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bukatyne:
Why

Just wanted to know If you'd had firsthand experience.

Doesnt invalidate your post.

It's stupid and irresponsible getting a tatoo.at least that's what I was taught when I was little.


I wish I had a tattoo of a bleeding cross on my back.

Fear no go let me do am

Women

What do they want

I hurt myself today

To see if I still feel
Tried to focus on the pain

The only thing that's real.

The needle tears a hole.

The old familiar sting.

Tried to kill it all away

But I remember everything.

bukatyne:
In practice it's not.

Are u married?

bukatyne:
First starters, the issue is NOT unhappiness.

From your accouny, you laugh, crack jokes and hold similar worldviews.

You have much more than many couples can boast of.

Now the issue is 'lack' of sexual chemistry.

According to Rollo Tomassi, ' you cannot negotiate desire'. ...

You either desire him or you don't.

However, today is Sunday and miracles happen (Double luck) so let's go....

In your heart of hearts, what kind of man tickles your fancy? What kind of man turns you on? Think deep and hard. Doesn't matter if it is politically correct or not.

Next, ask your husband the kind of woman he likes/turns him on/ fancies. You already have the rapport so it shouldn't be hard. And if he says ' I love when ladies wear skater skirt', don't go 'agrrrrhh I love straight skirt and think skaters are babyish/indecent/ old school' etc. Hear him out.

Now, gently change what you can to be his eye candy. Your aim is to change to the woman that wakes up the sexual man in him. When you do that and he starts responding to your changes, react to the response.

Also don't tell him 'I am changing this straight skirts to skater because you said so'. Change in a way that is subtle and brings out the unconscious response in him.

Also subtly change him. So if beard gang makes you melt and he is clean shaven, you can turn him towards growing a beard and buy beard oils et al to encourage him when he starts growing it.

Develop a mindset of pleasing him. When you wear your undies, think of how you want him to stand at attention and get a matching pair. When you are creaming, think of how you want your body to be smooth for him and carry on. When you are giving him BJ or kissing, admire the work of your hands when he is reacting in pleasure and soon you will be the one jumping on him.

Also have seperate interests e.g. if he does something for recreation, don't join him. Dress like his girl and watch your man display for you. If he wants to fix some things in the house, don't join him. You can follow him round and just admire what he does.

All these will make you see him outside the friendship and see him as a man.

You both have something great. Work on the passion part and you will have a fantastic marriage.

Good luck.

Hey not bad.

Sounds like a lot of work though.

sweetmelanin:
I see my husband more like a brother than a lover. We laugh, crack jokes and hold similar world views. BUT theres no sexual chemistry. I find it difficult to get aroused by him. There is a deep sense of unfulfillment and unhappiness.
I wonder how long I can cope with a marriage without passion.

Take the marriage as a sacrifice dammit. You are happiest when you make others happy dammit. Making yourself happy is selfish.

I don't even understand what you wrote up there.

You have a responsibility to the child dammit.

If you give a girl belle, take care of d belle pikin wey comot. It's your duty. It's what makes u a man!


But who cares anyway.

When you wish upon a star

It makes no difference who you are

When you wish upon a star

Your dreams cooome true.

.

Sipping Kunu....

Babyforever:
I tell you girl like maybe things like.... You're my mummy.... baby wait wait wait here is the pin to my ATM card or something like yeee baby atuolam



#TEAMVIRGIN

Wtf

HELL NO.

The guy is high on weed Na, isn't it obvious?

thesicilian:
Even if it comes along with her self it's still not up to 40k.

Choi!

cronsberg:
Arrant nonsense, why talk in hints? Why not talk straight? And who said she refused and i persisted? Also did i sound bitter to you? So complaining of how unstraightforward women are is being bitter? If not interested, say you not interested simple. Anyway, if talk don too much e go be like say pesin don drink, so ihave since start dating a mature babe that knows exactly what she wants

Guy if to say you dey close I for carry you go drink.
Chill out!
Are u new in the toasting game?
Girls NEVER say what they mean! They NEVER come direct. Its one of the reasons they are girls. It can be very annoying atimes I tell you!

Forget the babe. As you dey vex so, leave am like that. If you were really that interested in her, you wouldn't have been so easily thrown off. This one you're vexing already and you haven't even gotten to known her, na wa oh!

What a thread!

