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Magma012:
Don't get this reunion show.. Just tuned into the channel on my dstv only for me to be watching recap of the 2018 edition.. Abi no reunion ni??

Try watching 9pm, that's when the reunion thing starts.

CiciReally:
Hello every one, am new here, I hope I can get advice and answer to my confusion and challenge

I been dating my man for almost 2 years, Am Nigerian he’s german, he was open to me from beginning about having some infertility issue, he opened up after we had sex unprotected one day and i was worried about him getting a pill because it happened in his country.

He told me not to worry that he can’t father a child 90% so since then we been doing it unprotected and I never missed my period for a day, fast forward to after a year plus I missed my period after we spend my birthday together, being that i never cheated, I msg him asking him on scale of 1 to 100 how sure he is that he can’t father a child, he said 90%, I waited for another week still nothing so i did test and behold am pregnant, he was excited and insisted I must keep it as he never got any woman pregnant and it might be his only chance, I was troubled, always scared of 9 months, I hate hospital and all that challenges that come with pregnant.

I tried to convince him so we get rid of it but he refused and promised to be there for me.

Now 7 months into the pregnancy his behavior changed, from beginning he doesn’t pay for everything i need, hospital bills etc, I do most things on my own cos i felt he’s holding back cos he’s in doubt the baby is his, now flashback to wen i took in he confessed to me how he been going to sm special church in mountain that’s known for helping pple with his issue, prolly God heard his prayer, suddenly he changed, we agreed to get married so my family will get off my neck etc but now he’s giving me conditions, prenup and DNA after baby is born.

I have no issue with any of that but how he always bring it up, I am so hurt, I cry daily cos am � sure baby is his, only asked him to support fully as he promised till baby is born but his family and friends discouraging him, now will it be wicked of me to cut him off have my baby send him a pic, have him do DNA then deny him right to own him?? Cos i don’t think i all ever forget how he treated me the time i needed him most.

My dear lovley sister, I really understand every beat of how u feel. Whatever ur mind may be telling u to do now may be right, but let me say this to u.

When u told him about the pregnancy, he was excited. Good beginning.
Along the way, he started acting up. Something has happened.

See, as a rational being, he must have tot about it and wonder how possible that the pregnancy is his. He has not done anything wrong here.
He may have remembered how some men got heartbroken after coming to realize that the child they have bn training is not theirs. He is still right in thinking that way.
Friends may have cautioned him to be careful before he claim another man's child just because he want to father a child of his own. He is a human being. reasoning with his friend is not really a bad line.

Whatever the case may be, what do u have to do?
You need to be strong. Don't hate the man. Don't be harsh to him if truly what u are carrying is his.
You are coasting towards earning his respect for life. Let the man be and talk to ur family to give u time to sort urself out.
When u deliver that bundle of Joy, let the man go for the DNA test.
I assure you, he will break down, regret all the time he was not there for u and wish he can turn the hands of time. But since he can't he will make it up by bn extra nice to u.

My sister, remain calm, have a peaceful delivery and a lovely home afterwards.

SocialJustice:
Nigerians with jealousy, envy and hate for successful people.

Some ppl not bn able to analyze information and know how possible it can be or not and they just take it that way cos it comes from someone ther perceived as bn successful. That one na foolishness ooo.

Do u know how u will need to invest in a project to be able to have a Return On Investment (ROI) of N5,000,000/day?

What is her capital base?
What is her market share in that business?
Is she in a kind of monopolistic business?

Her product is still local based, it has not even gone international. I don't even know whether NAFDAC has approved her product and she want to force ppl to beliv that giant lie. Isi adiro that girl mma.

My brother @SocialJustice, hope u have seen her Instagram post asking her fans to forgive her for that N5m lie. Say dat one get as e be.

The Reunion thing is more entertaining to me than the real Double Wahala episodes.

Ebuka, pls keep touching them where it really hurts. Keep throwing in the fire while u stand and watch who gets burnt more. I love that.

