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[quote author=Penstef]My dear if Ʋ employ some1 and the person dies YOU are responsible and not the clinic. Cheers[/quote

Exactly, whether hospitals get people pregnant or cause complications during pregnancy.
The parents are 100% liable for any medical complications that may arise in the surrogate as a result of the pregnancy.

Why does the OP believe he is capable of being a competent father? Since he is well and clearly unable to have fruitful relationships with women at least enough to form a family.
What makes him think he will have decent relationships with his children? I'm just appalled he hasn't looked at his social disability inward and try to fix himself, than ignorantly believe he can fix it with money?

If he ever does have children, by way of relationship or otherwise I feel very sorry for anyone involved.

250k? for a years work, physical burden and heavy lifting? not to mention aftercare and nursing? the poster is having a banana! The audacity of Nigerian men.


pshewmshcewcashewnonsense

maclatunji: OP, I can tell you are probably comfortable financially, have a busy schedule and don't trust women. However, you just need to be patient. With the same effort you are going to use to find a mother for your kids, you could also find a good woman to be your wife. If it is about the peculiarities of your job, I am sure you can always work something out.

Think about it, really good women may be becoming fewer but that doesn't mean they don't exist.

see, getting married and having children is definitely not for everyone. I wont advise any woman to marry or give her baby to the op. He seems very damaged. Esp given his flawed financial assessment of what having a child (or being a woman) is worth. I think he needs to find other avenues to feel fulfilled.

This website is officially very boring. . . . . .. . . . how many topics have we recycled now? Think its time to fly. . . . .

pleep: It is not the male nature to compete with females, we would much rather protect you. Unfortunately feminism has killed this instinct in most men. Dudes are starting to join the 'gender war' in large numbers and i predict the future will look very bad for you ladies.

Queen smith testosterone is the main difference between males and females. It causes increased muscle growth, deeper voices, increased competitivnes and aggression, spatial reasoning, increased risk tolerance, bravery, libido, etc. If you were injected with 500 mlg of testosterone all those qualities i mentioned would increase in you and your clit would start enlarging... into what would look like a penis.

Testosterone is present in the male throughout development and causes most of the mental differences from the female, but if you took away the testosterone many of these characteristics would lessen and the penis would shrink into what looks like a clit.

The thing is, we are discussing ideas and points that have been raised and dispelled early in the 20th century. I am well aware people still peddle these beliefs in form of enlightened statements but these are not educated people.

We have for a very long time moved pass whether a larger body mass represents an intellectually superior sex or the fact females are underrepresented in older and more violent occupations prove anything at all.
We all know men are heavier than women, I don't even see what that point is trying to make

Men and women work together on a daily basis on issues that affect the world, richer countries and progressive societies that lead in economic prosperity have left this cave man form of thinking.

The argument is slightly interesting, but the ideas females are innately more irrational than men or the other nonsense thats been proposed here are complete hogwash. There is absolutely nothing to prove this backwards theories and they have no business being discussed among educated individuals. Its a complete waste of time debating on testosterone and oestregon. Nobody is disputing biological or physiological differences here.

Does anyone know if she's related to the popular alakijas in London? *jusswondering*

again, i'm no longer entertaining uneducated statements

Gaggi: @queensmith.
U're trying hard to prove urself a feminist. Good job. However, it's genetic for women to act the way they do. Jealousy is a female trait. Read it up for free on the net.
That a few men are jealous or bicker and a few women love their female folks doesn't make it a norm. U talk abt people being influenced by what they are taught, u are right but nobody teaches others to be jealous. It comes naturally.
Sometimes i get this feeling that u are actually a man fronting as a woman.
BTW, i've met many 'tough' women who break down or lose it at critical moments and i always realize that no matter hw tough a woman acts, she still has that female vulnurability that cracks her at critical moments.

Prove myself a feminist? Do I need to prove that? I believe men and women are equal, I don't need to prove that.


Ok, i'm not going to read anymore trash at face value- any further statements like this need to be backed up by science.

I'm no longer entertaining misogynist African crap.

pleep: QueenHow can you people continue saying this stuff. the differences between men and women are created by the chemicals testosterone and estrogen.

you need to add more to this statement, yes there are differences in the level of hormones each produce. What exactly do these hormones do?

Gee001: Very inspiring but Mods, dis post shdnt hv taken ages just 2 make front page.

thats what i was thinking, its a very old topic.

devastated? Stupid bitch, i will love for a footballer to fool me with expensive gifts. kmt. Who cares, in fact even after finding out I woulda still kept dating him to mine money outta his pockets. girls gotta live!

EVen though I'm not sure the lady didnt just release the story when toure dumped her. . . . .thats the way u do it!

Much respect, what Fashola is doing is unprecedented. What gives him top marks for the job is that he is evaluating things as he goes along. He shows true leadership skills and an ability that makes sense.
We can see clearly he is a man with a vision and he knows what he's doing. Can't even say the same for Britains prime minister. . . . . who imo always seems as clueless as they come.

