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ba7man:
Rather, it was Africans that waged war and slave raids on other Africans with the aim of capturing slaves to be sold.

The White folks just sat back sipping wine in slave camps waiting for their arrivals.

See revisionist history fed to African Americans. Ignorance is bad. See below

DodadaKoKigbe:
so, the idol yahweh sent his people to use guns to kill your ancestors and the idol allah use he sword to kill your ancestors AND you're here celebrating these idols and their evil deeds.

I think you are a bit confused and conflating different things. Religious conversion (forced in the case of Islam) came after defeat. Africans could see for themselves that adherents of the imported religions were cleaner, more humane, had better jobs and more money. Who no like good thing?

BoldBrainz:
The song sweet die !

And it aptly vibes with the current societal realities. Juss play am, dance go wan kill you.

Not bad. P-Square rarely disappoint


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjIbIjgn1fo

BoldBrainz:
On behalf of TemplarLandry and Bola Tinubu's government, I dedicate "E no easy" by P-square to you, my brother..

I'll check it out. Thanks. I hope e sweet, inspired. Not another forced song

BoldBrainz:
What song are you dedicating today?

Or you've suddenly run out of musical contents seeing how your Saviour's government is already falling apart in just 2 months?

TemplarLandry no mind them, keep dedicating the songs. You've actually made me aware of some good songs or their artists. Not everybody is versed in music.
I'm staunchly OBIDIENT by the way

Hanndye:
What can we call this?

You can call it starting of a revolution.
I knew it was comming, didn't know it'd come this soon though

DodadaKoKigbe:
So, allah and yahweh the Abrahamic idols are so powerful. Then how come they have not been able to save Nigeria from poverty and suffering?

In the case of Christianity, they showed them while defeating them (with dane guns!) that their gods were not only powerless, but that true Christianity was a more humane, loving way of being.
In the case of Islam they left you two choices: convert to Islam or call those your powerful gods to come save you from certain death!

DodadaKoKigbe:
The love and respect I have for Nigerians who practice their traditional religion is BEYOND words.

In the midst of millions who bow down to foreign gods and foreign ancestors. They still have the high self-esteem to practice indigenous spirituality. These are the REAL Africans.

How the Arabs/Europeans were able to convince Africans that African ancestors are evil but the Arab/Jewish/European ancestors Mohammed/Jesus are holy is the BIGGEST scam in the history of scams.

They didn't convince them, they DEFEATED them together with their powerful gods who, they saw for themselves, turned out to be powerless!

AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you where you displayed your foolishness. Tye White man himself has NEVER for once denied the potency of African powers.

I can see you trying hard to buy into whiteness. Try harder! You still never be White!

Wannabe!

Yeah, that's why tiny Britain colonized not just giant Nigeria, but half of Africa plus gargantuan India and all their wonderful disappearing juju and bullet proof ideshi. And what supernatural did they use to do all that? A dane gun!

AllenSpencer:
Scam!

Even though I believe in the potency of black power and seen it work, I am also a believer that it will always fail when you need the most.

I once asked my scientist why it happens that way, and he said it’s because we don’t use it SOLELY for the purpose it was created for.

Digixtreme:
All the charms most of you are saying why couldn't he disappear, why couldn't he do this and that... This guy I mean has told you, he isn't owing anyone and his hands are clean, why should he dissappear. There comes a time in life and all wisdom must you create room for dialogue.
These charms like odeshi, disappear acts, etc are the most easiest and common charms out there. For a very young guy like Akwa to have acted the way he did, I still respect him. He has the money to delve into deeper understanding of the supernatural.

Gullible mumus, especially the second poster.
People like these are why Africa will remain FOREVER backward. People that are hoping one day Africa will meet up are wasting their time. Because we have too many people like these two!

EdiskyHarry:
If Nigeria was a serious country, buhari, Goodwin emefiele, sadiya and others would have began their 25 years imprisonment journey now

In that case a certain bullion van guy would have been long locked up for continuing looting of a state even after leaving governorship office

damkin24:
He's wealthy so he decided to use it. Obi that claimed to be reacher than US president can as well use it but for obvious reasons he won't so as to continue pretending as Saint

Mind you, the unmentioned bullion van politician we're talking about hadn't had any known source of income for years before the bullion van incident!

MR. Obi on the other hand is obviously a very decent human being, and the most modest public official EVER to rise to high level in Nigerian politics. His frugality with public funds is legendary, and his insistence on cost cutting made him a pariah among I-chop-you-chop godfathers of Anambra politics. So you can spew propaganda as you wish, people can sense decency in a person, likewise they can sense a thief!