Women really hate themselves ooo.

ObaKlaz:
There are certain things that WILL NEVER get my attention. BBA and BBN are examples. I've never sat before my TV to watch those shows that will fucck up my IQ in the end. If not for social media, I bet I wouldn't know what BamBam, CC and the other dumbasses look like.

Pls do urself the favour of not commenting on an issue that WILL NEVER get ur attention.

Not doing so means that u really like the issue but just merely pretending so that ppl will say that u are really a focused guy when actually u are the most distracted guy on earth.

grandstar:
It takes strength of character to admit you lied. For that , my hat to her.

My brother, not in this kind. They kept lying everyday. In this one, she took her lies to a risky level. She don go home come reason the lie she come tell herself say dis my lie too much ooo make I go amend am b4 these boys go come hijack me from here ooo.

She didn't admit it out of remorse. She did it cos she knows no one will beliv her and it may affect her business and personality.
So, she earned no respect for that.

I was liking her before she come blow that big lie, even Ebuka was shocked and she even insisted that she was sure when Ebuka expressed his shock.

It's like they don't sell otapiapia (Sniper) in that country.

Let him buy one and end this kind of life of shame biko

publicenemy:
God bless you brother. Just what I was about to say. The only reason a woman can have any say or power in my house is if we struggled together to achieve wealth. That woman can wield power in my house and I GI just dey pamper her but still she can't mess with my friends. But if God blesses me with wealth and riches before I meet my wife, thunder fire her if she try that kind nonsense with my friend. Friends wen we don hustle under rain and sun together....

Meeeen the kind beat wen I go beat her before I kick her out of my house ehn! Television go carry am. Thunder fire her papa.

You don't know what u are talking about. I belive, when u get to the age of marriage, ur brain will get matured.

Ur wife will not mess with ur friends if they know how to respect themselves. No matter how much u hustled with them, they should know that u are married and know when to or not to come to ur house. If u refuse to address that, it means u are ready to dine with family problem which will leave both u and ur wife unhappy day and night. Are u ready for that?

Whether u made ur wealth together with ur wife or made it all alone, you should learn to give room for ur wife's opinion. This makes the woman have more respect for u.

omega2128:
Captain Marvel in making

parents should be more careful in taking care of toddlers.
not properly monitoring of kids will cost parents money, even lives of these pretty souls.

This one is not matter of taking care of or not.
The child is sick. I don't think it's the fault of the parents.
Now they need to diagnose the child to find out the kind of disorder he is suffering.
Then, that will be the time the parents need extra care for him.
Never leave any object that can pass his mouth to his reach.

lustychima:
Sane country with sane citizens

Don't try this at home ( Nigeria)







Tho we still have some people with good sense of humor down here

U lied bro. We help ourselves here in Nigeria even more than other African countries irrespective of our poor economy. Stop talking down the country. We may have our issues here, but we are still good people.

I did not see any problem here. The was very truthful the Officer from the onset. Only that the officer lacks understanding.
The guy told the officer that he is a professor in multitasking. He also told her that he is very versatile.

What do u expect from a man that is good in multitasking and very versatile?
The guy was just putting that talent into practice.

Lovelyn451:
Nwa gha nata tupu I naa n'iyi

Name in full.
If U knw, U knw.

Ejula ha, ndi nne nwanyi,
Okpo ha, ndi azu,
Mbala, O bu ji?

Mtchewww.

Which I don't know how to tell him no.

Continue feeding him till u figure out how to say no.
Good boy.

Tomorrow nw this one will come online to advice other men on how to be hard on their women. Show her that u are a man. Show her some actions and make her to be humble.

Hard man online (e-hardmen)

Which I don't know how to tell him no.

Continue feeding him till u figure out how to say no.
Good boy.

