₦airaland Forum

This is when two children marry themselves!
Adults will handle the issues and move on!

I'm offended by this writeup!

If you were not married and you got a job, will you listen to anybody that tells you not to take the job?

So because you are married you should now loose your individuality?

I'm sorry to say but if your husband to torn between whose opinion to follow then he is a bomboy!


My friend go and take that job and stop listening to silly opinions called prayer!

redsconsult:
cos the pdp led govt have deatroyed everything you may think of. the difference are there for you to see if you move around and between the so called states. very soon you will start to witness the change only if you are blind and belong to the flat headed group

Pdp destroyed everything?
Pls who is Pdp?
Is it not this same obj that apc is bedding with?
Or Amaechi or lai muhammed or sariki?

Stop painting apc's as saints! They are parts and parcel of what is wrong in Nigeria!
Pls apart from Lagos, mention another apc state that is doing well! Lagos is just average and not fantastic!

I'd rather be a flat head(which I'm not) than be an arrow an oblong head!

redsconsult:
tinubu controls virtually all southwest states and ur judas only control kwara states which is not more than alimosho local govt in population .....

he single handedly rescue u and nigerians from pdp sixteen years impunity and misrule a record never witnessed in the history of nigeria.

he has groom alot of technocrats and otherwise

you can never mention apc, nigeria and democracy in nigeria without highlighting his name.

he has always been the headache of both the military far back babangida and abacha era and also a virus to pdp and jonathan

Jonathan can never sleep without dreaming of Tinubu pursuing him in his dream lol.

He single handedly rescued who? Guy are you ok?
Its appalling when an educated person talks like this?

What did he rescue us from? Check the apc states and tell me what we should emulate from them!
Their citizens are suffering like the rest, what stands them out?

What is the magical difference btw apc states and Pdp states?
Its simply a change from one party to another, simple. No difference, no rescue!

If he single handedly installed the new president, why is he finding it hard to install the senate president, and speaker and even principal officers in the NASS?

He is in control only in Lagos state- WAKE UP!

vedaxcool:
So the judge in question oversees the finance ministry of Osun state, please it is too early to crack jokes

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She is a judge and can have access to certain information of the state that an ordinary citizen might not be privy to.

If that is a joke to you, then you are the one to check your comprehension ability!

vedaxcool:
When GEJ was mentioning all the presidents that ever lived in Nigeria, where were you? Abeg comot for road, when you open threads about several pdp states owing workers then we will talk of sincerity. It is a pity you seem to lack comprehension skills, coz I clearly indicated the governor is ultimately responsible, your poorly thought-out arguments bore me!

I didn't open this thread! Check and see!
I'm unbiased and this isn't about party! I'm not a Pdp member, neither am I apc.

If a governor can't pay whether Pdp or apc, he should be impeached!

I can see you are one of the blind followers of all these greedy politicians!

Bye!

Freest:
Thanks bro..... but with all i just dey hope his ways wouldn't tie my hands in the relationship cos i notice he really approves of her.... and that makes me feel the girl will be too free or relaxed and you know ladies.... it will start entering their head and making them misbehave....

What is wrong with ur girl being free and relaxed?
What kind of mentality is this?

The fact that ur dad is even involved will make her to respect your relationship more, she wouldn't want to jeopardize cos of the respect she has for your dad.

I think you are uncomfortable because if you misbehave she will get your father involved!

vedaxcool:
Yes don't spend more than you earn, a lesson Jonathan never for one day practice which made him resort to borrrowing to pay salaries, Osun would come out of this stronger, the governor must have thought all things being equal, the oil price would have plunge this low, but that is why the buck falls on his table, he should scale back projects and prioritse workers salary. But offcourse not only Osun is owing workers but a host of state who never make it to news.

Why are you mentioning GEJ? He's no longer the president! Mentioning him is giving excuse for failure! This is a new regime!

This is not about PDP and APC! This is about the suffering workers. Any governor whether Pdp or apc that can't pay his workers should be impeached!

If it has to start with osun state for others to wake up, so be it!

vedaxcool:
Is it only Osun that is owing workers?
Why are you people so deceitful?
Oil is crashing fast? Sorry do you live with me on planet earth? oil has started rebounding! and yes my statement clearly indicated that the buck falls on his table, but pretending that you state govs can survive without federal allocations is being callously irresponsible don't you think?

My friend your argument is faulty!
Are you more privy to the happenings of the state than the judge?

