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Ayokunlemi96:
I have read every single comment on this thread. Read how people miss their moms and dads, well my both parents are alive but my mom has been sick for the past two years. She has this pain in her right leg, we thought it was rheumatism but it wasn't, she was told to shed weight which she did. Stop eating this and that, stop doing that and those, be exercising all of which she has been strictly adhering to until it seems the story is the same. Three weeks ago i wanted to leave home as well as my younger brother too, she came into our room with tears in hear eyes and told me to give up the idea of running a business cos it is risky as my father is a failed businessman and she has borne the weight of breadwinning. She said the sickness with her was not getting any better and if she dies she wants my younger to finish schooling and not suffer as well as myself not to beg people to survive. At this point i couldn't hold my tears cos i have never thought of not having a mother and all she has been doing suddenly flashed before me. She was crying and talking and i wished i could command the sickness out of her but i couldn't rather i broke down in tears, first time in over ten years i would cry and it became a weeping frenzy as my younger brother joined in.

I still spoke with her yesterday, i dont want her dead, i have fasted and i pray for her i just want her hale and hearty again. She has been a strong woman. Thinking of loosing her creeps me out and gives me goosebumps. They are scariest moments.

yorex2011:
My problem is why people are liking comments here... Someone posts a traumatic experience, next thing 100 likes. Haba now!

Papiikush:
Yes. Put Spanish fly in her drink the next time she calls you to come over.

ezenwajosh:
Did anyone noticed the Igbo group name is funny....INM Igbos for nigeria movement.....what kinda sentence is that.....dehm this entity is finished.....the truth is this group was created behind a keyboard

czarina:
Not what? A lady? Not surprising tho, for someone seriously seeking relevance online, it's just plain pathetic.

Prettiepearlz:
Just leave her, It's only a matter of time before she makes herself a national disgrace just like the way he became a disgrace on Instagram and Twitter early this month.

sarrki:
I blamed you too (husband)

Since you know she has dementia

You should have watched closely

While you are out of town. You should have asked someone to look after her

elantraceey:
Haba nau... you knew she had dementia then you shouldn't have left her unattended.


I pray she's found soon and safe, Amen!

czarina:
you're trying really hard to copy NwaAmaikpe's nastiness, Not just befitting at all, grow some sense abeg, you're a lady.

Ganjafama:
First, any eight-legged creepy is not an insect. They belong to the class known as arachnids. They arachnid you killed is not a tarantula because tarantulas are hairy. But I can bet my last dime that this one you killed is very poisonous.

lenghtinny:
That's a one in a million case bro...
Majority will call off the wedding with immediate alacrity

Oloniyan:
https://www.nairaland.com/4122389/panic-osun-school-students-refuses#61507871


same thing now in osun

mikejj:
she be like walking dead

Adaumunocha:
Reminds me of that movie "predator".

DiamonJ:
I don't care anymore, I'm pregnant for someone I met a month ago, I got what I haven't gotten from my ex in 5 mins, he doesn't know am pregnant, that was why I broke up with him, if he had been a good boyfriend, by now we should be taken care of at least 3 kids, I have no problem

nikkypearl:
eiyah

wwwkaycom:
Gbenga, a medical doctor have a good family. Married to a pharmacist and they have 2 boys. He claimed to have met Chinenye, a student of university of Ibadan during a live concert in Lagos in march 2017, one thing led to the other and they started dating. After one month of dating, Gbenga decided to call off the relationship and this marks the beginning of his ordeal in Chinenye's hand. The girl had recorded their conversations without the knowledge of Gbenga. She sent these romantic calls to Gbenga and demanded N2.5million if he doesn't want his wife to have a copy of it by the end of October 2017. Gbenga claimed to have begged her profusely and gave her 50k and that she collected the money last week only for her to send the phone number of Gbenga's wife to him last Friday with a message, don't joke with me, here's your wife's number, I just chatted with her on wathsapp. Gbenga's wife later told her husband that a lady told her she has some important information for her on wathsapp and that she stopped when she asked for the information and that several attempts made to reach out to the number after that wathsapp episode failed as the number was completely switched off.Gbenga is finding it hard to believe that Chinenye is hell bent on destroying his home and he is not ready to part with any more money to her since he didn't even believe Chinenye would leave him even if he pays the 2.5million. Good people of the house, this is a case of wahala dey sleep, Gbenga go wake am, do you have any advise for him?

Donald3d:
Hmm
A lot of married people don't understand that its all about compromise and dropping ur ego(for both parties)This would have solved the problem

Wife : Baba bomboy I wan go buy credit
Hus: Night don come na ,no go anywhere (shouting)
Wife :But I need to call dat customer wey I wan give something early momo.Abeg na .
Hus:But u no say night don come,oya make I follow u,u no sey u be my fried plantain I no want make anything do u .


Shikena !!!!

Scenario 2


W: I wan go buy credit
H : I don dey tell u make u no dey waka for night,oya come use my phone.
Simple !!

Scenario 3

W: I wan go buy credit
H: no go anywhere
W: *goes back inside and borrows credit*
Case closed !!!



Reality 1

The man is just a horrible human being
And wife doesn't know how to tame him (everybody can be tamed you just have to know the entry point-thats why you should marry your best friend in the first place)


Reality 2

Man was probably nice and caring before and woman turned him into a beast over time (some women transform their husbands sometimes unknowingly ,its a natural instinct for survival to repel all those verbal abuses you keep giving him)
Not withstanding ,the man should have learnt how to control his anger.


Bottom Line :

Marry your best friend and someone you can tame(not to be confused with control) and this goes either way(man/woman). Marry the right person for your character and personality.

Pray for wisdom ,before and during marriage and apply the wisdom

Never let your marriage go sour over time,Marriage is like cooking an eternal food with firewood that will never get done,you have to keep the fire (of love ,friendships ,trust etc) burning forever

You should check my article on marriage below if you havent read it :
https://www.nairaland.com/3314181/how-spice-up-marriage-also

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Dalamama:
How did Jesus give up his life when according to the tale he never even died at all?