KinestHouse:
_According to reports from the National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) the crime statistics on reported offences reflected a total of 134,663 for the year 2017. The report further stated that offences against property had the highest number of cases with a total of 68,579.
This report by NBS reiterates the need for individuals and corporate organizations to resort to the use of technology to improve or boost systems in place to ensure the safety of lives and properties.

This article aims to highlight the many benefits of having a Closed Circuit Television monitoring system installed and fully functional at your work place and home. While CCTV system in most cases can't stop an ongoing crime, it sure does prove useful in a number of ways.

1) Crime Deterrence: The presence of a CCTV camera discourages petty crimes and would discourage criminals from even committing illegal activities.

2) Monitor Activities and Events:
A CCTV gives you the opportunity to monitor activities in your homes or business places. It let's you know who your children are talking to. It allows you monitor activities at work even when you aren't physically present.

3) Gathering Evidence: CCTV has been instrumental in the successful investigation and prosecution of numerous legal cases. It has also been useful in recovering missing persons. Installing a set of CCTV in the long run benefits you and your community.

4)Settling disputes: A CCTV is an Impartial eyewitness. And when it comes to settling disputes in the home or work based environment, A reference to a CCTV video may be all you need.

5)Record Keeping: A CCTV allows you to monitor activities at the work place. It allows to access and analyze customer - employee relations, visitors accessing your facility and can aid the training of staff at your establishment.


https://kinesthouse.com/blog/the-benefits-of-cctv-to-homes-and-businesses

Are you talking of Nigerian homes or homes like those in the Western world?

Abeg if u are referring to Nigerian homes, pls forget it. Even with ur CCTV footage, u will still find it difficult to win any case. The only place the CCTV can help is those in the super markets, where u see the criminal and catch him/her there and then and collect ur items back.

CCTV deterring criminals only work in a country where there are organized, synchronized and up to date data of almost if not every person in the country.
When u get the footage, the police will do face match with the footage in their database. The system will scan out those that have higher % of the face similarity. This will help pinpoint where their investigations will swing to. In a matter of hours or days the criminal will be fished out.

I am waiting to read from those that will start asking why it was only him that the people that helped him saw. Why didn't they help many out there not until this one did what he did.

Waiting to hear that the people just wanted to trend and make money out if.
Waiting to hear those that will called those helper hypocritical helpers.

Are those things that I'm seeing not things use to prepare abacha(African Salad)?
I can see
Odudu(Local beans). That one wrapped in brown dry banana leave
Ugba (Locust bean). Inside that white plastic bucket
Red Oil
Ncha/Ngo (Local concoction to thicken the red oil)

and other ingredients too numerous to mention.

Those may be what the Pastor's wife use for her abacha business ooo.

Richdad50:
All disgracing their humble families

Which humble family bro?
The family that gave them all the support to do whatever they want to do so long as it makes them celebrities and money is coming out of it.
Abeg 4get that humble family matter. They are the true representative of what their families are.

Be careful who you share secrets with ....

Three pastors met & agreed to sincerely tell each other their problems, which must be kept a secret between the three of them.

The first pastor said; my problem is money�. l do steal even from the church offering �. Please pray for me.

The second pastor; mine is women. Whenever l see any woman, my desire will be to go to bed with her. Infact l have slept with most of the church (female) members.�

Turning to the third pastor to hear his problem, he started crying �������(it took his friends some effort to calm him).
When they asked him to continue, he was still crying�, he said my problem is gossiping, when we leave this place everybody will hear everything the two of u have just told me.� Please pray for me!�...

��...�...�....�...�

DrP2000:
Everything has limitations, you need to practice as a doctor to understand what we pass through. A patient going for a surgery such as one that involve womb surgery as she said has 50-50 percent chances of dying or surviving from the surgery by any slight mistake.

So what is more important to you as a doctor,is it to pray for safe surgery or to sleep with her? Knowing fully well if she dies from the surgery, the stigma will be very bad, that you are a killer etc. It's not every surgery you do that you are 100% sure of being successful, that's why we request for patient or relative to sign A CONSENT before the surgery.

