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How can a man sleep with the house maid and we are looking for who to blame?
If the woman sleeps with the gateman will you blame the husband?
Everybody should be 100% responsible for their actions!

nedu2000:
Reasons why sincere Christians should take the book known as the bible to church not a smartphone


1) Holding a bible shows one to be a Christian in public,it acts as an 'identity card' for every Christian. Ipads,smartphones does no such thing

2)Civilisation/technology has given us world where homosexuality is gradually being accepted,female reverends and gender changes all in contrast to biblical pronouncements. The church shouldn't follow the ways of this present world so closely

3)Christians lose the essence of the bible like the order of biblical books(after genesis is exodus.....3rd John then revelations) as a simple google search provides answer in comparison to scrolling round the bible and get fully acquitted with it

4) Ipads,smartphone substitutes acts as sources of distraction in churches with calls,pings,alerts and 'nairalanding' available at one's beck/call.

5) Ipads,smartphones serve one primary aim to most holders,showoff

6) 'battery low'

1. Holding bible in the public doesn't in any way show that one is a Christian! It is not the identity card of the christian! Jesus said these signs shall follow them that believe- cast out devils, speak with new tongues, lay hands on the sick, etc, he never mentioned carrying bible as a sign!

2. Technology brought in homosexuality and female reverend? Are you ok? Technology has notn to do with this. What on earth is wrong with having female reverends?

3. Christians do not in any way loose the essence of the bible because of smartphones or ipads. This is a very myopic view!

4. If ipad distracts someone in the church then the paper bible will also distract the person, the decorations will also distract the person!

5. Ipad and other techs are common in our world today- anyone who shows off with it is a child! Its just like someone showing off with a fone!


Your view is very myopic!
Do you know what type of bible they used during the days of Jesus? They used scroll during the time of Jesus and stones during the time of Moses!

So why are you not using stone or scroll today?

The bible progressed from stone- scroll- paper bible- e-bible! And more formats will still come out!


Stop this your backward and archaic view!!!

Chinaimporter:
[b][size=13pt]The bible is a fake bullshit that we only accept because it is so ancient and we where brought up beliving it.

Let us stop being afraid of God because thousands of people are atheist,hindus buddist etc and nothing happens to them.

Churches are burnt,bibles are torn, saints are crucified and nothing happens.

If God says he exist and want us to worship him,let him write it in the sky.....why hide from us and ask us to belive u exist and if we dnt,you will punish us in hell while u say that you love us......sounds like something the devil will do not god.

Why give us many religions and ask us to blindly choose the right one and if we couldnt,you will punish us.

Why do you like our praises so much if you are so great and dont need us.....we never asked to be created in the first place.....why do you ask us to thank you for bringing us into this vile and ruthless world.

I will never worship or serve you because ur rule is by fear.....pple dnt love you,they only pretend to out of fear.....love is unconditional and your is....quench hell and let us see how many people will actually serve you.

You drown men for disobeying you.....stalin killed for the same reason.....you asked the isrealites to kill people that worship any other except you,boko haram do the same thing.....jephtah sacrificed his daughter to you, meaning you accept human sacrifice like all other heaten gods.

I promise that if you ever exists and armagadon comes,i will ride with satan and the fallen angels against you and make sure you are sent to the bottomeless pit(pls make it hotter because you will enjoy it soon)

Satan never did anything to man by your own account in the bible.....he said we sld eat the fruit and be wise and it worked.....the worst thing he did was mess with job and you allowed it

But you

You unforgiving beast allowed your son to be killed so that you can forgive us and we still go to hell after that.

You allowed a bear to eat 52 children for insulting elijah.

You drowned you so called beloved ones because they disobeyed you....what would tge devil hav ton in this case?

You orded the murder,rape and enslavement or whole cities.

You allowed your beloved ones the isrealites to be enslaved because they disobeyed you due to your poor managerial skills.....even hitler would not do that.

I can go on and on to prove you are the greatest beast of them all.....even baal is better that you[/size][/b]

Oga, get a bible or better still stop reading your bible upside down!

I really don't blame you rather i blame the preacher that told you that God did those things!

These are not fathers! No father will do this wickedness!

They are simply sperm donors!

dinachi:
Y'all know the reason the hubby dosent wanna go down there but you dont want to say it. Rotten puccy! He dosent want to die of aggravated Asthma. Advice your friend or yourself to see a doctor and ensure she is clean down there. Some puccys stinks like putrefying corpse.He dosent want to die in there! Next she should as a matter of urgency give him a BJ to live for and i tell you he wouldnt need to be told to perform the needful on her. How she keep face take tell you she loves her puccy licked. I hope it is not what Iam thinking? Are you her Lesbian partner?

I have read craps before but this one right here is extraordinary crap!

Crap extraordinaire!

