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pocohantas:
If it were a cheating man, you would read and have numerous excuses for him. Read it and learn how to satisfy your wife.

They feel that they are the only ones with emotions.

tonywonder:
My dear you are right! A woman can easily forgive a man that cheats!! But a man hardly forgives....

And you are a right! The quickest way to kill a man is if the wife's cheating on him....

But on women easily forgiving...

It's not so. Most women just value themselves lower than men. Most women will swallow anything just to have a man of their own. Meanwhile a man believes women are replaceable and he's free to replace, and society supports him heavily in this. So men have no qualms throwing away a woman that cheated on them.

Men misbehave but there is no reason for cheating. If a woman gets tired of a man it is better to leave than to cheat.

Having kids and cheating is worse. The kids will be affected by the action of cheating. That's where they suffer that indignity of daddy looking at them twice because he's not sure they are his. Etc, etc. Its like the way to kill a man is to cheat on him.

I would like this life to be fair, but its not. In a place like Nigeria, it's mostly the woman cheating the man that loses mostly, not the other way round. The man is the one that won't forgive, that will end the union when cheated on, he may likely refuse to accept her back.

If a woman in naija wants to cheat, it is good to have in mind that this is the end of that union. Just start thinking out plan B, because the man go form emotional, she will experience real life zee world, Nollywood and horror story in one. Not as if they can't forgive, but even that forgiveness will be a very painful rocky journey for her.

I hope those kids heal and survive. I just wish at that moment, that mother with her son in the crib had been able to go crazy on the dude. Rip him to pieces. I wish all the mother's there could have defended themselves and taken him down!

Girls can only love bad boys when they don't know the true nature of men.

Men are judges and undercover police disguised as normal people. Any little dirty/bad act they do with a woman, they will record and eventually judge it, report it to whomsoever they please, and also take pleasure in giving 'punishment' if possible to the woman.

Men should actually be wearing police uniforms combined with a judges wig!

Let them not be shy, women will accept! At least let ladies know what they are up against.

makeherscream:
am not scared to ask I even jokingly ask her if it was her side boo that bought it for her , she said no that she saved both the little I have been giving to her and the ones she's getting from her dad , am just thinking how she was able to save 97k to buy a phone 🤔

Since she gave you an answer but you chose to doubt her, I think that you have trust issues. Maybe you should break up with her and find a person you can trust. The way you're questioning her words shows that you don't trust her.

aswani:
Chineke, jailing men because they are dating longer than 6 months.

I don't even know how to start tackling this.

Yes. Don't you know it's a human beings time you are wasting? Besides, check the conditions which make it a crime.

Communication is key. Ask her about it in a friendly way. If she is sensible and innocent of any fishy business she will answer calmly.

Dunno why you're scared to ask.

Maynmann:
I have, and I didn’t see ANY of your claims.


No wonder they said, talk is cheap lol

Good, just as denial of evidence is not the absence of evidence.

Maynmann:
I need just ONE.

If you check that romance section, you'll find one.

Maynmann:
Give one example.

The entire romance section is an example.

Maynmann:
In what way are they crybabies?

Always forming victims when in fact they should be cautioning their fellow men on the harm they cause. They hurt women and praise themselves openly for it on this platform, but they don't want women to ever hurt them.

Rayban25:
A married woman dosent have time to be crying over mans preference...audio marriage.

Yes na. Believe whatever helps you sleep at night. I go just dey look you, lol.

Maynmann:
“Men” are on nairaland?
Don’t you have “men” in your real life?

Yes, but the ones on nairaland are some of the biggest crybabies I have seen.

Rayban25:
We dont want olosho as wife...if you no like our preference kindly go and kick a bucket

I don't want you guys either, I'm already married.

Maynmann:
value them as?

The worth of a broken woman is not much lol

Good let's watch them go for the rich men then

Maynmann:
And I thought emotions comes from hormones bwahahhahah

It's funny that men defy the reality of science every day. In fact right here on this platform. Crying every single day about women. It's eye opening, astounding, amazing, surprising, because I did think it was women that would be crying up and down, opening threads.

Maynmann:
“Men also love broke women looking for rich men”.

