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Omoluabi16:
His 'love' is quite questionable though. For all I know abortions are risky, much more 3-4 times. You wouldn't do that to someone you love. I love you I love u till the mumu boy damage her womb.
The girl needs reassurances.Keeping the baby is one. If he's too broke to marry now, let him be a baby daddy till things get much better.

Romanoff:
The girl in question is pregnant and has done several abortions for the guy.

Our immoral world has made things so complicated and we will all get so entangled in the web that we have spun by ourselves.

Don't fornicate, they won't agree.

sladimeji:
you seem not to understand his plight..he obviously loves the lady but he knows that it takes more than love to sustain a marriage.... Marriage should not be rushed..I will advise him to persuade the girl to give him a year to get his acts together and they should also keep the pregnancy

Tokziby:
Late comer
Indomie generation, vcd kwa?? That's like 2004/05 when they started making games on vcd, many consoles have passed and gone to the great beyond.

Olominira:
Trump generally lacks basic understanding of how simple things work in politics, both local and int'l. I wonder if he has or listens to advice and intelligent reports.

He likes to confront and bully everyone either friends or foes. He also likes to hurt people with words even when it's unnecessary. In all honesty, nothing shows any trace of intelligence in him. The question is how did he become president?

Lordfranklin:
Exactly why I don't stress myself over ladies nowadays. After all the wooing and shakara las las when I propose, it is the lady and her family members that will go and do Thanksgiving in church.
Men truly don't know how lucky they are walahi

Amanee:
He's probably not interested in the things you're interested in. The relationship is still young and there's time for the both of you to adjust to each other.

Nobody comes ready-made and relationships are hardwork. For youths nowadays, it's easy to see a couple in sync with each other and say 'goals, God when?' Etc. Forgetting that such relationship had a lot invested aside 'I love you' and sex.

Don't be overly conscious of trying to change him in this aspect if not you'll get frustrated. Give it time and try to learn his own interests too.

damosade:
Sometimes, I wish I write something against our pastors on this forum but it looks as if my pastor is watching me.

Am I brainwashed?

light099:
Scientists with their Carbon 14, Carbon dating bullcrap.
Extraordinary bullcraps, only valid until another bullcrap invalidates the former.
Continue searching, you would never discover anything of tangible relevance to your search, you would only end up more confused and misinformed every time.

As a human, you would always have to believe in one shit or another, either the religious shit or the scientific shit. No side seems to be devoid of shits, except that one shit is obviously the way to go, while the other is nothing more than futile bullcrap.

It's more sensible to believe the allegory of a snake talking in a garden than theories of how fish turned into man;
It's more sensible to believe this masterpiece universe is designed and fabricated by a creative, wise, intelligent, supernatural mind than to believe it created itself and exists on it's own. More ridiculously originated from a tiny bang. You don't mean it?
It's more sensible to believe a path that tells us the purpose and future of the world, not one which doesn't know why we're here, where we're coming from and where we're heading to.
It's sensible to believe a great designer somewhere knows a lady should have two breasts, curvy figure and thinner voice, while the man should be more masculine with thicker voice. Or you mean nothing figured that out and also fabricated it?
All these are very shallow details by the way. It would take some tangible time to describe the minutest parts of life and infinite time for the whole vast universe.

Life is no doubt a great masterpiece of art, epitome of extraordinary creativity, climax of skillful fabrication, nexus of complex functionality and unbelievable compatibility of distinct contrasting vastness.

Science is only good in fabricating inanimate objects and making life better, that is where it belongs and it should strictly stick to that. But when atheist scientists come explaining cardinal aspects of life with science. I tell them, never mind, because you really suck at that.

Some people would mock you for being so gullible for believing in a sky daddy, until later you realize who is really more gullible.

nana228:
If you have SS children they will hate and curse you everyday because they will struggle to live normal lives. I'm sure this love you are talking about will be forgotten by then.

If you are not capable of paying for bone marrow transplant and testing during pregnancy, Stay away from bringing biological children into this world and live with the love of your life alone. Don't be selfish and bring children who will suffer.

FivePeas:
I think you're being too hasty and would appeal to you not to make a hasty decision that will cause you damage because you sound like someone who's about to react ( from negative reactions ) rather than someone who's about to embark on a well planned action. There's a difference. Trust me I know.


I qualify to give you sound counsel as a business operator and would like to discredit any thoughts of you quitting you job because of your savings.


Let's take it step by step


1. Financial security is important. Can you reduce your monthly expenses and boost your savings so you can save let's say 300k monthly, which in six months gives you an approximate of another 2 Million Naira


2. Start the process of setting up a business while you're still employed. This way you can weigh the options if it's for you or not. And can easily convert your salaries towards the establishment of the business


3. Do not quit your job until you've had a well to Houghton out business plan and have put it into effect. Remember money is just half the equation, the other half the business


4. Be more tolerant rather than being irritated because things aren't working for you from a place of convenience. Start thinking positive thoughts about the positives of your job. I'm sure it can't be all negative. Whatever it's costing you, give yourself the opportunity to reflect and tell yourself giving it six more months for proper planning won't do you harm


5. Get a second accommodation closer to work. So you can shuttle between both ends. Friday home till Sunday. Have you considered this?


6. Get a nanny and if you can afford it, get a driver too and delegate some of the duties with the kids care to them.


7. Give yourself time. Do not jump to the next thing until that so-called " next thing " has been fully constructed while you're still maintaining the one that looks stressful.

MedicH:
relax... ur moniker will be mentioned in a thread where u will see a lot of men like u

MedicH:
GreatResearcher1 here is a new member of simps hall of shame.

Genset:
Never, i don't do exes