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Englov:
28.11.2020 marked it 5yrs marriage anniversary for me and my spouse.

The experiences are as follows:
3. When Your wife says Yes, she might mean No most of the times and vice versa:

Most of the times when you are doing the great job on the other room, if she is saying no,stop,etc pls don't stop oh. If you do she will turn back and say to you. Why did you stop? You will answer but you asked me to stop. She will ask you are you not man enough to know that I didn't mean stop? Immerging that someone asked you to stop something and she said she didn't mean it.
You must be man enough to know when she means what she is saying. You as a man must figure somethings out by yourself.

I had to stop you here... If she says no, you stop. Women have succeeded to document rape in marriage as offence under the law. As a man you can rape your wife in court. If she says no, bro take your prick out and dress up, if you no finish, masturbate it out in the bathroom. If she asks why you stopped as her if she's stupid to say no and still want it. Cause it's only people who are with dementia will say no to something and still want it.

Marital rape or whatever they're calling it now, can ruin you as a man. It's not a matter of being man enough... Abeg to avoid stories that touches.

Goldensword:
This thread is a complete female miseducation, still i will use it to my advantage as well, i will secure the bag like richmen do at the same time have the dick power of broke men, then dangle the money before females as a bait to attract them, when they finally come for the money hide it away from them and then get them hook with dick power, and a promise for riches if they can impress me more, emotionless man like me you will impress till you get fed up and leave because there's no way I'm gonna admit you've done enough to earn my money. Ubunja God bless you for me.

Oil deh your head!

GLYCOLYSISS please I need the soft copy of "BEYOND GOOD AND EVIL", "LAWS OF HUMAN NATURE" and "THE 50TH LAW".

Thanks.

Here's my email: cosibekelly@gmail.com

SonyaSpence:
Trust me, when you get the jinx of OOP in python, you'll see how easy it is.

First, ensure you understand the basics of the OOP concept very well. Then you can move to considering OOP examples in syntax. Then Practice! - 2X

OOP, I mastered it when I switched to GUI python programming with Kivy.

I'll look for books specifically on OOP.

angelfallz:
Going through the comments i see people that on another thread were insulting the man for stabbing his live-in lover to death because she refused to register her new car in his name, but now in this thread they express shock, instead of insults, that a woman butchered her mother.

So, why is it that when men commit crimes there are men ready to haul insults, but when women commit crimes the same men express shock?
Why the double standards?

This is what their parents taught them, you can't blame their parents either because it's what their own parents taught them too and then the media solidified everything.

What was being passed down from one generation to another like it's a culture? WOMEN CAN DO NO HARM. THEY'RE LIKE AN ANGEL.

Kondomatic:
Dude, how is receiving whatsapp messages from unknown person a breach of privacy and security?


Must we find excuse for everything?

"Hello, good evening Mary."

This here shows that the sender know her a little.

The best rude response should be "Good evening, please who is this"?

Not "Hu is dis" followed by "how did you get my number"


Call a spade a spade.




5n is not a response to good evening in any language on earth and there's nothing "nonsense" in being told to calm down.

That guy is stupid. Most times I get messages from people on nairaland, and usually I forget I posted my number to be reached, and I have never responded in the way that girl responded.

Omo free that guy you are quoting. His stupidity is like peak. It's in him.

Jashub:
I do support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

Nansense! The company was trying to explain himself, how they got her number and why they contacted her. A little patience before typing the next message would have saved her all these. In fact since she was not the one who reached out first, she should have waited for the person who reached out first to say what brought him. But no since stupidity and clout chasing is engrained in their blood, why not!

And you giving such excuses for the stupid girl shows you both are on the same boat with a tag Idiots!

timebomb02:
lol, i dont like gold diggers, they are illogical and mean. i can sight them from miles away. their emotional nature will always leave a clue. only simps falls for gold diggers. nevertheless simps make up the majority. Nice write up from ubunja anyway.

You think in 50yrs time simps will be eradicated with the way the media is propelling them?

Nuff to go round for my daughters.

