roseval:
For how long can one go for another missionary journey after cs, hubby is saying if bb clock one we should try for another.

I think its ok,it depends on yr body too but pls see yr dr/gyn for consultation.
For me,i took in the month my baby boy clocked 1yr. I delivered him thru cs

Gdmrng mamas. So sorry iv bn on d peeping mode. Hmmm its well. Congrats to all those dat hv birthed,may d good Kord keep watch and bless u all.

Just a shout out.
Loads of love...

tiwatopebam:
Hmmm, let me rant small, this heaviness no be here oo, but I thank God. Can't walk a long distance like bf, June mama's na so ur body dey Abi na only me Waka come. June 2017 for supernatural delivery

Same here o mama. Its not easy. God will definately see us thru,in Jesus Name!

olamitie:
Make i drop my bs though nothing interesting because it was CS.
I had a stressful day at work and started feeling funny, my head was heavy, though it wasnt my antenatal day but i managed to go to the hospital to complain,was 36/37weeks already,they checked my bp which was usually 100/70 but it went up to 140/90,i was told to rest for an hour so they will recheck,for my own mind i just wanted to go home, shower and sleep cos i hate hospital environment but managed to wait
When they rechecked it went up to 150 /100, i told the doc to give me diazepam so i can go home and rest, just then the MD walked in and was informed,he checked my case file& told me you are going nowhere , before i could say jack he told them to prepare the theatre cos he dsnt want to take any chances, haa i told him to wait so i can call my DH, that one too was shocked and said he will close and rush down
We started the surgery 12am, they give me one yeye injection and told me to count 1-50,i ddnt get to 10 before i just blanked out and was in another world
I opened my eyes and the image was getting clearer small small,i demanded to see my baby,na then my mind come down
To stand up and move to the ward was another torture
In all i give Glory to God because oluwapamilerin,oluwasijuanuwomi,oluwadamilare(her names)
Had to summarize abeg

Ll @count 1 to 50! These doctors ehn!
I rejoice with u. May she continualy b blessed!

spiceeamiee:
Good morning everyone and thank you so much for your contributions yesterday. I'm so sorry I couldn't reply everyone as I left the office really late. I and DH had a talk last night and i let him know what was on my mind. Right from when we had been dating, we have always stated that we would be the ones whose opinions in our children's affairs would count and him trying to sideline me on this issue does not reflect well on our agreement. If he sidelines me on naming my own child, how many other important milestones in our children's life was he going to sideline me on. He knows I am very stubborn and can go ahead and do whatever I like regardless but he appreciated the fact that I was talking to him on this. He saw reasons with me and we finally agreed on the following; When we find out baby's sex (this weekend at our anomaly scan), he would bring three ibo names and I would bring three English names and we would pick one each for the child based on meaning, our experiences, battles, victory, etc. Baby's ibo name will come first in the birth certificate while English name will come second. None of the names given by either grandparents will enter the birth certificate. This was the agreement and we sealed it up with some good good loving . Thank you all once again. Kizzez

Aww... I love this! Im so happy to read dis. This is how it should be.

Arihodo:
so I finally gather the courage to go registered last week. I didn't expect it to be easy. but behold it was. after seeing the doc, I was sent for scan and was told my edd is MAY 25. i was like alteady? was can I say. than to thank Almighty God. greatfull to the mamas who encourage me through their words of wisdom. indeed, this forum is made for those who do not have friends to talk or confide in.
tank u @coldfeet
@coldone1
@perfectcrown
@nennynj
@xxo1 .
I have been a member from my previous child. so I am registering now for this pregnancy. abeg MAY cappo, see member here ooo. watin be my. dues ejor. make I search for my mate them. one love mamas. one LOVE!

Good one mama!
Thank God for everything. May the good Lord keep us all in Jesus Mighty Name!

I have read some of nigerians comment about our presidents comment bout his health. Why re some people so callous? If at all d president is an ordinary nigerian & hes sick, must one make an unnecesary comment like, he has not seen anytin? We all need to grow up like a proper human being God made us to be. Our president, God bless & keep u 4 us.

suzzy4God:
Thanks for the roll call @June cappo.Amen to the prayers,we shall all carry to term and deliver safely IJN,amen.No one shall replace us to take care of our lovely children ,mothers alive,babies alive,fathers alive all rejoicing, amen. It seems June babies held meeting not to show their sex yet,sex unknown for now. Well done cappo.I'm doing fine if not for one boil in my anus.

