₦airaland Forum

Oyindidi:
Na yeye dey worry am, she tell am before marriage, him no back out

Yes she told him and he accepted. That was when he had not heard about the negative thing about the boy.
Stop making it seem as if the man is just heartless.
You will still do the same if u are in the man's shoes.

If u used to have a very close friend that was very nice to u when u were in school, let's say a roommate.
Then you guys left school and u have moved to another city. You start to hear that your former roommate has joined bad gang and she was even arrested and beaten publicly.
If she calls you one day that she is within the same town you are and wants to squat with you for few weeks.
Onyindidi, what will be ur reaction?

Oyindidi:
You love the mother but you no want her son in your house. Yeye husband

You are wrong sister.
The boy was already living with the woman's brother wen they got married.
The woman was living with daughter before she got married.
The man married her and accepted taking in the woman and her daughter.
Now, the woman did not just requested that they take in the boy before the boy had a problem where he was.
The request came when the boy was accused of a crime of stealing which made him to be beaten (probably mob action)
The woman took the boy to her own siblings and all of them rejected the offer.

Now the woman want to bring the boy to the man that has already taken her in and her daughter.
I believe the man was saying no because of the bad name attached to the boy and for the fact that whatever made her wife's siblings to reject the boy is strong.
I see reason with the man, but the wife should do better by talking into and through the man's heart. Women have that power. She should not just get angry and bone the man up in his house.

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Lol, men hate independent women see as e dey pain you

You are wrong here. Problem with women is that they will always leave the major issue and want to distract it with trivial.
Just like the woman in this thread. The man was coming from the area that may have a long time damage to the family...that is influencing the other kids negatively and giving the whole family bad name...while the woman was focusing on the fact that she was the one handling 70% of the family bills. She never knew that money can leave anyone at any point and move to the next person.

My sister, men don't hate independent women. They only want them to be more rational than emotional.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I foot 70% of the bills , I pay my daughter school fee including my first child with my husband I pay half of her school fee ,all my son need is a place to stay, my husband won’t be the one paying his school fee

The man is worried about that son influencing the other kids negatively.
Whatever that made ur brother and other siblings to reject taking him in has also affected ur husband free accepting to take him in.
Stealing is a very bad habit. It takes time to leave whoever that practices it.

That you are the one taking care of the higher percentage of the bills does not give u the right to bring in anyone into the man's house.
All you need is to calm down and have a very reasonable talk with the man.
Bn angry with him can't solve ur problem.
Refusing to talk to him will even harden his heart more in his decision.

You also said ur husband won't be the one paying the child's school fees. This sounds funny to me.
Do u mean that if ur husband brings out money for the other kids school fees and refuse to bring out for that boy, you will be comfortable with it?

Madam forget about how much u bring to the house cos it's of a little relevant to this issue.
But if u feel so much confident in how much u bring to the house, divorce the man, then become a single mother. Get your own house and bring in anyone u wish to.

Rice Pyramid while hunger is killing the citizens daily.
Nonsense.

madridguy:
FFK is a certified mad dog no be today.

A reasonable Nigerian will understand the fact that the more generator companies we have in Nigeria the more our power sector will remain jagajaga. Marapco, Jabaili brothers, Mikano to mention few were brought into the country by the cabal killing our power sector.

FYI, Once you dey area with steady power supply, immediately one filling station enter the area, forget the rest na suffer because they will bribe NEPA official to stop giving you steady light for dem to dey sell.
I stand with the senator.

So u are implying that the Generator firms are killing the Local Power sector and they should be banned from the country.

In the same hand, you accused petroleum filling stations of also killing the Local Power Sector. For this same reason, Petroleum filling stations should be banned in the country and send the operators to jail.

Mtcheewwwww

A civilian slapped a Police Officer and they rushed the office to a hospital for treatment.
They should remove that police officer's uniform, give it to the slapper with automatic employment

valarmorghulis:
How would you feel if a white man called you a nigga, hope you won't call him a racist

Time has gone when calling a black man nigga was derogatory.
Now it has bn accepted as a way to refer to you guys/pals.

It's like dis Senator just came in from Switzerland.

We will stop using generators on the basis.