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10 Things That Causes Men So Much Stress In Marriage.

by ALL SINGLE AND MARRIED on July 28, 2023

1. MARRYING THE WRONG WOMAN. 
When a man rushes into marrying a woman, he lands himself in trouble. It is so difficult to take pride in a home with a woman you do not truly love. If you two started on the wrong footing and wrong motives, make things right. Learn to love, if you are having trouble, seek counseling. Be honest. 

2. DOING A JOB THAT ONE HATES. 
You shouldn't grow old and retire doing a job that you hate. We spend most of our time at work so do something you love. If you don't like your job, plan your exit strategy to work that will bring you fulfillment. 


3. PENT UP EMOTIONS. 
This is what causes so many men to self-destruct and even contemplate or attempt suicide. When a man has no idea of how to deal with his emotions, he can easily explode. It starts with accepting that you have emotions as a man, allowing yourself to feel and express your emotions. Learn to talk to someone, but above all, learn to talk to yourself. 


4. SEXUAL BLUNDERS. 
Orgasms can be thrilling but when a man pursues them in the wrong woman/s, after the high, it eats him up inside. Most men who cheat or who play around with women pretend to be tough on the outside even when they get caught, but inside it unsettles them. Pursue sexual responsibility and you will be at peace. 


5. FORCING ONESELF INTO BUSINESS. 
Not everyone is meant to be an entrepreneur. Don't jump into business hoping to cash in like your peers. If you don't have the passion and business acumen, you will burn yourself and your cash. Maybe you are best suited in playing a role in building a collective vision of employment. 


6. HAVING AN UNAPPRECIATIVE AND DEMANDING WOMAN. 
When you have a materialistic woman who demands things from you and who barely notices any good you do, you'll feel deflated. Avoid such a woman. If you are already married to such, correct her with grace and love, request to be more appreciative, and value other things in life than the material. 


7. TAKING UP UNNECESSARY LOANS. 
Train yourself to say NO to borrowing. Protect yourself from sinking into a culture of taking up loans to pay other loans. Learn to live within your means. Take loans only when necessary and when you know you can pay them back as you strive towards surplus. Shake off the shackles of debt. 


8. DOING THINGS THAT BRING ABOUT GUILT. 
Any habit that you engage in that brings you temporary pleasure then lasting guilt will stress you. Each time you do it, you will feel you are making one step forward, then two steps back. Overcome this habit. You cannot be battling this year after year. 


9. UNPREPAREDNESS FOR FATHERHOOD. 
Be active in family planning, don't let it be the woman's responsibility only. Don't be surprised to be a father; psychologically, socially, financially, emotionally, and spiritually prepare to be a father. If you are already a father, rise to the occasion, man up. 


10. SOCIETAL PRESSURE. 
Society tends to be heartless to men and will give you deliverables that if you don't meet, society will make you feel less of a man. Don't depend on society to define you, define yourself. Be your own man
 
©️ Dayan Masinde

Here's the rest if the article:


2. A romantic husband is a listener. I mean your wife will literally " worship" you if you give her a listening ear. It makes her feel wanted and valued, it makes her feel precious. When your wife comes to You about an issue bothering her, and you pay rapt attention, and you hold her hands as she is speaking, if she ends up crying, get closer to her and wipe away her tears with your lips men. I mean kiss her tears away, tell her it will be alright, and when saying this, look into her eyes, that alone will give her a strong affirmation. She will love you.

3. A romantic husband cooks for his wife When she feels lazy to cook, he feeds her when she feels lazy to eat. He lets her eat out of his plate even when she has her food on her plate. They might end up eating up his food together.

4. A romantic husband's practicality becomes " submissive " to his wife. Now a lot of you might get this wrong and say what do I mean by submissive to his wife? He lets his wife have her way with him. Okay she might come home from work and the first thing she wants is to lie on your chest, you might be tired, but he just surrenders his chest for her to lie on.

She might want to use your phone, and you might want to use it too, but he just ends up giving it to her. The two of you might be watching the news, but she might not be interested, cause she wants to watch a movie, a romantic man will just let her watch her movie because he will google the news later on his phone. He just let her have his way with him, not that he is foolish, but he sees her as his baby.

5. A romantic husband puts his wife to sleep when she can't sleep. She might be having difficulty in sleeping, romantic men sing for their ways till she sleeps, or she cuddles her to sleep, or he strokes her hair, kisses her checks till she sleeps off. It's not a hard thing to do honestly.

7. A romantic husband lets his wife wear his shirt and boxer shorts. So some men can't stand their wives wearing their clothes, but a man who truly loves his wife sees no big deal in it. It could be on a Saturday after the house chores and your wife doesn't know what to wear, you can offer her your clothes she will feel good.

8. A romantic husband satisfies his wife. So we all know that sex is only for the married. Men like this when they meet with their wives, their main aim is to please her..that smile they see on her face during the act gives them joy. They are not there to see what they can get from her, but what they can give her.

