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Blackface, the case dey court. Leave the matter for court to settle.

I know for a fact that 2Baba actually stole "Afrikan Queen" from Blackface.

I am wondering if u were one of them during the Plantation Boyz era.

Which other advice do u need here?

When we advice all these upcoming boys on how to handle girls, they will go back and take advice from their co hard guys thinking that u succeed in a man-woman relationship with macho man, hard man and thug life thing. When the real time comes, u will see that it's not by bn a hard man but by building urself together with ur partner with love, understanding, maturity, mutual respect and sacrifices.

I had an encounter with a girl from Madonna university and she confirmed she wished she was in Imo State University as her school was worse than a nursery school in the ways they were being treated

When next u are posting thing like dis, stop mentioning names. Say something like dis.....a girl from one of the well known private universities wished she was in one of the state owned universities"

Stop advertising or spoiling someone's business. If u are a registered journalist, u can be sued for damaging article.

My guy, are u normal? By the way how old are you? I don't really want to insult you. To me, I feel you are yet to understand when to possessive (if actually it worth it) of your girl.

Let me tell you. This girl is yet to be called your girlfriend and u are already acting like dis. What will happen wen two of u eventually becomes real bf & gf?

Were u expecting that the girl had bn without any bf before u met her. Ok, now tell me that u have dumped ur previous gf soon u met this girl. I can bet u that u are still very tight with ur gf and now u want the babe to discard hers.

Guy, first of all, convince this babe that u really meant well for her and show ur seriousness before asking her to sacrifice her previous life. That girl is just a girl u met and not yet your girlfriend. Stop demanding much from her until u make that big move, let that girl be. Stop trying to paint her black.

It was gathered that the alleged underwear thief was later handed over to the police after much beatings and public disgrace.

I hope the people the underwear were handed over to will not go ahead to sale it?
This Is Nigeria.

A man from Waterbury in Connecticut faces divorce after his wife found out that he was not actually deaf and had been faking it for more than 62 years to avoid having to listen to her.

According to the divorce papers, 84-year old Barry Dawson never spoke a single word in front of his 80-year old wife Dorothy during the decades they lived together.

Ms. Dawson learned the sign language to be able to communicate with her husband but says he was still not really communicative.

“It took me two years to learn to communicate with my hands. As soon as I got good at it, he began having problems with his sight. Now that I think of it, he probably faked that too!”

The couple still raised six children and has thirteen grandchildren, all of whom were also convinced that Mr. Dawson was deaf.

“When he was at home, that jerk always faked being deaf. It wasn’t until I saw a Youtube video of him singing during a karaoke night in a bar while he was supposed to be at a meeting for a charity, that I understood everything.”

Mr. Dawson’s lawyer, Robert Sanchez, claims the elderly man’s stratagem was not meant to offend or cheat his spouse, and that it may, in fact, explain why their marriage worked for 62 years.

“My client is pretty quiet and not very talkative, but his wife is annoyingly chatty. If he hadn’t faked being deaf, they would have divorced 60 years ago. In a way, he did it for her and for his family.”

Both parties should appear in court for the first time tomorrow, as Dorothy Dawson is demanding financial compensation for her “emotional stress and burden”, as well as half of their belongings and alimony.

Kog45:
..without Africa queen 2face would still be a great artist.

Exactly. His greatness started from his humility. He was very humble even wen others were telling him his Boss was ripping him. He remained humble and used the Boss' connection to achieve his greatness.

So blackface pack for ur lane.

This guy so much believed that his music which he alleged that 2face stole is what made 2face great today. He is so bitter and the more bitter he gets, the lower he sinks.

No wonder we have many dull and low IQ kids around. Most of these brainless Slay Queens rolling out dull children anyhow.

I still don't understand this. Declaring result under duress.
Was there gun pointed on his head and he still has the courage to say "I am declaring him winner under duress."
Is it possible? Was the announcement made inside the governor's room.
Pls people tell me how this under duress declaration works.

Meanwhile, Rochas f**ked up.

AMvanquish:
There are so many kids out there in this same situation. We too like eye service.

Why can't we be proactive and go and help out with our church mind, must a scene hit social media before we provide assistance. Smh

What problem do u have with the help rendered. Are u saying that little Success does not merit the help or what?
By the way, since u know the right way to help, why can't u start with the little u can afford.

Pls let us stop all these Pharesee's attitude of finding fault in every good thing.

gloria34:
When a guy experience heartbreak from his girl, he comes here to insult all girls, call them names while his counterparts sing his praise. Why are you guys wailing?

Before u see a guy disparaging girls, there must be a very good reason to that. Men hardly cast girls for flimsy excuses.