The fact that you make this argument shows ur insensitivity!
If you were among the workers being owed, you will not come here to brandish your one sided opinion because of party affiliation!

If other states are owing and so what? Does it mean the workers should keep suffering because its happening in other states?

Why would the governor embark on projects that wouldn't generate incomes for the state?

He still collects his salary, his security vote, was busy pouring money into pmb's campaign while workers are suffering! That's inhuman!

By the time a governor is impeached for non- payment of salaries, other states and governors will wake up!

omenka:
Why does Osun state appear to be the only state making so much noise about this crises when there are over 20 states caught up in the mess? Aregbesola owes 7 some states owe 6 and others 5, yet we hardly hear a word from them.

I think this is beyond mere salaries. Someone somewhere is pulling these strings.

Pulling which string? Why are people so insensitive? The man is owing, short and simple!

The fact that other states are owing doesn't mean that the 'cry' in osun state is politically motivated! It depends on the consciousness and the refusal of the people to accept the status quo and nonsense excuses the governor is giving?

Will they feed their children with excuses?
Put yourself in their shoes and forget about party affiliation for a while.

When a governor is impeached for lack of payment of salaries then other states and governors will wake up!

churchkilo:
I think you should forgive her,and if you so truly love her still take her to he your wife if only she makes up her mind to forget about the other guy completely.though it's a difficult decision to make, you can ask God for the grace as both of you put everything behind you.

Is it because you are called 'churchkilo' that you giving this type of strange advice?

How would he know that she has made up her mind to forget the other guy?
Someone he took care of like that and yet she betrayed him, and got pregnant for another guy, he should accept her back?

Even Jesus will slap him if he tries that!

Op, find a way to collect your properties, forgive her and move on with your life- you will find someone better!

She lives in a fools paradise!

"in 6 months if you see how much he has sent..." that is the only gain she has!
Which means her major concern is the money!


You called him 'silly' yet you are still 'befriending' him on social networks.
Who told you there aren't other ladies in the same social networks that he's befriending?

Your marriage is in shambles, go and sort it out and stop deceiving yourself!

Toks2008:
I dont care how deep the love is but if a lady im to get married to tells me she made a sex recording with an ex boyfriend i will simplu advice her to go into the porn industry.

It is manageable to immagine ten exes who have slept with you than to face the stark reality that my wife to be nudity is with another man and worst still might have been viewed by many.

Even K west with all the love he claims to have for kim k,he will always be haunted by that sex clip of his wife and her ex.

lets face it.its a very fooolish,myopic and totally dumb for a lady to allow herself being recorded in the act not even by her hubby howbeit a boyfriend.

sluttiness of the highest level.

After writing a thesis on how slutty she is, what's your solution?

She made a mistake, a stupid one at that but what's the use flogging a dead horse!

She needs help not bashing!

jayfolarin:
Besides telling the fiance, I am 100 with ur suggestion. The idi.ot will definitely pay for this.

Girlfriend was just with me now, I even showed her this thread and the comments. She is just really scared a revelation such as this could ruin her relationship completely.

"He has been transparent with me, I know basically everything there is to know of his past, how do I tell him now that I did something this appalling and didn't mention it until now that's just few months to our wedding?"..her words

Mehn this matter just weak me.

She should not, never ever tell her fiance.
There are certain infos that are pretty damaging to someone's psych.

She should get a close relative to pose as her fiance and call the guy- tell him that he heard about blackmail and that will never make him to stop loving his lady!

When the blackmailer finds out that the "fiance" is aware and wouldn't care, he will back down!

I know you are dead and they said don't speak ill of the dead but yours is a case of monumental stupidity and foolishness of an epic proportion!

Why would you kill yourself?
You must be extremely selfish! So you had nothing else to live for than a guy? No families or friends, no visions or dreams, no goals or targets?

I feel like slapping you!
There are people who spent 20 and more years in prison for a crime they didn't commit yet they didn't kill themselves!

Your low self esteem must be part of the reason why the guy broke up with you!


Nonsense!

Ok I am an advocate that its too early to start bashing the president but...

It seems the president is trying very much to lower nigerian's expectations of him.

'age comment', 'empty treasury' etc.

1: nigerians are very impatient people and his promise of 'miracle'/magic' helped highten their expectations.

2: what was he thinking when he was making all the promises just to win an election? Did he think nigerians will forget?

3: did he not do his homework? He was elected because Nigeria is in quagmire, and there was possibility of an empty treasury so using that as an excuse is a tactic to lower expectations incase of under performance!

