₦airaland Forum

nairavsdollars:
I hope the army will be wise enough to suspend that crocodile Operation because it will be vehemently resisted

They wouldn't back down.

Well, if they ignore the protest, it will still go on. And if they do anything other than responding to the request of the youths, the protest will die off. But the thing is, what we youths are demanding isn't something that can be done in days. But it must be done.

The government did this to themselves. They gave us audio promises for over three years. So this one, is one of those audio promises until we see actions.

If they go brutal, they get sanctioned by the UN.

peacekante:
Please shut up with you and this your un intervention.

Who told you that you can remove a democratic elected president? All of you will just come online and be showing your self.

Has UN intervene in Hong Kong?

Mtchew

No one is talking about removing a democratic president. And if they're not scared, why are they so much in a hit to end the protest?

yemex04:
How would UN intervention look like? remove the President and all state Governors and National Assembly,/State Assembly members?

The protest has become more of jokes and concert for celebrities and followers..

I know there's regular supply of food and drinks which has made the gatherings attractive for most folks..

We like to overdo things in this country so much tht the main course would be defeated..


Even the so called UN and international communities know that all protest demands have been met.. The reform been asked for will not happen in practice terms like ''closing and opening'' of eyes.. It will come, but it will take a process...

I know my comments would only be understood by those who have knowledge of process.

#Endsenselessprotestnow

And the protest in Honk Kong isn't an over do of things abi?

In 2017 we protested and they gave us audio promises, 2018 the same thing, 2019 the vice president told us the police and Sars will be reformed and what happened? If they had acted, would here be a protest like this one? Stop giving excuses for the government's incompetence.

I doubt you understand what red pill really is and what being an alpha male is.

If you did, you would have known that she wasn't gonna give you her contact when she told you "...next time we meet".

You are no redpiller and should never consider yourself one.

I'd like to think the guy who is saying these craps is just being sarcastic.

ubunja:
Gosh!!who raises these men??

Women. Women raised those men.

JasperVII:
3 fucking years! How do you guys do it? Like what kind of condition is that?

Well, the simp in me made me. Well, I cut her off since June last year, and since then I've been on about myself and my growth.

Iogobenz:
I am an Onitsha boy that pulled himself out of misery,comfortable enough to not want to destabilise a nation over my personal incompetence and failures.
I don't look for who to blame like some of you,reason I am not frustrated enough to be protesting senselessly on the streets of Nigeria.
Nigeria youths are lazy,irresponsible and are the reason for their misfortunes,not the government.
Especially this useless generation.
Make una no go find work,you will keep blaming government till you grow white hairs.
Anyways the army is coming to reset your brains soon.
Country of 200m people that still has crude oil as it's most significant source of fx should tell you a lot about its youths.
A smuggler is better than the average youth in my opinion that will sit at home and wait to be spoon fed and not want to take his destiny in his hands.
All sorts of rubbish socialist programs,yet no way.N power,you win,all those rubbish yet they still cant even feed themselves.
That is why they have all the time in the world to be protesting everyday.
You say I benefit from the system?Dude I didn't even graduate from university because I saw it as time wastage at that point in my life,neither have I ever seek for any job from your fùcked up government nor make any demands.
If all of you were like me,I'm sure Nigeria would not be the world poverty capital,ode!
Enough said.

Bro I hope you know the harassment from the police encompasses every Nigerian youth both does working legit and those doing crime?

I know you are trying to sound smart and all, that you didn't go to university is enough reason for you not come out here and spill what you feel is intelligence.

I have never been stopped and searched before, (I know the odds are pretty high) I ventured into programming July this year and the enthusiasm made me get so many apps to aid my learning, what if I was stopped, how do I explain to them that those apps are not for crime but rather a learning tool?

You do not understand the plight of the youth, hell you do not understand democracy and that's why you are supporting the army to take away our right to protest. And it only says one thing about you, YOU ARE FROM THE COWARD GENERATION THAT IS FULL OF DECEIT AND LIES!

