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Omo, work too much.

I'd do nothing. It could be their style sex. I mean nothing is impossible.

korilala:
Blackmailed By My Ex!!! Don't Know What To Do.

I dated this lady several years back but due to her promiscuity we broke up but by then she was pregnant for me.

When my daughter clocked 3, I asked for my daughter to stay with me (she's staying with her mother's family) but she gave me a condition. That I forgive her and forget the past and we should plan a future together with our daughter. For my daughter's sake I accepted and she moved in with us but alas she still messages her ex and still reaches out to them. I confronted her again today and her reply to me is "you better don't kill yourself."

We're not married but every time I tell her to leave she threatens to take our daughter who is only five years old and who has grown a strong bond to me.

Mods in the house please advise me.

How sure are you that's your child?

Islamiat01:
We Dec. 8th Standard. Let us know when decision mail don enter pls o.

I have done the pre-CAS interview today, though it was supposed to be last week Friday, but network was silly, and it was successfully done today, and I passed.

RisenPhoenix1:
More like learn how to make others celebrate you wherever you go

This is even better.

RisenPhoenix1:
Yes. Red pill authors like Rollo Tomassi wrote reams on transactional (purchased) sex vs validational (desire) sex in his 3 part book; The Rational Male.. You can read up on it.

Basically, women do have validational sex, but never in the long term; only until they realise that the relationship with that 'bad boy' is never going to become transactional. This is because they are naturally hardwired to give up sex for long term material comfort. Of course, this does not mean that they cannot occasionally be persuaded to foray back into the realm of validational sex every once in a while (especially when they're ovulating). This is because they are also hardwired to breed only with the most dominant survivalist males (that 'bad boy' again). In times past, the alpha hunter was also the best provider, so a woman could have validational and transactional sex at the same time. Nowadays, with obese investment bankers and timid stockbrokers being the best providers, women are forced to choose between validational and transactional sex. Because they have no real desire for their husbands, they go back to their drifter exes in dingy motel rooms every time the urge to breed hits them. This is what redpillers refer to as "alpha bleeps/beta bucks".

But the redpillers are wrong in thinking that a man cannot be an alpha and still provide for his woman at the same time, thereby satisfying her requirements for both types of sex. That is precisely how our forefathers lived in harmony with their women and adultery/paternity fraud was almost unthinkable then. The modern man has to find that middle path once more.

That middle path is, Going where you are celebrated.

Fm2019:
I have a neighbor who throws something like bids or pebbles/stones to the floor every early morning (nights), I always hear the sound of it, at first I didn't take it for anything until my wife noticed the same thing. I wanted to confront the person but my wife said no. This person lives alone in that flat upstairs.
Should I confront this person, because we are flats neighbor and we attend the same church, though the person attends mostly Sunday service, but since it became obvious this person doesn't attend church as before again.
Please has any body experience this before or any idea about what this means

Mind your business mate! That flat was paid for just like you did yours. S/he has every right to do as like so long as it does not violate the contract between the landlord and him/her.

NwaAmaikpe:




Don't be a weakling or hide in the guise of being civil not to fight for your existence.

No person who wishes you well will tell you to ignore your neighbor.
Please confront her.
As someone who has been to Mecca and visited at least 80 native doctors from all tribes...I can authoritatively confirm that what she's doing has a spiritual connotation; it is a remixed ramy al-jamarāt.

She is stoning the spirit man of someone in that compound whom I believe is you at the time of his least consciousness.

You should also be wary of your wife; it is obvious she doesn't want your progress.
For her to advise you to keep mute means she might even be secretly wishing you die so she can jump on to a younger preek.

Very typical of the 21st century wife.
They act like they are after your best interest when their only prayer point is to either become widows or divorcees so they can freely fvck.

Ogbeni use your head.
If I were you, I'd just act like I don't know what they are doing and mind my business.

I think say you deh go church eh this man?

Actually op, it's "I'm fade out"

ElasmoBranchii:
As nairaland feminists, evening newspapers and SIMPs have discovered, shaming tactics can never work on a redpiller and probably you know this.

This your post was made to discourage bluepill simp from escaping the matrix. And that is good because the redpill doesn't need weak men who will feel bad because some bluepill cuck said he is not a man. Only strong people can handle the truth.