Get to work sir and stop these discouraging statements!

ZedX6:
[color=#150000]This one no sweet. Looking so casual. See him sitting like a dummy. He be like who _shit dey smell. . . You can't kneel like your mates (taking pics and videos) have been doing?

Was she transfixed to the spot? She no run enter under table like the other girls?

So unreal. And the _shit is ureal because all that was on your mind when proposing was how to run to nairaland and create a thread about proposing to her, with high hopes of making front page, instead of enjoying the moment with her. Copy copy. That's why you forget say na straw you use dey drink water from cup.[/color]

See the type of hate you are spewing!

Are you the one he proposed to?
What is your business in the matter?
Did the girl tell you that she didn't enjoy it?
Everyone has his/her own capacity and style!

Rejoice with him and stop being a killjoy!




Congrats op. You did well!

This is Abracadabra! A pure case of 'the more you look the less you see!


We have been punked, nigerians!

This is Abracadabra! A pure case of 'the more you look the less you see!


We have been punked, nigerians!

classicB:
Like my roommate will say. "I will just have like two kids with him and focus on them and my carrier, the early you realise these men are cheats the better"
Not all women can live with a cheating spouse, if you can't, u can just walk away.

This is the type of opinion that makes you keep meeting cheats and you wonder why and conclude that all men are cheats!

There are more than 2 billion men in the world, if you have close relationships with up to 100 (which is very unlikely), that is a very minute fraction and will give a very incorrect statistical conclusion!

What you believe is what you experience!

Follow these steps diligently!

1: get a scorpion or soldier ant.
2: put it/them in your bag.
3: take your bag to church.
4: bring out the scorpion or soldier ant and place on your skin when you start feelng sleepy.



5: if you still sleep after the sting, you have a medical problem!


Thank me later

Nigerians are very sentimental!

Discuss wth her? Are you for real? If you work in a bank, will your boss discuss or negotiate with you?

Fasting is not compulsory but if you choose to fast, your work shouldn't suffer because you are fasting! That's nonsense.

This is a private business and the aim is to maximize profit!

MzJackBaueress:
TANoids una don hear from una oga spokesman? No one should call President Muhammadu Buhari offensive names again. Stick to constructive criticisms and not insulting the president.

una don hear?

cc. TANoids


lalasticlala

An advice that is obviously lacking within the APC!

RichardFuld:
Molestation?!She was the one interested in me first!SHE SMILED AT ME.

And smiling at you means molesting her?
There are things shame should not allow you to post here whether true or not.

RichardFuld:
So what?I fuc.ked a 14 year old when I was 21.

Wow! Congrats.

Pls remind me the award you were given then after the molestation!

When you are the president, everything you say makes SYCOPHANTS to laugh!




Do not quote me negatively!

Have we been punked?

Malcomkelvin:
7 billion and taniod wike said nothing left........ ?
don't start your government on lies bed.

So because an aide made an unverifiable claim, wike becomes a liar?

Why did Amaechi say that there is nothing left for the incoming government in Rivers state?

Why couldn't he pay workers salary? Infact, why didn't he use the 7bn to pay workers salary?

Isolrite

God help this nation!

I feel like crying!

There can be no change as long as the people we elected to represent us keep stealing from us legally!

discusant:
He said he was first at the venue where PMB was scheduled to meet with APC senators-elect and party leaders, then suddenly he got a text that election of NASS officers were already holding at the NASS, hence he headed straight to the NASS.
Anyhow, Ike Ekweremadu once boated that Kwankwaso was his friend ... keep fingers crossed.

And why didn't he alert other senators when he got the text? he's not telling the truth!

NgeneUkwenu:
Stop lying! Kwankwanso was not there! He was part of the twenty Senators that hurriedly came to the chamber, when they heard about the shenanigans going on in the chambers!

barcanista was running his mouth the other day! Saraki is finished politically!

Did you finish him? Keep dreaming!

Pineapp:
Will you marry her??

Hypocrite!!!!!

Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off..
If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it.

One sided stories touch the heart.

Answers like this shock me! I can almost believe that you are a woman beater!

1. "will you marry her"? Is marriage the ultimate? Are all unmarried people living a less fulfilling life? So, its better for her to die in the marriage!

2. "madam access yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off"? Are you for real? On no account should a man hit a woman except its self defense!

3. If its your sister, is this the advice you will give her?

Very strange!