Next time shut your eyes so you don't see the shit you type.

GB

angelfallz:
My own rule is very simple don't slap/punch/kick me and I won't slap/punch/kick you.

A female that behaves like a thug should be treated like a thug.

There's nothing gentlemanly about accepting abuse from women.

needanswer I'm sure you created this thread to receive applause for your so called self control. Let me ask you, what if she had stabbed you to death, I wonder who NL beta males would have applauded.

Honestly, this has to do with someone battling with low self esteem and has no respect for himself. What if he was dead? See eh, he doesn't have any thing worth millions in his laptop. Imagine my laptop I use to code as a programmer is what a human who bleeds between her legs will tell me she poured water on... She's dead before she could say hi. Even before it gets to that stage, I'll end everything.

Respect is reciprocal: person weh talk this thing didn't go further to explain it.

It is not when you respect others that you will be respected. You have to respect yourself first before others could deem you fit for respect.

The nigga replied me, it wasn't worth going back n forth trying to prove no point.

binary007:
I dated a babe for 11months, strictly platonic base on my assumption that she was a virgin. Imagine my shock when I caught her Red-handed fucking her step brother. It looked like a scene from xvideos to me.

That year, on that day, in that hour... I voluntarily bought a sachet of Red-pill and swallowed it without water.

Mine happened that we dated for 3yrs strictly platonic. The day I took her out to bang her, instant she started menstruating. Naive boy like me tho I don't like the site of blood, I didn't verify, Oya kiss me ni oho... Well that night was the longest night I ever passed. So I just left her, I didn't bang her, nothing nothing... I left. Well, I found out she was fuckkking a guy serving. In my search on how to make women love me so that I would break their heart landed me on the redpill and I found out it wasn't worth it. And I should build myself instead.

Redpill is the best a man could gift himself

needanswer:
men are beasts, men are monsters. how many times do you hear this when a case of domestic violence is reported in the media? every time.

it's difficult sometimes being a man, I have known but now I have unlocked a new level. Not because it's that hard but because "nobody believes a man easily without very concrete proof(s)". even with hard solid evidence people still believe the abuser.

the bitter truth is this "a man is guilty until proven beyond and beyond and beyond every reasonable doubt and excuse that he is innocent, even before then some people want him jobless, homeless, broke and imprisoned".

while for a woman "she is innocent until very strong proof can say otherwise, then excuses like leniency, stress, mental disorder and all sorts can be made for her, for a pardon"

So I had a little argument with my babe. she gets physical, she blocks my way, speaks rudely to me, encroach on my space, pulls my shirt( it tears a little), my hair, slaps me all over Iike uncountable times all at ones.

I get she is angry but this is physical and emotional assault, she is an adult she should know, right?

her slaps especially really hurts me. my skin is stained red. but I manage to keep my cool. I'm no Lil frosh. I tricked her and managed to run outside to calm the atmosphere, she chases me but I outrun her. she can't keep up, so she goes back in.

come to think of it, I ran out of my own apartment, that I pay for? wow (it's a first experience for me)

I take 3 hours to go back. I believed by then at least she would be calmer and we can relate like civil adults do.

I get back and she is smiling. not the cute smile of hers o. I know something is up, I looked briefly around the apartment and everything looks normal. so I go back to the room where she is, trying to resolve our differences, that's when she drops the bomb. she tells me she poured water in all my electronics while I was away, she says it without remorse with a smile. I was taken aback. could it be true. I didn't wait for her to finish, e be like say this girl they craze? . I rushed into the living room. I switch on the led TV, Omo my tV didn't on o. my sound system too, ps3 wey I still dey manage no onetc nothing on.