Would you like your sister to interact romantically here?

So one day one of the boykids who has a grudge will reveal private messages, expose her monicker and say rotten things about her just cos the relationship isn't going smoothly again?

Why would they answer PMs when most of the guys sending it act like dogs on heat:

Boy: Hi

Girl: Hi

Boy sends pic of his dick.

Girl: wtf

Boy: do you like it

Girl blocks him

Boy: bitch you're pompous/stuck up/snob

Most guys on this section a act like kids so why would the girls not maintain thier lane?

You know how many ladies have deactivated or changed thier monickers cos they couldn't stand the disgrace of insults from guys that kissed and later told everyone? Why would any sane girl want to be the next victim?

Until the guys learn to act like gentlemen and stop using vulgar language like calling all girls b!tches and hoes, the girls will continue to ignore the guys. Its basic survival instinct.

If you "borrowed" it, then you have to return it because your spouse is expecting you to. If you didn't want to return it then you should have asked your spouse to dash you the money and not trick him/her with the word "borrow."

cronsberg:
mtsheeew, get out jor. I dont chase women, if she wants to be chased then let her chase herself. I never said its by force, but why lie? Why foam? Just be honest dammit. Just say u aint interested. I was just using this example to show how women are there own worst enemies. They all want a guy to show interest, a guy shows interest and they start to foam ungettable beauty queens. Even average looking or ugly girls o. Its almost like they want you to beg for their time. I be child? lol

You just sound pained, nothing more!

Haba, you asked to speak to her, she refused, you insisted she tried to ward you off, you persisted she finally said you should come to her house and finally you backed off.

You want her to spell I'M NOT INTERESTED before you get the hint?

She no like you Jo, stop being bitter about it and move on! Thats what being a man is about! Plenty of other village girls out there, if you don't want to go the extra mile for this one , leave her and chase someone else. Other Men will continue with her from where u stopped!

Is it by force for her to accept you? Is it by force to give you number?

Its guilty conscience that is worrying you. Small obstacle the girl put for you to chase her you're opening thread to cry. Move on dude, village girl or not, you don't deserve her!

This made front page?

Be like day OP don make make mouth say people go faint when dem see him designer suit

Op kpele, it happens like that. Borrow a suit from somebody or if u must wear new one, buy from Onitsha. Wedding day is not as important as the marriage which is for the rest of your life. Take it easy oh

emmachukwu99:
Then why having it?

vincentjk:
Didn't force them to send it either

Lol, hilarious conversation you two.

This whole nudes issues from ladies has become like a fad, like they really want us to see them naked....deep deep down that's what they want. Those days one had to beg and beg for nudes, now its like almost the norm.
Girls rock!


But seriously the guy's behaviour is childish at best. You're forcing a girl to remain in a relationship with you? In this day and age.

She should ignore him let him post the nudes. Won't be the first time and definitely won't be the last.

ladyF:
How come it's only ladies that send out their nudess? We don't hear of guys' raunchy pictures getting leaked.

Well, ladies like to show off. Their value lies in thier beauty/ sexiness most times. So give them a few weeks in a relationship and some of them even initiate the process by asking if u want to see thier nudes. Its silly but enjoyable for us men so we aren't complaining.

See his face like Nokia charger. Crybaby!

See the kind or men we are making nowadays. She dumped you and so? Walk it off! Why behave like a baby?

Women congrats o. You have your dream men that show emotions. Tufiaaa!

Op, just made enquires for you. Go to central hospital warri, they have a functional pepfar unit. Buy your card, explain your plight and start your PEP before today ends. Good luck.

BlueShine:
I am not begging for money please. All I need is the treatment to prevent me from getting this thing. Even if its herbal remedy please abeg. I don't don't 20k right now to buy prep

No need for herbal remedy.

You said you're in warri, go to the central hospital today, buy card n500 and tell the doc your story, ask for PEP. It is free.

Or you can go to lily clinic. Card will be more expensive but once again ask for PEP.

Or travel to asaba this morning. Go to FMC, buy card n500, tell your story, they will take u to PEPFAR for your PEP. Free of charge.


Meanhwile if your girl has been on truvada then the viral load will be low so your chances of getting it is slim. All the same, follow one of the suggestions above. Do not delay.

That coconut water makes you not to have sense

Preetiex:
yes he is much older

So did you marry him?