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Since the death of Sister Osinachi (Ekwueme Singer), the call for married people to walk out of an abusive partner/marriage has heightened up.
So many people are lending their voices to this call.
This call is a good one and acceptable to a point.

My question is this:

Let's assume a Pastor has put up this call, asking every woman to leave a marriage where the husband is abusive.
How do you think the Netizens will react to this call?
Do you think the Pastor will be supported or called Home Breaker Pastor?
Don't we think the Pastor will be dragged and termed a fake Pastor?

Your Opinion please.

Pro. Soludo, I must tell you that you're taking this the wrong way. You're going to make these guys become more brutal.

Ending the Monday sit at home shouldn't be what you should come to boast publicly that you'll stop and deal with them. You're heading towards creating more enemies for yourself. This will make your tenure very difficult for you.

Pretend as if you really understand their anger and promise to work with them to sort things out. Let them see you as someone on their side. They'll develope high respect for you and tend to listen to you when call them. With that Anambra will at least be peaceful till you sort out a way to handle the issue.

You're behaving as if the power at Aso Rock has ordered you to go and eliminate IPOB. If people have this feeling, your tenure will be bitter for you

obembet:
I was surprised when My Neighbor show me the result her daughter got from the school yesterday.

How can a girl that normal go to school around 8:30-9am got A for punctually. The funniest part of it is that the teacher give the girl A in all area but still in 19th position out of 25 pupils

RATING GRADE:
50-74 is C but the teacher Wrote A in all

Please what your advice?

You should also try to polish your grammar construction to make it more palatable while reading it. Thanks

TheOldGods:
not just one act, she is always looking for ways to blackmail me

If you know she is not good for you, tell her off.
I seriously dislike all these childish games that will at the end of the day put u and your friend at battle ends when you can peacefully quite any relationship that will not work for you.

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

I couldn't finish reading this piece of sh!t.
Oga, you and your wife need to go back to the drawing board and set things right.
With this sh!t you wrote here, I can only say that what you have is a house and not a home.
This is a kind of Home house where no one is ready to sacrifice for the other.
Continue like this and it won't be long you guys will be planning on how to eliminate each other.

Bn a man and manning up is not by showing muscle and just by displaying that I can beat u up at any time.
Bn a man means showing more wisdom to that woman than she has.
Sorry to say this. Your action was a bit below what I expected you to do as a man.
I don't want to talk about your wife.

There are so many wise ways you can make your partner do what you want her to do without applying any force.
She will do it, still remain happy doing it.
If you are mature to get married, be matured to learn the intricacies and tricks opened for a man in a family.

Na the gods dey chase away flies for the nyash of cow wey no get tail.
Pesin wey dey pursue innocent chick, na fall em go fall. Chick go run away.
Head wey go enter bee hive, na im go collect enough sting from bees.
Dem no dey tell deaf pesin say war don start.

Kiddwaya, I know that you are just indirectly making fun with this, if not i for curse u.
What has Buhari's regime used to hold the economy, life and future of this country.
If he had even tried to use stone to hold us, things 4 even better for us here.
The man just carelessly left this country to be rolling to destruction without anything holding or stopping it.
The people that held that stand with stone are so merciful. They should have allow the man to fall the same way everything is falling in this country. Nonsense.

TheOldGods:
which people?

Nb

for those sending me message here on nairaland, I don't have the email address oo. I don't even know how I opened my account lol. However,I am eager to help you learn my skill if you want. But you go pay oo so you can be serious, but don't worry, email here
bornsiv234@gmail.com

Na dem.
Stylish advert.
Many will still fall for it.

Pele10:
Is bianca mad or what? That you only walk_up to her for pleasantries and the only way she could react was to give you a brain resetting slap... If you are looking for a cover_up lie, consult Lier Mohammed.

The worst part of this lie was where she said that after Bianca slapped her, she didn't bother to slap back. She just walked away. Chaii, see executive lie oo.
This woman that was dragging to go fight Bianca is saying that she walked away. This woman need more slap.