God I couldn't describe the feeling, everywhere was suddenly hot, I was boiling. you know say this little witch follow me for back they laugh. mehn for the first time in my life I knew what it felt like to what to kill a person, cause in my head she was dead.

while I was still processing the shock and boiling, this little witch now made matters worse. my lappy way I get stuffs on, way I put for wardrobe this girl get mind put am for inside water. my heart first cut, I swear my eye red o and at the same time I won cry.

she come dey shout say make I do my worst, say make I kill am (person I never touch). that talk just they ring for my head, I no even understand how my head they do me that time, e just heavy. na my neighbor save me I swear. he heard all the noise from her the first time when I left and when I can back he heard her voice again. He just came around to be sure everything was fine. God bless that nigga.

naso he drag me out o, this witch still they follow us they shout make I do my worst.

any ways that was 2 days back.
I done they repair those I can afford to repair now small small and she is gone after much noise.

I pray never to see such a witch again.
cause of her I had to read about domestic violence again because I for kill person that day. It was while I was reading that I saw that 70% of WOMEN ARE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INSTIGATORS OR INITIATORS (they start the violent fight but they are the ones who usually suffer injuries) while men only initiate 30% of the time.

Information from that site shows that in relationships where both partners shows violent attribute, it is the women who will most likely be violent again in future relationships compared to the men and that men’s violent attributes are usually a one-time episode and not repeated in future relationships.

you can check our the website yourself https://www.coastallegalcenter.com/men-women-common-instigator-domestic-violence-cases/

please as we raise awareness for domestic violence against women and men, let's not overlook the fuel behind it -domestic violence initiators whether men or women. it may be your turn tomorrow.

Wasn't patient enough to finish up the message. Whether true or not, the owner of this story is a weak person and has issues with his self esteem. Need I put that he doesn't respect himself too.

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

She would want you to own every day wherever she is. You just have to move on, I don't think she'd be happy seeing you not owning the day, especially today.

Sold.

Sold.

BrownLondon:
Dem no reach 20.

Is this one a protest?

Oga wederal road block. Warehouse too. No deh talk any how. Nonsense!

SmartPolician:
Nigeria cannot have a revolution

Revolution only happens where there are unity and oneness

Those do not exist in Nigeria at the moment.

And in less than 5 days, Nigeria lost contracts from people who value safety and serenity.

Shut up old man!

BestAccessories:
A man that doesn't know what he want falls for everything.

Many ladies only have their body (sex) to offer in a relationship and nothing else (pardon my french here).

A guy that doesn't know want he want can't command respect.

If the head that suppose to lead doesn't realize his job is to lead his people, how do the followers give such leader the deserved respect.

Basically now, most relationship is about sex and body counts not about respect.

A lady want a guy with money first for a relationship, every other thing is an afterthought and many guys just want SEX not respect.

Only a few who know what they want in a lady, get and command the respect they deserved.

Many get the foundation of relationship wrong, nobody is perfect though, but if the foundation is weak, the structure would collapse eventually.

Aptly spoken.

Before reading this thread, I don tackle my mama... And she no get talk again.

Today I deh plan on go buy Sim she tell me say no, say protest deh i be like mama una don start. Those people who deh protest, no people pikin? I deh go buy my sim if I die, make I die.

Oyibo leave country for them, them no fit manage am yet they're older and wiser.

sexylassie2:
Even in nature, there is nothing like equality, if everyone was equal then everyone would have provided equal results when given a task

Some are short, tall and fat, some dumb, creative, intelligent and stupid, some fast, some slow, that is nature for you and no matter your ideologies, you cant over turn nature.

I think someone hacked sexylassie2 account. Either that or it's a poser.

This message is not from you, I'm waiting for your disclaimer.

PUNAengineOIL:
@the bolded, don't make it a goal. You have to find a way of embedding it into your lifestyle.
Take food for example, you don't make eating a goal, you eat when you are hungry no matter how busy you are. Maintaining a healthy fitness routine is very important for your physical, mental, emotional and even psychological wellbeing.

You can start today with 2 sets of 30 pushups every morning and evening, add 10 - 20 reps of sit-ups to your evening sessions, for the start you can squat 20 reps with your body weight alone, repeat twice.