Idontknowyou:
The THIS keyword in Javascript.. that small thing, took me 2 months to learn..
But las las I understand am after learning class In JavaScript

It took me few hours to wrap my head around that THIS keyword in Javascript. I don't know how it happened, but I did it.

The hardest topic for me which I'm still trying to wrap my head around is OOP in python, and regex.

Eriokanmi:
Not this time again

Well, we all saw how unfavorable Buhari government was in 2015 and we still voted him in again in 2019. So fooling yourselves.

Eriokanmi:
your comment just gave me a succour. 2023 will set the record straight. God bless Nigeria

2023, another who is worse than him will be voted in by us. We just love to sit complain like we are doing now. Nothing will change.

marvinsync:
Ubunja are u encouraging gold digging?I understand the need to teach ladies not to be hoes BUT ur teaching ladies how to get stuff from a man by manipulating him with his drive for sex and that's encouraging gold digging

This is the 21st century women can make their own money why do they need men to get all their stuff? If this was in the 18th century I would say okay but its not

And what do u mean a woman can't be a respectable wife and slutty at the same time , who says so, in fact that's what men want, a good trustable wife who's amazing in bed and I don't see how that can't be

I had reply you because the bolded caught my attention.

The bolded is the message for men who read and is reading this thread hidden in between lines.

ubunja:
it's what I've been saying. Daughters dig for money. Sons dig for pussy.

Told my friend this and he was like, are you insane? Gold diggers you hated for years. I told him, yes I hated them for years, just like every human subject to change, I now love em!

Martinez39s:
There is a reason why Bella Thorne made over $2M on OnlyFans without a single nude pics even though she promised to supply them. They paid in anticipation. I and Ubunja know why. If you read the write up again, you will know why. How many pornstars has paid over $2M from porn?

Isi ri gi nma nna..

You are very much sensible. Thank you for bringing it home. I mean the example.

odinson1:
Another wonderful masterpiece Mr Ubunja




To that woman who calls herself Zzor, Men will keep Getting saved,very soon no one will be left to Kiss your Ass.
So you better Muster up the courage now and go Toast that Guy you like instead of forming stupid Pride

@bolded, na Crackkhaus she like. I don deh view how she no deh gree the guy rest.

And crackkhaus no send.

I'm gonna train my daughters to be gold diggers. Idc. And my sons to be masculine enough.

purples25:
No for what? Its nothing. I'm just a moniker here.

Not you, him.
But it's OK.

purples25:
Nah why would you say that? Count yourself as respectable.

Due to a few reasons i can't reply pms but thanks for reaching out.

That ought to hurt...

DEMZEE:
U can't sugarcoat the truth

U can't tell the truth in a nice way

Redpill isn't for snowflakes

If u can't handle it's better u don't attempt to learn

Emotional people wants the truth soaked in a vanilla strawberry dip..

purples25:
Daizzz what you guys really care about na. Just kidding. We're all human.

Anyway if she has everything you want you should also give her everything she wants. 50/50.

That's my point and i believe it's the ubunja guys point too, to both genders.

Wickedfact Here you go sir

I just realized something, as tough as we show ourselves, we are still emotional.

You try to point one guy in the right direction and he gets emotional, how do we learn?

How do one learn when he views every correction as an attack on his personality and masculinity?

Really, anyone who wants TRP to transform him into a better being should do away with emotions.

Wickedfact:
My post is highlighting how cheap and inconsequential she has made female affection to be. If you don't see anything wrong with what she typed, I'm sorry I can't help you.

You can decide to pay your girlfriend salary and when you break up, add gratuity and pension too.

This is from her post, and it needs no answer. Don't highlight.

So what i understand from this is there has to be a tight and secure transaction between the two.

Look man, there's a reason this group had a rule of never responding to people with 'f' moniker and simps with 'm' moniker. When you are highlighting as in your case or explaining, you look dumber because, although they know all these redpill truth being preached here by default, the come off as though they know nothing. Now tell me, how would you think of a 4yo boy who is teaching how to spell a fish?