TheGidRedpiller:
She is sick, to the point of stooling blood, this is actually true.
That biittch thinks she isn't enough curse to me than whatever she thinks is standing by at the middle of the night waiting to manifest her all powerful curse

I know she is sick, i know, but i also know when she is trying to manipulate her ways into things with the attention she gathers from her illness situation. She asked for financial help, i swear i wanted to help her too, but i just couldn't, did she deserve it or not

If you followed me from scratch, you would know that this is the same wh0re of a mother that would fvvck another men in her matrimonial home after the death of her husband, this is the same selfish biittch that would put herself first before the interest of any of her children, she literally made my sister cry over her education, but my sister watched her change wardrobe every week!

I know i'm being very mean & vengeful, i need people to help me snap out of it because I JUST WANT TO PUNISH HER!!

Still Typing...

I felt so bad reading this.
You may have your reason to feel the way you are feeling about ur mother.
I want to let u know that she still remains a mother to you.

Stop all this attitude u are displaying here. I don't think it makes u look wise.
Don't even feel that her curse may be empty.

Be careful so that you don't find urslf in very bad situation in future.
I am telling you out of experience.
Go make peace wt ur mother now that she is still alive.

Your mother may be wrong and you too is also wrong.
Her curses may have effect on u.
Be careful.
You have the right to accept this or throw it away.

sheanzy:
you quoted the wrong person

Oh .. sorry about that

sheanzy:
That explains your hatred towards the female gender.

One thing I have observed is that male children that grew up without mother's parental care and love tend to turn toxic to the female gender.




You are just a bittered soul feeling rejected and worthless cos you have been deprived motherly love, that you choose to vent your frustrations on the female gender under the disguise of redpill movement.


You feel like you are not worthy and can never be loved by a woman and the only way to make yourself feel better is adhere to the 36 LAWS OF POWER;, Disdain what you cannot have.

You are simply a misogynist!

MODIFIED;

for those calling me out for being too harsh, check through his topics and you will see how this guy insults and downgrades women, somebody like this can use a girl for rituals without thinking twice.

I felt so bad reading this.
You may have your reason to feel the way you are feeling about ur mother.
I want to let u know that she still remains a mother to you.
Stop all this attitude u are displaying here. I don't think it makes u look wise.
Don't even feel that her curse may be empty.
Be careful so that you don't find urslf in very bad situation in future.
I am telling you out of experience.
Go make peace wt ur mother now that she is still alive.
Your mother may be wrong and you too is also wrong.
Her curses may have effect on u.
Be careful.
You have the right to accept this or throw it away.

DrGoodman:
Thr superior officer is biased.

Why catching one single army man while all the others are openly collecting same bribes every hour on every Nigerian roads, and even giving change to motorists? All army checkpoints are nothing but toll gates and the main objective is to clect bribes.

This is why Nigeria will never prosper, maybe this soldier is not from his faith.

So you are saying that the Oga should catch all of them same time?
Most times, we think we are making sense while we are talking rubbish.
Just like saying that a Police Officer that caught or killed armed robber is biased.
Why killing that robber while there are many robbers in the country.

Well, one or two must be caught at a time and used as deterrent.
There's nothing like bn biased in that.

ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

Oga stop bn a Solution when you are still a Problem to be solved.
You don't understand it...right?
All I mean is that, you have to stand well before you start growing branches. If not the branches will fall you down.
It is very good to help people, but don't take too much responsibilities that may weigh you down.
I am talking out of experience.
Try to focus more on yourself and family.
Wen you make it, you will be able to do greater things for people.
This might be the area your wife is kicking from.
Women (good ones) will always think of their immediate families (Husband & kids) securing a better future before thinking of any other relative.
You still have a long way to go. Think about that.
Even the Bible says, "love your neighbour as you love yourself."
It never says love them more than yourself.
When you start doing more for ur neighbours more than you do for yourself/family, na sin ooo.

Don't go taking loan when you don't have means of paying back or taking loan you have already made up ur mind not to repay.
You are young today and you forget to think of your tomorrow.
This singular act may come haunting your success tomorrow.
This character can be used against you at the point of your success.
You may get an international appointment/job.
Presenting this dishonest act may rob u of the opportunity.
What if you goes into politics and someone brings this up?

