Mhistasaints: Hello guys! I need a simple advice. I am a married man, my ex-girlfriend is also married. I've been married for 2years now and she got married 2months ago. When I got married, she told me she was disappointed at me, that why couldn't I come and beg her when she said no. She was the one that left me in the relationship telling me that her people say that I was too young and had nothing. I focused, achieved and got married at 23yrs.
Of late, she chatted me up and we discussed. She started being too intimate to the extent of trying to discussing her sexual marital life with me on her she doesn't like having sex with her husband. Few days ago, she started asking me for money. I am sensing something fishy.
What do I do?
What should you do? Cut all ties with her, in fact block her on all social media account and even her phone number because that’s how it starts. From gisting to ‘I don’t know how it happened’. Flee from her and focus on your marriage
jaybenugo: Businessman and philanthropist, Olakunle Churchill took to his Instagram handle to celebrate his wife, Rosy Meurer on her 30th birthday today, IGBERETV reports.
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kenbee: The poor nigger was unfortunate and the so called soldier was too lucky, if it were me, I will give him the beating of his life time. "Soldier my ass"
When you are guilty, the strength to fight back will just disappear
general111: your mum is this way because you allowed her. Parents will always try to control the choices of their grown ups. Just ignore your mum and start the marriage preparations, get married to your boo and move on. Overtime, she will just change
But you can’t start marriage preparations like that na, who will collect the bride price?
Tejumola856: I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.
What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.
The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.
Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!
Omicron007: Examination is actually the spoiler and vibe killer in schools. But, no one can actually progress in school without writing exams.
A lot of desperation and seriousness comes with examinations. Students try to avoid carry-overs while others aim at making the highest grades possible.
I was in the examination hall one certain day. In the middle of the exam, I just went blank. I wasted more than four minutes trying to write severe. To make matters worse, the guy sitting to my right was our pastor and no matter the situation, he won't reply you during examination. He later came and met me after the exam to apologize.
Share your own experience.
Yes, how to spell ‘is’. I sat down there thinking and thinking until the Holy Spirit came to my rescue. Mehn! It wasn’t funny
NnolimNzubechi: Hello Nairalanders. It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me
Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..
Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.
So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol. I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him
So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.
So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.
What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..
Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke
Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....
Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa ... My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??
Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks
You should be thanking God that your father has told you to come back home. Young man you should be serious with your life and break this addiction because it’s killing you slowly, that’s why your Dad isn’t happy. For the fact your Dad punished you, doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, it only goes to show that he doesn’t want you to end up smoking like him and even dying due to your health issues. Try to make your Dad proud by quitting those things he hate.
So sorry for what is happening. The only reason I would employ you to fight to get your husband back is because, if he starts sleeping around, the probability of you getting an infection from him is high. Go to any Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries’ bookshop, buy Prayer Rain by Dr. D. K Olukoya, you would see prayers for this type of issue. Pray it consistently with faith, then wait for the result. You don’t need to call your husband, he will be the one to look for you
Kloppo: What if it is a situation in which there are lots of flats in the compound or the guy was the one who completed and furnitured the house where he lives with his parents....
he should abandon all this and go house hunting in Lagos where the house are expensive and not even as standard as that which he is to leave behind
If there are lots of flats in the compound and all the flats belong to them, they can pick one of the flats to live in, if he was the one that built it for his parents, then he should leave it for them and get an apartment. He should go house hunting after all, if he didn’t have a place to stay in Lagos, wouldn’t he go house hunting? See eh, the Bible has clearly stated that a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife because the two are now one flesh. The earlier this is understood, the better for every home
Macolapablo: Good afternoon comrades. Please, forgive me if I am in the wrong section.
I made an Erroneous Transfer on the 6th of January from my Gtbank account to another Gtbank account. I went to the bank to complain and I was given a form to fill. Infact, I was told the account has been blocked so there's no way the owner can withdraw the money. I was expecting the customer care official to move my money back since it has been verified that I did the transfer truely.
The funniest reply I got was that I should go and pray to God to touch the owner of the account. ABEG, WETIN CONCERN GOD with transfer? Please, any idea how I can get my money back?. Your advice will be appreciated. It's just 30k
A guy in his Early 20s, who lives just a stone-throw from my doormouth here in Awka fought his father because his father compared him with one notorious yahoo boy in the area.
His father was like "look at ragzzy( not the Yahoo boy's real name), he is super rich, he has exotic cars and houses, all you do everyday is stay here and eat my food and keep roaming round the city"
The boy on his own part was like "Yes, I'm as poor as church rat, the poverty I inherited from you as a result of your laziness and roaming around the city when your mates like Peter Obi, Ifeanyi Uba, Arthur Eze, Dangote, Otedola were busy building foundation for their unborn children"
The angered father couldn't hold himself and angrily rushed towards his son which resulted in serious exchange of blows between the father and his son.
The guy is right. What was his father doing when his mates were making money?
It’s a pity. If the man was good to his children, he need not come with able bodied men and Police men to carry his children na. The mere seeing of their father should bring them joy. There is something fishy
Tired2022: I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.
Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed hi and traumatised.
I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.
So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.
I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.
I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!
My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............
I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!
I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.
Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.
Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.
Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.
She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.
This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.
I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.
Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.
I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!
First thing first, it’s a good thing that you opened up, at least it is the beginning of your solution. Bros, you need to give your life to Christ as it is only God that can delete you from this. Please, please give your life to Christ ASAP!
TOTOnigga: I know this is not the right section for this but I feel enough people should have their say in this topic, so mods please, just be understanding for we all are nothing but pencils in the hand of the creator...
I'm sure we all know and have heard of legendary Chinese movie actor "Jackie chan" ? I once read somewhere on the internet where he once said that when he dies, his money and wealth will not go to any of his children that he is going to will everything to charity so that his children can learn to make their own money in life and not be dependent on his, something like that...
I've heard my dad often say something similar too.. He normally tells us of how he trained him self through out his university days without the help of anyone and that we should not depend on his wealth because he might surprise us, that when he dies, he might sell all his properties and look for one Church to give all his money that we should go and work for our own (I know he is indirectly talking to me as the first son).. I'm not saying people like my father or Jackie chan are bad parents but here are my questions
Is it really necessary ? Or is it the right way to teach your children? If you had a dad like the aforementioned, would you allow such ?
It’s very wrong. In as much as you are to give to charity, you are to leave inheritance for your children. A father who leaves no inheritance for his children is worse than an infidel, na so Bible talk.
Romance › Re: Advice On How To Deal With My Ex-girlfriend Who Is Married by Prettychild(f): 5:39pm On Feb 17, 2022
(I know he is indirectly talking to me as the first son).. I'm not saying people like my father or Jackie chan are bad parents but here are my questions