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erico2k2:
I'm a fluid Engineer.1st n 2nd degree in the UK.my current position was achieved via experience rather than qualifications.There is no way a fresh graduate or master degree holder can do what I do for over 15 years.

Yes I agree, companies prioritize experience, but with a minimum of bachelor degree in a normal scenario.

I asked because I believed if you are in the professional field, you wouldn’t say high end jobs doesn’t require a degree in Germany. My team leader has a PhD, and another lady has a PhD in the team, 80% of the employees have a masters degree and it’s an IT firm.

And again, in Germany experience is prioritized but with a minimum of bachelors degree for high end jobs, except if you have a PhD, then experience in the working field is usually waved.

erico2k2:
Wrong as how, plz show me one of them high end jobs that requires masters the way we pain it in Nigeria, I got 3 degrees and I don't earn with any of them rather Im working with my vocational qualifications.

You’re not in skilled job right? A minimum of Bachelor is required, and sometimes a Masters degree is preferred. Come on, check on LinkedIn.

This thread is pointless, you can easily check sunrise and sunset for any location on your weather app.

jaybenugo:
Xiaomi Manufactures CyberDog Robot That Can Recognize Owner's Face And Voice (Photos, Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxhsc2ZWfIk



https://www.google.com/amp/s/voi.id/en/amp/75096/xiaomi-announces-its-new-product-cyberdog-robot-that-can-recognize-its-owners-face-and-voice

There’s no big deal in facial recognition and Voice recognition. It’s 2022

safarigirl:
I have seen people who eventually died of addiction, but not before ruining the lives of loved ones that tried to care for them

Love does not just mean suffering with someone, it means doing your best to make sure the person you love does not have to suffer

Why is it only women you demand love from?

If the man loved his wife, would he be following prostitutes? If he loved her, would he not want to do better for her? If he loved her, would he not have taken actions to make sure his addiction does not bring her pain?

Why do you only mention love when it is the husband messing up? Do women not also deserve love? How can you love someone and deny them sex just so you can go and stick your dick in public private parts?

Love means also loving yourself enough to know when someone is abusing your love. It is love that has brought this woman to Nairaland to seek help. Now, the husband should love her enough to try therapy

Enjoy yourself dear. I have contributed my own part.

safarigirl:
She is not a therapist, it is not her work to help someone who is addicted. It is the addicted person that will decide to seek help, if not, frustration will kill her inside that house.


If it was the wife sleeping around with men outside the home, would you be advising her husband to help her overcome her addiction? Do you have any idea what addiction does to the loved ones of these addicts? Do you know how easily their lives can be ruined because they want to help someone who is sick?

She has a child she should be looking out for. What about the child? What happens when she suggests he get help and this religious man would rather not spread his dirty linen outside? You think religious people who commit adultery want to tell strangers of their adulterous ways?


Some of you are actually very wicked people and your words reveal you to be such. You give people advice that you cannot take or would not give your loved ones.

This is a sick man and it is not his wife that will cure him, he needs to want to cure himself first.

I have seen people who got out of their addictions with help from family and friends.

If your son, let say got addicted to gambling, clubbing or alcohol, you’ll rather leave him to rot and commit suicide one day than to help me because he’s causing so much hurt to you.


I don’t even understand what love is to you people? Is it all the good side and all that.

Anyway, you are always right your way.

You seeking advice from people whose homes are already broken and they are on a mission to make sure everyone else is like them.

You got the typical advice from those sad individuals, Divorce. But don’t do it without fighting for the marriage first, unless he’s physically abusing you or not treating you right.

What he has is an addiction problem, if he apologizes everytime and still goes back to his old ways, it shows he has a problem, he’s always trying to stop but couldn’t help himself. He needs you more than ever, and that’s why you are his wife, please don’t give up on him yet.

Try to talk to him, maybe he should see a therapist or something, and you can threaten that you’d have no option to divorce him if he continues, I’m sure he loves you and his family, maybe that will help him overcome this addiction. Just try anything that will help him.

Also, make him free to tell you everything, trying to appear pious will always make one to pretend. Put being religious aside, ask him what are his fantasies, what attracts him sexually, what makes him begs for more.