Take a loan. Pay for it.
If there are challenges that may stop you from paying at the right time.
Go back to the loan firm and renegotiate.

comrChris:
Continue talking nonsense

Please, can you give us the true story since this one is nonsense.

If this one come carry this hand wey em dey use dig ground slap you ehnn...
E go be like say na shovel dem take slap you.

bluefilm:
Umahi is the champion of Infrastructural development.

Umahi for President.

He is not the one behind those projects in Ebonyi State.
The Islamic Organization is behind it.
They have a plan of taking over that state in the near future.
That is why you will see the biggest Islamic School in Nigeria right there in Ebonyi State.
You see the Islamic religion seriously converting those Eboyians to become Moslems.
Umahi is just a mere supervisor of the project.
He has no options than to carry out those projects just the way his masters want.
Ok...tell me. DO you want to tell me that Umahi is such a saint that will not like to embezzle state resources just like his fellow governors are doing.
What is the IGR of that State.
Compare it with the kind of projects completed and those still going on. Do you think the the allocation and IGR of that state can handle them?

I love them so much. Four of them looking so fierceful in my house.
They are loyal and protective.

Joseph Egbunike, the Deputy Inspector General of Police in charge of the Force Criminal Investigations Department, is dead.
A police officer, who preferred anonymity, told our correspondent that the senior police slumped in his office on Tuesday and was rushed to the National Hospital where he was confirmed dead.

Egbunike, before he was appointed a DIG in 2020, headed the Force Finance Department, and subsequently deployed to head Force Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department of the Force (FCIID).

The deceased headed the Panel the Inspector General of Police, Usman Alkali Baba, set up to probe allegations the FBI levelled against Deputy Commissioner of Police, Abba Kyari.

The FBI had said suspected billionaire fraudster, Ramon Abbas, also known as Hushpuppi, sent some money to Kyari, an allegation the policeman denied.

Months later, the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) indicted Kyari over a cocaine deal.

Kyari is currently in detention.
The Anambra State-born officer was named to head the probe panel set up by the Inspector-General of Police, Usman Baba last year to investigate alleged link of Abba Kyari with the billionaire fraudster, Abbas Ramon popularly known as Hushpuppi.

When contacted to confirm the death of the senior officer, the Acting Force Spokesman, Olumuyiwa Adejobi, terminated the calls pulled across to his mobile phone, and he was yet to respond to a text message sent to him as of the time of filing this report.

Source: https://dailytrust.com/just-in-dig-egbunike-dies-in-abuja

sukkot:
great advice, and on your own part, try not to drop informATION on things you dont understand

Yeah, giving info for what you don't know about is bad. I don't do dat.
You just need to understand one's point of view.
Sometimes, wen u fail to see things from that person's stand, it does not mean that the person is giving false info.
Tell the person to throw more light why he/she believed he is right on his opinion.
You may be shocked that the person really has a good point which you never realized.
We learn everyday...that is if we rally wanna learn.

sukkot:
its a bad time. buharinomics

Try to uphold good manners even in a faceless social media. It will help u culture yourself.
If you keep doing wrong thing cos no one knows who you are, with time, that will become your character and you will start exhibiting it in your real life.
You become what you repeatedly do.

sukkot:
you people are stupid. you look at a peoples history to know their future. in the history of the planet have the arabs or russians or chinese ever had global domination ambitions ? NEVER. who in the his tory of the planet has global domination ambitions and economic terroristic gobal domination ? the west. IF THOSE OTHER GUYS BECOME SUPERPOWER THE WORLD WILL TRADE FREELY AND FAIRLY. Those nations are not known for spending trilions on defence systems to terrorise the world. they just want to do business and make money. they dont have your time

I believe you can still make your contributions without abusing or insulting any one.
Or were you not trained to be civil?

Hashabiah:
You're making assumptions that don't fit in with the reality at hand . The US has a long history of undermining the political and financial structures of a lot of countries, and have driven them to the brink of politically-imposed suffering ...and yet you're saying they're the best for the world...? Oga, that's the worst thing I've heard this year

Wait until China, Russia or any Arab nation becomes the world super power nation. By then, you'll understand what that guy is saying.

