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MrCork:
..errmm Correction. .am in London. .u in that place.. Nigeria. ...who needs food??..YOU! ! (No ofeense )

You need it more than I do. London does not mean abundance of food. Don't deceive yourself.

U might be among those up there feeding from trash cans.

U need the food desperately and a good food, not those junks u may have bn managing. (No Offense bro )

Meanwhile, if u are actually in London, I will advise you to write better grammar. Go through all ur comments and start correcting yourself where necessary. That is if u can point them out.(No offense dearie)

Philistine:
What is this one saying? U PDP sycophants can never be satisfied, when nobody was jailed u complained, now a former governor has just been jailed,yet u are still complaining.Smh!

All these APC slaves, why are u guys always ready to fight even wen a comment was not meant to offend u. Guilty conscience is always haunting u guys.

There is nothing political in what was commented up there.
She was just appreciating the stride and was wishing that this be extended to the past administrations and present ones that will misuse public fund in such manner.

Or do u find it difficult understanding English language?

MrCork:
..yeah. .wot do u need..food?

No...u need the food more than I do. I just want you to help me by bn a bit reasonable. We already have handful of mad ppl out there and we wouldn't like to increase the tally.
Thanks

MrCork:
...ok..so u open thread to rob yor daughter. .correct?.......how does this help romance?

Bro are u OK? (No ofeense )

No...I'm not ok.
Please can you help me out?

You have a business you wish to carry out. You have no money to carry out this business project.
You went to a bank and secure a loan for the project. You left the money in your room.

On coming back, you meet your daughter doing this with the money. What will you do?

Her Letter "B" on the white board look much like her Bom Bom

B is for Bom Bom Bursting Big Before the classroom

The medical profession gives us pills that can help us to manage the pain that comes from surgery, broken bones, joint disorders and the like. However, many of the same medicines that can help us have harmful factors. Some of them have a high addiction potential. The following are four types that have a higher potential than some others:

Oxycodone

Oxycodone is a synthetic painkilling drug that is similar to morphine in many aspects. Specialists use it to treat a variety of painful conditions such as back pains, dislocated shoulders, post-surgery pain, fibromyalgia and so forth. OxyContin and Percocet are brand names for it. Usually, the drug comes in a pill form, and it’s mixed with other analgesics such as acetaminophen. Because it works like morphine does and binds itself to the brain’s opioid receptors, it’s very easy for a person to become addicted to it. Currently, there are more than 23 million people with addictions to oxycodone and similar substances. The drug brings forth feelings of euphoria and eliminates all physical and emotional pain. That contributes to the high addictiveness of it.

Hydrocodone

Hydrocodone is a semi-synthetic opioid that manufacturers designed after codeine rather than morphine. It’s slightly less potent than oxycodone is, but it still has addictive qualities. It works the same way that hydrocodone works, and the doctor prescribes it for the same conditions. The brand name for this drug are names like Vicodin and Zohydro.

Amphetamine / Dextroamphetamine

Amphetamines and Dextroamphetamines are substances that stimulate the body’s central nervous system. Specialists would prescribe these drugs for conditions such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder or narcolepsy, which is a condition that causes an affected person to fall asleep against his or her will. Adderall and Dexedrine are examples of such drugs. Amphetamines affect brain chemicals such as dopamine, which is a “feel good” chemical. Its also causes the release of norepinephrine, which gives the affected person a sense of arousal. Addiction potential is very high in this drug because of the pleasurable feeling that people get when they take it and the aroused “fight or flight” feeling that pumps through their veins. A large percentage of amphetamine abuse occurs within colleges within students who originally used the drugs as a way to stay awake.

Benzodiazepines

Benzodiazepines are the complete opposite of amphetamines. They’re designed to slow down the central nervous system. Klonopin, Onfi and Librax are examples of drugs in such a class. Doctors prescribe them for conditions such as anxiety, insomnia, panic disorders and the like. They work to calm the person by affecting the gamma-aminobutyric receptors in the brain. The addiction rate of these pills is high, and withdrawal from such drugs is dangerous enough to cause seizures. The addiction numbers are high for this drugs as with the other ones, and the ages of affected persons vary greatly.

Na so God go dey punish enemies of IPOB.











Watch out and see how those enemies of IPOB will come for my head now

Jackossky:
Chaiiii
When will Nigeria get here?

Story.....dey never do common solid road, na dis kain bridge u wan make dey begin dey reason.
Even for dream, dey no fit reason am.

Ijaya123:
Describe the simple steps.

Inbox me if u need it

Ijaya123:
How is the guy able to determine which of the CCTV cameras are working? Did he enter the Control Room?

Very simple. U can use ur smart phone to detect hidden surveillance cameras and surveillance cameras that are working.

edeXede:

They are in another man's land. They should respect the law of the land. You shouldn't beat up a white man in his own land..