Chai pregnancy ooo! Sorry mama.

Ahmed0336:
I'm not impressed

It will b better for u to travel down to kaduna to see things 4 yrslf b4 u can b impressed. Pics cant b clear/true smtym tho

Papykush:
Since the time fayose regained power in Ekiti state, things have been bad...people are so frustrated and sad little things make them depressed...Alot of suicides take place, you only know about the ones you read.


Ekiti is broke...no company, no factor... No means of developing the economy in that state.

They only have Schools, hotels and filling stations which are mostly patronized by government workers but these guys are not paid neither is the money flowing in that state...the only guys balling in Ekiti state are yahoo guys, criminals and guys deep into rituals.


FYI: I was in Ekiti state for 8Years so I know what I am typing... Argue with your phone.

You are totaly right. I shuttle btw ekiti and kad. Tho im based in kad.

tiwatopebam:
March 2017 Roll call for June 2017 mamas

God has been so good to us, he started the journey with us and here we are six months plus to seven months now. I know by now, we know the sex of our babies. I checked mine last weekend and is a Boy, I always wanted a boy to be my first and God perfected it. I dnt know how to start my buying, everything looks so attractive and nice. Mamas pls suggest what to buy so that we new mamas can learn. Before I forget my edd has changed to 17th and I believe it will still changed.

Nobledeals -------------
tiwatopebam ------------. EDD June 27/ team XY
Suzzy4God --------------- EDD June 8
Orente21 -------------------
Ariegurl -------------------. EDD June 12
Toriella --------------------
BlossomedCherry ----. EDD June 27/16
Burticious --------------- EDD June 19
Iyomomoreloaded ----
OmoLayo29 -------------
Rollykotex ----------------
Chinweotito -------------
Benignasweety --------
Mofy1 -----------------------
Perfectcrown -----------
Oamronnie _ _ _.

Many of us have not submitted our EDD and our team, are you team XY or team XX. For new mamas XY means boys and XX is for girls.
I pray for every mama that will give birth in this thread that we will give birth successfully, nobody knows how leaves falls on a tree nobody will the secret behind our births. We shall give birth like the Hebrew women, God will provide for all our needs, we shall all come out with our testimonies. June mama's no more loss, we will not record any death, both the fathers and mothers will be alive and sound. Oya June mama's come out and shout Amen. Love you all

Present ma. My EDD is June 28. If it changes,i'll let u kn. Thanks

My EDD is June 28. Thanks for the role call

mofy1:
Good day mama's.
Abeg nah only me be june mama because I done use torch and candle find my team mate but still can't find any.

Mufty1,i be June 28 oo

Hello everyone. Im so sorry for my absence/silence. My Tab dat i use for browsing has bn hving problem bt im managing my phn.

Thank God for the safe deliveries for our mamas. May d good Lord help us to d end as for we dat r still pushing,in d Mighty Name of Jesus!

Honestly mamas,im really happy with d group,i see/read alot of us draws strength from here. I dont comment but i read/learn from here.

Hmm pushing is not easy o,ah! To gbensh "dance" no b am. I told hubby dis morning dat my body is paining me,he said "shebi u were enjoying it d last time we did d do". Cus to him,i "raped" him(why r dey scared smtyms to gbensh der pregnant wife?) Looool... Dont mind him.

Hian! My head aches from reading. Kai dis op is from d so called english department

Bia op,were u there when it all happened?? Abeg go siddon for corner and improve on your english. Haba gbagaun gbagaun

