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czarr:
Let me ask you this and answer honestly. If you daughter comes home with a guy with tattoos, a gold teeth, dreadlocks, dyed beards etc. Would you bless the union even if he appears to be a good man?
Or say you have a business would you be comfortable employing a man like that to handle your business?

It's not that all women with tattoos, leg chain or piercings are bad, it's just that enough of them are wild and free spirited (which is another word for loose, someone who goes with the wind) they can be fun for hookup but not for long term relationship that leads to marriage. E get why.

And let's keep it 1000, 90% of women with dyed hair,leg chain, piercings etc are runs girls, let's not act dumb. I'm not saying girls without the above are innocent. But on a balance of probabilities girls those "fashion" are a bad gamble for long term commited relationship.

You should keep your mind open. I work in an office 8-4 where you're required to dress corporately and decently. Without meaning to be immodest, I'm one of the most resourceful staff the establishment has got. My boss doesn't joke with me cause I can multitask.
I wear tattoos (non permanent) in some parts of my body. I have double piercings on my ears. I wear leg chains on some days that I feel like (not to the office on official days). I can dye my hair if I want though I haven't. I wear wigs and weaves whose colours contrast with the tone of my skin. I wear waist beads. I am married. I'm 95% responsible and efficient at work, not one query in my file for all the years. In my first year, I won the staff of the year award. I've won it several times after.

Now the question, would you crucify me, refuse to hire me for being a tattoo-wearing, multiple piercings fielding business executive? It's your loss bro.

And the man that married me? It's been a decade now. We renewed our vows just yesterday on his birthday. He can't wish for another. I'm a Big asset in the marriage.

Those things don't define you. They don't debilitate you in anyway, rather they enhance. Everyone should be free to express themselves in whatever way that pleases them. Just know how to dress to different places where you need to be. That's my take. Again, keep an open mind, you will see beyond your nose if you do.

Dreadlock69:
Yes I'm presently dating one

She so hooked up on me, not even for the sex self cause it's very awful and I know dey perform like IndecentStar wey go make am dey so hook to me , she said I'm different.

She just dey lie lie lie lie dey confuse my destiny , sometimes she go lie for me I go just dey shine teeth my mind

Anyway she be better wify material but no be go marry olosho go show my mama

Tattoo present

Leg chain present

Noise ring present

Dyed hair present

And again she's a single mother of one and way older than me

I don't know about dating a prostitute, it's men issue. But I disagree a bit with your post.

You see dyed hair, pierced nose, leg chain or tattoo doesn't make one a prostitute. It's just a fashion choice. Something like you preferring short-sleeved shirt to long sleeves or me preferring lace material to Ankara. Those things don't define your character. Be flexible in your thinking.

Tonero5200:
Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.

I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored.
his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.
Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.
Seun
Lalasticlala

If na man you be, Leave that relationship and never look back. The brother's mien notwithstanding, don't be intimidated. Stand your ground, him sef no fit take am!

nairalee:
There is No real Epl fan that doesnt know this man

Yes we sabi the referee but e no pay us @ Arsenal. I don't like him officiating our matches. He be Chelsea fan

yakashjr:
CHURCH :- ECWA
BAND LEADER

Good seeing you here. Which of the ECWA churches do you attend? Pray for our brethren in the north. They're killing, maiming, burning churches and their shops. Pray brother.

Edwardagato:
ECWA
Fountain of life chapel, Osogbo
An Usher

Hello my church person!

Asst. Choir Leader/ Praise & Worship leader, Officer of the Girls Brigade

Happy Sunday!

Channah1:
I didn't feel up to it. Besides in my village we don't add the dawa. Its just the way I made it.

Then you are missing. The "iru" locust bean would've stamped the delicacy Gbam!

Nice efforts.

Eiyebiokin:
Yes, a lot of question unanswered. What if she is a smoker and drug addict like them. She can't just be invited just like that when she no be mumu. Boys invited you not a boy. She get the liver for such thing and may the flexing turn otherwise

Like seriously? What kind of human beings reason like this? Ehn? Could it be the level of hardship in this country that is making people's brain depleted and melting per second per billing? Buhari eleyi o da o! So what if she is a smoker or addict? Does that warrant some criminals having a forceful carnal knowledge of her, especially when she's unconscious? If it were on flexing levels, then they don't need to drug her into submission. They all would simply get high together and get down! Common sense after all isn't common.

People like you are the problems we have in Nigeria! See reasoning!

Jashub:
Talking to emotional ìdiots like you is a futile exercise that I do not want to engage.