Jeezzz...pip, do u hear dis one? I just dey vex for dis silly comment.
Can u imagine? Don't beat a whiteman in his country. This is a dirty poo talk.
U mean u should allow urself and be fed wt poo because he has silly white stinking body....chaiii....i don die.

Many of them are in Naija behaving anyhow, intimidating and using our ppl anyhow. Beating some of their staff even kicking pregnant women.

My brother just respect urself and stop this white worshiping.


Meanwhile, I love the way they beat the big for nothing bragging idiot.
He tot that that Igbo guy was joking wen he told him that he will level him and that it's not by size.

Igbos don't take shit, but they are long suffering. Do not push them too hard. They can be dangerous wen they say enough is enough.

APC History in Imo State and South East.

Abeg we no get time for this history lecture.

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funtomiee:
lol kemi is stylishly begging from Linda.... i understand the matter now
and dat why dat same thunder wants to kill her for not minding her business

Do u notice hw she is stylishly begging Linda to beg her fans to have mercy on her in their comments one her blog. Comments from Linda's fan is really making Kemi add madness on top of the madness "acquired" wen she was in prison.

Kemi is jealous of Linda's exploit in blogging. She claimed to be there b4 Linda. My sister, it's not hw far, it is how well. She want Linda to teach her how to make more money. Instead of begging Linda she is making it seem as if she is fighting for Linda's fans and urging Linda to teach her fans.
MAD KeMi

Here's the thing about relationships.

Sometimes they're candlelit date nights, and walks through grassy meadows, and feeding each other cake at your wedding.

But sometimes they're doing the dishes, and comforting a screaming baby, and fighting over whose turn it is to do the dishes or comfort the screaming baby.

Which is to say, while sometimes your love and passion for each other is obvious, sometimes it's really, really not.

So how do you know if your relationship is terrific -- or heading south?

Psychologists have spent years studying the traits that are fundamental to successful long-term relationships and come up with a few key ideas. We rounded up some of their most surprising insights below.

A word of caution: If you notice that your relationship doesn't meet all these criteria, that does not necessarily mean you should end things with your partner. Consider this list a general set of guidelines that can help you start evaluating whether your current relationship is bringing you satisfaction and happiness.

You think about your partner often when you're not together

In 2007, researchers randomly dialed nearly 300 married people and asked them a series of questions about their relationships, as well as how in love they felt.

Results showed that certain relationship characteristics were linked to stronger feelings of love. One especially interesting finding: The more often people reported thinking about their partner when they were apart, the more in love they felt.

The same study included a follow-up experiment with nearly 400 married New Yorkers, which found that difficulty concentrating on other things while you're thinking about your partner is also linked to strong feelings of love -- especially for men.

You respond positively to each other's good news

Business Insider's Lauren Friedman has reported that one litmus test of a happy relationship is how enthusiastically each partner responds to the other's good news.

A Psychology Today blog post breaks down four ways a man could respond after his wife tells him she got a promotion at work:

An active-constructive response from him would be enthusiastic support: "That's great, honey! I knew you could do it, you've been working so hard."

A passive-constructive response would be understated support -- a warm smile and a simple "That's good news."

An active-destructive response would be a statement that demeaned the event: "Does this mean you are going to be gone working even longer hours now? Are you sure you can handle it?"

Finally, a passive-destructive response would virtually ignore the good news: "Oh, really? Well you won't believe what happened to me on the drive home today!"

Perhaps unsurprisingly, the response that's most closely linked to relationship satisfaction is the "active-constructive" response.

You spend some time apart, with your own friends

Over the past few decades, we've started placing increasing demands on our spouses. As Business Insider's Jessica Orwig has reported, no longer do we expect them to be financial partners, protectors, and companions -- now we also want them to provide personal fulfillment.

The psychologist who produced some of these findings, Eli Finkel, suggests that if you want to be happy in your marriage, it's best not to look to your partner for all your existential needs. Finkel recommends finding yourself in hobbies, friends, and work as well.

You have a similar sense of humor

Neil Clark Warren, psychologist and founder of dating site eHarmony, previously told Business Insider that humor can be a "social lubricant" in a romantic relationship.

Meanwhile, Business Insider's Erin Brodwin has reported that having a "private" language with your partner -- i.e. nicknames and jokes that no one else would get -- can help facilitate bonding and often predicts relationship satisfaction.

You split chores evenly

In one poll, as many as 62% of adults said that sharing chores is very important to a successful marriage. Interestingly, given societal stereotypes, there was no difference between men and women.

But while men are doing more housework than they were in years past, research has found that women still pick up most of the slack.

You try new things together

For a study published in 1993, researchers looked at the relationship quality of more than 50 middle-aged married couples and assigned them to one of three groups.