Totilopussylick:
So it's a crime to give out what you can afford

Enemies of progress

Dumb submission.
So if you can afford gun, you give it as souvenir?

Do you realize that those cans of fuel can cause fire disaster that can cause loss of life and property?

People have lost sanity in this country.

Merlissa:
The boyfriend must be extra special because I am not just understanding

No.... The boyfriend is an ass man.
That's why she has to place him under her ass.

She has been reaching heaven when she uses level 1 and 2.
Then, she wanted to see God. That was when she tried level 6.
Unfortunately, the thing carried her to Satan's corridor. She was very lucky that Satan was not in the house they time.

GLORIA OKON, The Story Of Nigeria's Most Mysterious Drug Pusher

Gloria Okon was caught in 1985 with heroin in Nigeria and died in very controversial circumstances.

FULL NAMES (alternate names): Miss Gloria Okon
BIRTH AND EARLY DAYS
She was born in 1950.

HER ARREST
On the 22nd April, 1985, a petite society lady, Gloria Okon, was about to board a Nigeria Airways aircraft WT840 (Lagos-Kano-London) at the Aminu Kano International Airport, Kano State when she was arrested with substances suspected to be heroin and other hard drugs (the National Security Organization, NSO or Nigeria’s secret intelligence agency is often mentioned in her arrest). Tucked in internally were 56.70 grammes of the substances. She was also caught with the sum of N20,000, 60 pounds sterling, $301 and 19,000 Italian lira. The customs officers and drug law enforcement agents were very excited to have nabbed her, not because they had caught her alone but because they would also be stars of the show for a while as all the arrests were being made by their counterparts at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos. But their jowls of excitement were pangs of sheer agony for the 35-year-old Okon. Why?

The year was 1985 and anyone caught with drugs would face the death penalty, no stories. That was the provision of the Decree 20 put in place by the junta of General Muhammadu Buhari . She was going to die, and she knew it. Stunned and stupefied at her sudden stare at death, Okon became an unwilling and helpless star before the nation’s news-thirsty media. Newspapers and magazines contained her story and the radios gave the chilly broadcast. For many who read the story or heard the announcement, it was not a big deal they thought, she was going to be executed like others. But then, there would be a twist in Okon’s story that would turn her into the most mysterious drug pusher in Nigeria’s history. What happened next still remains very bizarre even 37 years after.

DEATH
On the 28th April, six days after her arrest, the most unexpected happened: Gloria Okon died in custody. From an ordinary ‘heroin suspect’, the sudden demise of Okon led to what is now one of the most enduring narcodramas in Nigeria. She did not just die, she died in very questionable and mysterious circumstances. The Buhari regime would not bury the case and an investigation was launched into the matter, with a judicial commission of inquiry given the complicated task of unraveling all the circumstances surrounding the very suspicious death of Okon who gave up the ghost at the Aminu Kano Hospital, Kano.

INVESTIGATIONS
The judicial commission of enquiry working on the Okon case was headed by Justice CNO Ubbaonu of the Kano High Court. It began its sitting in Kano almost three months (precisely 5th Monday, August) after she died. Other members of the panel were:
Wing Commander PG Asemota
Tunde Oloko, a university don
JI Obianwu, who was the secretary

The case was so serious that the Inspector-General Etim Inyang was mandated to ensure there is a reasonable conclusion to the case and to make sure all the mysteries are solved. The commission was to carry out three main tasks:
Make proper inquiry as to the arrest and death of Gloria Okon
Determine whether during the period of her arrest and custody, if any person(s) contributed to her death through acts incidental to the case
Make suitable recommendations

But that would never happen: on the 27th of that same August, the military regime of Buhari was toppled by General Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida and till date, no one knows how it all ended and the demise remains a mystery. However, it must be stated that before she died, Okon reportedly confessed and revealed a ‘big baron’, as a matter of fact, a customs official said of her revelation:
‘If carefully handled, she may lead us to the big brains behind the business.’

