Pets › Re: Help My Dog Is Going Blind by phenylalanine(m): 12:38am On Nov 17, 2021 |
blackmamber: Did the same thing happen to your rabbit ? Can't really say it same it. |
Health › Re: Antibiotics After Sex by phenylalanine(m): 12:03pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Chuky7: Does Taking Antibiotics after raw sex prevent you from getting STD The % of treatment is high but not for HIV, wait, taught u are told to get married and stay away from been a distributor |
Pets › Re: Help My Dog Is Going Blind by phenylalanine(m): 8:40am On Nov 15, 2021 |
blackmamber: Hello room. I bought this Boston terrier for 450k about 7 months ago. Suddenly I started noticing discharge and blueish stuff in his eyes plus red too (only in his left eye )
I took him to the vet immediately and they gave him meds and injection but I noticed nothing changed
I have gone to different vet within this 2 weeks and they kept collecting my money and nothing is changing
Please if you’ve gone through this before I would love to know how you treated it. I don’t want my dog to go blind
In addition. I called the seller and he said the same thing happened to his mom and it disappeared but he can’t really remember what he used because he used a lot of meds and applied alovera inside her eyes Alovera is gelly na putting it in the eye might not help better put it in the drinks a little quantity, I think since u are trying options you might use efo shoko botanical name is Celosia Argentea press out the liquid and put in the eyes just a drop then find a way to add it to his food too.. all the best, this works for rabbits... Don't know if it will work for your dog.. |
Sports › Re: Okocha: I Didn’t Do My Research Before Joining Bolton Wanderers From PSG by phenylalanine(m): 7:11am On Nov 13, 2021 |
paulolee: abeg no start...for pleasure as how na? naim him no kum naija league wey him get huge fan base.. he was earning 80k uros in paris before left for bolton due to wage reduction, and also refused other championship bid to sign him n instead move to Qatar to earn 1m pounds a year after he left Bolton and u are saying he never played for moni...no let me vex abegi Bros no vex |
Culture › Re: ‘Mysterious’ Cloth That Fell From The Sky In Ondo: The Truth (Photos) by phenylalanine(m): 7:34am On Nov 10, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Nomthi Rosemary, Pastor Taiwo Odukoya's Wife Dies Of Cancer by phenylalanine(m): 6:42am On Nov 10, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Never Ever! When Challenges hit me! What I do is to Check myself to see if I have broken the Hedge! I also repent and ask for mercy . Once I am at Peace with HIM , I Joyfully Face whatever comes knowing that ALL things Work together for Good to them that Love and Trust HIM. Not all challenges means one has broken the hedge, most times we tend to judge ppl facing one trial or the other as been broken the hedge, God is merciful, only him knows.. I pray God console pastor Taiwo and grant Pastor Nomthi eternal rest, she was a great woman. |
Politics › Re: Governor Dapo Abiodun Pays Condolence Visit To Femi Osibona's Father (Photos) by phenylalanine(m): 8:07am On Nov 09, 2021 |
DankemzI: Sorry Papa but your son killed himself with 44 others with greed, we Nigerians should learn to follow due process and do things right! Only if he knew that using wrong mixture and substandard materials will kill him, he wouldn't have tried it! Let not be quick at dishing out blames, was he the one that went to the market to buy those material use for the building? Was he the arhitect? Was he the builder? He is just a man with the money and I don't know but he might just have faint knowledge on building |
Travel › Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by phenylalanine(m): 7:51am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Differentiate: But why is it only Nigerians.? Chinese immigrate same as Indias , Mexicans and all other race . and they abide by the rules and regulations of the country they immigrate to. With their families and loved ones without any palava of he brought me in and he's demanding for the money I work for . Honestly black races is a very special being. Everything about us is disorganized. Guy u only know what is happening in your house, d too might have similar issue |
Family › Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by phenylalanine(m): 8:38pm On Oct 29, 2021 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by phenylalanine(m): 11:10am On Oct 28, 2021 |
officialmario: Dear Nairalanders
There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me. But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.
I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home. Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife. Must she know if u send money to your mother? No, so even if you buy groundnut for work u go come tell her? U know your wife well better than any of us, so things u feel she will get angry or jealous put it away from her, all the best |
Family › Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by phenylalanine(m): 9:38pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan: Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country, I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice. Let the past be in the past, what you are thinking is wrong and u might end up kicking the bucket, u might not be lucky... Pls |
Celebrities › Re: Nancy Chidera Apologises To Mercy Johnson Over Post About Her Daughter, School by phenylalanine(m): 5:05pm On Oct 23, 2021 |
moneyissweet: Stupid teachers
I hate them all.
I fucking hate teachers
By the time I am done with the idiot that bullied my son he will know the difference between home father and street father.
Bastard Your drugs, Your drugs, where did you keep it, pls don't skip it again. |
Romance › Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by phenylalanine(m): 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Mercychen: What urges? Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.
Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.