One group picked new and exciting activities to do together for 90 minutes a week -- like going to a play or dancing. Another group spent 90 minutes a week doing pleasant but routine activities together -- like going to the movies. The last group wasn't asked to change anything.

After 10 weeks, the researchers re-assessed the couples' relationship quality and found that those who had tried new and exciting undertakings were the most satisfied.

As The New York Times reported in 2008:

Dr. Aron [one of the researchers behind the study] cautions that novelty alone is probably not enough to save a marriage in crisis. But for couples who have a reasonably good but slightly dull relationship, novelty may help reignite old sparks.

You don't have a lot of extreme downturns in your relationship

Researchers recently looked at nearly 400 dating couples and used their feedback about their relationships to identify four different patterns of commitment: dramatic, conflict-ridden, socially-involved, and partner-focused.

As psychologist and relationships expert Gary Lewandowski explains on Science of Relationships, dramatic couples showed a lot of fluctuation in their commitment to their partner over time.

Partner-focused couples saw their partners positively and mostly experienced fluctuations in commitment when they couldn't spend as much time together.

Socially-involved couples usually experienced fluctuations when their friends and family changed what they thought of the relationship.

Finally, conflict-ridden couples fought often and had a lot of mini-fluctuations in their level of commitment.

As it turns out, partner-focused couples were most likely to get more serious in their relationship, and dramatic couples were most likely to break up.

You know how to recover from a fight

Psychologist and relationship expert John Gottman previously told Business Insider that the No. 1 shared trait among successful relationships is being able to repair the bond after a fight.

It's not about not having conflict at all -- instead, it's about the way you approach it. Gottman told Business Insider:

"The thing that all really good marriages and love relationships have in common is that they communicate to their partner a model that when you're upset, I listen.

"The world stops, and I listen. And we repair things. We don't let things go. We don't leave one another in pain. We talk about it, and we repair."

Culin:
"advanced fee fraud" ..so that is what 419 is called 'in the abroad'.

Yes, that is what it is called everywhere. 419 is the section of the Nigeria Constitution that is used to try the case of Advanced Fee Fraud or any revenue obtained by trick.

Beliv me, the girl is in love wt u. Many ppl have different ways of expressing their love. Some can start by bn aggressive, some bn so calm while others will be stupidly nice to u.

This woman is in desperate need of followers. Like Linda's fans have overwhelmed her. She is just jealous of Linda's overflowing fans and want to take some out from her. That is why she is advertising for free Blogging training on Whatsapp.

Is it by force that I will teach everyone what gives me money. This Kemi is really mad. Her prison experience is still haunting her.

That kind of slap is a kind of slap that says; Are u stupid why should you match me with that your cheap boot. Don't you know your mates. taaaaaaa(Slap)....thunder fire u dia.

Remimadrid:
This woman just spoiled Linda's day.
As for me Linda should shoot a nude maternity photoshoot for me to believe she is pregnant.

That still won't prove that she is really pregnant. There is injections women take which will make their tommy look as if they are pregnant. If u want 4 months bump, the doctor will inject u the one that will shoot ur tommy to look like 4 months baby bump ans so on.

Gerrard59:
It is far easier training fewer kids than a battalion. The effects are everywhere. I'm sure that families that have lots of children they cannot take proper care of tend to have the kids becoming a burden to the society. I'm also sure that the vast majority of child hawkers come from such families. Where the man is a peasant farmer and wife a petty trader; procreating 7 children! That is the height of foolishness.

The drop in parents’ income around childbirth can have major consequences for kids as well. Money matters for children’s development, even before children are born. Babies born into poverty are at a heightened risk for preterm birth (which is associated with long-term intellectual and developmental disabilities) and other negative outcomes. Inadequate family income is harmful for children—particularly young children—affecting their long-term social-emotional, cognitive, and academic outcomes even when controlling for other parental characteristics.

http://equitablegrowth.org/equitablog/having-a-child-comes-with-significant-financial-consequences/

http://blogs.worldbank.org/africacan/are-african-women-having-too-many-babies

Falling Fertility and its benefits by The Economist: https://www.economist.com/node/14744915




An exception not the norm. Raising children is a harder job compared to procreating them. The costs of raising children properly is high, and families should procreate children they can take care of. This goes beyond respect, after all, the child hawker is doing same to his/her parents.



Yet again, an exception not the norm.



No, this is false. Properly raised children are subject to the resources the parents have, and is dependent on how many children they procreated. To an extent, having good parents count, but having bad parents procreating lots of children is the worse and smacks of irresponsibility. If your assertion is true (which is not), why has the proportion of criminals increased within the past years? Where do the recruits of Boko Haram members come from? How many children from families where they are brought in commensurate to the resources of their parents go on to become terrorists compared to those whose resources are lesser than the number of children?

All i read here are facts that cannot hold water, myopic assumptions and contractions of what you want to prove.

