying that 'it is because this is not in the north...', meaning the money was discovered in the South, imagine.

This again shows why scams like MMM are very successfull in Nigeria. It looks like the majority of Nigerian youths are plain dumb. Nothing in that video shows or proves that the pieces of paper are naira notes. Lets assume that they are indeed shredded naira notes, do these dumb youths not realise that it would have to be disposed off in some way? D

Joystic:
Na lie na Wales we sabi

I doubt any other country has named their fc any other name than its country name. So unless you want to change your country's name to Cymru ko Cryme a river

Ignorant, illiterate, lack of comprehension

You are a failure.

Waiting for children of hate and AfghanEasterns.

Rahkman:
oga shut up ur mouth .. you tinubu deranged agbado infested urchin.....FIFA will look into the matter and as soon as there is enough evidence ukraine will take that spot....and there is nothing u can do about it.,you and and ur fellow deranged agbado and cassava urchins can boycott the world cup or rather go on youtube and watch some alqueda beheading videos

You Obi supporters and Endsars terrorists are super dumb

Bullet proof vehicle saved you

Spousal rape isn't illegal in Ghana, India, Indonesia, Jordan, Lesotho, Nigeria, Oman, Singapore, Sri Lanka and Tanzania.

icewinz:
PS: Being born in a christain home does not mean you are saved. Accepting Jesus as your Lord and personal saviour is what does.

But its an easier path. You for sure know that a man born a Buddhist in a majority Buddhist country has almost zero chance of going to Christian heaven.

Is he planning to become president of Nigeria or president of biafra?

Why only moving wit Yibbo pipu?

Eriokanmi:
Very feasible. Go and learn from Egypt that's generating over 50,000MW of electricity today. What do they have? No oil, no good and arable land for farming. It's all desert. They depend mainly on river nile for farming. I remember our geography teacher who once asked us to make a discussion on the topic...."No Nile, No Egypt". Many failed the test. It simply means, without river Nile, Egypt would die of hunger, they'd cease to exist cos they solely depemd on River Nile for farming and irrigation.

Nigeria is a blessed country surrounded by morons and hyenas. Its quite possible, were nearing 300m in population already if not more. The next population figure will shock many because the censor will reveal a lot of the lies our government had been telling us regionally. Not under Tinubu and Atiku will there be power improvement . Tinubu owns one of the DISCOS. How do you think he wouid look into improvement in that sector by first canceling the kangaroo privatisation arrangement which obi will inevitably do? He'd never look in that direction cos he'd lose woefully if he tries it.

Your comment reminds me of Dubai. Western world even mocked their king when they claimed they wanted to build a city on the desert. Now, the whole world goes to Dubai. Amazingly, it rains there regularly today. I was in dubai when it rained for the first time in 2015. With a square peg in a qsuare hoke, nothing is impossible.

You are blinded by sentiments and speaking too emotionally. You havent provided any credible strategy with which Nigeria will be able to produce 800,000MW of electricity by 2028 (200 times what we have today (4000MW) as claimed by Peter Obi). All you have done is rehash Peter Obi's tripe of what obtains in other countries. There is world of difference between 50,000MW and 800,000MW. Nigeria as it is today and regardless of the speed of development even if a competent government is in power can never need 800,000MW of electricity by 2028.