But before Okon could even mention the name of her mentor or sponsor, she was stone-dead. According to those who investigated her case and questioned her, the only clue she left was simply the name ‘Bassey’. Ibrahim Coomasie was the commissioner of police for Kano State and he stated that it was almost impossible to track her mentor because Okon did not give the second name of Bassey or even an address, so the investigation met a dead end. The address that was listed against her name, 21 Cole Street, Surulere, Lagos was found to be non-existent.
However, it must be pointed out that although Okon was just one of the many female carriers arrested, she was the only drug mule very willing to cooperate and say it all, revealing all information on her sponsors. But before she could utter anything, she was gone. An autopsy conducted stated the cause of death as food poisoning. There was no time Okon showed any sign of ill-health, she was quite healthy when she was arrested as the public inquiry found out but according to Misharck Okitiakpo, a customs officer who kept her in custody, Gloria Okon fell ill just a day after she was arrested. Okitiakpo also explained that on the day she was arrested (22nd), Okon made a request for rice and beans which she was given. But on the 23rd and 24th, she was rushed to the hospital after she complained.

But that is where Okitiakpo’s accounts stopped. He did not explain or was unable to explain what happened from the 25th to the 28th when Okon finally breathed her last. Okon had been in the custody of the Customs until the 25th when she was handed to the police. Therefore, it is not precisely clear whether she was poisoned while with the customs or under the police custody where she eventually died. In an interview with The Guardian in May 1985, Coomasie said Okon had changed saying:
‘…the late suspect was not talking when she was brought to the police and did not make any statement to the police, when the police took custody of Okon, she looked weird and neither ate nor talked. ’

But later, she was given some egusi soup by the police (egusi with what? Abi she drink the egusi ni, police no tell us that one). The police also said she took some bananas and tea after the egusi. Amazing food combination: egusi, banana and tea.
The mystery of Okon’s case was further deepened when no one showed up to claim her, not even one relative showed to identify her as a suspect or even her corpse. According to Babadisa Ciroma, an assistant commissioner of police (ACP) who was in charge of Okon’s interrogation said no one paid her a visit while in custody or even when she was admitted at the hospital. That was not all, 39 days after her death Okon’s corpse remained unclaimed at the Murtala Muhammed Hospital Mortuary where it was deposited.

This prompted the police force Criminal Investigation Department (CID) to issue a notice that her remains might be treated as unknown if it not claimed after seven days of warning to the general public. Apparently embarrassed by the mysterious death of Okon in custody and to prevent a repeat, the government compelled state police commands to transfer suspects and exhibits in cases of hard drugs to the Force CID Headquarters in Lagos by ‘the most expedient means’.

The Nigerian nation was supposed to hear from the judicial commission of inquiry by the end of August and shed light on the case but by the end of August, a new leader was in place and he was a military president: IBB. The late lawyer Gani Fawehinmi attempted to resurrect the case but this put him on a path of direct clash with Haliru Akilu and Kunle Togun, two of IBB’s most dreaded security agents. No one was ever charged over the death of Gloria Okon.

THE CONTROVERSIES
In the absence of a conclusive investigation, so many tales have been spun by many so as to fill in the gaps. According to some, Okon never died, the corpse presented was all a ruse and part of a grand conspiracy. In June 2009, Professor Taiyemiwo Ogunade, in an interview with THE NATION said of the Okon case:

‘Gloria Okon is actually Chinyere, that’s her real name. She married Charles “Jeff” Chandler, the fellow who killed Nzeogwu and was killed a day later. Chinyere, Maryam and Princess Atta were young friends who hung out together. They all married into the military, because the military was a proud and respectable profession then. Charles Chandler, who was Tiv, married Chinyere who I think is from Imo State. IBB married Maryam from Asaba and Mamman Vatsa married the princess. So Chinyere became a widow and resorted to trading between UK and Nigeria. And then she was caught with drugs; Mamman Vatsa was the person who put Chinyere on the next available flight from Kano to London – and then claimed that she was dead by parading a dead woman picked out of the mortuary. Dele Giwa later found out that she was in London having delivered a baby by another man. He sent a French photographer to the place and they saw Maryam Babangida at the event. Kayode Soyinka brought back the photographs. Dele was sitting across the table from Kayode examining the photos taken of “Gloria Okon” (Chinyere, Richard Chandler’s wife) at the naming ceremony in London. Maryam Babangida was there. And then a letter parcel was delivered to him and he said excitedly that it must be from “Mr. President” referring to the discussions he had with IBB days earlier. The bomb exploded and severed his lower abdomen; he died a few hours later.’