1. Fix the Power Sector
2. Make Solar power affordable to almost al that need it
3. Make PHCN Bills/tariff fair
4. Federal Government should buy from all of us the generators that we are currently using.

When you are ready, you can come so we can negotiate.
Thanks.

thatsleepboy1:
Imagine. Just look at the woman's action. Landladies in lagos are full of troubles and disgust. May GOD help d young man anyway.

With a good lawyer, the punishment will be lesser. It's just unfortunate that the woman died.
The woman was just bn foolish.
A legitimate tenant wants to leave the house to go to the place he gets the money to pay you the house rent, u refused to open the gate because you are the landlady and when he broke the key, u had the strength to fight.

This is an avoidable situation.
To start with, the guy is a legitimate tenant in that house.
Secondly he wants to leave the compound and not that he wants to enter the compound at odd hour.

True that there was a rule to be opening the gate from 5:30am. There are some certain situations that could affect that rule.
Assuming the Landlady's child was sick and she want to rush her to hospital around 4am. Will she stay back cos it was not up to 5:30am?...No.
Probably, the guy has an emergency and wanted to leave the compound around 5am. You have no right to lock him up irrespective of that rule.

The woman claimed that she was not strong to be opening the gate by 5:30am. She has younger children.
When the tenant was knocking on the entrance door, she would have ask one of her children to please go and give the "idiot" key to open the gate. That would have solved the problem.

The guy threatened to break down the door if they refused to open the door for him. They still find it hard to release the key to him. The Landlady was forming the godess of the yard.

The guy went ahead to break the key. At this point, the woman who said she was not strong to open gate jumped down to fight the tenant. That strength she used to come for the fight would have bn enough to even throw the key to the tenant from the window and this problem would've bn solved.

Why holding the guy's clothe? You would've allowed him to go after which you would've gone to the police to report him. They would've arrested him on malicious damage.

When you give someone your house as a Landlord, pls know where ur right starts and end. Don't go dey over do urslf.
Lagos Landlords are as wicked as the colleagues in LASMA

solmus:



what is it with this eleme junction and strange news

the case is simple, let them scan her fingerprints and use it to search BVN and Phone registration database her name , address would pop up and details on her simcard would reveal the location of the mast her phone last recieved signal, her last phone record would also reveal alot about people who droped her, all this could be done while they take her to the hospital.

This guy just came in from USA or Switzerland. Or are you watching Hollywood action movie.

Abeg this kind thing no dey happen here for Naija especially when you are a child of nobody.

iCauseTrouble:
That's so barbaric. They went extreme by burning her.

Modified
Everybody quoting me, please let's be guilded. Am not justifying the allegation against of her using mortuary water to cook. The fact still remains its a mere allegation and it hasn't been confirmed.
Even if confirmed, why not allow the law to take its course?

Someone just came to her shop, started shouting that the woman uses mortuary water to cook her meal and ppl gathered and set the woman ablaze.
This is crude.
She deserves death if actually she does dat, but who proved that the allegation was true.
Well, I hope the man that stated the whole thing will be able to get himself out of this case.

“We are doing a study in our labs on different packaging of food, especially on nylon. The outcome will be out shortly,’’ Adeyeye assured

You are still on research and you are already shouting CANCER
Oga hurry up and conclude your study so that you can be sure of what you are saying.

Meanwhile, I read where NAFDAC was begging producers/manufacturers of the food to please stop using nylon for packaging.
NAFDAC, you are a fool
You don't know your duty
If you are sure of what you are saying, you will not beg the food manufacturers.
You will place ban on the use of those deadly materials for food packaging.
Enforce the ban especially on the big manufacturers and you will see how everyone will comply even those using it for domestic use
Ndi ara.

May God Bless the beautiful soul of Dr. (Mrs) Dora Akunyili

Ndi Ofe Mmanu and pns$y.
Tufiakwa.

Christmasdon:
.They can't reverse d judgement you mean ? When the International amnesty community from USA have fully arrived in Nigeria to foresee the outcome. and if they do any partial ruling at the supreme court today Nigeria would have stain its image iworld.
IHEDIOHA WE KNOW!

Hahahahahahahaha......image that has bn rumpled, stained and trampled in a mud water. Abeg leave international image.