When you spill everything out, you won't be talking only to Tmberwolf1 but also to all of us that needs education. Oya, let's go there.

Please, don't insinuate she's a willing participant. Since when has going to the bar with a bf, sex partner become a crime?

I'm the one responsible I won't lie. I was a user. Once I'm done, I leave. I always do the leaving. Heart has never been broken. Guilty as charged!
I got deceptive looks - soft, gentle, mummy's girl, church girl kinda look but I'm not innocent, far from it. They don't always see it coming, before they realise it, I've struck and gone. The last episode was over a decade ago though. I've been good and consistent at it.

toujurs:
Wait a minute, with what you typed now. Are you now married . Most of you ladies aren't intelligent at all. If you are still single at this your old age and typed this sh*t. Walaihi ehn. Infact

You are the one NOT intelligent. My post that you quoted is pretty straightforward and devoid of any ambiguity. I am VERY married!

MistarT:
Nigerians everywhere, the era we are is not a joking era, please and please let us call on God (both day and night) to help us and at the same time let's put sentiments aside and come out to vote credibility come 2023. Please, people are sacrificing on several altars and projecting into the sun and moon. Let us call on The One who created all things to help us out, I know you'll say I sound religious but only The Father of lights can set Nigeria free believe this or not, let the travails of the agony and the blood cry out for mercy. Lord do not hold your peace Nigeria needs You, Father do not permit (make effective)any sacrifice of blood on evil altars across the seas, the land, the air. Let Nigeria rise again The Most High do it Father Please.

Amen!

The singular reason why power must not remain in the north. Buhari's nonchalance allowed these criminals to be emboldened and their menace festered as a result of their nobody-can-catch-us attitude. How is it possible that Buhari will think of RUGA for the herdsmen? Na their papa own all the farmlands, that he wants every village to offer them land? I've been looking for a shop now for sometime, I dey my dey nobody see me. I can't wait for 2023 walahi. Part of the reason why I support Tinubu. It's not as if he's that fantastic but if anything, let power just shift first, then other things will follow. Ko ni da fun awon bandit, Fulani herdsmen, Boko Haram and their apologists. Won ma s'ofo danu bi Omi isanwo ni.

President Buhari
Yoruba

Wow! So true!

ModelLook:
They made a huge mistake.

The Best Dressed Female At The AMVCA Goes To The Princess Of Africow James Brown.

This one? This one wey look like rent-a-ghost? Naaaa!

Meley:
She should win the ballon Dior if she can also lead Nigeria to the Awcon title, coupled with her club titles. She deserves next ballon Dior and FIFA best but I doubt FIFA would give the award to a black player

Ballon Dior bawo? Give her Christian Dior instead.

Congratulations Osas!

Congratulations Shaggy man!

This is a well deserving award, a result of hard work. Congratulations sweet sister.

Nikkganc08:
Just as expected.

Most persons protesting there don't even know what they r protesting for.

They are just there for d violence and d looting.


You killed someone that spoke against Allah(SAW) yet started looting shops of innocent people.

That's pure theft.

But I respect everyone's religion.

Whether u believe in God or Allah (SAW).


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sollolucci77:
@first bolded, go and read what the OP said she did because am not sure you read it at all...and you're saying " your own will come" like one man will just magically appear on her doorstep to wife her instead of her to work on herself and character to be found by a man...you women are the reason why you're single for a long time...at 33 shes supposed to have a sense of urgency...you're telling her to just get a man by wishful thinking or some miracle...she should wait now...like husbands are plucked from the tree to marry

This one that came, did she conjure any spirit that brought him her way? Did she lift any finger before he showed up? That's it! You are not God!

johnsonmartina6:
even 27 years still dey find husband,you way he 33 see one,you turn mumu

I have a friend who got married at 40, she's doing well for herself and her marriage is blossoming. A colleague who is way older too got married recently. Stop painting a gloomy picture. Jackal, I pray you get married soon but don't be desperate to hook anyone!

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

Now, this is so disrespectful. You don't even know the poster. You don't know whether she's beautiful or not. You don't have any inkling of her character whether she's well behaved or not. You just opened her file and passed judgement. There's something they call victim of circumstance. That she's not married at age 33 may not be due to any fault of hers. God's timing for everyone cannot be altered. Don't judge people if you haven't walked in their shoes.