Got that? I disagree with you on this, urges will come even if you avoid things that triggers it, that is how the body (flesh) was designed, is just that the holy spirit helps us to overcome it, pls give relationship another chance, but this time be more careful and don't have too much high expectations... We aren't perfect... |
Education › Re: Man Storms Ogun School With Thugs To Attack Teacher Who Beat His Daughter by phenylalanine(m): 7:14am On Oct 13, 2021 |
sematec: Food don land for police Unregistered Toyota vehicle No teacher should try this nonsense on my child problem go dey because I no born am for u U aren't different with d guys d arrested |
Health › Re: I Don't Last Long In Bed, What Can I Do? by phenylalanine(m): 3:32pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Ebi2233: The second to last time I had sex before today, I went to our state capital Yenagoa, and visited a brothel. I did not take any drug or any whatever, God be my witness. The lady was like same age with me. Around 24 years too. After the sex, of which it was 500 Naira we agreed on, she went and tore out another condom and said that we should go another round, and saying this one is free.
God be my witness on this. And u are proud, I hope u will not come here to ask how to cure ........ |
Family › Re: I'm Losing My Only Sister by phenylalanine(m): 8:37am On Oct 10, 2021 |
Franklyspeakin: My own sef is the angle u are coming from. Are u sure its not financial gains you people want from your sis?? Because a right thinking family would have been more interested in knowing if she is fine... That is pay a visit to see her, talk to ker and know if she is OK then probably remind her that her parents are worried about her. Which one is her presence is greatly needed?? Do you even know if your sister is still alive?? When last did you see her with your eyes?? See talk ooo. Go and check on her abeg. It could even be shame thats stopping her from coming back. Shame of you guys laughing at her. Go and show love to her before you start giving her responsibilities.
A family that can't find money to go and see their sister/daughter to be certain she is fine, to know if she is alive, to know if she is sane, but is more interested in her being present most definitely to pick up some responsibilities or to help look after the aged parents who killed her dreams and still didnt show her love when she needed it the most says a lot to buttress my point. See because a man is a deportee dosent mean he wont be able to stand on his feet and cater for his family. afterall they have been surviving all this years. Even the man knows he has un serious inlaws so he can take them for granted. Imagine if the girls family where more involved and concerned with their number one priority being the well being of their daughter, they won't have been complaining of losing their daughter.The annoying part is the dad is still ashamed of her and is yet to come to terms with reality as he continues to lie about the well being of his daughter. How will he make heaven sef If he dies and does he think his village people don't already know something is up as to no bride price collected yet she is married.? My brother Hustle oooo make them no use you or your family do yeye Family is everything, money or no money, she needs that bond with the mum |
Family › Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by phenylalanine(m): 12:30pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola: Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? Just tell her you don't like what she did, and move on, women will always be women... No go used 5k scattered ur home, all the best |
Romance › Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by phenylalanine(m): 12:25pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Smartb0y: Divorce and take half. Accept the loss for your foolishness. Its the only way you can ever get sense. Half of what? Boxers? Plates? Or kerosene stove? I beg explained |
Health › Re: Body Is Swelling Up Without Cure by phenylalanine(m): 1:41pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Stan2330: from what you complained and the drugs u posted, ur brother is most likely battling with kidney disease My taught, who administer the drugs? an expert shld have run some test to ascertain the cause, pls take your brother to an expert to check is kidney, d earlier the better. |
Politics › Re: Obizoba Chiemelu: Let Us Adopt Governor Yahaya Bello's Approach To Insecurity by phenylalanine(m): 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Emu4life: Even though I'm not one of Yeye Bello's fans, he deserves credit for his strides in Kogi's Security /Safety. He has turned the once Cultists infested Kogi to a Normal state.
If not for Yahaya Bello, Kogi would have been the hotspot/epicenter where these Godless savages/Fulani herdsmen will be orchestrating thier plans of attack with in the North Central and some parts of South but yahaya Bello no gree. He armed local vigilantee officers with good guns and Sienna vehicles for patrol on roads within Kogi. Vigilantees dey put am for Kidnappers body WotoWoto What you don't know is bigger than you, somethings happen and are not in the news |
Family › Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by phenylalanine(m): 3:58pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do? Nothing, be glad you could build a house and ur parent decide to move in, bro there is a lot of empty house, nice one, in this country that as become a shadow of it self because no body lives in side, just make more money, u are blessed |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Lars Vilks Dies In Car Accident (Pictures) by phenylalanine(m): 2:52pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
mohims: It was just his time to die. Who is Prophet Muhammad that cannot be cartooned? I just finished drawing a cartoon of Prophet Muhammad carrying an RPG. If e pain you, go drink sniper. Islam is the worst thing that has ever happened to mankind Let d cartoon be for your own consumption alone pls, we tire of the happening in this country, don't start another |
Family › Re: I Dont Love Who Igot Married To-she Is An American Citizen by phenylalanine(m): 4:51pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
okgerald: Hello,
I am getting married to an American citizen of Nigerian parent. I have a lot to benefit like becoming a citizen myself, leaving Nigeria for good, papers . The thing is i don't feel a thing for her. We were introduced to each other and am not feeling a thing. Is it a good idea to go into this and feign happiness for the rest of my life. If you could tolerate her excessess, then go ahead, even the one u love, u still have to tolerate her |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by phenylalanine(m): 4:01pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
seco1: Samsung home theater hte6730w (Bluray)without speakers from the US is available for 25k. it has fm, cd player, etc. You can surf the internet with it The home theater is working perfectly, without any issue. Surulere, Lagos 08058655713 Image pls |
Romance › Re: I'm In Love With A Married Woman Whose Husband Is In Dubai by phenylalanine(m): 2:46pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
agbolahan1991: Her husband has been away for almost a month, I feel pity though have been having a crush on her right from before she got married, now she has a shop beside our office and I can't get my heart off her each day I see her....