Talking about the International Community.
What have they done about the killing of IPOB members
What about bombing of innocent ppl bombed at their IDP camp
What about the Boko Haram that the FG is romancing with
Leave International Bodies. Is it not the same ppl that said that the last presidential election was free and fair.

Well, in as much as I would've love Ihedioha to continue as the governor of Imo State, but the mistakes his lawyers made was what gave the Supreme Court the leverage to make that spurious decision.

Reversing the decision will affect the whole judicial system and thereby making the whole system a mess.

There is no how the Supreme Court will return Emeka to the seat. Even if they know that the previous judgement has many flaws, they will not upturn the judgement. It may not be for the interest of the apex court to upturn the judgement.

If they try to upturn that judgement, they are finished. That will give the greedy politicians a base to keep coming for case review which will make cases in the country endless.

Supreme Court should be the final point for all cases unless you want to go to ICJ.

Manuel69:
Can a Snake walk on walls?

They have developed technology to help them climb on the wall. They are doing so many researches to improve their lives.

Before rats used to eat rat poison or get stuck on the paper gum, but now their scientists have shown them that most open food in the house are poisoned and when they see read paper spread on the floor that they are sticky and can trap them. Now rats will do jump and pass and will also leave all suspected food for u.

Mymynd4u:
May God help me, my soul is drawing away from God... The issues of life has distracted my soul....

May God help me that I wunt be lost sha


Very hard for me confess this but it's the bitter truth.

From Don meon song

Lord, You seem so far away

A million miles or more,

it feels today

And though I haven't lost my faith

I must confess right now

That it's hard for me to pray







This is my story right now

My dear, keep ur faith floating. never get drowned by the evils of these days.
For in a blink of an eye, the Lord God will scatter them like a chaff before a very strong wind
...and those that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength...............

May God strengthen you and build your faith.

Listen to R.Kelly's music (3 way phone call)


"3-Way Phone Call"
(feat. Kelly Price, Kim Burrell and Maurice Mahon)

[R. Kelly:]
Hello

[Kelly Price:]
Hey little brother

[R. Kelly:]
Hey sis how you doing?

[Kelly Price:]
Fine, what's going on with you?

[R. Kelly:]
Oh nothing much

[Kelly Price:]
Got your message from earlier this afternoon
And something just didn't sound right
And so I'm calling you back to check on you
How you holding up?

[R. Kelly:]
Oh everything is fine

[Kelly Price:]
You know I don't believe you

[R. Kelly:]
Whatcha saying? You think I'm lying?

[Kelly Price:]
I'm not saying it, but I know you

[R. Kelly:]
How you know me?

[Kelly Price:]
Cause you're my brother
And therefore I can tell
When something is troubling you

[R. Kelly:]
Ok Ok, I give you that
Nothing's wrong, I take that back
There is something on my mind
But sis, I don't want to waste your time

[Kelly Price:]
But I done told you time and time again
Whatever you're going through
You can come and talk to me
And I will say a prayer with you

[R. Kelly:]
But I done prayed and prayed night and day
I still can't seem to find my way

[Kelly Price:]
Rob that ain't nothing but the devil telling you
That you're washed up and you're through
But sister's here to let you know
Boy you're gonna make it through

[R. Kelly:]
Sister, do you really believe that I can rise again

[Kelly Price:]
Yes, and not only that, Rob, God will forgive you for your sins

[R. Kelly:]
Can you tell me what to do?

[Kelly Price:]
Well first you gotta believe the truth

[R. Kelly:]
Sometimes it's hard to believe in Him

[Kelly Price:]
That's okay because he believes in you

The winds, the rain
The storm
The weapons that are formed against us (I will survive)
The trying times
The sleepless nights
Just know that faith is with us (and I believe yeah)
Through all of the hills
And valleys roamed
That we must come to (woah)
Walk side by side
Follow the light
And we'll make it through (We'll make it through yeah)

[R. Kelly:]
So, so what you're saying is believe a little more?

[Kelly Price:]
Yes, cause faith is the key that will opens up the door

[R. Kelly:]
What you're saying to me, it's hard to receive
Especially when trouble follows me

[Kelly Price:]
When we're keeping it real
Robert sometimes
Trouble can follow where you lead

[R. Kelly:]
Yes sister, I know sometimes, but I...