Also that redpill thread you are attacking never graced front page but has gleaned over 200k views and 152 comments and counting.
After today this your thread will fade into oblivion. Nobody will remember what they read here. So I will advice you op to be productive with your time.

It's just two pages. The highest it can go is 4 pages and from the third to the last(4th page) will be filled arguments of what redpill is, what alpha male is and what feminism is. Lol

lamidiinjury:
E too bad 4 me, I go even save money in advance if they never asked thinking they will surely ask and I will provide
Nothing wey I never do for woman, except to buy car or build house, I don rent apartment sef all for love at the end of the day na error
My own level of simp must be in top ten for this world
And I've been repeating the same mistake for more than 5yrs now i never get sense, na the reason why I feel like crying after what I've been reading here since last week
Right now e just be like say make I pay somebody to just beat me up mercilessly

One girl like that never even call me for like 5month now call me today said she needs help, if na before I go just help like nothing happened

I just dey vex for myself like this, e be like say all my family and friends sef know say I be vetran in simp, dey just dey use me financially anyhow
People I dey help go dey wear good clothes do great stuff, I go even contribute financially for them to achieve their goals
And me, me God!!

It's OK to cry once and understand what made you cry in the first place. It's even better to keep crying till you learn. It's wisdom to learn from other people's tears.

Go and cry no more.

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

Do you think these your friends haven't gotten something that will favors you and gave to another?

fuckaholic25:
so me being a good boy means i cant stand up for whats mine, that i can't protect what is mine?.... how do ladies think nowadays?

That's the rule of the game.

Hassanmaye:
I swear man some men sef in this 21century my reputation is more than anything, once I touch you be like stop I vamoose no time..

If you waste time, na rape.

100k for person weh en manager deh kpansh for free.

ethicallyright:
To maintain your illogical response, you've started with argumentum ad hominem at the bold in your comment above.

If I need to follow your path by attacking your person instead of propositions, then I would say I'm more Alpha and richer than you will ever be. I'm most likely younger as well.

You can follow like a sheep...

If you feel "... don't go around portraying f00lishness..." is an argumentum ad hominem, then I shouldn't be responding to you.

I gave a command "...don't..." and I didn't call you one.


So long fella.

EmmaNuella77:
Please do.

Wanna get that man's gonna do everything for you without whining, and all need to do is just be beautiful?


Go on sis. That's the right path.

Jealous.

ethicallyright:
I'm neither fighting the researcher nor the result but seeking an understanding of the variables employed by the researcher.
In the wake of the pandemic, a virologist may have a different result when same research is conducted but with different variables. The result will most likely show that way older husbands died leaving behind their way younger wives because they fall within the age group of those more vulnerable to Covid-19 fatality.

I'm not vomiting the red pill I swallowed partly due to your influence. I'm a distant pupil of yours and trying to distinguish myths from facts.

You do know you can email the people who carried out the research, telling exactly what you are saying here. I'm not saying you're wrong asking questions and doubting, it's human of you and all of us. But you are doing it in the wrong forum. It's like your argument is to discredit the op who brought researches carried out to back his claim up. So what you should do first is to prove the research wrong by carrying out yours, whilst emailing the original researchers.
That's how it's done. Don't go around portraying f00lishness thinking you smart. Be smart. Either bring your research that is approved by the appropriate body, to discredit the op, or mailing it to the original researchers, or remaining silent.

Ciao

ubunja:
I hear you. That's why I provided all relevant info for anyone who wants to go deeper. Try Sven's site.

I mean everything is there.

Bright12660:
I wonder since when does Ubunja teaching people about redpill knowledge become teaching them hatred?

Brother you can not get anywhere arguing with people who think they're always right, and women are part of that people. Stop this nonsense of shalaye. It's not mature of you.

Bright12660:
No prob. As long as he goes to that place where I'm too lazy to go to, and copy & paste it here for everyone, especially so I can read or access it, it's not your concern.

Ignore her and pass. It cost less.

ethicallyright:
Living long and marriage to a very young woman are not mutually exclusive.

A researcher may study the correlation of gridlock / terrible annual traffic and life expectancy and finds out that those who spend more time in traffic have lower life expectancies. The research is not purely scientific and direct if the dependent variables of gridlocks that are compared with the independent variables of death are not found at roads where they are traffic jams.