Don't be surprised that the girl's reason for making that comment might very silly.

She may have spent like N500 on transport to see her boyfriend and while leaving, the guy did not give her as much money as she expected. That makes men to be stupid.

hezy4real01:
How do u open a blocked pussy?

Very simple. Ask ur sis or ur wife.
If cannot give u the right answer then ask ur mom

IdeeEsperanza:
I believe this one is a gross aiding and abetting from the banks.

Exactly. They will think they are protecting the interest of their customers while in real sense they are promoting crime.

ruddyman500:
I got married to my wife in 2017 and we have been living together since, we have a child together but there is this problem with her anytime it has to do with any of her EX. i will cite some of what happened .

She wanted to organise a programme at a time and the person she could think of is one of her ex who happens to be a media guy, i told her point blank that i dont want her to go met the guy but she explained to me how the guy will be of help to her in the programme she is planning, i let her be cos i dont want to be seen as someone throwing spanners in the wheel of her progress, i supported her and the programme was a success.

Another instance was when her mother died, and they were planning the burial ceremony with her brothers...my wife got home and told me that she told her brothers that she will talk to a musician to come play at the ceremony and the said musician happens to be another ex of hers. i told her right there that am not comfortable with it at all how could ur ex come to sing at her mums burial and i will be there dancing to his tunes?...after so much back and forth , i told her i will only attend the church service and i or any of my people will not come for the party, that was when she made last minute changes and went to book another musician.

The last straw that broke the carmels back was yesterday....I and her have been having some issues of late and we talked over it infact we are just coming out of the tensions....then yesterday morning around 8am she told me that another ex of hers called her overnight and told her that his mum just passed away and he could not think of anyone to call but her cos he is so broken, she said she had sent her condolences already but that she will like to go greet the guy and his siblings cos they are in their fathers house [ the guy is still single ooo although they broke up in 2013] and that she will be able to know about the burial arrangements so she can plan on attending the burial..so she asked me for permission if she could go and pay them a visit yesterday..... Normally i wld not have allowed her but i thought what is she didnt tell me and went there and secondly cos of the tension we just went through and i dont want another tension to build again , i told her i will only allow her to either go greet them yesterday or she goes for the burial ...I told her i will only allow her to choose one . She then asked me in strong tone why i didnt wnat her to attend the burial.....At that point i left the room cos i was not ready for another round of arguments.

She did not say anything again until afternoon, i went to my living room and asked her if she is no more going on the visit again she said she already taken her bath and she will go n prepare now ....she entered the room and started dressing up, i went to meet her in the room and i told her that i allowed her to go cos i already gave her the permission but henceforth i will not allow such again ...Told her she is not the only person with exes , i dont allow issues of any of my own ex brew tension in my marriage , i told her i have an ex whose fathers house is just like 5 mins drive from inside the estate we live and when the man died my ex called me ..all i did was send her my condolence over the phone and i explained that i cant come for the burial cos i have a wife at home whose feelings i respect and that it ends there AT that point my wife flared up to the high heavens .....she started ranting that why am i caging her that i should give her reasons why she should not go that am just so obsessed with her am immmature, insecure and bla bla bla. I told her if loving my wife and protecting the dignity and integrity of my family for obsession then she is totally wrong. She said other men will not have any problem with it that why am i making an issue out of the situation, i explained to her that am not other men , What Mr A is comfortable with may not be so with Mr B cos we all have our individual differences .....One problem my wife have is she does not see reasons why i shld not accept what she seems right to her . I then told her to call any of her elder brother and explain this situation to him if he can allow such ....

This is a woman i never restricted her movements ....i only restricted her twice and they are both on health grounds...When she left i did what i have never done before [ i have never reported her to anybody either my family or hers no matter what happens i find a way we can solve it]...i called her very close friend and explained everything to her, the lady was surprised and she promised to talk to her....I also tried to call her elder brother who is a pastor but his phone is switched off and i have not been able to get through to him .When my wife came back
she did not even greet meat all , she came to take our baby from me which i refused her, she went straight into her room, i later went into the room to lay our baby and i went into the guest room to sleep cos am so much in anger and i dont want the neighbors to hear any noise from my flat.

please i need sincere and honest opinion from married people on here ....i want to know if am at fault and secondly what next step should i take

Guy, most suggestions I'm seeing here are from guys that have just girlfriends and not from men that have wife and homes.
DM me so we can have good talk about that.

IdeeEsperanza:
Despite all the CCTV cameras around our banks and ATMs, I've not heard any ATM robber being arrested.

Have you?

My brother, you are asking for the most difficult oo.