AyPortable1:
My BS
I gave birth to my cute prince on the 7th of February. Scan dates were 2nd ,8th,14th, According to LMP and gynae 17th.
My pregnancy journey was very very smooth, I was a workaholic oo, coupled with the fact that I was running my MSc field work in the west and hubby lives in delta state, so I was travelling once in 2 months.
I show the so called *show* on the 5th(Sunday evening), I just told my husband and he was like that means baby will soon come Ba? I said no joor till the following week ooo( my bro and dads birthday 15th and 17th respectively.
On monday the 6th I woke up early to go shopping at a village market with a family friend, left home with hubby at past 6am, got to market and bought all foodstuffs to last for 2months. I was doing fine until I got back home around 1pm. You needed to see me working oo, blended all blendables, cooked, swept, dusted, mopped, washed clothes. My neighbour was like madam take am easy ooo. I said I just want to get all done with and rest.
Fast forward to about 3am on the 7th( Tuesday), I started feeling backpains, woke hubby up and he kept massaging, he was like isn't this contractions, I said no joor na the stress I went tru day before, we slept back ooo.
Around past 4am, it was coming on and off, I couldn't sleep again, dh said let's go to hospital na im I say hospital kwa, oga chill na just back pain( olodo like me). He said we should pack hospital bag, we did oo, I cooked, we ate and left for hospital but I purposely didn't carry hospital bag( just carried the pad comfits alone) but left the key by our staircase in case anything happens. So we sha got to hospital by past 7am.
The nurse and doc on nighgt shift did normal check up and for the first time VE (that shit is so discomforting) mheen I was declared 5cm gone, Haaa 5cm ke Oluwa oooo, na so dem start to do registrations ooo, checking my file, called matron and my gynaecologist that them patient don land ooo. Hubby was happy but had to leave for work.
I was checked into the observation room by past nine, see me chatting with my bestie on phone ooo, nurse said hmmm you go soon hear am. Sincerely I was very calm, called my neighbour and family friend to inform them to bring my bag, they were surprised.
Nurse did her own VE and said 6cm , my gynea came past 10am did his own VE and said 7cm also broke my water, that was when I started feeling correct contractions ( 6-7 every 10mins matron came in past 11 and did her own oo, 8cm. With each contraction I was told to breathe in and out, I was doing this well and holding on to the hospital bed, I wasn't shouting ooo. But I kept tugging at the two nurses assigned to me( they were massaging my back and d oda monitoring heartbeat). Matron came in and joined too, making three pple ooo. At about 12pm I told them I can't take d pain oo, that if they don't want me to shout and cry make dem call my gynae I wan do CS oooo. They just started rebuking it saying am their first this morning and going into the theatre is not their plan oo, oh they kept praising and encouraging me, did another VE and gbaam 9cm. I changed into wrapper, they helped me drain my urine and supported me walking into the delivery room.

They prayed and started setting up all necessary stuffs while I laid sideways on the bed with one nurse massaging my back, at a point I felt like a truck just walked over me, I shouted and was moaning oooo, then i kept on saying * JESUS I NEED YOUR GRACE AND STRENGTH*, oh!the second nurse then said I should start saying our Winners Chapel Declarations after her(she's my church member, got to know that day).
Some minutes to 1pm, I was fully dilated and taught how to push looking at my tummy after 5attempts my prince came out screaming the whole place oooo, weighed 3.0kg but the matron gave me episiotomy ooo, imagine she said cause she felt I was tight, doc said she shouldn't have sha.
That was when I cried ooo, the matron hugged me and said for my age and tribe I was strong chai but I knew deep down it was Jesus that helped me as I kept imagining him on the cross taking away all my pains and I tried staying positive that I will birth this baby alive and well.
Boaz Oluwatobiloba is two weeks today, he's healthy and I am back on my feet( I went shopping naming ceremony things myself).
Wishing other February Mamas safe delivery and the entire house Smooth preggy journey.

Aww... so adorable and cute. Congrats sis. May d lord watch over him,in Jesus Name

See disone! It is u dat will die in office b4 yr time! Must he/they come and kneel b4 u b4 God will ans?! Fake prophet! Only evil evil evil u ppl see and its to world leaders not unknown and poor people. Abeg shift mk we see road. Buhari will not die yet and it will b to God's glory and to yr own shame! Shut up mk we hear! U b God ne?? Ku ji mani magana fa! Dan shashasha!

AbbynHummy:
chrisada dts hw i was given that gel in the hospital i delivered my first child, the gel didnt do anything, when the nurses saw that my son's cord stump didnt fall off and it was looking dirty, they told me to start using spirit. Spirit is better o, dat gel does nothing

I agree with you. D list dat was given 2me b4 i had my first baby,includes d gel but was later changed to SPIRIT whc help alot.

Well every1 is entiled to der opinion abi na choice

lovat:
Only fools and idiots won't stand woth Suleiman

And only fools and idiots will also stand with him
When real trouble starts now,him and his family will disappear by dat tym yr eyes will clear.
Bia,tell me which prophet(s) did dos in the bible??!!

