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Zzor:
lmao he understands why i said he should send me pm, black mentality has taken over you all. mtchew

you understand better anyways, I wish you all the best zzor, I'm sorry for all the things I said. I'm so sorry.

Zzor:
You are a coward, be doing anyhow here so that they will not say you've fall hands abi

he has told you no deal. Shameful lot.

Zzor:
Send me a pm, i still give you another grace to do so, I may be your messier. Deal or not?

so you are here chasing white men all about but you kept forming you are not ready to take (black) men serious. You are a disgrace for the post above. Use yourself to beg him very well o.

Nice one

CalliDora1:
Capital NO!

Only wordly men and sinners practice premarital sex. Take it or leave it!

Spirituality asides. Sex does not keep a man or determine a successful relationship or marriage.

Morally speaking, it is not good. Keep your chastity. It pays.

you have said it all sister. I'm a man and I find it extremely attractive to meet a lady that will tell me she is keeping herself for marriage. However, if that is your stance, you must be practicing abstinence, because you will be treated like a criminal if it is found out that you are secretly sleeping with other guys, period.

Na wa o

Ok

BUSHHUNTER:
No background check!
No criminal record check!
No contact address check!
No guarantors check!







Thank your God he no even disappear with your company...na just bike

My advice to u right now as an experienced Verification Officer, pls all other staff should be going through reverification every 6 months together with their guarantors too, with this, it will enable u to know when they hv relocated to another area and also to know if their guarantors is still standing for them.

Then one other poster said, go to the address he provided and verify from his neighbors if he stays there and not squatting and ensure he has an office guarantor. All these made great sense.

Beautiful analysis.

Ok

Let's keep watching.

People have learnt o

WrittyWritter:
Y did ur baby daddy not marry u ..I don't know y most very successful women find it hard to find a husband...my own will not be like dat in Jesus name

I like this, it's very sensible. Can we start something serious?

planetx13:
Please don't put pressure on yourself and don't let anyone tell you anything else.
The woman you are looking for is out there... Don't lower your standards for anyone....try building yourself as you do this ...... not to attract any woman but for yourself....
If you notice any woman is not to your standard , then let her go immediately... don't sound desperate and look beyond beauty....


Ciao

add prayer to this advice, then be yourself and you will be fine.

planetx13:
Please don't put pressure on yourself and don't let anyone tell you anything else.
The woman you are looking for is out there... Don't lower your standards for anyone....try building yourself as you do this ...... not to attract any woman but for yourself....
If you notice any woman is not to your standard , then let her go immediately... don't sound desperate and look beyond beauty....


Ciao

just be yourself and add prayer to this advice, then you are good to go.

Well said sir.

Well said sir

God is alive.

This couple know how to express themselves.

emillysmigael:
Some animals do what humans fail to do... If these animals could co-habit; I wonder what humans do with 'Tribalism' & 'Racism'.

you nailed it.

Nice piece.

The time cometh, that whosoever killeth you will think that he doeth God service (John chapter 16 vs 2). The bible is complete.

CalliDora1:
The funny thing is I never asked him for anything all through the period we were "together" because he already made me understand he was a civil servant. So, it doesn't cross my mind to ask cos I do feel for him. evethough their salary was constant that period and mine was halted cos it's a private sector, It never crossed my mind to ask. Even when he promised to send me airtime, I didn't remind him and quickly subscribed just to keep up with our chats. So... I don't get it. Some men though.

don't play along pls, let him know on time that you are not interested in him at all.

Faithfull1992:
Political answer

you are quite funny

lefulefu:
this is what happens when a man makes a woman his priority in life
aint no coincidence that men who tend to be broke for life with no ambition are those men who make women their hundred percent priority in life.see d mumu..money u are supposed to raise from selling those phones and start a business u just gave the phone to a girl.mumurity of the highest order.

spot on.

Great one

This is too beautiful

Dreadlock69:
Two manipulators can't date each other
A bad boy cant date a bad girl for a long term
Don't want to turn to mugu and maga at the same time
There difference between chasing and pursuing

who is the bad boy? Is this your story because it is not clear?

Bodyodour:
I started on a lying note but noticed how good she was so I decided to breakaway. I don't like the guilt I feel when I break an innocent heart.

fair

Sometimes, we have genuine intentions towards the opposite gender and we just want to sincerely get to know them first and then see what happens from there. But at times, we quickly see some red flags and some unhealthy handwritings on the wall that make one change his mind.

My story: I knew her in school and interacted before, now I'm done with school and she's in a higher level too. I just came home and met her so we exchanged contacts. After a few calls and chats, she then stopped picking calls and would barely reply chats. After picking up eventually, she said her phone spoilt, I asked if she had repaired it and she said she wanted to buy a new phone (this means communications would be placed on hold till further notice, ah!). I just felt like the spark that was supposed to be ignited would be unnecessarily delayed (who knows when she will be able to get the new phone?). On the other hand, if what she's asking indirectly was for me to buy her the phone, I would hand over all the powers in the relationship to her on a platter of gold, lol. So I saw it as a dubious game. Try and understand me, after dropping the call I saw that she had put a guy's picture on her Whatsapp profile and that was just like saying there are competitors so I should try and outdo my contenders, smiles.

So I said to myself, I'm not going to willingly deep my neck into this mess, I munstered all the courage in Africa and gave her a befitting delete. And my Whatsapp settings is such that, once I don't have your number, you will not see my "profile picture" and "About". So she must have seen that I am not in for her moves, afterall I play checkers pretty fine so I know when I see trappings.

N.B. I'm not talking based on redpills or alpha males mindset, but it does not mean a gentleman will have his head played by some girls who are still not ready for something serious.

Hence my question, what made you to make that U-turn and ended a relationship even before it started?