That's how you are before women when teaching them what they already know.

Ciao

internationalman:
That sex doll can serve as a better wife than most women from this side of the world...

Yeah I know sex doll has nothing to offer other than sex but so do most women nowadays

The sex doll will not wake up one day and decide it does not love him anymore.


This is a divorce free marriage. The risk is very much little.

Wickedfact:
Salary kwa? Is a relationship a job?

Why should I pay you allowances for dating me when I can use that same money to groom my body, get better clothes and land girls 10 times prettier and better than you?

By the way, you only talked of ass and tits as what the guy wants from the girl. You need to improve your expectations and move with better men.

Resist the urge to shalaye. BTW what she just said is corresponding to what ubunja said in his topic. Pick the knowledge if any and don't try to prove anything. Thank you for understanding.

Jaqenhghar:
This can never happen in naija aka coongeria
If it were naija the attendant would have told the whiteman thank you and if the attendant beat the whiteman, other Niggerians will take sides with the oyinbo to beat their own.

I went to IOM today in Abuja for TB test, next to their gate is s car park meant for workers, and every patient who came for the test and parked where workers where meant to park were asked to repark. But this white guy which I think is Arabic parked where workers parked their cars, the security made an attempt to tell him to repark(which I think is just a cover) the man didn't care and flaunted it like he owns the place. Something a Nigerian can not do in another country and go scot free. I for talk oh, but I needed my TB test.

Skepticus:
Anybody can smoke weed and bang pussy. We all do. I don't want to be petty bringing out someone's old post, but go check his old moniker and read the posts that are related to dating, and you'll see traces of high-grade simping.

You might not understand but your opinions are welcome.

These guys got the whole alpha, and red pill thing wrong. Smoking, drinking and banging lots of pussy doesn't make you an alpha male or a bad guy sef... I mean all these things are after the life and strength of a man. Continuous smoking leads to sterility in man, drinking cause diabetes, and too much women, gets you STDs. So tell me how can something that will kill you make you a man?

No bother reply that guy, he will not understand.

BestAccessories:
Thanks.

Relationship is about what and what you're ready to compromise on and when.

If a girl insist I must come to the island for the first time, she had better agreed that the next date is on the mainland and she is coming.

Op and the girl haven't entered any relationship yet. What is hard to comprehend in it? Abi any girl that chats and call always son enter relationship with you?

BestAccessories:
I only used Lagos as an example sir.

You see, you still have to meet her at place that's convenient for her for the first date.

If it's church, make it work there.

After the initial first meeting, you can move to your next plan.

If she isn't comfortable with the place your suggest for the first time meeting,find a compromise that's both comfortable for both parties.

If you insist that it had to be the place you recommend and she doesn't like it, forget her and go fish for another gal.

Ciao

Doing the what you posted, makes a man come off as needy. The minute that girl tells her her girls that you suggested a place and she down played it to be another place, she'd be given an advice that will ruin you. You might think you are finding the comfortable place for you both but not knowing you are eliminating your comfort in the equation. These people are selfish. You tell her your meeting point, she doesn't like it, she bounces. It's not a force. Also you as a man bounces too. There's no [middle ground in this one.

Samakus:
I won't do that, sorry. I would rather 'down' my game. Now, run along sir

Thank you. It's your cash, and you are the man. You pick the place, she comes. If she doesn't, you bounce. That's how to know if a relationship would look like something that will work.
Emphasis on the bold.

Preshmane:
you should have let her decide the venue as it's the first date ...

Imagine? For what please?

BestAccessories:
Oga, stop being a child. For first date, ask her to suggest a venue and location.

It's takes two to tangle, if she doesn't like the place you suggested, you should have asked her where is comfortable and convenient for her.

Up your game.

For your mind, Up your game... who is going to spend that the other should suggest a place? If you be guy, you suppose don deh ostracized from anything that involves men. You should be amongst women for having a pussy for a ball!

If you be woman, no wahala. Nansense and up your game.