₦airaland Forum

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All these thugresses self. So it's easier for you to attack a man than to throw away a dead rat.

A man told me, if you marry your wife, you can never be tired of her. This man is a boxer and skilled in the act of fighting like collecting cutlasses from attackers blah blah. One would think he cannot stick to a woman but he respects his wife more than anything just because he adores her.

Personally, I see some old women that I still wonder how manage? That is, they look beautiful even than young ladies, so just take care of your wife and make her happy and you will love what she turns out to be. Most men only maltreat their wives and lust after young and old women that a reasonable man somewhere is taking time to nurture.

Finally, you need to understsnd that not all women will love you, yet they mingle with you but won't hesitate to take your life and enjoy your wealth with another man, so let that guide you and be determined to win a single heart and build an empire in it. Bye bye.

Unfolding issues

ggirl4real:
Unfortunately, only few Nigerians have this mindset.

And that is one of their biggest problems.

ggirl4real:
Very good.

This is how Nigerians should boycott corrupt politicians.

Exactly, let us avoid them like dirt, don't respect them, see them like the thieves that they are.

paulolee:
gee i get ur point but my point is that its mostly happens among all ladies and you can hardly find a real friend dt really like her female friends but guys get realest gee wey gat thier back since daY one

My point is that, once you are doing better than your friend, they will be jealous especially if the progress is too much for them to believe (man or woman)

paulolee:
yeah...i get ur point...wat abt married friends still jealous because she is married to a richer husband..?

How about a guy getting jealous because his friend is made and is now too busy for chitchat unlike when both of them were still walking with slippers? Both genders beef (perhaps for different reasons). Don't go and trust stupid friends o. Na only your head want make you make am o.

paulolee:
yea i kno, unlike girls dt sisters envy and are jealous that thier own sister is getting married..

A sister is jealous of her fellow sister getting married simply because she desires marriage too. A guy is not jealous of another guy getting married because he likes and still enjoys bachelor stage, if he otherwise was interested in marriage too, the brother will be jealous but cover it up with evil grin...don't deceive yourself o, I'm talking reality.

folake4u:
God bless you!

Amen dear

paulolee:
Girls code?? we all know that girls are good in pretending that they love each others but secretly they do beef and hate each other because they all wana be the main center of attentions unlike guys

continue deceiving yourself there that boys are not jealous and envious and malicious towards one another over beef

Nice one

Nice one

Beautiful billionaire daughter. I must marry my taste, I won't allow anything to give me low self esteem. I Iove people who are in love.

Zzor:
we are still saying the same thing if you look deep

The same thing we may be saying is that people's time shouldn't be wasted, but your angle is different from mine.

This is what govt ought to say

IfGodbeforus:
That's a Bad one ..
Just too Bad. May God Comfort their Families.

Things like this is what Makes me adhere to this Preparation for Eternity teachings of Righteousness89

no man know his hour read ecclesiastes 9:12

Zzor:
Since she's not married,then she didn't lie when she told you she was single,shes a wise lady

I disagree with you this time around, is it not dating that leads to marriage, why do you want to waste people's time? If you don't see a future with who you are with, leave the relationship and date another.

Anuoluwa1234:
I came to mark register ... Anu!!! Present ma

where have you been since

China south sea island, na for all Asians to dey ply, China doesn't love the rest of the world

Dorcas23:
There is this guy I just recently started talking to. He's very good looking and intelligent and dresses well. He is my type and we have so many interests in common. I'm already falling in love with him but I haven't told him. I'm still trying to take it slow. I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. He told me he is in love with me and I was so excited to hear it but I hid my excitement because I'm still confused about his intentions.

The problem is that whenever I try to become vulnerable with him like texting him early in the morning to ask how his night was, he will ignore my texts for days and then call me out of the blue as if nothing happened. But other times he will call me multiple times and talk on the phone like we were dating.

Yesterday after ignoring my texts for over 24hrs he called me and said I should come over to his place. I've never been to his place before. I was already on my way when he called me to tell me that a lady visited him and she is spending the night at his place. He apologized and told me not to be offended. I acted all cool and told him some other time. He hasn't texted or called me since. I'm confused. I know we aren't dating but why would he even tell me this?

This guy will not treat you well, avoid him immediately from now, don't let it be cold. Pray to God to give you your own husband He still does that. But if it is fornication that you like, that's your problem.

Zzor:
God forbids I ever tell any guy I'm sexually attracted to him,not in this life, I will do house chores and increase my busy schedule to quench the yeye attraction.Those feelings don't last long,its how a guy treats and value you that matters most

abi this is my wife ni? Ladies are you learning from this intelligent lady here?