[Kelly Price:]
Just wait, let me make a phone call

[R. Kelly:]
To who?

[Kelly Price:]
A prayer buddy of mine
She can help you tear down your walls

[R. Kelly:]
I don't want nobody in my business

[Kelly Price:]
She's a friend
And besides you need this

[R. Kelly:]
You know how church folk can be

[Kelly Price:]
Boy I'm your sister, trust in me

[R. Kelly:]
Mmm

[Kelly Price:]
Now hold on

[R. Kelly:]
Maybe she's gone...

[Kelly Price:]
No

[R. Kelly:]
Maybe we ought to just try...

[Maurice Mahon:]
Hello

[Kelly Price:]
Shh shh, hello, is Kim there?

[Maurice Mahon:]
Yes, I think she's around here somewhere
Hold on

[Kelly Price:]
Now you just let me do the talking

[R. Kelly:]
Mmm hmm

[Kim Burrell:]
Hello?

[Kelly Price:]
Hey girl, how you doing?

[Kim Burrell:]
Hey Kelly

[Kelly Price:]
My little brother's on the line and needed advice from you

[Kim Burrell:]
Ooh what can I do for you?
Hello?

[Kelly Price:]
Go ahead Rob, she's talking to you

[R. Kelly:]
Oh, well, I know you must be very busy
So I'm not going to mess around, nah
Just telling my sister how my life is upside down
And I don't know whether I'm going left or right half the time
Sometimes think I'm gonna lose my mind, you feel me?

[Kim Burrell:]
Mmm hmm... similar to what I used to go through

[R. Kelly:]
Really?

[Kim Burrell:]
Yes, and sometimes I still do

[R. Kelly:]
Yeah?

[Kim Burrell:]
See it doesn't matter who you are
Or where you're from
If you struggle, God will use you

[Kelly Price:]
Amen sister, what you're saying is so true
Rob are you there?

[R. Kelly:]
Yes, I'm just listening to the both of you
It's so easy to say, but not so easy to do

[Kim Burrell:]
Yes but if you stand the truth
It will free you

[R. Kelly:]
Oh

[Kim Burrell:]
Just stand strong

[Kelly Price:]
Stand strong

[Kim Burrell:]
With your head held high

[Kelly Price:]
With your head held high

[Kim Burrell:]
Said it wont be long
In time he will provide

[R. Kelly:]
Will he?

[Kelly Price:]
Yes he will

[Kim Burrell:]
You just stay in the race

[Kelly Price:]
Just stay in the race

[Kim Burrell:]
And keep on running

[Kelly Price:]
And down to the end

[Kim and Kelly:]
Cause your day is coming

The winds, the rain
The storm
The weapons that are formed against us
The trying times
The sleepless nights
Just know that faith is with us
Through all of the hills
And valleys roamed
That we must come to
Walk side by side
Follow the light
And we'll make it through

[Kelly Price:]
He'll give you peace
In the midst of your storm

[R. Kelly:]
Sometimes I feel like it's too late for me

[Kelly Price:]
But he'll never leave you

[Kim Burrell:]
No way

[Kelly Price:]
You just gotta hang on

[Kim Burrell:]
Hang on

[Kelly Price:]
Robert say a prayer, keep your head
God will do just what he said

[R. Kelly:]
Finally I think I get it

[Kelly Price:]
Yes, that's it
That's the spirit

The winds, the rain
The storm
The weapons that are formed against us
The trying times
The sleepless nights
Just know that faith is with us
Through all of the hills
And valleys roamed
That we must come to
Walk side by side
Follow the light
And we'll make it through
The winds, the rain
The storm
The weapons that are formed against us
The trying times
The sleepless nights
Just know that faith is with us
Through all of the hills
And valleys roamed
That we must come to
Walk side by side
Follow the light
And we'll make it through
The winds, the rain
The storm
The weapons that are formed against us
The trying times
The sleepless nights
Just know that faith is with us

Court case is not about "what it should have bn" rather, it is "what it is."

Emeka lost the judgement base on the mistakes of his lawyers.

If I bring in 10 allegations against you and you dwell on 7 out of the 3, the court will take it that you do not have defense for those three. That means that you are guilty of the 3 even if the Judge knows that you are not guilty of them.

Court cases are all about logic, argument and defense.