Addiction is a serious problem, please help him, without trying to help him, don’t listen to those sad humans.

ednut1:
For every bad news there are more than 1000 married people enjoying their marriages abroad. Both men and women do all sort of rubbish abroad.
1. No house maid abroad, yet you allow your wife to work and do all chores alone. Some even demand for fresh food. Wont she divorce you after

2. Some men have been beating the wife from Nigeria, the day you slap her here she called police. Is it not justified

3. You cheat without shame, she con do you strong thing. Is she not justified

4. Some bring women abroad and tell her to use your account as salary account. Then you give her a fraction of her own salary o.

The law favours women too because for centuries men have had the advantage. The system corrupts them too, they hear things, see things at work places and lawyers working on commission bases plenty. A woman is entitled to your house after divorce especially if kids are involved, na you go leave. Child support and alimony too dey. Who no like free benefits

Abeg i don tire for man and woman matter hahaha

If your spouse cheat, you divorce or cheat back, you don’t have to lie to destroy him/her, it’s totally wrong.

PPAT:
Go through what I typed again. How can you jump to conclusion that someone lied without reading the context well.
I was asked if I have OTHER RELATIVES and the interviewer specifically mentioned cousins.
Mind you the graduation I stated I was suppose to attend was my brother's.
So I do not get what made you say I lied.
Anyways, what you think about me does not matter a bit.�

Sorry, it wasn’t intentional, I just found it hard to believe you don’t have any relative “abroad”.

Africa will not disappoint…. Having issues with the balls lol

Can someone share me the link to watch the match...

PPAT:
I applied for Lithuanian Visa D to study in LT and I've already started my lectures online before my visa appointment date. But my visa was refused
There are some questions I was asked and I do not know if the answers I gave were good enough though it was the plain truth.
The guy that interviewed me asked if I'd applied to any embassy in previous years and if I was granted visa.
[/color] So I told him the truth. I applied to USA embassy 2018 to attend my brother's graduation I wasn't granted because I was doing my A levels then and the interviewer said she doesn't want my studies to be interrupted but my parents were granted.
[color=#770077]A older friend of my in Lithuania said I shouldn't have disclosed that I've applied to an embassy before and wasn't granted. That Schegen embassy do not have jurisdiction to check USA database. Is that true? And do you advice I don't disclose that information when next am appearing in a schengen embassy?

2) I was asked if I have other relatives (like cousins) abroad.
My answer was a No.
Any clue on what the interviewer was trying to get by asking that question? ( I mean what has my travelling to study got to do with my extended family)
In case of another time, should I just say yes.
It seems like they don't like it when you're being truthful.
Looking forward to responses

We’re you being truthful about you not having a family member abroad? You lied actually, you were previously denied a visa because you wanted to attend your brother’s graduation abroad. And previously denial has negative implications on a new visa application.

If rejection is not stamped on your passport , I don’t think Schengen countries can check if you were previously denied in other countries except Schengen.

NB: These are just my opinions.

Cousin9999:
Canada. But it's also much harder to get into.

Germany is easy to get into because no one likes it.

Lol

ModestGal:
Keep decieving yourself
Anyone who is homeless in Canada (I live in Canada) has either chosen to be homeless, working on some great idea, struggling for the moment, drug addicts, with mental illness, has criminal charges.
If an immigrant can have a home, then, no reason why someone brought up in the system would be homeless. Also,most homeless people are homeless just for a while. But people in Nigeria, will start their lives as homeless and end it as homeless. Comparing Nigeria to the Western world is like comparing ant to an elephant. And yes,, there are more opportunities in the Western world than in Nigeria. Supports right and left. Stop decieving people, you are vexing me

There is credit card, which means you can borrow for a while, and their are houses of $450,shared apartments,etc. If you work in AA factory, anyone should be able to make that in a month to keep himself warm in a home.
You can rent room together with your friend just like in Nigeria. And these western worldss have immigrants from all over the world that could also lead to lots of people being homeless, but most of these people would be homeless for a while till things get better.
And also,, no mosquitoes,so if they are homeless,at least no mosquito to disturb their sleep

The OP mentioned New York.

baralatie:
Read my lips
Wether you touched her bumbum

Wether you touched her boobs

Wether you touched her feet

Wether you touched her wrapper

Wether you rolled over and you body touched her body

Wether you drink shepe

Wether na craze


immediately the woman enter police station and says you inappropriately touched her body.you are a rapists
How many years be that for jail time

As funny as this is, it’s really scary as fu!q. Anytime I think of getting married, there’s always a million reasons not to.

baralatie:
The law did not say forcing yourself between a man and his wife!
The law says the wife only needs to say the man inappropriately touched any part of her body .she can file for rape!
If you have a son and he gets married.
His wife only needs to go to the police stations and call him a rapists because of inappropriate touching

Even with girlfriend, there can never be something like “inappropriate touching” if we banged, we probably touched each other “inappropriately”.