You're wondering what she has to offer? How come it's only on Nairaland that many men have had the misfortune to meet and date never-do-wells. If I want to jump to conclusion like you, I'd say maybe it's a case of birds of a feather. Eleha to si Sardine, awo ri awo ni. You're the same thing with those girls.
Some of us are BIG assets to our hubbies and they don't joke with us. I can pass you my husband's number.


OP, call or message him to confirm if he's still interested. If he's not, it's not the end of the world. And if he is, good for you both. Whatever you do, get wisdom, Don't throw yourself at any man. You're valuable, your price is far above rubies, your own will come.

MangekyoAlt:
Let it be a religious matter. You're a poor little shit head if you think Christians are gonna, like you've said, because of 2023, overlook the unjust and brutal killings of a Christian by wild beasts like yourself and your house hold.
The likes of IPOB in the east will even be hoping that this escalates, because if all Christians agree that enough is enough, this country will divide into two and you barbarians will go your ways. I'm from south south, I don't think I've really supported the division of Nigeria before now. I 100% do as I type this. We've been living with wild animals, calling them fellow citizens. It needs to change

Really wild animals. What manner of human being would cause blood to flow out of another human? What manner of human will purposefully set another ablaze and not cringe? Even animals protect themselves. These people belong to the age of homosapiens! They have refused to evolve despite everything. And to think there are several others, like the one in this thread, endorsing their crude acts. You'd think education, civilization, exposure would change them, for where? Haba!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Am gud man..


Majority of SMOKERS started with CIGARETTE and graduate to WEED then hate taken CIGARETTE..


Because now WEED gives them the highness they need.. the jinger, the SWAGGER, the mind and INSPIRATION to relate wit the WISDOM of 3 WISE men..


sometimes u get to see SPIRITS if u HIGH a better WEED.


sorry back to ur question...



As I said majority of SMOKERS started with CIGARETTE , later de stop CIGARETTE and log into WEED as u take de log in NL..


Hardly u see someone who SMOKES WEED and does not SMOKE CIGARETTE..


I have a friend.. after he finish SMOKING WEED, he use half Stick of CIGARETTE to step it DOWN!



REMEMBER, majority started with CIGARETTE and graduated to WEED then hate CIGARETTE...


Some SMOKE both... I only SMOKE CIGARETTE if the place I am don't allow WEED SMOKING..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Aight! Thanks GanjaMan!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram thanks my Gee!


I feel u!


but na cigarettes I de SMOKE 4 here, u no fit SMOKE WEED for dis ASHAWOO hotel so I decide cure my self wit cigarettes, wen I reach house I go LITE up WEED!


WTF MAN!

My man, how do you do?

Just asking you this on a need-to-know basis.

Is there any weed smoker who doesn't smoke cigarettes? As in if you dey smoke weed, is it compulsory you must sabi how to smoke cigarettes? Just being curious.

post=112797263:
Good start from there.
This must be condemn by everybody


We keep wondering,
If these so called undergraduates can behave in an animalistic way like this and show this level of intolerance, what do we expect from the stark illiterates that do not even know what education is?

In this 21st century?
This is alarming.
This is petryfying.
This is Barbaric.
This must be condemn from all angles.

The evil perpetrators must be brought to book like NOW!!!

Do you know the most frightening thing? I was on a media page and many comments came in supporting the killing. Some even dared christians to come to Sokoto, that there'll be more killings. Are those not potential terrorists? If this were in a saner clime, they will immediately be put under watchlist. Here, we'll fold our arms until another evil happens and the politicians, as usual, will come out to condemn the acts and everything ends there.

WhizdomXX:
I know the movie. I've forgotten it's name, but I can describe bit from start to finish.

Name or no prize

Atticusxsz:
Gladiator

You are right!

What about this one....

Everyone who craps on you is not necessarily your enemy, and everyone who gets you out of crap is not your friend, and if you are warm and happy no matter where you are, you should just keep your big mouth shut!


Then...

Everyone lies in this business, I accept that. But we all draw lines somewhere, and the two sides of that line are us and them. And whatever we had you and I, whatever trust we built up over a decade of me protecting you and teaching you everything I know, you destroyed it when you lied to me and you treated me like them. Like every other schmuck in this building. So when you said you understand, is that what you mean?

YoungBlackRico:
Gladiator na

Correct. I can watch it a hundred times

Now this quote is from one of my favourite movies. Guess which is it...

My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius, commander of the Armies of the North, General of the Felix Legions, loyal servant to the true emperor, Marcus Aurelius. Father to a murdered son, husband to a murdered wife. And I will have my vengeance, in this life or the next.

BusterG:
"Peppi will come, he loves to dance."

The Last Don