Some others say Dele Giwa knew that Okon was Maryam Babangida (or even IBB)’s drug mule and wanted to blackmail IBB, which is why he was killed. Newswatch has denied any link between their late founder who was killed by a parcel bomb in 1986.
Tom Mbeke-Ekanem in his book, Beyond the Execution:

Understanding the Ethnic and Military Politics in Nigeria insisted the corpse sent to Calabar to Okon’s family was a fake corpse and that the family returned it saying it was not the corpse of their daughter, but that the authorities insisted the corpse was that of Okon. The claim was that the real Okon was freed to go live overseas and replaced with an unclaimed corpse brought in from the mortuary. The crazy controversies around the case prompted the Federal Government to make attempts to unearth everything thus launching the public commission.

According to others, she was a drug mule for the former Nigerian First Lady Maryam Babangida shuttling between the USA and Britain and she was killed so she would not squeal. As it is now, the truth is hanging somewhere, and the only way I think Nigerians will eventually get to know the truth is when a government comes and re-opens the case and declassifying all the documents relating to the case. Whether that will take 10 or 100 years, no one knows. But before then, the story of Gloria Okon is one eerie chapter that will continue to haunt the world’s largest black nation.

Pasima:
We have done that severally I open up to her, I hide nothing from her but she tells me the one she fill like, cannu imagine she save a guys number with MY HEART that was when my trust for her started shaking, I confronted her she said he is a friend. I told her to change it but she didn't. The other day I came her house I saw two plates of ice cream yet she didn't explain it. I felt bad.

O boy, pls get matured. No be like dis people dey take marry oo.
With this, u can wake up and kill this lady or any man u finds around her for no just cause.
Your obsession is too much.
Can you imagine asking the girl the man she took ice cream with just because u saw two cups of ice cream in her house.

Let me assure you one thing.
If you continue like dis, the girl will LEAVE YOU for another man.
Try to be giving this girl a breathing space for Christ sake.
She's just a girlfriend.
Allow her to have other life apart from you all the time.
She should be allowed to associate and do other thing.
Her life should not revolve around u all the time.
I'm not saying she should go and start dating other men, but you should learn to give her space.
Get busy. Nwoke m jee chuba ego (My man go and make money).
A busy man will not be checking how many empty cups of Ice Cream that is in a girl's room.
A busy man will not have time to be quarreling with a girl that refused to use his picture on her Status.
Get enough money and the babe will be displaying everywhere.
Guy, JEE CHUBA EGO.

Pasima:
I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

So because she accepted to be your girlfriend, for that you own her life.
Abeg, how old are you?

Even if she is your legally married wife, you don't have that right to tell her to use ur pic on her Social media status.
You sound like an insecure man.

Racoon:
Finally! There is more to this volte face by the sanctimonious govt but it is obvious they are now tired of shamelessly trying to defend the supercop fraudster cum druggie-Abba Kyari or perhaps the guy have stepped on more powerful toes. Fingers crossed.

Not really.
They have to send him out very fast before he start mentioning other big names that he has been doing "business" for/with.
That his drug business/killings will link so many powerful politicians/businessmen.
So the best option will be to send him out to answer for his US case.

If not, you can't extradite him when he has a domestic criminal case to answer here.

Corrupt Government.

Bounceboune7:
Can this apply to salary of 30k too?

If you are on the salary of 30k/mnth, learn how to live within what you earn.
If you think you cannot live within that, then find a way to increase your earnings.
Do go living above what is available for you.
Don't go into expenditure competition wt people that earn higher than you.
Don't live another person's life.

There are 30K earners still doing things better than higher earners.
All that is needed is financial discipline and prudent spending.