You have ended up telling us that anywhere we see untrained child, we should know that he/she is from a family where they are many children. Bros this is an unintelligent assumption.

You also said the case of John Wesley is an exceptional case. My dear, this statement contradicts ur statement that poorly trained children in the society are from a family where the children are many.

I see what u termed as training is limited to only parents bn able to provide all material needs of their children. Please know it that training a child goes beyond that. Ask questions if u are lost on that.
There are many children from poor parents and with many siblings and they were trained to be contented with whatever the parents can provide while they strive harder to better their future. There are also many "only" child in our society who the parents can afford any material need for the child. They are always there for the child. Sent him/her to the best school, still at the end the parents will regret having him/her. Do u doubt that?

You also affirmed that availability more than enough money is the only factor that guarantees proper upbringing of children. My brother, this is totally uneducated and blind assumption. You really need to change this believe. It is totally an assault sense of decent reasoning.

Finally, what you call many and hard to train for u might not be for the other person irrespective of his or her source of income.

Gerrard59:
But you'd agree with people who say so. It is a fact that people who procreate lots of children tend not take proper care of them.

At coloured: As much as I respect people's choices, it is these choices that breed agberos, criminals, abandoned children, poor productivity etc. At the end of the day, it is those that do not procreate irresponsibly that would be forced to pay for the societal damage gotten from people who procreate foolishly! Why should I be held responsible for another's irresponsibility when I'm not irresponsible?

At the post: Nothing wrong with people procreating the number of children they desire, but everything is wrong with procreating children they cannot take proper care of.

Who is selling this to u?

Can u prove that agberos, criminals etc are children from families where they are many. Who told you that a family that has one or two children always train the child or children very well and they don't venture into crime?

My dear I have seen many families that have just a child and the child became menace to the society. I have also seen where the child is well trained.
I have also seen a family of multiple children with perfect training even as adults, they still respect their poor uneducated parents. You could hardly see any of them getting involved in any illicit activity.
So what are u trying to tell me here.

Have u heard of John Wesley (founder f Methodist Church)? Have u read about her mother, Susanna Wesley? Take out time to read about them.

Good or bad upbringing is subject of how good or bad the parents are and not dependent on how many children that are available in the family.

DIKEnaWAR:
I am yet to see the 9th kiddo or did she lay down on the bed to have sex and give birth to her husband too? It seems he is the 9th kid.

Besides, why do people all of a sudden adorn a victim mentality just to celebrate a thing? You have 9 kids and so what? Why run to post and act like the whole world villifies you for it?

Yes...she has to do that cos ppl don't mind their business. Do you kw how many ppl that must have lashed her for having the number of children she have?
Do u know how many ppl that had said to her; it's not matter of giving birth to them, it's all about training them?
Can u imagine hw many ppl that must called her "spider" bearing children in multiples.

I don't see anything wrong in her doing this post. Ple should mind their business. You have a choice, i have mine. Why must u insist that ur choice is better than mine. Who told u?

My late father(blessed be his soul) used to tell me this story.

There was this rich man that had a slave. He always moved around with this slave. This slave behaved in a way that always pissed the rich man of so that the rich man will get angry, scold him and say to him; "You slave, you are always bringing shame upon urself".

Addressing the slave as a slave makes him so angry cos he want to be seen as a son and a heir to the rich man so that ppl will respect him.
One day, they were to travel to a very far away village to meet a royal king. The slave came to his master and beg him saying; My Lord pls I beg you with the name of god we worship. Pls don't call me slave wen we get to that foreign land.

His master told him and said; It doesn't please me to call you a slave, but wenever u start displaying those characters of a slave, i will be forced to call u a slave.

Wen they got to that land, assorted food was served to them, the slave started eating as if he had never seen food before. His Master looked at him so that he can comport himself, but he could not read his master's sign. The man got embarrassed and angry he scold him and said; "You slave, can't u even have a single respect for yourself and I ur Master?"

Moral of the story: Dress the way you will like to be addressed. Behave the way you want others to see you. Wen 98% of our women are behaving like Ashawo, we will have no choice than to address them so.

See mosquito bite on her chest that she is calling breast. Chaii...breast don suffer. So any small bump on the chest ppl will start describing it as a breast? Na waaooo.

Jesusloveyou:
Pig saraki said his governor told him the criminals they are be using to do their dirty job has be transfer to abuja for proper investigation.

Hahahahahahaha .

The fear of idris will certainly reset pig saraki brain to be loyal to idris.

Is this the best English you can type?

EastGold:
Clear conscience fears no accusations

Abeg forget that one. Your quote is not applicable in Nigeria case.

Which one is Alex and which one is the man?

This will go a long way reducing and calming these robbers down.

zedman1:
looking at his comment critically, I don't think he means what you think he means. Anyway I will not speak for him.

His comment was negative and not positive as u may think. We know those here that like to despise God believing individuals.