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Oturatetuala:
Hmmm.

Lol its true.

Forward, rude, obstinate to show affection, quick to take offense. Very quick to go sexual too. That is how many guys behave. He cannot call regularly, text ........and that is even before you think of anything called money. He is only thinking of himself and most girls before they know it this guy is using them to cruise and add to his body count.

By the time the girl cheats, they start to infantize themselves and act like the victim. It is money that caused it. Abeg, guys should not decieve themselves.

By the way why not approach girls that they know well? Maybe in their work environment or somewhere they have been seeing the girl for a while? Me i don't understand approaching a girl you don't know from Adam. Like, what, apart from the physical aspect, does the guy know about her yet? A strange girl, you don't know her character, you don't know what she has, maybe any disease down there, you start begging her for number. For what? Someone you will probably just want to sleep with. And will sleep with not knowing what kind of human being it is. Guys dey try sha.

omooba969:
Ok, I will give you 45 and you give 55 ....shikena

Well its better than 80/20.

sunbreaker:
Nobody will look,you're not a BBNaija star

Lol even if I'm crazy i don't feel i have the liver yet, to post a bikini pic directly for everyone everywhere to see.

However I'm summoning the courage . I go dey bbnaija next year , don't worry.

Vulcan24:
However I doff my hat for sound sultan, the only 9ja musician with his head intact

Ah that guy is made of talent.

Silentgroper:
Sean paul, clean bandit nd anne marie's rockabye?

Yes.

Vulcan24:
U av to be less busy or high to do 9ja songs
They virtually teaches and promotes sex

We na alternative & country lovers
We choose songs by their lyrical meaning and instrumental display

Coldplay I love
All those 9ja songs are played in brothels and beer parlour to invoke the spirit of shiina and sex

I love coldplay


As for naija songs:

Your waist, see as she dey move, shake the zanga, your body dey move me etc. That's what you'll be hearing.

Beckysexy:
What??

Foreign songs.
I dont know why i don't dig those two.

That Rockabye song. ..
Work from home

PUNAengineOIL:
You just listed almost all the characteristics of naija girls.

Toh then some guys are identical.

jy2kbeyond:
Please don't, allow us sleep without nightmares.

Throw away your eyes na

omooba969:
Did you mean I give you 40 & you give me 60?

Eh? I want 60. Let me relax and be sought after like my mates. If you people don't want then let me not see a single girl that is being pampered by a guy. Then i won't demand such treatment.

omooba969:
It's a tricky one but if you two are able to communicate your needs, that should address a lot of stuff.

Quite funny that as the girl wants to be chased, spoilt, pampered and attended to, so the guy wants the same treatment coz it helps to uplift him and boosts his confidence.

The disadvantage is that for the nonchalant ones, they get too comfortable.

Yeah i can do that but dont get too comfortable, that's my own .

I'm coming back to post my own.

virginprincess:
Op to nairaland men all what you typed is trash, all they will say is money money money as if money is everything, BLOCK HEADS.

They think all a woman wants is money. Money will be caring, loving and focused on her. If a girl acts out, they think it is money. Projecting their insecurities on others.

THEY think it is money. They are very bad at loving and affection.

nwaezeemmanuel:
You and omooba969 are not far from the truth!

There needs to be some sort of balance.

It's fine to want attention, it's a problem when it gets clingy and obsessive - with the person in demand not reciprocating.

Yeah I'm up for 50/50 and not 80/20.........or ......i can accept........60/40.

omooba969:
What most girls fail to realise is that men crave attention also coz it makes them feel good.

So abeg CALM DOWN.

Lol that is okay, but have you seen guys that want to be the baby and the girl in the relationship? I mean they fully relax and actually DEMAND directly or indirectly to be toasted, wooed and everything. They don't even realize that they are not the woman.