Zzor:
shut up

stop replying these people

Zzor:
flee flee flee from him,you made a great mistake for telling him your sexual attraction to him,never do such again kos everything in his head now is how to have sex with you,he likes the fact that you have a boyfriend and also likes the fact that he will just be getting sex from you while your boyfriend keeps doing the loving.Please cut him off completely or simply tell him you lost the attraction as you don't get attracted to people for long.Flee Now else you become his sex thing.My dear i beg you to fleeeee don't let yourself down.God bless you

you are always making sense on this space, I have been noticing your comments...you 'seem' to have good moral value, I hope it is true. Keep it up my dear.

Supreme145:
I think you gat me there bro,but dropping out of school is never an option....I have decided to let things happen naturally, my do and die warfare towards prosperity haven't gotten me anywhere

I didnt want to comment before until I saw this. You are now thinking right, just add prayer to it, you will remember this comment later and thank Christ.

bigpicture001:
All he is looking for is your date of birth...

If he gets it ur acct is empty.. He has got ur remaining details.. Just date of birth missing....

They know mny persons use date of birth as codes to mny stuffs.. Hence he needs it to try his luck

thanks for this insight brotherly, people like you make us believe in Nairaland.

dingbang:
Leave these girls alone. Can we just focus on inventing great things rather than Cry about what nigerian ladies did or didnt do.

This is not against them.

I thought ladies all have something in common which is called "shakara", the essence of which is to identify men who truly love them and to screen away those that are not serious or merely frivolous.

But with the level of breakups, I begin to ask don't ladies use this truly powerful mechanism very well? I guess the majority of them only use it to show that they are not cheap. Meanwhile, it is also to test who truly cares about them or not. But just that most of you have made up your mind you are going to date him, you just do your shakara so as not to be too easy and then follow him.

Girls, you need to read in between the lines and understand this point I just made. It is to open your eye (to what you may already know)

Very simple but powerful clue here for you.

Mercisharelove:
GOD ALMIGHTY is love and in him there's no darkness, there's no hatred of any kind or bitterness like you flesh do.


That's why He told you......


For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord.



He's always loving whether you agree with him or not, He's always helping wether you believe Him or not. Wether you are in love with him or not, He will always help. It will look like you are the one helping yourself. But in reality your true help, your present help in time of trouble. Even when you don't appreciate, He kept on.


And He will keep helping until you get to the stage, you will realise that indeed this God Almighty is righteousness indeed. It wouldn't be that He didn't help out, but you couldn't walk with him in faith, that's trust and be patient. Because surely stuffs will happen. Both good and Ugly stuffs. Whether you pray and fast and pay tithes. Stuffs happens.


In all these things we are more than conquerors through Christ who loved us and gave his own blood to destroy sin and disobedience of the flesh.


It's too deep and it's more than difficult to understand, only the privileged ONES will be able to comprehend the Mind of God Almighty through Christ Jesus.



So that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men (human philosophy), but in the power of God.


Yet when we are among the full-grown (spiritually mature Christians who are ripe in understanding), we do impart a [higher] wisdom (the knowledge of the divine plan previously hidden); but it is indeed not a wisdom of this present age or of this world nor of the leaders and rulers of this age, who are being brought to nothing and are doomed to pass away.



But rather what we are setting forth is a wisdom of God once hidden [from the human understanding] and now revealed to us by God - [that wisdom] which God devised and decreed before the ages for our glorification [to lift us into the glory of His presence].



None of the rulers of this age or world perceived and recognized and understood this, for if they had, they would never have crucified the Lord of glory.





But, on the contrary, as the Scripture says, What eye has not seen and ear has not heard and has not entered into the heart of man, [all that] God has prepared (made and keeps ready) for those who love Him [who hold Him in affectionate reverence, promptly obeying Him and gratefully recognizing the benefits He has bestowed].





Yet to us God has unveiled and revealed them by and through His Spirit, for the [Holy] Spirit searches diligently, exploring and examining everything, even sounding the profound and bottomless things of God [the divine counsels and things hidden and beyond man 's scrutiny].




For what person perceives (knows and understands) what passes through a man 's thoughts except the man 's own spirit within him? Just so no one discerns (comes to know and comprehend) the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.




Now we have not received the spirit [that belongs to] the world, but the [Holy] Spirit Who is from God, [given to us] that we might realize and comprehend and appreciate the gifts [of divine favor and blessing so freely and lavishly] bestowed on us by God.





And we are setting these truths forth in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the [Holy] Spirit, combining and interpreting spiritual truths with spiritual language [to those who possess the Holy Spirit].




But the natural, nonspiritual man does not accept or welcome or admit into his heart the gifts and teachings and revelations of the Spirit of God, for they are folly (meaningless nonsense) to him; and he is incapable of knowing them [of progressively recognizing, understanding, and becoming better acquainted with them] because they are spiritually discerned and estimated and appreciated.




