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I love Hilda but ewww.

No dog or pig meat please.

Ezkid:
Ah May God help me

I pray HE helps us all bro.

The right thing to do would be to face the consequences of your actions. Confess to everyone because this one is something you can't hide. After being truthful, take the insults and the pain and make painful efforts to start over, change, and move forward. That's the way to be truly sorry.

Crying and attempting suicide shows you're sad, sorry, but it's the convenient way of being sorry. True remorse means true repentance and readiness to face the consequences and make attempts to make things right.

Saw this news today on another site.

I wasn't sick or anything so I started doubting if I was pregnant. I went for a scan and was surprised that he was actually there. I didn't have any spitting or all that, I worked throughout my preg.

But the last two months, the pressure of the baby's weight was really heavy/painful. Wherever I turned to when trying to sleep, he turned with me.

Funny addition, the only craving I had was me suddenly wanting fanta instead of coke, in those moments when I took the forbidden soda.

KingPure:
Check your mail Sis

Alright.

The comments here have shown me something. Guys are not serious about virgin complaints, or natural beauty complaints, or about women being fake. They just like to insult women.

Is this not a natural, authentic virgin? They just insulted her again. No use trying to impress these men. A lot of men are just sadists.

Divoc19:
@ Kennyfancy
Looks, I married for looks, like my kids will look beautiful and handsome.

It was hell..

Well, can't blame you for that. We live in a judgemental world. So that means you married a really good looking guy huh?

Not being very very smart and sharp. No defense mechanism.

I want my kid/kids to be very capable of defending themselves, very confident, very sharp, able to make people who mess with them regret, able to stand their ground, be a likeable person without any strange hatred from the public attached to them, etc.

KingPure:
Cool to hear from you again Sis, twas some stories that got me bucked up on a thread. Was going to send you my WhatsApp digits so we can make some very dense comm. I hope you're fine

I'm good, it's all good.

G00DHardDick:
As usual. Always playing the victim card. Madam did those men forced you to open your legs for them? Did you commanded you to open your kpekpus? In most cases, you were offered money and you willingly gave in. So why lamenting and disgracing yourself here?

Who is lamenting? By responding to a quote? Who is disgracing herself? Is what I said not truly the nature of men?

I was offered money and willingly gave in... You must be the one that gave me money.

Neither are you the one I quoted.

It seems I struck a nerve, but get used to it, because there will always be one woman or the other that will 'chook mouth' in such issues.

KingPure:
She is for now, but I'm presently all over the world.

That's cool. I hope to travel all around the world someday too.

The thing is, this world isn't going to change. It is better to just know the pros and cons of what ever you want to do. If you choose to do it, be ready for those usual things that people do to punish or applaud it. It's how you handle these pros and cons that matter, but society won't change. Society is the monster.

KingPure:
That's quite fair on me, dunno if that's a problem 'cause I'm certainly happily married also, and guess what, I love art, and I write almost all my time. And of course my wife's from KD, the major reason I mentioned you earlier today on your thread.

Ah nice. Are you two in Abuja?

KingPure:
If being honest and truthful is part of being friendly, then I consider myself graceful seeing the depiction of your pure honesty laced with a very unique skill. By the way, I'll really like to know few things about you if you don't mind Sis. It's all well with you, and I can't just find a way around your ingenuity yet.

Hello. Married & working, love art and writing. That should be a good bit of information.

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KingPure:
Hallo Purple25, just found you out just about now reading through this thread. Then I saw a quote by someone else concerning you, so I decided to check out your page, and this is the conclusion from my adventure into your terrain; you're simply a genius, let no man or spirit dissuade you.

Guess what, I'm happy I saw you

Thanks so much man, its always good to have a friend that appreciates me! A very uplifting statement from you.

GreatVocalist:
People.

I don't know how to deal with people. I don't have the passion to be around people.

Unfortunately for me, I need to know and deal with people, to survive and even thrive. I wish I was self-sufficient, like cacti.

Am I normal or just neurotic?

I have that same problem.

And why are they parading their story on social media? Is this part of their official duties that news should carry it? Why are they showing their pictures up and down? Is it to get us to imagine these two people both in bed? What sort of disgrace is that?

So entering into people's private affairs and harassing them is now a norm? Whoever shares their images should be sued.

