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EnvyandHate:
Grow your own food.

Why's your name envy and hate?

Oh please. As for feminists, women just have the same desire for good things that men are allowed to have. It's not a demonic trait. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Tell people you are a virgin and watch them open a shop on your head.

Told a girl I was a virgin when we were both in 100level. Then I took a walk with the guy I was dating that evening. By the time I got back to the room, this girl was there with one very pissed off friend of hers who she went to tell.

The other girl spat out with anger, "Shey you said you are a virgin? Is it not you that was walking under street light with your boyfriend this night?" The girl was so angry, even though she wasn't the one I told. As if taking an evening walk was something that confirmed having carnal knowledge.

From that point on, those girls became my enemies. It was all about pointing out things that confirmed I wasn't a virgin. Until she left the university, the friend of the girl I told hated me. I even wanted to dilute the hatred by telling her when I lost it, but of course that was a stupid idea.

If indeed this girl is a virgin, she has shot herself in the foot and made herself a big target for announcing it. You don't/shouldn't even let any other lady know, it is a big trigger for anger in non virgins. I used to wish women could be more mature when they come in contact with a virgin but my personal experience taught me that it is better not to tell anyone, especially any other lady.

You will soon find what you are looking for.

AmotekunSW:
Shebi she has a family.
Her family are prepared to fight for her but not to provide for the baby of their daughter. Let them keep at it.

Let's reason now. Even if her family is made of billionaires, this is not the way at all. Money does not a father make. The baby needs the acceptance and love of his/her father.

AmotekunSW:
The baby isn't his.
Even if it is his, let her take care of it herself. No be her mate dey do single mother about?

If it is his, it's a callous thing for first wife not to want the innocent baby to have a father. It's selfish. The baby did not cheat. The man did. The baby is not the one to pay.

He should just accept the innocent baby if it is his. The baby doesn't deserve to be denied because of the angry wife. She's taking her anger out on the innocent baby.

Can't be real. Taking anything out on kids is a very foolish thing to do.

They could look stunning... I feel they weren't just dressed right.

Yes.

I believe you, proud of you. Don't let anyone in there.

seyicodes:
In Islam it is not.

Haha, really?

Why do guys always try to prove that a lady is a pretender? I noticed that if a lady sets a rule, men try to create a situation that makes her break the rule. A situation that confirms she's a pretender. Why so offended any time a lady tries to be virtuous? What's the prize for proving she's fake? Aren't we all humans?

Housing:
Fighting for your right and standing your ground is not being dishonest. What you did is pure foolishness pun not intended. The Owner will believe you have been lieing to him all these while. You will now have to look for money to pay for the loan which may damaged your reputation if it's not paid on time.

Please call the attention of the people that introduce you to the Owner to it. Tell your creditor to accompany you to him if you are afraid or get an elderly respected man in your area to intervene on your behalf.

Please take this advice.

Let the so called ugly breathe abegi

You have controlled your human slave. End of discussion.

Wine and jollof rice can go. Everything else, definitely stay.

Eunoiaa:
This is interesting .

Thank you!

BanyXchi:
oh I see, abj is also cosmopolitan. And a lot of ibo women like YM right?

Yeah I hear of that a lot too.

I'm here to read comments.

Reminderz:
lmfaoooo... no female, I mean no absolutely fvcking female have ever gotten a female trainer!

lol is this a fvcking joke?? a woman will rather be alone than go for a female trainer.. this is why they enjoy the company of men and love having male friends than their own gender...

women hate each other because they know themselves..

I don't mind a female trainer as long as she does her job.

Reminderz:
even if you have a personal trainer, if you're not disciplined, nothing will ever make you work out... you have to change your mindset... if you have a man, your man should be your personal trainer.. any woman insisting on visiting the gym or having a personal trainer while she has a man and can conveniently work out at home is nothing more than a olosho...

Did the thought that the trainer might be female cross your mind?

Reminderz:
you actually don't need a personal trainer for any shit... life is advanced now.. so many apps and articles online for you to follow... you don't need anybody to tell you to workout, if you value your life and health, you don't need someone to tell you the importance of working out...

I've been working out for years now, I've never visited the gym for once nor have any personal trainer, and I developed the ideal body, if you see me off cloth sef gan, you go wet...

I don't have your will. I might need a trainer but I'm trying to be more disciplined.

No, no. You were harassed because you used the wrong process. What is the legal and proper process of attaining a woman whom you want to court and marry?

-You should go with your elderly family members, at least two, to state your intentions and plans to her family.
-Cohabitation should happen after marriage. You can't save her from her mom for now.

I like the idea of a gym, but because of people's narrow mindsets amongst other reasons, I would just prefer a personal trainer, or my own indoor gym equipment.

12inchess:
You don't have to bring tribalism to every topic. It could have well been a Yoruba lady or even Edo or Delta. It doesnt matter. Don't be myopic

Sorry o, I don't mean to be tribalistic. I'm only saying what I have seen in my life. Maybe I'm biased. I'm not insulting Igbo ladies too, I admire them as the most beautiful amongst the tribes here.

BanyXchi:
You spoke for everyone when you mentioned Yoruba Men. I've never seen anything like that around me so it's not fair when you mention YM like that. Pls are you based in Lagos?

Lol, ok, I have explained I'm not talking about all YM. Based in Abj.

Never tell them your plans or dreams. They will deal with you.