What’s the motive of the law? Are people this stup!D?

Wait again, touching your wife bumbum is an act of rape?

candygist:
Nairaland had really thought me a lot about Nigerian ladies. Thanks to Nairaland, I know how to treat Nigeria ladies. When I read this things on Nairaland and I compare it with real life situation on how this ladies behaved I can never be a victim….. I dey hustle to marry white woman and raise family with them. Nigeria women will kill you before your time. I even prefer to date girls from other African countries than to be with a Nigerian lady. God forbid evil

White women cheat more…

Olayinka997:
Hello guys, please what are the advantages of having a drivers license before coming to Germany? I'm thinking about obtaining my drivers license before coming to Germany so I want to know if it's worth it or not. Thanks

Do it, it will save you around 700€ when applying for your license.

chatinent:
Every small thing una go run to cling of the african-western disparity. Rubbish is rubbish anywhere!

If you don't know, the west made you everything you are today.

Who defines a dance step as rubbish?

And to correct you, during my personal research into history and chronological of innovations, I discovered innovations existed in Africa long time ago. I wouldn’t blame you though, lots of you are being “wasternwashed”.

The likes of you rejects Afrobeats, called it local, but adapt the foreign music. It takes the west to validate our Afrobeats before the likes of you wanted to be associated with.

No one should decide how you dance, dance is a reaction to merriness, as far you flow with the beats. Every dance is valid.

Your kinds that expects the white to think and decide for them.

chatinent:
All the whole dance steps in Nigeria are aggressive, meaningless, and awkward.

Africans have a way of demoting their culture, but praise anything from the western world.

Explorers:
Leaving one earbud behind.

This happened to me recently but it’s within the same state.

thebosstrevor1:
Did i tell you i was an artist? I am a listener and i know shitty songs when i hear one.

The way you think is like someone with cellotapes on the brain.

Fyi, which international recognition Nigerian music has? You think people listen to wizkid and davido in the west?

The only time, most people hear about them is in the grammy in one stupid category

You are not great.

Music is not just about about sad lyrics like the Western music.

You know what I love about Nigerian Music, it has a way to lift you up, and it comes with this magical sense of happiness attached to it. Unlike the west music that is always depressing, and sad.

Burna boy has great lyrics. Wizkid Blessed is one of my overall all time best song.

You don’t have to a$s lick the West all the time… you don’t have to always want to be like them, remove that slavery mentality.

Afrobeat is the best.

I love the slap…

He should just resign from Navy and focus on his comedy business.

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nameundisclosed:
Achso, gut...
According to the three people I've asked here and from the answers given, I'm typing this. Alongside some other information as well.

I figured that this new rule of Category B could have started quite recently, because I'm sort of sure that I saw that rule while checking the requirements on the website in late 2020(could be wrong about when it started, but I'm just saying that's when I saw it first.)

As you know, the world is still trying to accommodate normal life alongside the COVID-19 situation, so immigration could still be tight in some areas.

[s]Now, I feel the reason the Consulate/Embassy is making things quite uneasy for Nigerians is this: in the past, some Nigerians have gone through this process like us, they've gotten to Germany and then they've done a lot of substandard things and then gotten deported. Some have gone the wrong road and entered illegally, caught and also deported. Obviously, the normal response would be to halt or at least, neck up the process, making it quite difficult for others, all in an effort to curb such situations, which isn't surprising because Nigerians like to cause trouble. Germany isn't the only country that has done this. Poland, France, even the UK and US have started stressing the process for Nigerians because we seem to have made things worse.[/s]

However, from these three people who have recently gotten good progress, I am optimistic that the embassy is still giving feedback. The waiting time may still be quite tedious, but there's still hope. At the moment, Germany and the EU as a whole are facing some major immigration issues and I feel that could also be another reason for the delay. However, it would appear that Olaf Scholz may bring in a new law favouring immigration, so let's pray and be hopeful.