Medical practice is not only physically or medical it's also spiritual. There are things you don't do bearing in in mind the consequences
1. He will loose his licence to practice
2. He will go to jail
3. Even if he is freed, people will start avoiding him henceforth
4. Some ailments you treat are divine favour while some are based on your years of experience and some based on medical researches

If you are a man, how do you feel after sex, exhausted or energised? Surgery is energy demanding on its own, and there is no room for mistakes though it still occur because we are humans.
When you have sex before an elective surgery believe you me it may not (100%) be successful talk more of when you raped the patient. A patient need to be in good and complete physical and emotional state of mind before going in for surgery except if its emergency. Someone you raped can't be in a stable condition and the operation you are going to do involvea the same system (Reproductive and Genitourinary system)

Having said this, their is never a never in medicine and there is nothing impossible in life.
God knows the truth and let the truth reveal itself

My brother, I don't need to be a doctor to appreciate what doctors go through. It's a noble profession that needs to be respected for their services.

My dear, since the recent influx of all these young boys medical practitioners everywhere both qualified and half qualified ones, coupled with the environment where we operate where payment for damages and compensation has no place in our legal setting, these unethical behaviours from our doctors are growing by day.

U mentioned a doctor bn in a good frame of mind b4 proceeding for surgery. Yes, that is how it is supposed to be in an ideal state. Here most doctors don't think that way.
Your goal determines ur action. Some have the goal of a successful patient treatment. This informs the action they take. Others may have it in mind to have a taste of this pretty woman. This also determines how the doctor behaves. At the back of his mind, he knows he belongs to an organization that will always come to defend him if anything goes wrong. The League of Medical Practitioners Association or whatever it may be. He knows nothing will happen only in a very rare occasion you will see a doctor punished or license revoked

It's only those discipline ones that comport themselves to the ethics of the profession not because they are afraid of what the law will do to them but because they have already disciplined themselves.

Medical practice is not only physically or medical it's also spiritual. There are things you don't do bearing in in mind the consequences
1. He will loose his licence to practice
2. He will go to jail
3. Even if he is freed, people will start avoiding him henceforth
4. Some ailments you treat are divine favour while some are based on your years of experience and some based on medical researches

If u think that every medical practitioner out there thinks along this line all the time. you should also beliv that Pastors and men of God will never think of not to talk of having sexual affairs with their members.
My brother, shit happens.

blaise26abj:
Exactly. They should get very accomplished structural engineers to verify those claims. The existing building's foundation can be adequate based on the structures overall load and the bearing capacity at that depth of their foundation footing. Additional loading by those added floors changes the dynamics of the structure. At what depth would they attain the bearing capacity to withstand the new loading?
I hope the nigerian factor is not playing out here.

How I wish all of us will put this kind of interest in prosecuting all the Landlords and builders of these collapsed buildings everywhere in the country especially in Lagos.

The same way u feel now is the same way we civilians feel wen we are framed and u guys/Police keep torturing us just to fatten up ur pockets.
We all have blood.
Reason am naa.


RIP to the fallen Hero
May God strengthens u.
Fight on, get focused, no distractions.
The Boko Boys are numerous.

And they did exactly what they should have done — except they got the labels wrong. Instead of figuring out how many liters the plane needed to hit the required payload of 22,300 kg, the crew calculated how many liters were needed to hit 22,300 pounds.

Instead of 22,300 kg (27,770 L) of fuel, they had 22,300 pounds (12,598 L) on board — 10,100 kg, about half the amount required to reach their destination.

These are bunch of careless and non-proactive people. So if I am traveling and I knw that 20litre of fuel will take me from my originating point to exactly my terminating point, I will just go to fuel station and buy just that same 20ltrs of fuel even when I have enough money and knowing full well that there won't be any other fuel station along my way?

Won't I think of if there will be traffic hold up or if something happens and I use alternative but longer route.