What will you say about the situation where you are bn scammed, you have the bank account number that your money was transferred to and other evidence to prove the scam still the back will refuse to do anything about that.

midnighter:
an interesting analysis, but it depends on your perspective

A cross is, by modern standards, a symbol of hope and redemption

being given from the ground is a neutral statement. or dont human beings come from the ground? it could be seen to mean having a good root or stable family background. or maybe his ancestor was a successful farmer who was grateful to the goddess Ani for a good provision. "Ani has brought forth... "

i feel you are just being morbid

... Another side of it kwa

May his Soul Rest In Peace.

Taking analysis of his name, I saw where his problem came from.
His name was his problem

Kross Aniwetalu

Kross(Cross): Cross is a symbol of death and not just death but a painful death.

Aniwetalu: This is Igbo language. Literal translation is, given from the ground. That means, from ground I came and there I shall return.
Combination of the two names signify prompt death.

May God console his family.

Awol1:
Africans and their superstitious relation of events.

What if this thing just happened?

What if there are no village people?

What if he was at the wrong place?

Shit happens.

RIP to him. It's painful that after 15 years of sweat, he won't be there to enjoy it.

Requiescat in pace!

....and what if it is the other way round?

I am a Christian and from a good Christian Home, fed and brought up by Christian resources. See I hate the way our so called men of God are destroying this Divine calling. They are reckless and letting satan disgrace this ministry through the custodians of the ministry. May God save His Church.

In as much as I don't want to judge anyone especially those that are anointed (only God knows the true ones), I will say that the man and his wife are disgrace to the Ministry. They should seek God's face fast before His anger falls on them. No amount of defense will correct the damage they have done to this Divine calling.

And for that so called freelancer, You are a pathetic lair. I am not an insider neither do I know either this Pastor or his wife. I can only see that the writer is one of the loyal followers of the Pastor. He has taken it upon himself to launder the image of the pastor(dat is not bad in as much as u dont make the other seem as the devil herself).

To you the writter(Mr. Freelancer), so all the period u have bn an insider, there was never a time this "devilish" woman did anything good that worth mentioning in ur write-up? If I am to be a Lawyer, I will throw ur evidence to the dustbin. You are still a learner. When you want to make ur master look clean of accusations, don't paint the other totally black. Bring in some of the good part of the other person, that will make people listening to u not see u as bn biased.

Were u expecting the woman to clap for you cos u use ur body as drawing board.
It's rare to see a very responsible and descent person going for a tattoo.
Most times, when u have tattoo, you'll like to wear clothes that will always reveal it. This will make the tattoo bearer to most times dress skimpy. Ple see that kind of dressing as mark of irresponsibility and rascality.

If ur boyfriend's mom is a Christian, she will see ur tattoo as a mark disobedience to God's commandment as recorded in Leviticus 19:28 not to make any marking on ur body like the other nations mark the name or image of their gods on their bodies.

My brother, I'm very sorry to say this to you. You lack the will, quality and ability to control the home u established.

How come that your family issues should be settled by either ur farther out mother in-law? This is unacceptable. If u friend on them to settle petty issue like this, what will happen wen bigger ones come?

Now, let me criticize the other of ur action. Pls don't threaten ur wife of not giving her money cos u have little issue with her. She's not ur girlfriend nor ur housegirl.
She may have requested this money which u agreed to give, why bringing it into a different case.

All u need do is keep talking her out of that which u don't like. Tell her how she is different from those she want to imitate. Teach her not to sacrifice morality on the alter of trending fashion. Tell her that even ppl are complaining about her behind her. This will make her say to herself... So ppl are not even impressed about my fashion and that may discourage her,

My brother, the most important is to be in control of ur family. If u fail, ur in-laws will control u and may destroy the family. My 10kobo advise.

I don't understand this.

The man had the time to steal this goat.
Hard time to slaughter it and wash off the blood.
I wonder why he won't have a more better way of taking the meat to where he wants to.
Carrying the meat like dat betrayed him.

Well, Kenyans are slow in the brain
But come ooo. Is that Kenyan Police Station?

donbachi:
i enter market,use my hard earned money buy 2018 buggati veron...only to park am.then have love for a common dirty 1988 model of 190 benz....i don dey mad b dat...some men are just goats.

G=Greatest
O=Of
A=All
T=Time

Is that what u mean?

checkolatunji:
I just tire for both side. Sincerely we need to stop this act, not one side but across the board

We can only stop it we we start ignoring all these politicians using us to make money and face our business.
Politics thrives well under divide and rule strategy while the business we poor masses do depends on unity of purpose.
If we can see ourselves as each others customer(which the politicians don't want), we can den do better and live together as one cos each business man needs his customer irrespective of his tribe, religion and political affiliation.