Bwahahahahah

You wouldn't be here worried about them running after rich men if you did not value them.

Maynmann:
Real women are emotional crybabies?

Real women which are actually men, yes they are. Men are the real women.

Maynmann:
No one said you should date “poor men”.
And also, if all women are looking for rich men, doesn’t that mean rich men are more prone to cheating than poor men?


Women loves randy men lol
Bad guys

Men also love broke women looking for rich men. Forever they race after them looking for how to catch and secure them.

Maynmann:
Women are more emotional than men, so which many “odd behaviors”?


Well with a virgin you have less baggage, so the emotional part may not be much.

Men are the real women. Men are the real bitches. Men are the biggest emotional crybabies that can't handle a drop of what they dish out.

Maynmann:
If a woman choice is to date rich men, is it the man that he wants or the richness?
And the greediness is arche, how much “richness” does a broke woman want? She will want as much as possible, men should avoid them.

If a woman's choice is to date poor men, is it the man she wants or the poverty?

How much chastity does a randy man want, women should avoid them.



Don't paint suffering as virtue and following advantage as a sin. Neither is always what they seem to be.

Maynmann:
Abi na, men should spend their money on something worthy.

Yes, then women should date men that are going to be able to provide as compensation for the tolerance of their many odd behaviours too.

Maynmann:
Men only choice now is virgin, if all women are the same, why not date the purest ones

Good one!

Maynmann:
No woman wakes up to date a poor man, right thinking women will wake up to date someone that loves them.

Women should look to date men they love and cherish so when the money stops coming the woman won’t divorce the man out of greed which will greatly affect their offsprings.

And is this woman also poor? Is that fair to her own unborn offspring?

So if a woman dates a rich man then she doesn't love or cherish him.

Don't worry, they love the rich men they are dating. Dating a poor man is not the only instance where love is involved.

Maynmann:
Exactly, that’s why i tell men to choose virgin women.

Good, while women seek their choice as well. I wouldn't tell women to ever pity men or date from scratch because we know wetin our eyes dey see. And the men that they are being humble to go for will always go for their best choice. Men don't fumble or pity when it comes to their choice. Per chance they pick less than their choice, they will always let that woman know, they will always belittle the woman.

So men are not merciful in their choice, women should also not bend.

Maynmann:
A man is a man irrespective if he is rich or not.
But when you make it a case to date rich men, that’s when it becomes am issue.
And the thing is women looking to date rich men always fall in the hands of players.

A respectable woman chooses a women she loves whether rich or poor.

And a woman that makes it a case to date poor men is ....what? More fortunate?

It's no longer an issue then?

Women should look to date poor men, right? That would be morally correct, and fair to their unborn offspring, I suppose.

Maynmann:
And hope you won’t mind sharing your men with other women that also want to endure fakeness in wealth.

But why is it that men date poor women, why don’t rich men endure the fakeness among wealthy ladies rather than entitled broke women which most women are.

And I’m not saying you should not date rich men, all I’m saying is women’s love is a sham, men are the real romantics.

I'm not saying women shouldn't date poor men but nobody should have the idea that a poor man contains love and is better.

There is like and preference which shapes our choices but women who choose poor men should know they are not saints or better than the rich ones.

Maynmann:
you mean, a woman love does not exist through poverty?
You mean, Women’s love is only located where there are rich men?

Because men keep dating and marrying broke women all the time.

I'm saying that poor men are the same as rich men. Whatever rich men are, poor men are not better. If all men are fake, why not endure the fakeness in wealth rather than poverty?

I wish that men/women that date men/women for six months without marriage would be jailed. And if the time exceeds six months, the longer the time, the more severe the punishment should be.

The rules of identifying this as a crime would be that the guilty party can be proven to have made the victim believe they would marry them, then cut out of the deal after wasting their six months or more in a deliberate and callous manner, with no attempt at peacemaking or compensation.

Punishment for using another human being and wasting their time simply out of wickedness.

Maynmann:
Why do actresses always marry rich men?
If it is just “love”, why don’t they marry poor men?

You think love exists through poverty? You think love's location is where a poor man is, because he is poor. Lol. You believe poor men are sinless angels.

Dey lie small small na.