Gr8amechi:
God will continue to bless your Wisdom.
I am a medical professional but truth is majority of us are very unprofessional.
You would see a patient in ward with say HIV before you know it has spread and all the other patients are aware.

Buhari was in UK for 6 months till date no leak of what he was diagnosed or treated for.

Tinubu has been in France no leaks.

Our health workers must do better.

People's health is their privacy and they can decide to keep it secret or open.

Your duty as a healthcare worker is to assure maximum confidentiality at all times.

On privacy it's true, even the attitude is very unprofessional.

Well, she looks high maintenance, high class. Look at the quality of her skin, facial structure. Men are the ones that built the hierarchy anyway. They are the ones that would treat her like a princess all her life, and the average looking woman, like an infidel, gets little to nothing, plus lots of mistreatment.

Men are the ones giving prettier ladies plenty Money and pampering, so why not continue. A babe like this collects more, her cream alone will cost more than 10k. So truly, whether her father is funding or men are funding, such money means little to her.

In the long run its even good for her to weigh and discard who cannot fund her lifestyle. Because a poor man that complains of 10k today, that wants to be worshipped for 5k, will not be able to give her money for body care every month, at least up to 20k for body care per month.

If a poor man wey like good things gets hold of madam, she will resemble iya elubo in the market under one year.

It should be women choosing because then they will be able to respect and stay attracted to the men they choose.

But no, men will want to use their financial advantage to choose who doesn't want them. They use their greed to choose women.

At long last, the result is men getting women who are not sexually attracted and do not love them.

I believe mine deserves a thread on its own.

I also wronged people but I feel my own bad deeds had actual reasons. I do my best to accept that it's not right to repay annoyance with wrong doing. I'm still working on myself.

But that aside, thank God say man no be God. You need to see people on this thread rejoicing at the downfall of those who hurt them. Is it not possible that they themselves also hurt people, sometimes without knowing? Yet God still allows some of us to thrive.

If man was divine, he would make sure that no one who has wronged him should prosper for the rest of their lives.

How dare you, Won...won...I can't spell the name.

Bad Belle

If it was a man

-'After my mother trained me for years, she should not enjoy her labour.'

-'That witch (referring to wife).

-'She is a stranger and I cannot leave my mother who is my blood.'

-'Any woman that doesn't respect my mother, out!'



Man's life is about getting his way at everyone else's expense, but being upset when others want things done in their own way.

It's lovely!

Revolution2022:
Nigeria is under liquidation being perpetrated by buhari and his gangs.That is supposed to be out concerns.

Yes

Let's throw away the entire entertainment industry so we can focus on this properly!

No movies! No programmes! No nonsense entertainment!

And when we are tired of talking, let's sit down and cry... And cry and pray... And protest... Every other thing should be closed down until all Nigeria's problems have been solved!

In fact if anyone dares to smile...any maga...we will sue that ignoramus!

If the problems aren't solved, then we should all go on a breathing strike. Anyone that lives through it can continue the fight for us.

Nigeria!

She was a perfect mother in law, a sincere person. May her soul rest in peace.

Hassanmaye:
I have seen Many things woman, is not about what the guy truly did to her, how many women go back to toxic men after beating them blue and black?? I have seen many women who go back to the men that disvirgin them despite the guy is an asshole he only used them but they lack foresight because they're foolishly thinking they're in Love while the guy is just using her

Eye never open na. It's when women suffer very well in reality, then they understand. The guy isn't sorry, she gets mistreated by other guys echoing the same thing, that she's not worth it because there's nothing extraordinary about her, spends donkey years before seeing a partner to marry, that first man is mocking her plight....then the woman understands.

Its when solutions come quickly, e.g quick love and marriage soon after the first man, or they didn't suffer much under that first man, that's when there will be space to still deceive themselves with first love bullshit.

When your job of minimum wage forces you to do the maximum. You do dirty things that even those earning billions will hesitate to do. Yet you no get anything worth talking about in your account.

Life. May God not put us in that position.

My girl won! Congratulations!

Hassanmaye:
Truly the guy that disvirgin her will always get the pussy anytime he wants, just phone call

If she is mature and she knows what that guy truly did to her, if she is not a fool, she will never accept him back in her bed.

Thank God nairaland helped me understand the way many men truly think.