Supreme Court will still throw this case away and fine Emeka and his Lawyers.

Beautiful by picture.

Meanwhile, we are talking of Coronavirus(COVID-19) that has come to dwell with us here in Nigeria and u are posting pictures of school that cannot even produce a drug that can cure cough not to talk of curing the COVID-19

If you are asked to say a prayer for or against your partner (Husband/Wife, Boyfriend/Girlfriend) according to the way he or she treats you, what will be your prayer point?

Makavelli25:
Yea thats it. I rear local dogs and I have a lot of them. I had a dog that gave birth to 5 pups and after 2 weeks they all died. I suspected poisoning but as a young wise man I moved on.

Not long after the mother dog died too. I was mad like wtf they killed it too. But no lele na local dog cheap. I got another one and like a miracle it gave me 7 pups. These new pups are dying again, left with 4 and they are not old yet I would have sold them.

My neighbors are killing my dogs and I don't know what to do. They even Sympathised with me sef (oju aye) but I know baba GOD DEY WATCH

There is parvovirus in that your compound. That may be responsible for ur dog death.

bigass123:
The management of Fcmb should take over the responsibility of that boy.. If well groomed, he's a brain that will be very useful in the future. If you send him to prison. What will you gain? You have just sent a good brain to be trained by criminals to torment the society in the future. Trust me, he'll come out a terror. This is where this country always gets it wrong.

My dear, you are wrong.
It may sound so sweet the way u think it, but that will be a very bad example to set.

How many of such persons are you going to take in and take responsibility of them?
Do you know how many ppl (even those who have no criminal mind) it will encourage to try their luck on such crime?
What if after taking the boy in and he refused to change for good?

Hope it's not cos of the much u spend on makeup. Now the money no come dey much again, you don remember say the money for make up fit pay ur pikin school fees.

Well, it's good to be natural.

Chaiiiii....I just remembered myself ooo. I'm a very good man

See family bikonu.

I pity whoever will marry from or to that family.

Amstupid:
but dis is true

No....it is not.
Smart work pays.
Don't work hard, work smart.

and the Lord said....
"And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you (Joel 2:25 (KJV))

Parents, try to train your children well. Teach them discipline, good morals and fear of God.
Children that grew up with these characters strongly rooted in them may be seriously depressed, think of suicide, but will hardly perfect it cos they will still think of how their parents will feel about their action.

All these suicide everywhere are mostly cos of poor upbringing.

When men were men, not all these indomie and cheeseballs eating eating boys, men do not kneel down and start begging women to marry them.

You only kneel down before someone that is superior to you.
You kneel down when you are begging for something you did not merit but really want to have it.
You kneel down when you have fallen short of the laws and want to be pitied and granted pardon.

You don't kneel down to ask for a girl's hands in marriage
That is stupidity
They said it's romantic. Show me the romance in that shameful act.

They only do that silly thing to gather public likes and comments
Back in the house, no single romance and love.

Take your girl out to a joint you can afford their cost of service, buy her what you can afford.
On the cause of taking the thing u bought, tell her your intention with or even without ring.
A good girl will always accept u if u are what she want. Not just when you take her to that exotic place, gather friends, kneel down and beg her to marry you. What a show of shame.

Well, if that rocks ur boat, good for u.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

Marriage is for men and not for boys. You are yet to become that man that is prepared to get married.

You left the girl and expected her to be without any man while u are flexing with as many girls as u wanted. Do give me excuse that u are angry cos she is/was dating a married man.

Now you decide to come back to her and all u want is for her to automatically break ties with everyone that has sustained her when you and her mother left her. Do u think it is easy like that? You don't want to give her time to drop them. Are you such a selfish man?

Now, you are going through her chats even to a point of going through her browser activity log, guy, are you ok? Come ooo....do you want to tell me that if that girl had the opportunity to go through your own chats and activity logs that there won't be something shameful she will see.

Guy, I think you should please stop talking about marriage now cos u are not yet matured for it before you will go and put ursfl into trouble oo. You may wake up one day and kill someone's daughter all in name of marriage.

blowjohn:
Those countries he mentioned, has he asked himself why even their people r always in constant turmoil?

Don't mind the boy. Some of them will just come out to talk because others are talking. And they end up talking trash.