Nonsense!!!
Dnt bother to quote me cus i wont b reading it

modestofynest:
That is so true, lemme sight an example of this illustration. On Saturday been the 28 of January pastor David Ibiyomie of salvation ministry came to my school Niger Delta University in Bayelsa state for a one day visit, now the church coordinators told us to put money in an envelope for papa's visit, imagine this is a state that most of the student here are starved on daily basis because their parents have not been paid salaries for more than 8 months now and are just managing, wr u expect them to get money to give the pastor, instead of the pastors to buy bags of rice full trailer come share for student, dey are busy lukn for more ways to extort more from them. Finally I didn't attend the program because of that singular reason. As in what is the church turning into

Can u imagine the nonsense!!!? Papa ko baba ni!!!

I agree with u,dat he shld hv gone to d schl wit food stuffs,haba students fa in dis whole recession!?? No b only man of God,dis one na man of money!

And dem ma get children for sch o. Mtshwwww!!

adaksbullet:
Smol moneys


Money that am made on one secs



Porverting strinking mentality

Gbagaun!!!

*yinmu*

AbbynHummy:
Goodday mothers. Still took my DD to the hospital. Ran a full blood count, she had malaria 2+. Was so shocked, cos she always sleeps inside her net. They gave some I.V injections, was just crying when the doc was piercing the cannula in her vein, she was just crying. Spent 10k for treatment, they said I should bring her for the next 3days to complete the treatment. Well, I thank God for everything, but I'm just so down right now, I've been crying, I'm even crying as I'm typing, the money that was used for this treatment was the money we were supposed to use to buy foodstuff at home. My husband has still not been paid his salary by the govt, infact I'm just overwhelmed with all this situation, to say that this pregnancy wasn't planned for and people keep telling me that the baby will bring open doors. I still believe that this baby is a blessing, I'm optmistic and have faith that all things will work for my good, I have faith that things will change soon, but I can't just help crying sometimes, I'm human and have feelings too. I know God will provide, he has given me HIS promise in romans 8:28 and jeremiah 29:11. I thank God for the gift of these children, I know he'll provide for me to be able to take care of them. I thought babies that are exclusively breastfed hardly fall ill? Pls what is the cheapest baby food in the market now?. I'm breastfeeding and yet most days I eat only twice a day. Sometimes I jsut need somebody to just cry to, somebody I can tell all my worries not becos I need the persons sympathy. I'm tired of bottling up my feeling everyday, I wish I can shout and tell pple what I am going through. Hubby doesn't like to see me cry or worry over our situation, whenever he sees me cry he'll say I'm reminding him of his incapabilities. I just need a shoulder to lean on.

Hmm mama,its well. Sometimes God allows smtins to happen... But as long as Hes given u assurance in His Word,He will surely do it. I kn smtimes hw it feels lile to want to see sm1 and js pour out yr heart but kn dis,dat God is d best listener. Dont worry He is in control. Just hold on and b strong. God be with you

nifeseun:
Pls, mama's that did cs, my insicion site still brings out pus and it's 2wks plus now, I just finished my last dose of ampiclox, but still draining out pus, the dr at the hospital says it's normal, I clean every Morin n evening with spirit n apply penicillin. Abeg is this normal.. abeg pls, don't ignore o..

Pls after cleaning use gv but still see ur doctor

Pidgin2:
How many post about Zahra will make FP? The celebration of mediocrity, this does not help our economy in any way

U wld do d same if u wer in her shoes. Haba

mamacajah:
With great joy and happiness, I announce the safe delivery of my son via VD , weighing 3.7kg at 4.31pm today 15th December 2016. BS later.

Congratulations mamacajah. May d good Lord bless and watch over him,in Jesus Name!
I rejoice with u

bettercreature:
Her child died last tuesday for christ sake! what is she doing online
I have a family friend who ate poison twice because of death of their 3years old son
Just imagine her daughter died on tuesday and she was online on thursday posting
That is very very wrong

it does not matter. She simple wrote on her page. I dont see anything wrong

bettercreature:
She should have left this for the press or other family members

She should be mourning not ranting online

Rip to the dead


Useless mother

may God have mercy on u
and u will b a father smday o...
u shldnt b sayng such thing. Shes only pouring out her heart
dats a wicked and stupid statement u made, haba and u call yrslf "bettercreature"! Nonsense!

XX01:
My birth story before cyber week will completely steal me away. Cc iomoge2.

My birth story is completely normal. Nothing out of the ordinary happened. It was prior to the birth that I had plenty drama but that is not germane to my story.