It should win award as the most crappy post ever made!

Kai!

When you marry a selfish and inconsiderate person, this is the outcome!

Congrats!

LAfricana:
your common sense should av sorted that for u


the home of gas should lack power ... whats your point, are you trying to display your ignorance, or you are just being plain silly

talk about closeness to raw materials (gas).


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Couldn't you have made your point without insulting the OP?
And to think that some people were busy liking your insulting post- SMH!

jayfolarin:
So you acknowledge you are mentally unstable. That's a good one! Acknowledgement is the first step to recovery!

Back to d topic.. Saraki has lost every inch of integrity and respect from sane nigerians. Dare I say he has ruined the chances of future Sarakis as backstabbing, sabotage and disloyalty which characterised his father are bukola's adopted qualities. It's already been tagged the 'Saraki Curse' in the streets. Any upcoming saraki will be viewed in the same light.

Bukola Saraki should enjoy the dividends of his selfish move while it lasts. Another chance will most definitely not come!

This is your personal opinion sir and its only insincere people that share this opinion with you!

Did you loose respect for Tambuwal when he did this same thing?
Did you loose for Amaechi and Co when they did the same thing?


Keep your respect-loosing opinion to yourself sir!

Reski:
Nigerians and politics of treachery and lies. Atiku saraki and tambawal should be expelled from the apc because they are traitor's and do not represent the kind of change we desire. As for other renegade senator's and house member's they should be suspended for the time being.
NB. Heaven will not fall if Atiku saraki etal move back to pdp. Yes they will control the senate but you need to have 2/3 of the member's in the senate to cause problems for Mr president. I still have faith in............
Team change
Gmb/pyo
God bless Nigeria.

Wait sir- let me understand you clearly!

When tambuwal blindsided Pdp and became pro apc, it wasn't treachery?

When the few Pdp governors left and formed new Pdp and later joined apc, it wasn't treachery?

When Atiku, obj etc all betrayed their party and supported apc, it wasn't treachery!

When apc received all these renegade politicians to win the presidential election, it wasn't treachery,

But now, Atiku, Dogara, Sariki, Tambuwal etc should be suspended for what again, sir? Treachery?





Pls sir, define treachery, because I can see it has a different meaning for apc and Pdp!

donphilopus:
This man should just keep shut lest thunder fires him. He 'dashed' out the Deputy Senate Presidency slot to PDP and he's here blabbing. The respect I used to have for Saraki and Dino Melaye has just diminished. I love the way Ndume was treated. He never knew Saraki had met with PDP Senators to offer them the 'Deputy Presidential' slot. He thought he had played fast on his fellow APC Senators to emerge the Deputy to Saraki. He may have dumped Saraki by now since his 'supposed' slot was freely given to Ekwerimadu and Saraki is in for a long thing.

The PDP Senators should know that they were the greatest losers yesterday. Out of the 57 Senators that were present at the hallowed chamber of the Senate during the 'sham' Election, only 8 of them were APC Senators. If a PDP Senator had moved a motion to nominate a fellow PDP Senator (say David Mark), he would have won the contest hands down and Saraki would have felt betrayed by now (which would have gladdened my heart). Saraki betrayed their trust in him when he defected to APC, he also betrayed APC's trust when he shunned the meeting convened by the President at the ICC and went to the floor of the Senate, they (PDP) should have also betrayed him by electing a PDP man as Senate President. I would have preferred it that way. PDP goofed!

This is a very sentimental post.

1. How is Pdp the biggest looser? They wouldn't have had any position at all if all apc senators were present but now, they have the dsp and SL. So how is Pdp the biggest looser?

2. Do you know the agreement they had with sariki in closed doors before they went to the red chambers?

3. The president called for a meeting by 9am, the senate 'inauguration started by 10am, what happened btw 9am and 10am?

4. Does it mean none of the apc senators was alerted by anybody- family member, aide etc to the fact that the senate inauguration has started since it was televised life?

5. The president said he didn't show up for his scheduled meeting because he saw that the senate meeting has started, why didn't he alert the other senators immediately?

Like I said, this is a sentimental post!

firstEVA:
Why do you keep provoking her?
You need to work on yourself.

And this is an advice? Smh

Op, you are to do the following with immediate effect.


1: break up with her NOW!

2: post the proof here on nairaland, text message or whatsapp etc.

3: delete everything that reminds you of her, everything!

4: build yourself esteem because it has been shattered. ( for you to stay with a cheating partner for 3 years with full knowledge means you have no self esteem.

5: Face your studies, improve yourself, look good, work hard.

6: socialize with people of great minds.

7: Love with your heart and HEAD next time!



OK bye.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

you have an inferiority complex.
Regret what later?


