₦airaland Forum

kenwills:
Thanks I'm grateful for this piece of advice.

Yeah I think he has joined some cult group.

Well, then before you act, make sure you have the number of police on speed dial, because you will be needing it.

Martinez39s:
What am I reading?

Sexuality can not be changed.

Madibah:
Thick thighs and her intelligence

I was called weird for being a thigh guy.

Those who are well educated on shares and perhaps stock, knows this those is about to cash out from all his songs, whether or not it sales.

Youth empowerment I must say. Except it's not for all youths.

Nice move, when I've saved enough, I'll start buying your shares.

All these chubby silly women self. Exercise and reduction of food intake will get you to a nice size.

But no, keep looking for body shammers who's got nothing to do with your fat.


It's all Twitter and Instagram till your heart fails. Dirty pig!

peeps4u:
Fraud like?

Which bank will pay money to another bank acct that's not linked to a bvn?

This is the essence of bvn itself; to check fraud.

You can't defraud with bvn, neither can you get any details needed enough to gain access to an account via bvn; BVN is to check fraud itself

OK!

Acidosis:
Those of you that shared your BVN with that Okpara guy, how far? It's almost 48 hrs.


Whatever happens, y'all need prayers sha. Remember you can close a hacked bank account, you can change a hacked password, you can block a stolen ATM card, phone, or sim, but your BVN??!

E be things. What if they use the BVN to commit fraud and CBN will be on those people's neck?

BlueBanana:
Watching Man United lose isnt just a hobby, it’s a lifestyle, a reason to breathe, an escape from this cruel world filled with thieves. it’s art, the first gift you open on christmas, a hug from a loved one, it’s everything you ever wanted, it’s everything you need

You deh craze. I might probably get banned... But

Thunder fire you. Shege... Waka... If I see you...

You get luck I no know you!

JovialJune:
She never said she's married, she said "I am a woman with 2 girls"

Stop gloating unnecessarily.

The man whom she had those two kids really is radiating with masculinity.

streamsofjoy:
Why won't she be composed? See the number of likes she has attracted. Most nairalanders support her view and this makes her more confident and calm. Had it been the other way round you will see her tantrums.

There are more people who are against her thoughts, than for her.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

I have been in your shoes. My younger brother was a pain in the ass right from childhood. I am a very hot tempered guy. Each time I want to react, mama would step in either physically or emotionally. Well this year I put an end to such rubbish to the point our last born is seriously scared of me. He did not believe I could do it.


What did I do? I stopped talking to him to desist from angering me, I stopped the warning... And allowed him to get me to my limits. What I did to him after that is one memory he will take to the grave.

This is what you should.
Stop telling him to desist from insulting you. Allow him make you angry enough and then descend on him (note my junior brother was way bigger than me, like twice my size, but I beat the hell out of him like he was kid (he's a kid)). As for the neighbourhood kids saying derogatory things about you, ignore them. By the time you beat your brother up, they'd stay put.

Also take it into account that your brother might be in cult or involve cultist into the show, once they come, tell them this is family issue and hence they should mind their business. Call the police on all of them (army is better) including your brother.

Ps: don't tell them you'd call the police on them. (wrong move).

pansophist:
Jesus.

So you're implying that common sense is not common within the female demographic anymore eh? To the extent that you're surprised a woman said something that make sense? In other words, to be smart is not a feature of many nairaland females ?

Which kind nonsense be this naw?

The author composure too much. Only to find out she's married, with kids. Probably, drawing the common sense from her husband. Read from page 1 to this page, I'm the only one she responded to, only to clarify this particular post you quoted. Her husband masculinity no be here.

GLYCOLYSISS:
So, basically, you're trying to tell us that after :

1-- putting yourself first and focusing on your personal growth and development, probably like hitting the gym, quitting "added sugars" , growing your values etc

2-- Understanding the dynamism of male -female relationship, idea of love and loyalty, seeing women for who they truly are, and not the dream you were conditioned to believe ,

3--- understanding the power of your attention, resources and time, and why you should never give them away for unnecessary female cheap validations and the power dynamism on play.

And most importantly,

4-- understanding the SMV and the sexual market place, and how best to navigate through it .

You finally came up with those conclusions above ?
Impressive !

One key thing I noticed about your write-up is,that's assuming you actually took a walk into that rabbit hole and wanted to see how deep it goes, is that you fail to recognize you and your friends where in the anger phase,which is actually normal, because it's like being exposed to stuffs against your pre-conditioned way to view life and the game, and most importantly, women.
Such disillusionment made you and your friends angry, but instead to seek help from those already in the community on how to take the next vital steps, you and your friends dwelled on that anger phase, and you decided to take it further by creating a thread on what redpill is and is not.
I expected better from you, but since that's your observations and conclusions on redpill, wish you all the best man.

Not everybody can be saved, that I know deep down my heart.

That guy just want to lay more women. He needs PUA not redpill. Redpill will not get any man more women, neither will it make anyone rich. But rather it will arm anyone who comes in contact with it with things needed to surf through life.

XXXXTENTACION:
I guess after your exposure to the redpill you are now a billionaire

or have you become a lady killer

You are just silly honestly.

