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rubi:
There is no arguement about this when aman love/treats a woman very well sbmission come naturally

God bless you.
Onyinye needs to read this.
The key is in finding the right man and submission comes easy.
If you have a man that would lay down his life for you and the kids, there's nothing you wouldn't do for him

unless the man is incarcerated.
anyone that says her husband will not be the head is kidding.
That's the only way the marriage will work

submission doesn't mean slavery

ehie:
Proudly Nigerian, in Nigeria .my parents have been married for more that 30 years, and if i marry, it would be for life,
after God na my husband then my kids because in the end of everything what really matters is your family.
people come and go but family always stay by u,

totally agree

onyinye2:
Last i heard, a marriage was a partnership not a dictatorship.
add six years to that.

partnership that splits up 60% of the time is no longer partnership
na madness.
There is an order for marriage.
Just like there's an order in your place of employment.
Your boss is not a dictator is he?
but he makes the final decisions and cannot function alone without the employees.

submission is not synonymous with dictatorship

onyinye2:
Nne you got it all wrong. You see i understand that the man is the leader of the household but not over me. Of course i would take of my husband's every need and so will he do the same. But submission, mba

My dear,with this stand,you may not be married for too long.
Go and mark my words.
There can never be 2 captains in a ship

$$Rhino:
You seems to think that people are still stuck in the dark age, haba now

aren't u accusing the wrong person ?
I'm only adding to what some men are saying here

ch3coo3 sounds like the girls over here never came from Nigeria and the ones they marry from Naija will be living in a cocoon when they get here.
Keep kidding yourselves.
A good woman is a good woman no matter where she lives.
A market woman is a market woman whether in Leeds,NYC or Ikorodu road

agaba123:
But truth remains that some of those who come over from naija may still come and make friends with those born here and at the end of the day become worse.
an Igbo adage says that a a sheep that does not eat yam will learn to uproot the seed when it becomes buddies with yam eaters

mba

you people should marry them and keep them in the village.
Go home annually at new yam to impregnate them
That way they remain pure and ever ready to serve
since coming to the west may corrupt their minds

HCH3COO:
Why must it be inferiority complex?  What's wrong with having a preference ?

preference
is that what they now call it?
so the fact that a girl relocated from Nigeria to the west makes her non preferred?
Please tell me something else

Most of these men running home are underachievers.
They want a girl that'll see them as the "rescuer "
I live here you know
I've seen these men.

A girl with her own home,car and means may not be particularly thrilled by a suitor that drives cabs
But a girl in Nigeria would see him as a dream come true
He'll tell her he's self employed.
I've seen things ma dear
but whatever you "prefer"

$$Rhino:
Cheiii, you wicked small oh, u mean they aint got nothing going for them? haba

LOL
someone earlier said Nigerian men preferred to go home and marry.
Who wants a man with inferiority complex anyway?
Let them run to Njikoka and Akagbe and bring those "pure" wives.
what's my own

onyinye2:
I wonder why folk feel this way. I mean i got the best of both worlds. Both Nigeria and The States.

don't mind them
our very own hotfunmi aka redhotchic already gave a diagnosis that I agree with.
some of our Nigerian men have nothing but ordinary akamu aka ogi in their balls.
In Igboland we call them efulefu

Idiotically speaking

ibobabe:
looool
[b]anam esi nni rite now[/b]plus internet m na enye nsogbu
ope na mmadu niine dikwa mma oo

Jisike
keep practising.
Otele would appreciate your good cooking skills

debosky:
Dang, I can't recall seeing Seun this pissed since the paperpoon debacle

I don't know if these stories are true or not, but the last one definitely isn't - her family members confirmed she has mental problems and thus the story should have ended there.

All I'll say is Juju exists - how efficacious it is or otherwise is up for debate, and how verifiable the transformations from cat to man to chicken to burger are, can also not be ascertained at this point.

It is much easier to destroy than to build so obviously naija juju is low quality - the juju carried away with our forefathers enabled them to invent things like traffic light and peanut butter, unfortunately, the left over juju seems to be predominantly malevolent.

juju exists o
we had lady koi koi in my secondary school

why are these stories always of women?
ah ah
women are witches,killing babies,transforming into cats and fowls.
You people should leave us alone jo

ladyolis:
Well this is freaky you know[b] im not here to judge anyone[/b] but i have a question to those Nigerian women, the fact that you know you own man are abusive why do you even marry then i think Nigerian man should be gay, they should marry each other period

I think you should be serving kolanuts and palmy at Okija shrine.
Idiot!

AMAKAONE:
*smh* God forbid this should happen to any of your sisters,aunts, cousins or relatives sha! **hiss***

We will all be sitting online making fun of it the way you are doing about this poor woman and her kids.


Naija people sef! una never cease to amaze with the lack of compassion you can show for your fellow human being.

When did we become so jaded that we see tragedy happening and ask "How is this my business?"

Would it kill you to say a prayer to whatever higher power you believe in for those kids?

do you realize you're talking to a private part ?
do you expect anything reasonable from a name like that
don't even waste your saliva

It has happened again.

When will these beasts leave women who have already fled to "safety" alone
The marriage must have been an abusive one,the poor woman left and the slowpoke still hunted and gunned her down like an animal.
My heart goes out to those little kids now wards of the system.
I wish I could get them but my hands are already full.

source please.

This is becoming all too common in the west
Frustration I suppose.
But wait o
what will posess a 28 year old girl to marry "her own father"
How can they relate?
she'll be listening to psquare while he's dancing to oriental brothers.
How sad

only allah knows
he is all knowing

Janji:
This is actually a topic where you would find a lota ladies or women and they would consider it the most important topic, o please

oya carry on.
if the post pass 2 paragraphs,I no go even attempt am.
I come here to have fun not to get a BA hons in reading

all the above have to be done peacefully.
Islam means peace

Qur’an Teacher Charged With Molesting Girl
Shahid Raza Burney, Arab News

MUMBAI, 1 February 2008 — Residents of suburban Malad were aghast after an Arabic teacher affiliated with the local mosque was charged with molesting a 13-year-old Muslim girl student at her residence.

According to senior police inspector Jaywant Hargude of the Malwani police station, the police arrested Maulana Mukim Khan, 35, a teacher at the Taleem-Ul-Islam mosque in Malad, on Wednesday for allegedly molesting and threatening the girl.

The accused, inspector Hargude said, lives in the mosque and gives Arabic language lessons to children to help them read the Qur’an. He would often teach students at their homes. The victim of the alleged crime lives in MHADA colony. Police have withheld the identity of the victim and her family.

http://doctorbulldog./2008/01/31/residents-shocked-to-discover-arabic-teacher-molesting-13-year-old-girl/

Did people actually read the initial term paper on this thread
you people get patience Infact it has passed from patience to longsuffering.
You have to pay me to read all that
I never 'craze' reach like dat
Time is precious