₦airaland Forum

mrblessed:
Really? "Lucky will shine on you?" Just to reply a pm? Guy, you are bigger than this. Who did you offend to make you do this? How stupid and idotic can a post be. You weren't shamed enough that she publicly warned you to cease sending her pm, you shamelessly exacerbated it with a thoughtlessly demeaning reply.

I am highly embarrassed on your behalf. If you send a message to someone once and she didn't reply, why inundate her with more messages to show how desperate and cheap you are? One young man created a post this week and revealed the kind of pressure ladies suffer just because nairaland is unfortunate to have people like you as members. What a shame!

Someone like you kneel down to beg a woman in the room and u never discuss it with anyone so as to keep feeling like a macho.

mrblessed:
Really? "Lucky will shine on you?" Just to reply a pm? Guy, you are bigger than this. Who did you offend to make you do this? How stupid and idotic can a post be. You weren't shamed enough that she publicly warned you to cease sending her pm, you shamelessly exacerbated it with a thoughtlessly demeaning reply.

I am highly embarrassed on your behalf. If you send a message to someone once and she didn't reply, why inundate her with more messages to show how desperate and cheap you are? One young man created a post this week and revealed the kind of pressure ladies suffer just because nairaland is unfortunate to have people like you as members. What a shame!

Someone like you kneel down to be a woman in the room and u never discuss it with anyone so as to keep feeling like a macho.

fieryy:
Because I am not getting married, if I can't afford at least a two room apartment.

Everyone is acting like it's solely the man's responsibility to pay the rent or own a house.

With that being said, I also wouldn't accept a proposal from someone, who proposes despite living in a self con, regardless of whether the marriage will solely be based on companionship or whether the aim is to have kids. To me, that's you not setting your priorities right.

But even if I were to accept the proposal, as stated earlier I do not plan on marrying if I can't afford at least a 2 room apartment, so both our salaries should be enough to rent such an apartment.

Now kindly stop with the pms, I didn't reply before and still do not plan on replying

Guess what? I believe all you said here. You seem supportive and have standards too. That's how to summarize your perspective. With the pms, I know u didn't reply, I just felt may be one day luck will shine on me and you will consider replying. By the way, you can go through my profile to see if I'm that kind of guy that constitutes nuisance on nl. even though it's a faceless forum. Thank you.

fieryy:


Husband material, abi?

I am a husband material for you.

fieryy:
No, I can't

Why can't you?

tyup:
Lol nahh....i cut off from Toxic ladies anytime I notice any trace of toxicity

Anyways I've since shifted to a Serbian

I like the language "toxic". Bro, no like trouble . Give me examples of toxic behaviours.

tyup:
Nothing annoys me more than weaklings like you who always go pacify a lady after every disagreement either ur at fault or she is

That's an outrageous mumuish attitude from you...shit u should have ur pride

From my predictions she would one day disgrace and embarrass you Publicly n you'll still be the one to beg n this would continue for a very Loooong time till u get frustrated n shattered and she wouldn't care

You are talking from experience.

Okay

ForeThinker:
Life is a lot more fragile than we think. So you should treat others in a way that leaves no regrets. Fairly, and if possible, sincerely.

Kudos. I wonder why people don't hit likes and share on very reasonable comments.

Ishilove:
How can such a young promising life just waste like this? If you can't handle the senseless meanness then please stay away from social media. If you're a public figure hire a social media handler who can tackle the craziness

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NDakota:
The career dilemma...

Many years ago I was where you are now.

I took the road less traveled. I settled for a career in Nigeria.

I got a job in a Big 4. Then moved on to an FMCG, where the perks are much higher!

On education, I got chartered, and I'm finishing an MBA.

On family, I got married to my best friend from University, and I just made my first baby.

Do I regret not moving to the US to join my mom, a US citizen?

I do. Every. Single. Minute.

Why? Nigeria is a very uncertain place to stay and thrive. You could be up there in the sky today and the next week you're back on the mud. In a country of many poor people, you run the risk of becoming a victim of crime due to envy...post COVID-19 it'll get worse.

Look at you at 30. You're dithering. You're pussyfooting.

Look at me at 28. I still regret the mistake my 25 year old self made. I'm pushing daily to leave Nigeria.

I want to leave, not because I'm broke in Nigeria, but the collective poverty in this country scares me...

Most crimes committed today are more out of envy and hunger than of greed.

If you can, please run. For your SAFETY!

Perfectly said.

Op better become a comedian. I won't be a jobless man by God's grace.

I'm very impressed with the op, not many Nigerian girls are this ambitious. You almost changed my view of ladies, nice. Pray above all things, once you end up with your own husband that is the most important thing. Also, consider a man who will not come in between you and your dreams, who will not ask you to slow down, or who will not use his own life issues to slow you down, because marriage should not be what will dislocate your aspirations in life. Check him in connection to what I have just said. As for this man, he his complacent and satisfied with lowkey life and you may not be able to change that, obviously. As for me, I wont say either of the two options of - leave him/stay with him. Pray for wisdom to decide, because that is best left in your hand. I pray God will order your steps.

Nice post

Nice

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fieryy:
Exactly, this is a public forum and I don't give away my number like that. Cheers

Would u add me if drop mine?

fieryy:
Whatever you want to tell me can surely be discussed here too... Right?

Would you add me up on whatsapp? Or rather I add u up. This is public space.

fieryy:
Op, no johr

Kindly reply my mail.

Not bad

Ok

Small small o

Ningen:
Welcome to Nigeria where;

-Your girlfriend is someone's girlfriend.
-Your girlfriend is someone's backup girlfriend.
-Your back-up girlfriend is someone's girlfriend.
-Your back-up girlfriend is someone's back-up.

And the circle continues...
In the end, nobody is loyal.

Well, just lower your expectations when dating a Nigerian girl... Don't ever put all your trust into it.

You must be in the dept. of statistics.

Sounding right

Number one is actually called glabella. Nice one op.

Adeboyefa:
Some of the "taken" ladies are actually single (i.e.not married or in a relationship) but don't want to appear desperately searching. Most of the "single" men are actually married with children but want to acquire side chics by claiming to be single.

Well said. Those quoting me and sayomg something else are feeling I exposed them, smiles.

You meet a girl and she tells you that she is in a relationship.

You meet a guy and he says he is single and still hustling to make his life better.

Then who are these ladies dating, considering that the population of guys are even relatively fewer?

Oluromantic:
See why I don't reply insultive quotes. Most of the people behind the monickers are teenagers who have not even been through any life challenge except jamb. Quoting with insults is even a proof of childishness sef. A mature person won't quote in such a way

Nice talk bro. To the op, it will do u a whole lot of good if u can heed to my advice. Change your ways, be a good and respecful man, and u will never regret it. You are about going the wrong way, you are about getting it wrong. But the good news is that, it is not too late for you. Peace brother.