Ever8090: braking into the new year hour, I was in church with my wife that God had given me just waiting for his gracious perfection for manifestation...we have come a long way and I love her so much....poverty is bad, poverty keeps you away from your desires for so long,but this time, except God does not exist, my joy will begin with my wife by my side. Together we will build a new home, new life and a prosperous family, we will be together we go the way of all human.
Nguavese," I know you may not see this, but you are my ever love, the only woman I see my future with, in you and with you, I see a new me and a new world!..promised to love and cherish you beyond your imagination.!
Stay safe for me untill the lord perfects his plans for us.
What is holding me from this bundle of joy now is Money! Money!! Money!!!..
Oh dear God! You work in mysterious ways, you makes a way where it seems not to be a way, you make the impossible possible that is why I have come to you at this point, my heart desires are in front of your throne at thy feet of mercies,..may you look down upon me with your compassionate eyes and touch me with your hand tenderly with compassion and your grace will be upon me, not because I deserve it, but because of your grace and loving kindness.
Dear God, above all ' let your will be done acording to your purpose!!!.....all this I ask trough Christ Jesus.
Unique357: My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.
But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.
Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.
I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?
Nah. This type don’t need to be dealt in a calm way. Trust me, when you want to deal with her, pretend that children are not involved, if not she would ruin the happiness you have sooner or later. Petition her to the Police that she is harassing your life and that if anything happens to you and/or your girlfriend, she should be held responsible. The Police will invite her and she will let you be. If you don’t nip it in the bud,(Godforbid) it might become a huge problem in the future. Some women eh!
Ficient: I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.
You can leave to the UK. Never tell anyone that you are traveling abroad. Put someone in charge of your farm business. Take leave from your office. If after 2 months, God helps you and you get your feet, then you can resign from your work. But please don’t resign cos a bird in hand is worth 1 million in the bush
Goodlyhrt: The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one.
My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage.
The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again.
This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country.
Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months.
Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt.
My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata.
My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos.
The story is long I'd have to stop here.
After taking her to the hospital, also take her to Mountain of Fire Church for deliverance
jedisco: Would be good to get the full details of what transpired. There's no excuse for violence also, some folks see Uber drivers as people they can trample on
[quote author=lalasticlala post=108613897]Wolf Mimii shares a story of how her mother was attacked by Uber driver and how Uber handled the case by deleting her account.
https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1472191840657055751.html Sorry for your Mum’s injury. However, there are two sides to a story. If you see where ladies insult and even manhandle Uber/ bolt drivers as if they are not human beings, you will be so shocked! I am not absolving the guy of the incident neither am I agitating for your Mum but I am just saying first hand experience of what these drivers go through with their female clients especially the slay queens
HushNews: A little Nigerian kid put up a stunt in defiance to her mum that has made her an internet sensation and got many talking The angry girl observedly packed her bags and headed for the gate after being scolded by her mother Pleas from her mother to rescind her decision seemed to fuel the kid's anger as she bolted out like an adult
Her mum could be seen hilariously appealing to the kid to change her mind, a plea that seemed to be falling on deaf ears.
Like an adult, the kid stormed out of the house with her bags, stealing glances back at her mum
Fiscus105: Yoruba says,.....if your yam produce is big, you cover it to eat..
Since military lady too wanted to slay with underage, let her face consequence.
Which one is underage again? There are Corp members and there are Corp members, no be every Corp member be person wey just commot from school come go serve. Some are already established and just need the certificate
Kellie069: Children Are gifts from God!! I pray Almighty God bless the homes of those in need of the fruit of the womb! Next year nor go pass it una by
This is terrible. She is dirty and lacks manners. I pity the husband, mere looking at the wife, she looks like his aunty. This is gender based violence O! Some men are suffering in their marriages.Smh!
ngoziwrites: So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.
It's almost 2 months since we have been together.
He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.
I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.
He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.
Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.
Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility" I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.
He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!
So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.
If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.
We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.
About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.
Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-
I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.
We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.
But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.
If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.
My only advice to you is that you should never sleep with him, show him you love him genuinely but after some months, just act nonchalantly and watch his reaction. Then if he asks you what happened, then open up and ask him what he really wants in this relationship
officialwdhtv: Problem in Edo State as two (2) men impregnate little girl and fight for custody of the child.
One of them apparently took care of the girl until she gave birth while the other surfaced a few months after the baby boy was born to take the child thereby causing commotion.
The Chairperson of Dowen College Parents’ Forum, I beg to say is not serious. Is it candle light service that will bring succor to Sylvester’s parents or to the parents of those children who are bullied in the school and afraid to speak up? Abeggi!
Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.
There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.
Before, I delve into the main discuss , let me quickly highlight how it all started.
Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.
He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.
So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me. That was how I got to meet bro.
Now fastforward to the main reason of this post. There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!
I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?
If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?
Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where? Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?
I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free. I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.
He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.
The big question is .. WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?
COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?
IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?
Well I think most men would not want vasectomy because the idea of being able to impregnate a woman always boost their ego. So in order to balance the equation and in order not to look one side, tell him that he does vasectomy and you will do tubal ligation, so that the probability of anyone having a baby for an outsider will be ruled out
Congrats to her. But then being a single father/mother not as a result of death of a partner or divorce is never an achievement. Moral values is gradually disappearing from our society which is not encouraging at all. It’s well
It’s news because in our generation, a lot of godly principles are seen as impossible to accomplish and as such thrown out of the window which is not good
ManirBK: The charges are just "terribly outrageous!" And some of the banks like mine, don't give debit alert on those useless charges. Just deposit 200k in your account if you have 20k the next time you would deposit 100k instead of getting a balance of 320k you will get like 319, 850. Just imagine?!
karnap: It was indeed glorious day for business administration students National diploma as they are the first set to ever graduated at the ikorodu campus They started the journey in 2018,it suppose to finished in 2020 but because of the global pandemic it reached out to 2021.
But my major concerns is the signout polo slighted on this particular student of the institutions.
The caption is * LASPOTECH no Hard,Just Buy Textbook* The write up could be encouraging and can be discouraging It depends how you reasons it. This guy could be insulting lecturer and he could be encouraging students to buy and reads their textbooks and pass exam. Go Through it He also has another wonderful write up at his back ....* TIME to learn work* I guessing he is mocking the.lack of work in the labour market in the country.
One word for it is envy. Some people are always happy seeing you poor and always begging them (that’s because in that state, they can always control you) but once things begin to get better for you, they become uneasy and envious
Moreign001: Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.
I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.
I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.
We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...). We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..
She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.
So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.
Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites. Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".
Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.
This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her. Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys. Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.
Women rush to get married because of their biological clock. That’s why you see ladies marry who is ready and not who they love cos sometimes, who they truly love is not ready to settle down
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