But the spiritual man tries all things [he examines, investigates, inquires into, questions, and discerns all things], yet is himself to be put on trial and judged by no one [he can read the meaning of everything, but no one can properly discern or appraise or get an insight into him].



For who has known or understood the mind (the counsels and purposes) of the Lord so as to guide and instruct Him and give Him knowledge? But we have the mind of Christ (the Messiah) and do hold the thoughts (feelings and purposes) of His heart.
















GOD ALMIGHTY is love and in him there's no darkness, there's no hatred of any kind or bitterness like you flesh do.


That's why He told you......


For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord.



He's always loving whether you agree with him or not, He's always helping wether you believe Him or not. Wether you are in love with him or not, He will always help. It will look like you are the one helping yourself. But in reality your true help, your present help in time of trouble. Even when you don't appreciate, He kept on.


And He will keep helping until you get to the stage, you will realise that indeed this God Almighty is righteousness indeed. It wouldn't be that He didn't help out, but you couldn't walk with him in faith, that's trust and be patient. Because surely stuffs will happen. Both good and Ugly stuffs. Whether you pray and fast and pay tithes. Stuffs happens.


In all these things we are more than conquerors through Christ who loved us and gave his own blood to destroy sin and disobedience of the flesh.


It's too deep and it's more than difficult to understand, only the privileged ONES will be able to comprehend the Mind of God Almighty through Christ Jesus.



So that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men (human philosophy), but in the power of God.


Yet when we are among the full-grown (spiritually mature Christians who are ripe in understanding), we do impart a [higher] wisdom (the knowledge of the divine plan previously hidden); but it is indeed not a wisdom of this present age or of this world nor of the leaders and rulers of this age, who are being brought to nothing and are doomed to pass away.



But rather what we are setting forth is a wisdom of God once hidden [from the human understanding] and now revealed to us by God - [that wisdom] which God devised and decreed before the ages for our glorification [to lift us into the glory of His presence].



None of the rulers of this age or world perceived and recognized and understood this, for if they had, they would never have crucified the Lord of glory.





But, on the contrary, as the Scripture says, What eye has not seen and ear has not heard and has not entered into the heart of man, [all that] God has prepared (made and keeps ready) for those who love Him [who hold Him in affectionate reverence, promptly obeying Him and gratefully recognizing the benefits He has bestowed].





Yet to us God has unveiled and revealed them by and through His Spirit, for the [Holy] Spirit searches diligently, exploring and examining everything, even sounding the profound and bottomless things of God [the divine counsels and things hidden and beyond man 's scrutiny].




For what person perceives (knows and understands) what passes through a man 's thoughts except the man 's own spirit within him? Just so no one discerns (comes to know and comprehend) the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.




Now we have not received the spirit [that belongs to] the world, but the [Holy] Spirit Who is from God, [given to us] that we might realize and comprehend and appreciate the gifts [of divine favor and blessing so freely and lavishly] bestowed on us by God.





And we are setting these truths forth in words not taught by human wisdom but taught by the [Holy] Spirit, combining and interpreting spiritual truths with spiritual language [to those who possess the Holy Spirit].




But the natural, nonspiritual man does not accept or welcome or admit into his heart the gifts and teachings and revelations of the Spirit of God, for they are folly (meaningless nonsense) to him; and he is incapable of knowing them [of progressively recognizing, understanding, and becoming better acquainted with them] because they are spiritually discerned and estimated and appreciated.




But the spiritual man tries all things [he examines, investigates, inquires into, questions, and discerns all things], yet is himself to be put on trial and judged by no one [he can read the meaning of everything, but no one can properly discern or appraise or get an insight into him].



For who has known or understood the mind (the counsels and purposes) of the Lord so as to guide and instruct Him and give Him knowledge? But we have the mind of Christ (the Messiah) and do hold the thoughts (feelings and purposes) of His heart.

I like to marry you. Is it possible?

May God protect us.

Kalatium:
While growing up i only knew of secular rappers and break dancers. Until the emergence of gospel rappers like Lecrae, Trip Lee, Da truth, Flame etc. Afterwards my Neighborhood was saturated with gospel rappers.

Now in churches anytime there is concert break dancers and gospel rappers are invited especially in youth programs. However i noticed only youths were interested in it but the older generation were kicking against it including our former pastor.

Our former pastor vehemently comdemn rapping and break dancing, he doesn’t give us the liberty to dance in church.

With the coming of our new pastor, gospel rappers and break dancers are being encouraged.

I am perplexed, why did our former pastor and older generation condemn? it is it a sin?

It looks somehow. They should stop it.

paulolee:
he lost his lifr while trying to help another life.. such kinda people deservs everlasting peace in the afterlife..
but seems its only abt the living we know, i wish him well over there.. R.i.P bro, a real niggee like me would be scared to do what you did, dt makes u the realest niggaaaaarrrr...

Check what I wrote on the fourth page