Am a married man too but my wife gives me hell, with her anger, bad mouth and ojukokoro Am not happy as a married man and I really need someone I can talk to, open up to and someone that can relieve the pain in my heart.. Go may peace with your wife |
Pets › Re: Baby Snake by phenylalanine(m): 8:30pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Metalman: Good morning nairalanders. I caught this snake this morning in my back yard. Anyone with ideas on what its food is because I intend keeping it. Maybe rear it and learn the business of rearing snakes. I heard it is a very lucrative business. Thank you guys. Congratulations, don't just come and tell us anything when it turns violent |
Family › Re: Is Marriage For Me? by phenylalanine(m): 4:52pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
zedegit: I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space. I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.
I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.
I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.
I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.
They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?
NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments. I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.
I think the temperament is choleric. U might not find your type and even if you find, it "might" be boring, you have to unlearn something, marriage is for those who are ready to tolerate and not for selfish ppl.. sometimes you have to look out for your partners needs when you have us pill up. |
Education › Re: Why Do Kids From Wealthy Homes Study Very Unpopular Courses? by phenylalanine(m): 11:35am On Sep 25, 2021 |
CrystalSpark: This question has always been on my mind and just now I’m reading, again, that the daughter of President Buhari went to the UK to study Photography. 
Not just her! There’s a noticeable trend even in Naija; a kid from a very wealthy home may go to a university to study music, or catering, or something that isn’t “popular and mainstream”.
The rest of us from not so rich homes will kill ourselves with mechanical, chemical, petro-chemical, electromagnetic engineering Because they did not need it to work, that have been taken care of my their parents |
Romance › Re: How I Handled My Cheating Serious Girl by phenylalanine(m): 12:12am On Sep 25, 2021 |
Deltafynest: I have been dating this girl for more than a year now. We have been committed even with travails here and there sometimes.
I'm a student, she also and she's an orphan. My intention boarded on the idea that she would understand me knowing fully well where i was coming from.
Every week, i began to discover new stuffs mostly on the ground that she has slept with all categories of people in the past including cripple, pastor, someone she's older than, and even her uncle, her former boss too and her boss's brother. Even with all these revelation i was still willing to stay with her. There are secret stuffs that i can't share online about her.
Her ex boyfriend has been a bone in the neck since the start of this relationship. He didn't want to let go so i learnt and the girl has expressed total hatred on the guy. She doesn't even want to hear his name at all.
So she recently travelled and was calling me. One day, she called me that she has something to say, she said she would come to town to tell and because of the intrigue i was able to get her to talk on the phone. She said she has slept with the ex boyfriend since we started the relationship.
Now the main thing is, a pastor once told me that my gf's glory was used for rituals which we suspected the dude being that they dated for over 9 years plus and she was certain it was the guy due to some factors which i can't say.
Things hasn't been easy whenever she is around me mostly when she spends time in my house. Things will just go bad and terrible, doors will just close...
So, when she told me about the guy. She said she did it because she was looking for 20k. I was angry because the period she said she took the money, i remember i had $4500 sent to me and she never asked me for any money.
The matter has been on ground and i have been so pained since cos i know she must have done it with someone else too.
So i travelled to Portharcourt to see her today from Warri even though i was short on cash and had to raise the money to see her. On getting there we trashed the matter out and her sister said i should forget the past so that we can move on. I agreed, i was already getting tired of her shenanigans, so i decided not to be used by this id#ot again. The bit*h even mentioned that the guy has been disturbing her life with calls to come back.
I took the guy's number and called him like a guy man. We have actually related in the past before so we needed no too much introduction. The guy said they are not dating but he is only having time with her and that she would call him to ask for money almost all the time. This girl never told me she was looking for money and i refused. I have always tried my best for her.
After talking, i and the guy agreed to just use her. The guy said i should not take her serious and should just enjoy myself with her. That whenever she go back to town i should call him to take over from that side. So i agreed.
Bit*h will be shocked if she thinks i will take her serious. We will just useless her for years and waste her time. If you see the way we agreed to use her ehn, you will know the hatred is real.
Don't trust these girls. For your mind you want to use her, hmmmm when d consequences go set in pls don't come here to tell us. If u are not interested again walk away. |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Returns Home After Joining APC, Receives Rousing Welcome by phenylalanine(m): 9:08am On Sep 21, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Williams Uchemba Built A House For A Widow Who Lives In An Uncompleted Building by phenylalanine(m): 9:02am On Sep 21, 2021 |
Benki003: God when will someone buy for me Lamborghini Aventador  When will you pay someone school fees, pray God blesses you, not when will someone give you..... |
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