I, myself have been waiting for some time now, but I haven't given up. I advise you try doing something else that keeps you less bothered. Here's one thing I do a lot: I open Google Maps, search the university i want to go, or at least, the airport and do a virtual tour. That really brings my faith to a good level. One of my favourite bible verses is Jeremiah 29:11. You can make it yours too. Gather your faith and expectations, take it to God and watch what He will do.

Also, bitte, mach euch keine Sorgen. Alles wird gut.
Gott wird uns helfen, Amen.

(See the image I posted, from the three people in this group, God did it for them, He will do for us)

Nigerians are not even much in Germany to start with. And, Nigerian students don’t do any bad stuffs compared to any other Non-EU nations.

You can’t compare data of those who migrated illegally(through sea or refugee) with those who migrated legally like students.

However, the covid-19 stuff is a more valid reason for the tight immigration control. And secondly, there are too many applicants applying from Nigeria, and I believe there’s a quota for each country. So, I guess this is one of the reasons why it’s so hard right now to get a student visa.

And please, stop the bs rumours that Nigerian students are doing bad stuffs in Germany, this is totally wrong on all grounds. Nigerian intellects have the great reputations of being outstanding at their work places all over the world.

Righteousness2:
All over the World today, the Mark of Beast System is being put into play right before our Eyes.

Many are Falling for it , others refuse it due to perceived health implications, while those who read and Understand the Word of GOD (The Holy Bible) are firmly against it.

For me, I will rather Lose all than take the evil Beastly Jab .

My Admonishment to all allover the World is this;
These are the Last of the last Moments! Deceptions in different modules are being deployed all in bid to recruit souls and send them to Hell.

Wake up! Stand Boldly and firmly in GOD'S Word. Surrender to JESUS Christ and live Ready.
The Trumpet is about to Sound! JESUS Christ is Coming! And if you Miss it , you are gone! It is gonna be Hell on Earth.

Cut off from anyone or anything trying to distract you. Sort out the Matter of your salvation with JESUS Christ.

They that Have Ears to Hear, Let them Hear.

I’m not a big fan of the vaccine. But I don’t think God will send you to hell because you took a medicine to protect you against a virus. God is good!

Oduduwa707:
The international community should condemn Spain.

Does anyone still remember the 'Spiderman' story in Paris where the illegal immigrant saved a little girl's life and he was granted French citizenship

Returning a wallet is different from saving a child

slimjohn2k5:
E not think am well. But if he trend them go give am paper

They will not. It’s normal to return wallets in Europe.

InTheCloudySky:
Your post is too long.
Concision is the word.

As for the question, no one owes anyone sex, even in marriage. If a woman says no, that means no, even in marriage. Forcing her is called RAPE, even in marriage.

Why rape your wife when you can have a mistress?

Joey4321:
Hello guys, So this thing has been bothering me for quite a while now and I would like to have someone else's idea on it.

In my mid 20's currently undergoing a masters program at a Russian University (Somewhere around Moscow). Online because of the pandemic. The masters is a full scholarship with a little stipend calculated by your grades.
Now the borders are open and I have the opportunity of being there physically. Its kind of mandatory right now even. The scholarship is supposed to last 2 years with a mandatory third year where you will have to work for the school as payment for your scholarship. While studying you get paid, little money though, lets say 200k in conversion to naira. While working (On your third year) you also get paid but this depends on the role you interviewed for and your skill level. The masters is in Data Science and that is also my field.

But the only problem now is I just got a really good job here in the country that pays lets say about half a million. With my current projections, I could level up a bit more and settle down in 2 years

Now this current amount is more than what I will get paid in Russia both as a student or as a worker for the next 3 years (According to my projection). However, the school will cover accommodation, so the stipends are just for feeding, coffee, movies and dates, etc.

Do you think the masters is worth me giving up such a opportunity in Nigeria for the abroad?

In a nutshell, do you think having a foreign masters certificate is worth it?

I will advise to go Russia, with your skills which I believe is great, the compensation you’ll get after graduation is worth much more than any offer you’d receive right now.

You’ll have a foreign degree + your skill set.