9. A romantic husband prays for his wife. Anytime he goes before God he lifts his wife before God asking God to help her. And he also prays to God to help him be a better husband.

10. Lastly a romantic husband apologizes first even when he is not wrong just for peace to reign. This kind of man is mature because he is so close to his wife, he stands to talk to her for a day, so he tries to bring peace anytime they have a misunderstanding.

I pray that God makes your marriage better and that when others see your marriage they will wish to have your kind of marriage because you have depicted the true picture of what marriage truly is.

What did you expect. This is TINUBU we're talking about for crysake!
Birds of a feather

Curious345:
Great man

The way we use some English words eh

Same age as my paps

sonssyo:
He came to my workplace today,soludo likes speaking English eehhh

He has one kind voice sha.
I know sycophants must have been telling him he has a great voice - which will of course lead to talking too much!

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Jealousy is lack of trust in ourselves.
When we're insecure about our relationships and our appeal to our partner, their attraction to us, then we feel jealousy.
Because that casual interaction with another person might be the start of them ultimately leaving.

Jealousy comes out of a lack of trust; lack of trust in the process of life, in your partner, in yourself.
Lack of trust breeds insecurity, which creates jealousy; we stifle these feelings because they are uncomfortable.

We Rise.[/quote][quote author=IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.

You have a point BUT it takes enormous maturity indeed to not be jealous when you truly romantically "love" someone. You'll tend to overreact towards anyone or anything that portends any danger at all to your relationship. Which is why romantic love itself is irrational, a form of madness

Sickness of immaturity and inexperience

pansophist:
There is no relationship between trust and jealousy. I've never heard anyone said "I trust/don't trust him thats why I'm jealous/not jealous of him".

But when it comes to love, then yes, there is a relationship between jealousy and love.

Jealousy is wanting what someone have, and it's possible to be jealous about what your your beloved has.

E.g, I could be jealous because my brother is taller or more handsome than me,. Or my girlfriend is richer and has more romantic options than me.

Mr. Pansophist you totally miss the definition of jealousy being discussed.
It is NOT jealousy as in "I want what he has".
It is "romantic jealousy", as in feeling bad that your girl greets or smiles at another guy, or not being able to stand the thought of your girl being with another guy and always suspicious that maybe she has.
Now you know the definition, let's get your two cents

DMerciful:
Read about Gbagbo of Ivory Coast!

If Tinubu refused to leave, he'll be dealt with. Nigeria democracy is not child's play

You still refuse to answer the question:
Dealt with by WHOM?
Same question arose when people were saying sky would fall if Tinubu was inaugurated - who exactly would make the sky fall??

DMerciful:
By the law enforcement agencies...the police or DSS or military. Once a new president is pronounced, he becomes commander in chief

Sooo why didn't they remove those who overthrew duly and popularly elected governments while in control of ONLY the army. In this case ALL enforcement agencies are headed by Tinubu boys who revere him for bringing them from obscurity

Bobloco:
Tinubu do claim that he is a democrat, so as a guydemocrat, If the courts sack him, he won't stay a minute beyond

So we're back to my initial statement - he can only leave VOLUNTARILLY!

DMerciful:
He will be removed immediately. He has no power once the court says so

Removed by WHO?

Very good OP, and no "click here for the rest". Kudos

jeromestarks:
I just did.

Open relationship with a woman who cheated on you is also a form of revenge.
According to you, women hate it. That's revenge.

Better to make it clear than be sneaking around like lots of men do.
Men are monogamous by nature (remember they did not make themselves - nature did), and women are definitely NOT. Men also like being FREE. So, generally speaking, commitment favors a woman and is easy for her, while open relationship favors a man!

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Essentials of Drop Servicing: A Comprehensive Guide
Posted by Christian on July 27, 2023 at 8:21 pm
What is drop servicing?

Drop servicing is a business model that has gained popularity recently, particularly in the online entrepreneurial space. It is a variation of the more well-known concept of “dropshipping,” but instead of selling physical products, drop servicing involves selling services.

In drop servicing, the process typically works like this:

Service Selection: The drop servicing entrepreneur identifies a range of services they want to offer. These services could be anything from graphic design, web development, content writing, and social media management to more specialized tasks like SEO optimization or video editing.

Building a Website or Platform: The entrepreneur creates a website or platform where they can showcase these services to potential customers. This website acts as a storefront for the services they intend to offer.

Outsourcing Services: Here’s where the “drop” in drop servicing comes into play. When a customer orders a service, the drop servicing entrepreneur doesn’t fulfill the service themselves. Instead, they outsource the task to a third-party freelancer or agency, often from platforms like Upwork, Fiverr, or other freelance marketplaces.

Coordinating and Quality Assurance: The drop servicing entrepreneur is the middleman between the customer and the service provider. They coordinate the project, ensure it’s completed to the customer’s satisfaction, and may even add their own value by providing project management or quality assurance services.

