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Skepticus:
I feel pity for your parents or whoever raised you.

So, you'll deny those who took care of you for some stupid and vain display of wealth?

May I never raise your type as kids. God forbid!!

Yes, I too don't want a father that jumps to conclusions anyhow.

Read again, maybe you'll understand better what I mean in my post.

Freshtruth:
You see your son on someone else car you will just keep quiet simply because u want him.to roll with the big boys na was for some people reasoning sha

And talking and calling him at that point is to what end or what is my gain there exactly?

Look at the bigger picture.

Gerrard59:
Even though I am of the opinion that one should not deny the mom publicly, I find this perspective very interesting and insightful.

I don't support the denial either, but I wish the mom didn't draw attention to herself like that. Not that she should be ashamed of herself, but let her be mature, cool and calculating.

Even moms of big people don't care to mingle with the friends of their children. They grace them with a nonchalant, cold hello mostly. So many poor moms too hold their dignity and don't really care for the attention of their son's friends. They put those kids in the position of little ones that can't possibly catch their attention and they move on. I wonder why this one wants to be acknowledged before her son's friends even when they were just driving by. They shouldn't be important to her.

As for the angle you referred to, you understand Nigeria's oppressive nature. Any small respectable job, position or object is often disgraceful in their eyes. That's what I meant by referring to the social structure.

It would be so weird and he'll never forgive her. And later he will hate you. And your child might not be safe.

Omoawoke:
Not funny, I’m a guy but pls post like this have sent many to suicide and depression.
It is not easy out there and not everyone is lucky with relationships.
Some went far before realizing they weren’t compatible, some lost their spouses to death, some haven’t been lucky meeting the right man.
Should they hang themselves or jump inside lagoon because they are single at a certain age?
Remember you have sisters and family who are ladies, and you may have daughters someday that will go through this stage too. Let’s live and let others live. For that reason, I’ve never found it funny to make a joke or make fun of single ladies

Thanks for being compassionate.

Sad.

nokspos:
Its take maturity to handle such situation well, i understand him , it doesn't mean he hate his mom, obviously he's not comfortable with his mother's current situation and who do anything to upgrade her. Even though what he did was wrong. it shows he's not matured enough to handle the situation better and he's desperate to upgrade his status. He should just go back immediately to apologies to the mom or even help her sell for a few hours to make her understand that he's 100 percent with her. It's not a big deal if the mother understands.

Don't blame him, people borrow 10million naira to join big boys' clubs, i know a few clubs like that, and trust me , you will start getting big contracts ones you join their clicks, sometimes you have to fake it till you make it, he didn't handle the situation well because he's obviously not matured enough, but he could have gone back immediately to apologies and even help her sell for a few hours.

I don't even understand the mom's wisdom. Honestly. If I was her, I wouldn't try to exhibit and parade myself in front of his friends. What's the deal? Does she want to become friends with the son's friends too or what?

If I am her, even acting with wisdom, I will first assess the situation. These boys are rich but not wise, and he needs their connection to move forward in life and later help mom. Because they are not wise, they may try to dismiss her son if they find out she's the mother. If I was her therefore, I will not call out to him or associate with him when he is with them. As long as he is coming back home and still with us in reality, no problem. That particular time is not the time to start acting like a baby, trying to validate 'I am his mother! I am his mother!' For what now, haba! How will your son move if you are always sticking to him like chewing gum?

I, in her shoes, will let him gain what he must gain from them. When he is done benefiting from them, and moves up so high with so much power, then they cannot do anything when I am finally introduced as mom.

I see her behavior as childish.

She's been on the streets since, she didn't understand the way of social oppression here? MUST she reinforce her status as his mother at that instance? What's this desperation for relevance from her?

Merch:
Simi remains the ugliest musician in naija and the worst of it is that she dey claim feminist

Because she is not fair, you have concluded that she is ugly.

Mille:
Everything smells like a fiancee who was caught cheating and decided to say she was raped. That was how my then University babe who contracted Gonorrhea from a guy lied that he raped her. I "forgave" her, bleeped her well for the next three years and dumped her ass. Reconnected with her after she got married and gave birth, and still bleeped her multiple times including when she was pregnant with her second child.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I hope "Mr Peter" learns. If you like, forgive a cheater. Okafor's Law will always come into play.

✓ Entered a room to greet and decided to take alcohol that you claim dull your senses.
✓ Took alcohol with the agreement that a man will take you to your fiance's room to sleep. I thought she was about to leave. Now she is talking about sleeping over after taking the alcohol.
✓ A supposed fiancee started dancing with another man in a locked room.

This is evidence that what I said of men is true. You let your ex come back. In her mind, she probably believed you loved her and believed her about the rape. With the same flawless acts of romance from you, she fell harder after marriage and cheated on her husband with you. In her mind, it was a deep passionate love story. She's probably still out there remembering you every time a sweet romance song plays.