For instance, the result might have gone that way because people who return late from work due to traffic eat late at night and this practice is not healthy and can cause heartburn. The result might have also gone that way because people who return late from work due to traffic encounter armed robbers waiting for them at their gates. This means that if a person who is caught up in traffic daily eats dinner before leaving his office and has armed security details guarding him, he will not die because of a habitual gridlock experience.

It is different from saying "smokers die young" because smoking does not need another variable to cause death as it directly damages the lungs.

There's no direct scientific proof that supports the truth of you assertion above Ubanja .

*Bianca Ojukwu is still pretty and living her best life after the death of her husband.*

You just said after the death of her husband.

ubunja:
FAMOUS COUPLES IN AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS:
Here are some popular age gap couples and the age gap between.

Regina Daniels & Ned Nwoko: 40 years.
Dolph Lundgren & Emma Krokdal: 38 years
Michael Douglas & Catherine Zeta-Jones: 25
years.
Donald Trump and Melania: 24 years.
Leonardo Dicaprio & Camila Morrone: 23 years.
Jason Statham & Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley: 20 years.
George Clooney & Amal Clooney: 17 years.
Eddie Murphy & Paige Butcher: 17 years.
Jay-Z & Beyoncé: 12 years.

What do you think?

# MGTOW
# TheRedPill

See age difference... This strengthens my resolve. If I'm not 10yrs or more older, we ain't even thinking of dating.

Martinez39s:
– The accused is entitled to the presumption of innocence until his is proven guilty.
– No tale, story, or claim without hard evidence shall be taken as truth neither shall it have any consequence for the accused.
– If the allegation is proved to be false, she ought to serve the same sentence as a proven rapist.

Anything outside these na tales by moonlight.

Honestly, I like stories like this. I read it and I laugh right in my head. Men no go learn. Them go deh form, 'she fit say no but she mean yes' na em deh put men for trouble. When this "singer" visited him, and said they wanna talk, why didn't he dismiss her humanely and immediately and pay a hoe to get his satisfaction?


Omo make this 'singer' drag his name to the mud, maybe others fit learn.

Subscription renewed.

But this babe ugly na.



AlaskaObi: I can't let you go, your pussy is very sweet.


Singer I've never heard of before now: I'm about to end your career




where's that meme sef

Dude is about to learn the hard way that there is nothing sweet about a pussy and that it's all in his imagination.












At a price though.

Creeza:
Make money bro but never to spend on a woman( don't as a rule of thumb make it the priority. Except she is your mother who in most cases won't care if you do or not)

Your time, attention and money are your milk, guard them jealously and ruthlessly. Spend every last Kobo on yourself, invest in you. if you have money lying around which you don't know what to do with it, buy crypto and stach the gaddamn Bitcoin in a wallet ( Bro Bitcoin just passed $23000. About 11 million in Black market exchange)

Ever wondered why she keeps jumping from one dumb ass simp to another? They got dough but they give it out freely and their time and attention comes to her as a bonus. For example “ Spit on me I'm your tufiakwa”


Only Simpsons make statements like that and women hate it. Even if they chuckle to it doesn't make it any romantic.

She is the Tufiakwa and you should spit on her.

No one will buy the cow if the milk is free

Yaooo wa!

odinson1:
Never believe what a woman says,ever!

I think she just cooked up that story so as not to feel sorry for what ever happened between her and the guy(it's a defence mechanism women use to take themselves off the blame and clear their conscience)

A single lady Living in rent cannot Train a Guy in school and sponsor him abroad! it's virtually impossible

On a second thought, you are right. Defense mechanism.

Magnoliaa:
nahhh, feminine women who know their onions don't do that shii. radiating in that glorious elemental energy they naturally possess will have men falling down at their feet, ready to bring home the biggest kill ( - or money, depending on the society sha)...

Ubunja. This girl right here, knows her powers. She's too denjelos

Hathor5:
Nairaland males suddenly forgot about culture and tradition.

Women all of a sudden have dementia after traditional wedding and go right ahead for western wedding. Hmm, I think it's called amnesia or something.

crackhaus:
Zzor, one thing I like about you is that you will just say what you have to say exactly as most Nigerian women are thinking it.
ABSOfvckingLUTLELY!!!

She doesn't compromise, nor sugarcoat it.