Anyway I've calmed down

Pushy
Deceptive
Always about sex and nothing else
Not straightfoward
No attempt at communication and love but wants me to do it 200% and above
Afraid to chase but pushes me to follow him around by making me guilty
No attempt to spice the relationship
Doesn't see anything wrong with not treating me like more than a friend
Insultive
Always good at setting traps, professional blame giver and shifter....
Happy to be broke and let me do all my things for myself just cuz I'm keeping quiet and smiling
Etc etc

She's so pretty. I like her eyes. Clear complexion too.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Another one...

Mistake...

Assumed my make up look complete with blue and green eyeshadow was my natural face. Eventually decieved me saying he had a job for me on here just to get to me and see my face.

Expected me to show him the fullest of my breast (to exhibit what he assumed, can you imagine) cuz my pp gave him such ideas of my bust i don't know.

Entitled motherfcking stranger that thinks i should pose well to show my breasts to him. Stupid 1diot that thinks a human woman can be born with a shining nose and blue green eyelids.

The idiot brought my pictures here asking guys to compare my breast to the profile pic on nl. I will not easily answer any pm again. I am still heavily traumatized by such harassment and I have been told that bigger measures than his initial ban will be put in place to prevent others from being lured with a supposed job offer or anything on here again.

I am still traumatized and for bringing my pic here to be ridiculed, to have the guts to tell other men here to compare my breasts, i think this nairalander should even have been arrested. It is cyber bullying, harassment, i won't stop talking until he is traced and arrested.

I dont owe anyone , any stranger here, any ptoof of my breast or skin or any authentic picture. Bastard.

The luring, deceit and ridicule was totally wrong of him.

Felyyaks:
Alright. And by the way you kinda look like Bianca ojukwu in that picture, it's beautiful

Thanks babe You're awesome too

I love word games. Hope i can figure out the next.

Felyyaks:
People always compliment my hair.But there was this spectacular occasion where I was coming out from a bank, and I felt someone touched my hair,I turned around to see two good looking, strange gentlemen and in unison they said" your hair is beautiful". I was startled, replied with a very shy and quick " Thank you", turned and walked as fast as my legs could carry me.

Nice, very nice... i understand that awkward feeling. I felt like that when that lady was shouting around the place, about me

Thanks for contributing, you just made this place more fun

ModelX:
@op, Ya right!

I had almost forgotten I'm the op here .... Issa true story bro...

nwaezeemmanuel:
I was in an event once and a time came when we had to shake hands.

The person i shook smiled and told me i had soft hands - i don't use moisturiser and was not even sweating, so i was just shocked

Didn't know what to say, and just escaped that awkward moment with a THANK YOU

This is a nice one Its cool when people are nice like that.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I understand, keep posting what you believe in

Stumbled on some of them, and must say that they are commendable - good writing, not like the poorly constructed posts i have seen

Women are wonderful, i just feel many guys are just complicating things.

Thanks, i will keep writing.

nwaezeemmanuel:
You sound so smart, I'm sure you are.

Really happy you get it! About the thread idea, not sure how the turn out will be.

And some guys here on Nairaland may just see it as an opportunity to call names and body shame.

Yeah nairaland is a male dominated forum. I even feel i stopped making front page cuz of some female topics i started posting.

But truly, a thread like that, nl guys will turn it to a bashing party. Our girls won't even come sef. Due to the insults most do not come out like that.

Most guys here claim to hate women's attitude, but cant stop creating threads to bash women. They hate women but their topics are all about women. The can't face another side.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Thanks, for being truthful.

It's not bad to present your 'best' self online. It's wrong when the person posting it presents it like it's who they are in real life.

The second picture of Anita Joseph i posted, she claimed to have a natural slim waist - without using waist trainers

Only to find out the picture she shared was doctored!

Okay that pans out as a lie.Especially since you found out that she did claim it was real. Nobody here asked me if my pp is real, and if they did, i would tell according to how close the person is to me, what is fake and what is real.

This thing is called catfishing. But if i relate with you on a video call or a real pic, then there's no deception there again.

I wish we could go further on this, maybe open a thread where i and other girls can post our "before makeup and after makeup pics". Doctored and real pix.......but i know our girls will not come. I dont have a flair for creating threads that everyone just pitches in and enjoys.