Profit: The drop servicing entrepreneur charges the customer a higher price for the service than they pay to the service provider. The difference between what the customer pays and what the entrepreneur pays to the freelancer or agency becomes the profit for the drop-servicing business.

The appeal of drop servicing lies in its low startup costs and the potential for high-profit margins. As the entrepreneur doesn’t need to create the service themselves, there is no need for them to have specific skills or expertise in the field. However, effective project management, excellent customer service, and a strong network of reliable freelancers are crucial for success in this business model.

Is drop servicing profitable?

Like any business model, the profitability of drop servicing depends on various factors. When executed strategically with a focus on customer satisfaction and efficient service delivery, drop servicing can indeed be profitable. Here are some key points to consider:

Profit Margins: Drop servicing can offer high-profit margins because the entrepreneur sets the service price higher than what they pay to the service provider. The difference between these two amounts becomes the profit.

Low Overhead Costs: One of the significant advantages of drop servicing is its low startup costs. Since there’s no need to hold inventory or invest in physical products, the primary expenses are related to website development, marketing, and customer support. This cost-effectiveness contributes to potential profitability.

Scalability: Drop servicing can be scaled relatively easily as the business grows. As long as there is a steady demand for the services offered, the entrepreneur can expand the range of services or collaborate with more freelancers or agencies, increasing revenue without substantial infrastructure changes.

Outsourcing Efficiency: The success of drop servicing relies on the ability to find and collaborate with reliable and skilled freelancers or agencies. Establishing a strong network of service providers consistently delivering quality work can lead to more satisfied customers and repeat business.

Market Demand and Competition: Profitability also depends on the demand for the services offered and the level of competition in the niche. Identifying profitable niches with less saturated markets can improve the chances of success.

Customer Satisfaction: Happy customers are more likely to become repeat clients and refer others, which can lead to increased sales and profitability. Providing excellent customer service and ensuring that outsourced services meet or exceed customer expectations are critical factors in this regard.

Risk Management: As with any business, drop servicing has inherent risks. For example, if a service provider fails to deliver as expected, it could lead to negative reviews or refund requests, affecting the reputation and profitability of the business. Mitigating such risks through proper project management and contingency planning is essential.

Is drop servicing legal?

Yes, drop servicing is legal as long as it operates within the bounds of the law and adheres to relevant regulations. Drop servicing, in essence, involves acting as an intermediary or middleman between customers and service providers, facilitating the outsourcing of services to third-party freelancers or agencies. As long as all parties involved in the transaction are operating legally and the services being offered are legitimate, there is no inherent illegality in the drop servicing business model itself.

However, some important legal considerations drop servicing entrepreneurs should be aware of to ensure compliance:

Service Provider Contracts: When outsourcing services to freelancers or agencies, it is essential to have clear contractual agreements in place. These contracts should outline the scope of work, payment terms, confidentiality clauses, intellectual property rights, and any other relevant terms to protect the interests of all parties involved.

Customer Agreements: The terms of service for customers should also be clearly stated and accessible on the drop servicing platform or website. This agreement should include information about the services offered, pricing, refund policies, and any other relevant terms and conditions.

Intellectual Property: Be cautious not to violate any copyrights, trademarks, or patents when promoting services or using content on your platform. Ensure that you have the necessary permissions to use any intellectual property others own.

Taxation and Business Registration: Depending on your country or region, you may need to register your drop servicing business and comply with tax regulations. Be sure to consult with a legal or tax professional to understand your obligations in this regard.

Consumer Protection Laws: Make sure your drop servicing business complies with consumer protection laws in your jurisdiction. Providing accurate information about services, honoring refund policies, and addressing customer complaints promptly and fairly are important aspects of compliance.

Data Protection and Privacy: If you collect and store customer data, complying with data protection and privacy laws is essential. Ensure that you have proper data handling procedures in place and obtain consent when necessary.

As with any business venture, it’s always wise to seek legal advice to ensure that your drop servicing business operates in full compliance with the laws and regulations of your specific location.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvzMHjkYxFQ

jeromestarks:
What are you; a male, female or confused?

Oh sorry I didn't check your moniker.
You're the dude obsessed with virgin
Virgin on the brain

*go back and read my modified post

jeromestarks:
Men don't forgive cheating. Once you cheat on him and he found out, please leave the relationship.

False statement right off the bat. Lots of men (not all) wouldn't mind an open relationship, which most ladies would hate!

Goalnaldo:
Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992) About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes". I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me?

PS; I'm not a virgin

I can bet u she's lying - trying to form experienced player. Probably just managed to finally lose her virginity. Girls are never honest about that kinda stuff.
Those with very high body counts will pretend virgin!
Either that or she's stylishly trying to tell you you're not the one