Nevertheless, he is doing good doesn't mean he can't do better, but we should give praise where praise is do. He is one if not the best leader Nigeria has seen in a long while.

i agree with goldie, shes not into you. . . . at least not enough to give you her digits.

@topic, i've never liked anything about the woman. inc her dress sense (or lack of)

Double194: Is this sweat I see under her armpit? Goshhh

where are you supposed to see the sweat? inside her ears?

@moronic comments on websites insinuating women shouldn't sweat. Women are also human beings with apocrine glands under the armpits which release sweat to cool the body down. So they also sweat and have every right to exhibit normal physiology as needed for homeostasis.

Those who are not happy with this should find the nearest expressway, wait for a speeding truck and jump right in front of it. That should resolve your problems.

#next!

buccal: why do people talk like dis,if dey are livin comfortably,would they borrow?maybe they borrowed to feed the poor child sef and ure here talking shit.why call them foolish cos they borrowed.fingers are not equal remember

thats what i was thinking, was a completely out of touch statement. Whether people will intentionally put themselves into such positions is one thing. Who will spend the night with their family in jail instead of home. Who will intentionally go through such humiliation?

I guess its easy to look down on those poor people, weren't we just debating on a business man who owes access bank millions of dollars and can still brag on tv? The little people who default on their loans are harassed by the police. its just a shame.

this isnt police business at all,

obviously her reason id a sensible one. in that case she doesnt have to wear it, i slways lose my rings so ill probably wear mine around my neck.

tell your friend to go buy any odd cheap ring she doesnt mind losing,

Will Manitoba be compensated? If they disagree how can they resolve? Can they take the presidency to court? In Nigeria?

This is sad news, likely to chase away any other potential investors, everything is politics in Nigeria . . .corrupt politics.

dapojaja: Soonest another committee will be set up to look into Ribadu's report

you said it, http://lindaikeji..co.uk/2012/11/president-jonathan-sets-up-white-paper.html#more

Dr Sid needs to be sent on a course to learn professionalism, along with Don Jazzy they both need to find alternative methods to solving their anger issues and hand their twitter accounts to pr agencies that will make better use of it.

You don't call critics 'stupid' you DO NOT insult them for BUYING AND PROMOTING your work! If you disagree you state so and remember perceptions in music will be subjective. Eurgh these artists are borderline disgraceful, its no wonder Dbanj left aall of them behind!

unrelated: did he say he chop don jazzy fertilizer? Am i the only one that thinks that line just doesnt sound right?

smileyprin: And i heard the ref has a heavy scouse accent which can make words come out as something else...listen to roy hodgson speak and u'll understand what i mean.

lol even without, I've heard all sorts of pronunciations from the south!! It makes complete sense, and unless there is solid evidence I wouldn't take this seriously.
Being pissed about losing or getting punished isn't excuse to throw about accusations. It will stop genuine allegations from being taken seriously.

ohioleh: Wait until you travel to the UK and a kid screams monkey at you,then we will know if it was pronounciation or abuse

lol

I'm not even going to entertain this!

ochukoccna: You probably didn't read this part of the report
If police said the guard is dead and PUNCH has let us in that he's alive, therein lies the answer
Also why is the police ALWAYS disputing news stories about them
Do they get it right all the time?

Also the neighbors/ co-tenants are there to disprove this story, actually the neighbors stopped the man from getting shot dead by the police
When I read the PUNCH's report I shuddered at the stone age police tactics
Imagine coming into a crime scene all guns blazing without regard for stray bullets
Shooting at someone who has no visible nor concealed weapon
WTF!
I know fighting crime is not easy on policemen in Nigeria but stories like the above make you shudder& pray for celestial protection whether you believe in God or not

I read it but I still thought it was a bit unlikely, they could have said they visited him and he's on life support but stating they interviewed him I think would be a direct fib.

I agree with you for the rest, its still very disturbing the way Nigerian police behave. But that shouldn't mean the press should lie. It hurts their credibility.

The Punch aren't even making any sense on the matter, how exactly did they interview someone on life support? Telekinesis?

Neither party has any credibility, meanwhile I saw a photograph of the Banker and he didn't look like he was shot 5 times, not to ignore many that survive but and if he was why isnt he dead?

Not to exonerate the nigerian police on the matter, they are obviously incompetent if shooting anyone in sight is their system. After not turning up on time, they expected the robbers to be waiting for them! shior

saintvc: Angry ;-> to paste. Just read it here


"I spoke to the players involved, either because they were allegedly the recipient of that abuse or had heard it, three separate times. I asked them if they could be mistaken. I asked them, if they might have heard 'Mikel' instead of 'monkey'. I thought I had covered that base.

This actually sheds a bit of light, maybe he just wasn't pronouncing mikel well enough. I don't condone racism at all but one has to wonder if the club were just looking for a bit of attention after losing.