XXXXTENTACION:
Is your mother still alive

Will he marry his mother? Hmm?

Once you go black. You never coming back!

Once you are exposed to red pill, by accident, by experiment or intentionally, your life will never remain the same.

It after all your ramblings @op, and you still go back to your old ways, then you were never really exposed to red pill.

MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

Can I pm you?

Saviolamemphix:
Damn niggar simps have being asslickin girls since time memorial

Leave the guy. As if e get award then they give guys weh as slick pass others.

Leshurr:
I am very much a woman and a mother of two girls.
I said what I said and I stand by it.

I admire the composure.

It's either the author of this post is a man behind an 'f' moniker or she has really mastered the act of controlling her emotions.

Why do I think like the above?

Despite all the ramblings and calling out by "her female colleagues", she's yet to respond to either of them. That's very feminine yet so powerful!

parkervero:
As a man I must say the topic is insulting to motherhood. The OP has forgotten that he has a mother

She's just on nairaland. It might not even be a 'she' behind that moniker.

No Pucci for you today mate!

Kuns84:
Not true. You clearly responded which shows how emotionally invested you are in this topic.

Secondly, we ain't tryna procreate with our female relatives so stop using that redundant line to shame men

Bitches be selling incest to us men. But we ain't buying!

Nice shot!

AfroKnight:
Sexual object doesn’t just mean having sex with someone. It means the measure of attractiveness. The appeal.

Why you deh explain am give?

luminouz:
So you no see his moniker abi?

He is Adam ma nigga

Omo, the moniker fit am! He is really what the moniker talk.

LordAdam16:
To be fair, it's not simply "years and years" of conditioning. It's literally how we've managed to come this far since we evolved from our hominid predecessors.

-Lord

Who is this guy, so wise in the ways of science?

DharmieDhrey:
Thanks man, ghosting her wouldn't make much sense. Its okay to be angry and resentful, we must analyze our feelings but I wouldn't allow sentimentality cloud my sense of reasoning. She has been doing the most work for the past few months, I only brought my story as I've considered withdrawing completely but with answers I've gotten from the great minds here, I have realised what to do.
#NoToSimping

Leave her and never return. Don't ever turn your back. She's doing the most work because all her first choice rejected her. Bounce mate.

emmaodet:


ohhhhh Charlieeeee.... men don sufferrrrrrrrrrr

It look like. In my head we was dating. I can't say such for hers!

DharmieDhrey:
She was into me but things have changed. I keep my distance even when things are going well. These days, she tells me how she misses me. She only misses how I make her feel not my personality. I don't seem to trust her, she maybe lovebombing me. Ghosting her completely would leave emotional scars on her but my sanity matters. I want to know other steps I can take.

Bro chill, me I'll say, no ghosting. No need being friends with women. You will spend a lot and would never get anything in return.

My ex of three years (we dated three years or looked like, idk, really), after I found the truth, God bless ubunja Martinez39s(his post felt like an attack to me), on June, I stopped every connection, calls, talking to her. If we meet in person, we just say hi, and I move on, if she want to talk to me longer, I give her the impression that I'm not interested. She noticed anyway, she started bombing with calls, affection, all that you can think of. In fact if I had asked for sex, she'd have given it to me (throughout the time we dated, I never had sex with her, and she found it difficult to make out with in public, even at night unless we are well hidden). All these while, I never reciprocated anything... She'd call and when I feel like, I answered, and she will tell me to call her sometime... The only time I called her was when I told her I wanted us to be strangers I said this because she couldn't tell me the reason she was keeping in touch. I mean, it's over a year since I last called but you keep calling me... Hello!

Well, she didn't take it easy... My friend told me she met her that day and she was never herself. And I proceeded to tell him why she was that way.

Why did I severe everything... A girl who didn't think me worthy of her boyfriend shouldn't be worthy of me.

Cut off! Stop calling or texting. If you can't stand her text whenever she texts, grow some balls and call it quit whatever you have with her.

Skepticus:
At the bolded, God won't help you because he already done that by giving you a brain to figure what is right and the free will to get it.

Thank you for this reply. They have used GOD WILL HELP US, to ruin Nigeria.

Now back to the what really made me reply you.
The kind fall oil go fall eh! Lol, na only God knows. UK go boycott oil by going green with cars in 2030. That's 10yrs for Nigeria to think of an alternative. It's looks long, but 2030 is by the corner.

Our oga wan leave wetin make them name us Nigeria, e be things

itsRhamzy:
lol. The guy still dey love the chick I guess..

This here below is how you ghost a bitçh completely. I made sure I didn't chat her or pick her numerous calls after a minor misunderstanding sprung up post-breakup. Instead I passed message to her through her close friend. Make her understand that she Isn't shiit afterall.

Didn't here Any noise afterwards. Don't ever let a bitçh that has just pussy to offer you make herself feel too bigger than you. Ruthlessly Drop her off her high horse.

Her friend will show her that message, and she will cry every night.

I like it!

GLYCOLYSISS thanks. I've seen the mail. And I've downloaded them!