Mr. Poster, forget stories. If fuel finishes in an Airplane mid air and at a very high altitude, the plane will come down crashing. QED

EsotericMonk:
It's such a shame that we haven't heard the full truth but already assassinating his character.
There are two sides to this story and we can't conclude till we hear from him.
In public hospitals, nay a teaching hospital, a doctor at TJ's level cannot do a myomectomy on his own, even at that, the peri-op nurse would carry out a safety check on the procedure before wheeling the px out.
I knew and worked with TJ when I was still in naija. He trained in the Russian Federation and has a young beautiful wife. While I can't stand in defence of him, I wouldn't join to malign his character.
Having said that, it goes without saying that a number of us do such crazy stuffs like fiddle with a lady's privates in the hospital.
We then begin to wonder what would push you to do such when you're allowed by religion and culture to marry as many as 4 wives and still keep concubines. At least you can mix them - fat, slim, big yansh, big boobs , dark, blonde.
As a doctor, I can't be turned on when examining a lady in the hospital setting. And if I must examine, my nurse aide must be present with me.
The devil in you must be greater than the devil in the world to fall for such temptation.

Doc. character is not always consistent. U knew him den does not guarantee consistency of that character. When u have some authorities under ur dispositions, you can disobey some policies. U can take a female patient in without calling in any of the female nurses especially when ur crime is premeditated.

Mistake some women do is not shouting and raising alarm as soon as u noticed such an act. If u know u will eventually tell ur husband about that, start by raising alarm instantly. It will be more difficult for the perpetrator to deny that time his conscience is still fresh on that crime.

Some randy guys will have it at the back of their mind even when writing JAMB that, "meeehn....these fine girls go hear am when I finally become a doctor." With that as one of theirs to becoming a medical doctors, they seize every opportunity to exploit.

Samanza89:
So after now what? Can the Federal government stupidly reinstate the man to his position and also tender a live broadcast apology to him and well meaning Nigerians. We all know all the brouhaha was just to solidify the rigging plan of the present government.

It does not mean that the case against him has bn dropped or squashed out. It means that the prosecution has only closed/finished its submission on the matter. It is now time for the defense to open/start its submission.

Don't mind the misleading heading.

They are not really interested in nailing the man. They are just interested in removing him from the seat in order to secure a favourable judgement after election. They have succeeded in that. The case will linger a little den dies off. The CJN will eventually reach retirement age and goes home.

Silly Government.
Foolish Minister.

Send the parents to jail, den u will come and take care of the kids.
Do u think that just reducing school fees or free education is the only thing the parents need to be able to send their kids to school.
After all who needs free education?
Who needs another person of government to train their kids for them.
We don't need that.
Make our country to be good.
Make the economy to be very buoyant
Let investors invest in our country and create employment for those that have acquired formal education
With these, parents will have no choice than to send their children to school with or without free education programme on ground.

So Mr. Adamu, go siddon for gutter.

If I am the woman's husband, I will kidnap all the doctor's children, demand for ransom. Collect the ransom still kill the kids (God forgive me) or traffic them to another country where they will never reunite with their parents.

Who know how many other victims have suffered such unethical act from this animal.

SillyMods:
Atikuloser, collation officers only transmit results manually. It's what has been announced manually that is latter stored in INEC database.

The card reader only sends record of accredited voters and not result of the actual voting because the card reader wouldn't know who voted for which party.

Whatever that was transmitted manually will be updated in the data base...right?
Atiku said that the database figures shows that he won with a margin of about 1.6million votes.

He did not say that the figure transmitted by the card reader show he won the election, but the one in the database. Whether it was transmitted manually or through the card reader is no longer the problem.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

These questions will be better answered by urself.
You know what u want.
You know what u can endure
U know what can't tolerate
You know the kind of life u want to live
You know what u can and cannot forget
You know the kind of past u can live with
You know the kind of past that will always bring anger into ur life.

Considering the above, make a decision. No matter what advice bn given to u here, u are the one to make the best decision here.
I don comot.