Was booked for CS on the 14th. My husband had been around week and was very bored. I had to go in the day before for my Pre-operation check up but didn't know. Was telling my uncle and he said that they won't let me have the surgery without it. So had zeroed my mind that the surgery will be the next day. Boy, was I wrong.

My husband packed our bags just in case because he was already getting antsy. Got there and was told that everything will be done that day. Asked plenty questions, gave me plenty forms to sign, took plenty blood shaved and then wheeled me into the theatre.

My husband later joined me and he was giving me a blow by blow account of what they were doing. We joked about the laser cut making me smell like roasted goat, about how he is now a pro in operations. Next thing I felt the pressure on my tummy and he said that it's time. My Prince came out screaming blue murder with his extremely long legs. Unfortunately, they didn't allow videos so didn't get the moment on record.

We did see skin to skin and he started sucking really hard. Eventually, we went back to the room and he roomed in with me. My husband stayed over for the 4 days and I was very happy to send him on errands like change baby diaper, carry the baby, pet the baby, etc. I really enjoyed that part. O

4 days later, I paid my bills and went home with a rather happy baby. Hardly gives trouble, just eats, poops and sleeps.

See his newborn pic below and then his 4 day picture.

aww hes cute...
hmm u lucky o, my hubbyy dint evn stay in d hospital on d day of d cs(my first boy). Bcus d sight of blood scares himm, ahh. But hes a good ma.

Congrats and May God bless him and provide all dat would be needed to cater for him.

iomoge2:

honetly dis is not fair
I hv bn thinking abt dis meal snc I saw d pix and I dnt evn hv plantain at home! Goooooood!!!

Florena:
the colic is not even affecting him, he sleeps well and he does not cry anyhow so why burn his navel morning, afternoon, night when it as dried up?

oooh, im so sorry. Ders no need 4her to use d lantern snc lo doesnt hv colic.
pls look 4 a way to respectfully stop her

Florena:
I've been meaning to rant here but vigilante no gree me, but since we are discussing d issue let me pour it out.

As a yoruba, d naming ceremony of a males first child is done at his parents house, (I don't think its all Yoruba sha), so I'm still at father in laws house, my MIL is killing me, and when you correct her she will tell you she as been training kids since.

She will massage baby with hot water morning and night, the quantity of oil she puts on baby's hair can fry dodo, she does not sleep in her room (the most annoying) she sleeps in our room and jumps at the sound of baby crying, in fact she does not allow me carry baby unless he's crying, I'm giving baby breast milk alone, my MIL as given him water saying how can one eat without drinking water, one day I told her not to use d Johnson baby soap I bought for him cause of d rashes on his body, I went into my room b4 I came out she has started bathing baby with okin antiseptic, she uses lantern and cloth to massage baby's navel, she as been doing it for a week now and it takes her like 20minutes, 3 times a day. Whereas my mom said sh suppose to have stopped since the outer part is healed. My sisters I'm tired.

That's how she made a statement one day that we are spending 3months with her, aaaaah for where. I've already told her I'm resuming school on the 12th, I can't wait to have my baby to myself.

My point is that you should choose your mom first, so u can say no to her frankly, my mom will always ask me what I want to do for my baby whenever she's around, she does not just take decisions on her own.

Ah, me I chosed my mother o. She had 6 of us, shes so good at d omugwo(God has being her wisdom and strength) that ppl even beg her to come do mugwo 4dem b4 dey evn deliver. Watever I dnt like, I tell her kia kia and she stopped
the only time she used lanttern and a napkin 4my baby's navel was like 2weeks after his cord drooped and I tried sm med to soothe him but, none worked so she used it and less dan 2weeks, my baby was fine.

rowland545:
My friend got pregnant and she said she intends removing it. So we bought a lot of drugs from pos.. to mes... u name it, we bought all so it did not work...

Then there was this one she bought I've forgotten the name . After she took it she began to bleed . We thought that was it, so the next day, we bought pregnancy strip to test and its still showing two lines which is positive.... Then we waited for a week and she went to the lab and it's still showing positive...

Is it positive for the baby to still be there or is it out? .I'm confused. Doctors in the house, pls help ...pls no abusive words.....

pls let her go for scan to b sure if d pregnancy is still der or not. D positive result may still b due 2 d fact that there are still pregnancy hormones but pls go for scan.
nawa for u sef,