Uniquekriss:
I will like to meet you bro, my situation is similar to this man's, buh a little milder buh I know I am temperamental n not tolerant enough, aint enjoying it buh dun wanna quit d girl.08038635825, WhatsApp me plz. U go good for marriage counseling

Ok bro. I'm at ur service

meobizy:
...and this is the reason why Nigerians aren't taken seriously.

That is why u will never make any good progress wen u never beliv that the country u are is never gonna do well.

All the advanced countries steal technology.
America especially try to steal technologies all around the world. China is doing same. What about Russia?

Read books. Check things online. Don't just use ur phone for Nairaland and Whatsapp. U have the whole world in that device in ur hand.

Husbandofigbos:
That's sure.

He has a right to talk and we in Ogun state have a right to ensure that Obasanjo's candidates are always beaten during election year.

The last time Obasanjo's candidate won in Ogun was 12 years ago. In 2011, his daughter Iyabo was defeated in the polling unit in front of her father's house in Ita Eko.

Since then, we've been beating baba and his candidates every election year. 2019 was just the ultimate disgrace. He ran to Hilltop in 2019 and that was where Buhari beat nonsense out of him and put sand in his mouth.

Na ordinary carcass dem package for una, we wey dey Ogun know as e dey go. Baba dey chop am steady for our hand.

When a community kills all those people that make other communities to be afraid of them or respect them, such a community can be taken to slavery overnight. Deal with it.

desiignerr:
Well, incase you wanna know.

He successfully crossed the pavement. To me he is just displaying his talent sha.

Silly talent. He is as foolish as that guy that drank gutter water to celebrate Buhari's victory.
The only time I will congratulate him is if he is a registered risky biker or he is doing it in Olympic games or sports. By then, if anything happens to him, his association or the body he belongs to will come and there will be a good compensation to his family he will leave breaved.

meobizy:
Why do Nigerians love copying?
We should try and do original things for once.

In technology, u either
Invent it,
Copy it, or
Steal it.

So nothing wrong with copying.
You that is talking has many things u are copying from every angle of life so what is ur problem.

Well, guy I did not see serious problem problem there. What I see is a man that is bossy and want everyone to know that he is the man of the house. The provider and caretaker of his girlfriend.

My brother, women are not handled that way. Respect is not forced. It is earned. Earning respect is not by thug life or shouting and displaying machoism.
If u want to live long, make ur woman feel that she is the one incharge and you will see how easy it is to rule women. Stop all these ur "I am the man of the house, "I am the one that will provide and take care of her" attitude. It will never work out. Unless if ur babe is dull baby. Let me give the implication of that bragging of bn the one taking care of her. You want her to be submissive based on u are the one providing for her. What will happen when she starts providing for herself? If she becomes ur wife and unfortunately ur source of providence has problem and u will no longer be able to provide for urslf and her. Eventually, she becomes the one providing for the family, will u be submissive to her? Earn her respect and she will become automatically submissive at all condition unless if the woman is devilish.

Sometimes when she insist on her way, let her have it. Just watch her make mistakes and don't even allow her talk about the mistake with u. Tell her it's ok. She won't know if u are angry or not. Next time he will listen to ur opinion when u gives one. Don't argue with her.

Another this is sitting her down when u knw she is in a very good mood. Talk things over. Ask her, Babe, what are the things I do that u don't like of which u want me to change or improve on. Let her open up to u. Also tell her where u want her to improve. Tell her hw bad u feel most times she talk to u as a houseboy instead of as a ur friend.
By the time u continue this way, you will see her becoming lovely and respectful. U are not adopting this style cos u are weak. You are doing it cos u are wiser than her and have a goal u want to achieve which is a peaceful home.

Let me give u one example on how I rule my wife making her feel she is incharge.
She has a good moving business while I have a good job. I told her what I earn monthly, though not the whole truth. I did not tell her some other I make inbetween which is good money.
At the end of the month, I will send her amount of money that is almost 70% of what she beliv is my salary. I will tell her that is for every of the family expenses for the month. Tell her she is incharge and she should manage it well. Tell her let me keep the 30% for going to office and other minor personal expenses.
I tell u, before the end of the month, my wife will make expenses far beyond what I gave to her from her personal money. She will not ask me for money cos she will beliv that I just have a little left with me. If the kids need anything she will be like, pls don't disturb ur dad cos he has no money now. She will go get the stuff anf tell them that daddy bought if for them.

Without this strategy, she will always beliv there is money there and will keep asking for it even when u don't have. Make her feel she is the one controlling u without knowing u are the one that is truly incharge.
At the end of the month, I will give her what