You will only regret it if you Dont break up with her now.
You will keep beating yourself up for not breaking up with her sooner.

ikeepitreal:
Ahan na, but there gas be rapists in the world na,if not,who would rape girls,.for bible sef, konji catch amnon sote en rape tamar in sister

Is it everything that is a joke to you?

You are being childish.
Concentrate on your jamb examination.

while they were in Germany taking pictures, PDP was busy electing the new Senate president, deputy senate president, senate leader and speaker of the house of rep.















pls don't quote me negatively, Na joke o!

lawflec:
And he is now talking about party directives... Anyway, Dogara is a traitor and arrant insolent.. He disobeyed party directives because of power... Himmmmm.. Tambuwal survived because apc won the election and his charismatic characters endeared him to the people... Dogara will forever be dead politically after his impeachment from pdp members.

This post is illogical and irrational!

This is politics, kindly wake up!

kradleber:
I've finally made up my mind & I've decided to break up with my girlfriend. we have been dating for quite some time now & she's the only real girlfriend I've ever had.

the only problem & impediment is that she doesn't school in Nigeria & sometimes we don't see for like 6 months. I can't cope with the long-distance thing any more and I wanna call it a quit. I'm already seeing someone else and I thought breaking up with her would be the right decision instead of allowing her discover & unearthing it herself.
she's also returning to Nigeria in July or early August, and that's when I plan on breaking up with her.

I've surfed google but found no serious suggestions.
what i really want to know is - how do i breakup with her without she getting heartbroken & all that?.
I also still want us to be very close friends and possibly still date in the future. I'm not just sure she would take it lightly considering our history.

so how do I go about this?
everyone is welcome to comment, so long as it is helpful.✘

If guy's will learn how NOT to talk much, most problems will be averted.

FOLYKAZE:
FG better not try to do what it can not finish. This is a locally refined gin from a natural product that has been taken by the locals hundred of years ago. It sever many purposes ranging from medicine to entertainment. The local medicine are made with ogogoro and not from any chemical compositions called alcohol. This from a very long time has done nothing wrong with the body system. The general public should note that Ogogoro does not kill. It is those bad chemical and drug mixture that kills. Original ogogoro does not do any harm to the body. Even the doctors advice people to take it. It is those fake ones that kill and do lot of damages to the body system.

Fake things is not here today. Ogogoro is not the only product out there which fake replica is in the market. Fake drugs like paracetamol and even bread is out there. I was in the market where I found an old mama identifying a fake red oil mere by tasting it. What would have happened to those thay do not know original oil from the fake one? Who keeps the record of those thay have died from taking fake food and drugs? How many thousands should we count of people thay have died by taking expired medicine? Does this make the government raise a ban on medicine and food?

Ogogoro have become a field of investment. It has produces millionaires and help the poor one sustain into the poor economy system. What would happen to there business? Are we going to push them back into zero job oppourtunity economy?

There are lot of houses in Ogun and lagos state where fake seaman and schnapp are been made. Lot of beers are made in the east which are fake and have claimed lot of lives. Government should wage war on these people producing fake food and drugs.

Government should encourage us to refine out own local wine and gin. We need to keep watering investment oppourtunity and not put ban just on anything.

In the case of getting drunk, foreign beer and gin too make people tumble into gutter. There is no justification for banning products like ogogoro and palm wine. It is natural product and do the body system lot of good than those chemical composed drugs which kill us steadily.

Ogogoro must stay

You got 100 plus likes for this stuff you wrote when its obvious you either didn't read what the Nafdac director said or you didn't understand.

1. He mentioned 'unregistered'... He clearly isn't against the local production of gin but they should be properly registered and regulated by the drug agency.

2. 'Illegally' brewed... Without proper sanitation and regulation, this thing will keep killing people.

what do you mean 'dash for free'? Is v.a.g.I.n.a a commodity?




some things are priceless and have no money worth!

oseod:
Exodus 19:15,Romans 8:13, 1 Peter 2:11, Matthew 5:29-30

Personal opinion ke?
Above are bible verses related to mortification, and abstinence

I wonder y ppl blv that catholics don't use bible

Non of those bible passages said anything about married couples abstaining from sex before church service.

By the way, I never mentioned 'catholic'. Check my post.

oseod:
Oho!!! Like I said earlier in my previous post, I'm catholic, and fasting isn't only from food alone,

Abstinence from sex, fasting from food or any other form of luxury can be regarded as a form of mortification, and the more you mortify, the stronger your spirit grows in unison with God (although this isn't all there is to mortification, mortification is another topic altogether)

A person who is spiritually stronger would draw more graces or communicate better wif God

A couple can hVe sex on saturday night or early Sunday morning, buh minutes before church is not really ........(not sure of the word) ....proper, cause they have to be spiritually ready for God.

Anything you can't substantiate from the word of God is ur personal opinion and has no force on another person.

oseod:
Are you asking for the chapter where fasting is considered important?

