yemite100: I made a post about a month ago on Nairaland about my landlord. He gave me a quit notice when my rent is yet to due, we have not been in good terms, I was rest assured that I still have three months left so no need to panic.
I got home now and saw carpenters removing the roof of my apartment with two abled young men which I haven't seen their face before, the roof of my apartment has been removed now.
I went to the nearby station to lodge a complain but I was told the man had come earlier, and told the police has giving me quit notice that he wants to renovate his house.
It's really a hard time for me and my siblings, getting a quick accomodation. He never informed us of renovating the apartment, I just lost my job last week and this is happening to me again.
My life is in a mess right now as I don't know where to start from, this is just a challenge for me and I will stay stronger and fight this battle till the end, probably God is preparing me for a better place ahead....
Get a lawyer, make sure you snap the house without the roof. You can make money from this. Let the lawyer sue on your behalf. Where do you reside
Maks27: Having a girlfriend is the last thing on my mind now but there is this girl that's forcing herself on me.
In the street this girl announced to everyone that she is my girlfriend when I have never asked her out.
If I go out and she sees me, she will hold my hands, hug me and even try to kiss me in presence of people so they will think we are dating.
What happened today made me annoyed, we had our Global prayer walk in RCCG today and when we reached out destination everyone looked for bike to go home. This girl forced herself on the bike I took and sat down in between in front of everyone. She will appear in my house without permission, wash my clothes. Call me I don't know why.
She is fine and okay as a lady o. Infact alot of guys in the street are hailing me for having the best girl in the street but I am not just into her and any girl for now.
People of Nairaland how do I settle this matter
How can she appear in your house and wash your clothes if you don’t let her in. You are not telling us the whole truth
robosky02: Eto’o declared biological father of 22-year-old Spanish woman
A Madrid court on Thursday declared former Barcelona striker, Samuel Eto’o, as the biological father of a 22-year-old Spanish woman, Erika Do Rosario Nieves.
Eto’o declared himself in absentia and did not attend to the evidence presented against him in court.
This has been indicated to EFE by lawyer Fernando Osuna, who was in charge of the legal representation of Nieves’ lawsuit in 2018.
Nieves’ mother and Eto’o met, according to the lawsuit, in a Madrid nightclub in 1997, when the Cameroon legend was on loan at Leganes.
The mother disclosed that, during the pregnancy, she tried to communicate with the former Chelsea attacker, but he did not answer her phone calls or emails.
She provided biological evidence that supported her testimony, which made the judge admit the claim, although Eto’o never met the court’s requirements.
Eto’o must now pay Nieves 1,400 euros per month, including retroactive payments since the lawsuit was filed.
Mhistasaints: Hello guys! I need a simple advice. I am a married man, my ex-girlfriend is also married. I've been married for 2years now and she got married 2months ago. When I got married, she told me she was disappointed at me, that why couldn't I come and beg her when she said no. She was the one that left me in the relationship telling me that her people say that I was too young and had nothing. I focused, achieved and got married at 23yrs.
Of late, she chatted me up and we discussed. She started being too intimate to the extent of trying to discussing her sexual marital life with me on her she doesn't like having sex with her husband. Few days ago, she started asking me for money. I am sensing something fishy.
What do I do?
What should you do? Cut all ties with her, in fact block her on all social media account and even her phone number because that’s how it starts. From gisting to ‘I don’t know how it happened’. Flee from her and focus on your marriage
jaybenugo: Businessman and philanthropist, Olakunle Churchill took to his Instagram handle to celebrate his wife, Rosy Meurer on her 30th birthday today, IGBERETV reports.
He shared new photos of Rosy Meurer, with the caption;
kenbee: The poor nigger was unfortunate and the so called soldier was too lucky, if it were me, I will give him the beating of his life time. "Soldier my ass"
When you are guilty, the strength to fight back will just disappear
general111: your mum is this way because you allowed her. Parents will always try to control the choices of their grown ups. Just ignore your mum and start the marriage preparations, get married to your boo and move on. Overtime, she will just change
But you can’t start marriage preparations like that na, who will collect the bride price?
Tejumola856: I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!
Omicron007: Examination is actually the spoiler and vibe killer in schools. But, no one can actually progress in school without writing exams.
A lot of desperation and seriousness comes with examinations. Students try to avoid carry-overs while others aim at making the highest grades possible.
I was in the examination hall one certain day. In the middle of the exam, I just went blank. I wasted more than four minutes trying to write severe. To make matters worse, the guy sitting to my right was our pastor and no matter the situation, he won't reply you during examination. He later came and met me after the exam to apologize.
Share your own experience.
Yes, how to spell ‘is’. I sat down there thinking and thinking until the Holy Spirit came to my rescue. Mehn! It wasn’t funny
NnolimNzubechi: Hello Nairalanders. It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me
Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..
Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.
So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol. I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him
So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.
So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.
What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..
Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke
Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....
Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa ... My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??
Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks
You should be thanking God that your father has told you to come back home. Young man you should be serious with your life and break this addiction because it’s killing you slowly, that’s why your Dad isn’t happy. For the fact your Dad punished you, doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, it only goes to show that he doesn’t want you to end up smoking like him and even dying due to your health issues. Try to make your Dad proud by quitting those things he hate.
So sorry for what is happening. The only reason I would employ you to fight to get your husband back is because, if he starts sleeping around, the probability of you getting an infection from him is high. Go to any Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries’ bookshop, buy Prayer Rain by Dr. D. K Olukoya, you would see prayers for this type of issue. Pray it consistently with faith, then wait for the result. You don’t need to call your husband, he will be the one to look for you
Kloppo: What if it is a situation in which there are lots of flats in the compound or the guy was the one who completed and furnitured the house where he lives with his parents....
he should abandon all this and go house hunting in Lagos where the house are expensive and not even as standard as that which he is to leave behind
If there are lots of flats in the compound and all the flats belong to them, they can pick one of the flats to live in, if he was the one that built it for his parents, then he should leave it for them and get an apartment. He should go house hunting after all, if he didn’t have a place to stay in Lagos, wouldn’t he go house hunting? See eh, the Bible has clearly stated that a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife because the two are now one flesh. The earlier this is understood, the better for every home