But all the while you were a great pretender. You didn't believe her, rather behind all the romance, you were collecting evidence that this girl is truly a cheat. Behind the scenes, your true form was a police man with a judges wig. A lot of you pretend a lot, pretending to be okay with things, but so much you don't forgive. You observe and judge behind the scenes. Most of you guys are human calculators that don't have love inside you.

Women should match you to be emotionless and alert. And calculative. And paranoid, very very paranoid.

I believe that the story might be true. These are traps young women often fall into...

Trap Number One: 'Get drunk and I will take care of you. Because I'm your decent friend who will not try to sleep with you. Don't you trust me?'

Trap Number Two: Sudden very high increase in music volume. Once a girl hears that, it's either fight to survive the attack, or succumb. But as most young ladies are naive, they wouldn't notice this red flag early enough. That high volume means no one will hear you shout and come to your aid.

Jakumo:
Dang girl. You are built to trigger heart attacks. Your man is one lucky dawg for sure. Lordy Lordy

Lol thanks.

Y'all will soon say they should kill all non virgins. Pele o.

TOPCRUISE:
Non virgins will disagree and kill this thread. You will hear them calling the innocent hypocrites

Your comment reminds me of guys who often attack seemingly good girls as hypocrites back then in the university.

The urge is understandable, but it is best to leave than to cheat. Cheating is like wanting to eat your cake and have it.

I think the video isn't necessary sha. People are poking around in your business and this is like giving them a whole entry ticket.

You're right. Life doesn't work like the story books.

LikeAking:
We are foolish.

We are o.

sprints1:
This useless girl since she don dey follow that janemena girl her sense wey be zero b4 don reduce to -2 she go dey behave like small pikin who go believe say this girl don almost reach 40. That yeye janemena too has turn her husband to gbewudani the guy no go fit control her because na she dey foot billings. Marry girls like these and u regret the only way am dating this kind of crayfish girl is to rip her and travel somewhere else and settle with a virtuous lady. Korra nonsense

All this bile because her type is not who you can control like your personal robot. It is sad.

Bad things are not for everyone to do. Some people do it and gain with flying colors, and some of us don't get away with it.

And some of us get badly burnt for trying.

Emperordynasty:
And I really Appreciate thank you so much

You're welcome.

Nice. I support you with genuine encouragement. You're very talented.

kaboninc:
Lol

Which one be 'lol' kwa? Is it not true?

150k can disappear over house rent alone, and that's for a small house in a remote area.

She made the right choice.

It's not every time that guys should be so happy about a lady giving them attention. It's not every girl that comes to you that is a blessing.

Some girls may have STDs including AIDS, you call them, in their mind they pity you and decide to ignore you, mumu you would be insulting them.

Some, death is hanging over them, they answer you and die in your bed, you start crying.

Why would you guys even think everything that looks pretty and neat is a good thing? Okay o. When you see what you're looking for, you go calm down.

I love them, they are funny and cute, with just a little vibe of creepy!

R.I.P man. I'm sure with the kind of world we live in, where people discriminate others for the tiniest reason, you were also suffering the social effects of your condition. It might have been hard to find a true love, or a true friend, or even true acceptance from society, if that even exists. Now you are somewhere else, wherever it is, you don't have to deal with the world and the pettiness of other human beings. I hope you have true peace, love and rest now.

I love these threads.

I have compiled the proper points that make up a physically beautiful Nigerian woman, according to people's desire.

Fresh and vibrant skin.
Relaxed and styled/long straight hair/fabulous natural hair.
Curves
Endowed back and front.
Fresh lips.
Clothes and shoes on point (very fashionable)
Expensive cute jewellery.
Make up on point every day.

I said it's what people like and certify physically, don't come for my head.

I have laughed and laughed... Chai!

Jealous broke guys go insult you here o

How will you ask this question here when they are still upset about buying girls indomie and eggs

jite006j:
Well for me if I don marry I will not let my wife cheat on me secretly, I will let her have fun openly to spice up my marriage, she can f..ck someone else if she wants but should always let me know. I will love you forever and our marriage will be sweet and full of fun. I can even go on vacation with my wife and let another dude f..ck her or maybe we do party together and I will love her so much. That's my life I owe no one any apology

Dude, you forgot to mention that you will also have a ticket to cheat as you wish, based on this condition.

GloriousGbola:
Imho this woman is symptomatic of the average Nigerian who has been conditioned to have sex as their only recreational outlet.

With the alleged money her husband has all she needs to do is buy different pc hardware and start a tech related home business. Teach your self graphics, run around on internet forums pick knowledge.

Honestly it is sad that Nigerians condemn everything they can do to live creatively, except sex. We did this to ourselves.