I'm asking for chapter where sex is like fasting! I'm asking for chapter where its wrong to have sex before church.

oseod:
Its not a sin, its just similar to fasting
Food is good
But even in the bible fasting is recommended,
Even jesus fasted why?

Because by denying your flesh those things it wants, your spirit grows stronger and your communication with God also..
Shikena!!!!!

chapter what verse what of the bible pls?

Yustash001:
Obviously, she has been looking for pregnancy for years....Congrats ma'am...

Obviously? pls do you know her?
how is it obvious that she has been looking for pregnancy for years?

Do tell please

ProfCorruption:
Ibo is as correct as Igbo.

Are you igbo pls? Is yoloba as correct yoruba?

Aigbofa:
Fayose is a dolt. Did he learn self reliance in iboland?

What is your problem with ibo (sic) land please?

blackpanda:
This useless Fayose really needs to be dealt with. Tinubu where are you?
I cant wait for Fayose's political future to be completely destroyed!

Visionless, greedy, lawless and useless man. He will spend his entire administration chasing ghosts and looking over his shoulder! After rigging and stealing pple's mandate, he's now call ing God in the matter. Smh

And you are?

1. A woman shouldn't kill or blame herself for her husband's infidelity, neither should the man do so.

2. Your assertion that most men cheat is false if you do not include that most women cheat also.

3. Cheating is not a function of gender but gross lack of self control, insensitivity and irresponsibility.

4. God didn't make men to be promiscuous. Anybody that opines/believes this nonsense is an I.D.O.T.

5. Demand excellence, complete loyalty and absolute faithfulness from ur partner and yourself! Anything short means you have inferiority complex.

6. There are still very many good men out there who are honorable! If you keep meeting the wrong ones, check yourself and what you have come to believe.

7. DO NOT make excuses for your cheating partner. If you choose to accept him/her back, let it not be because you feel guilty!


Ok bye!

where is the blasting?
Many spoke for him and not against him.

Pope22:
Am not saying this because am from Anambra state but because of what I have exprienced from some girls I have done things with in the past and what some of my friends have also exprienced too. As am seriously searching for a true soul-mate and a lover, I pray not to have or fall in love with a girl from Imo state. I have dated some girls, mainly Igbos but the one that gave me toughest time was from Imo state, 3 of my friends have also said same thing.

Even the males from Imo state are the worst people you can ever do something with such as business, living together as room-mates, keeping as friends, etc. These people can "rack" sense like mad; they always claim or try to show "sense" in everything and this kind of attitude has been transfered to their girls. They will always like to cheat you in every little thing, they will always pretend not to have even when they have unless everybody brings out. They will pretend to be good or freindly when they need something from you and when they get it, they walk away; this is Imo people for you and according to them, they call it "wiseness and wisdom"

They say Anambra girls like money, its better someone pretends to be good or friendly when she wants something from you and stil be that which she pretends to be after getting that from you than changing after getting what he or she wants; this is Imo girls for you and according to them, they call it "sense and smartness"

You can hardly predict them even when they are laughing, dont take it as "true laugh".
My friend came to me this morning lamenting and regreting why he has an Imo guy as a room-mate and as a close friend, he was telling me how the guy has been "racking" sense for him for long and he kept enduring and tolerating but this time, its choking him and he has to speak out. Exactly same thing a female friend of mine complained about her female friend she is living with. Personally, I have also exprienced same thing both from their females and males.

My question is..
Why are they like this?
And my prayer is...
God please, dont give me an Imo girl as a girl friend or as a wife.

Give me a girl from any state apart from Imo..even if its from North or West, I will gladly accept her but not from Imo state because I dont have strength or know how to "rack" sense.

Please I don't hate Imo people or anybody from there, I only hate their character!

When you judge or define people based on their tribe, that's a sign of illiteracy.

Do you know how many people that don't want anything to do with Anambra?

(NB. I'm not from IMO).

bingbagbo:
Anytime i visit them, they are eating fast foods.
This lazy woman will never go to the kitchen
Can you imagine i visited them last and i was made to drink gari for supper?
I want to tell my cousin to divorce her...what do you think?
Besides, she has been giving me eye anytime i vist them
Can you imagine last she wore nightie to my room to pick bowls i had eaten from
I dont think she is a good wife

If this is a joke, stop it.

If not, is she ur wife?

Mind ur business!

PUSH1:
There is replica for every product in the market. Why conclude it is the original one. Beside when you are in UK, spending the pounds is like spending naira. You don't think about the exchange rate.

Guy pls reconsider this ur reply.

If we are to judge by this ur reply, every politician will claim that all his acquisitions aren't original or that he doesn't think about exchange rate when spending in the uk.

What if she bought it in dubai or even Nigeria?