If you can do this for 30 days consistently, you will notice the changes in you. At that time, you will start getting the urge to lift more. You dont have to hit the gym all the time, but you can stay fit always.

Wow! I didn't know about this. Tell you what, I'm starting tomorrow morning and saving this to my calendar. Thank you!

Skepticus:
Personally, methinks you'll get back into the dating scene and be purple-pilled. That's perfectly fine. At least, you know what you are getting into, and being the best you can be while committing exclusively to a woman who is worth it. Not some used, out of shape thot. It wouldn't eliminate her manipulations and shit-testing but you can predict patterns and put it in control.

The path you took is the one I admire best which is, going your own way for a while before getting back to the dating scene. I notice that it works better for men in the long run than advising men to game women or rush back into the dating scene immediately after being exposed to the red pill. For the latter, some may be successful but for the former, the beta-conditioning from childbirth that a man can't do without a woman will be broken off and for the first time, the man realizes that he can actually chart a course in his life without worrying about what the society thinks of him in relation to his ambitions and women. Whether he gets back to dating or going his own way, simping, thirstiness and sexual frustration is reduced, destructive behaviours from desperate sexually frustrated men like rape, crimes of passion is eliminated.

I might, like you said. Thing is, my development first.

Skepticus:
Thanks for the compliment. If you insult or just aggressive for no reason, you are still insecure and not comfortable in your own skin.

Brother, do understand that staying unmarried or avoiding long term relationships like cohabitation comes with its own negatives too. The real question should be is can you cope with and overcome this negatives. I've made up my mind to accept the consequences because when I weigh it with the benefits, the benefits favour me and my ambitions better. It may not be the same for the next man.

When it comes to telling people about your decision not to give out your commitment to an exclusive woman, it should be only with friends/acquaintances that vibes with you on a deeper closer level and family. Family would often object but with time as you better yourself as a man, they'll most likely accept you for being yourself. With others, you can deflect by telling them that you are still on the search for a good woman, trying to make more money to impress your woman (pretending to be a beta to throw them off) etc. Sometimes, you can fake it (for me, I do wear a wedding ring on my 4th finger to prevent them asking me these silly questions. You may also find ladies giving you mating signals too as long as you are fit and look good. A man with a wedding ring gives a signal to other ladies that you have resources and capable of attracting women).

Not giving out commitment doesn't mean you can't get sex or engage in short term relationships. You have the benefits of being in control of your time, space with room to manoeuvre.

In all, make sure you stay on your purpose and making moves (hustle and health) to always be better.

I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

Zabiboy:

@ bolded
Then Why waste 5 good years in Nigeria's fvcked up tertiary institution??
Ohh i forgot...you're a Nigerian..
Nigerians over-rate the relevance of churches, over-rate the relevance of schools, over-rate the relevance of Sex.....YET we are where we are..

Goodluck tho...

Today you wrote your GL in full.

pansophist:
But seriously, it is so hard to see other redpill bros on the street of naija, this thread gives the impression that a lot of Nigerian men are woke, but it is clearly not. I honestly do not know a single redpill man, except online. Who has a different experience ?

My buddy. Actually, he was showing the traits but didn't understand it, when I introduced it to him, he embraced it with whole heart.

UndauntedYOCA:
Your post is ridiculously lame.
What makes you believe every lady is sexually loose? What's the aim of your post?
How do you know some of these ladies aren't victims of war, violence or sexual exploration?
It's absurd how some of you on Nairaland reason and degrade ladies, absolutely absurd
How has this post improved anything? Oh ,you created the thread for the likes? It's such a shame you have such mentality.
The reason you can write this is because unlike ladies it's impossible to know if a man has been deflowered or not. If a guy who's had plenty of sex with various ladies I.e, sexually lose tells a lady he has never had sex , it'd be impossible to refute that claim because unlike ladies, you don't bleed. Some men are even more sexually loose than ladies and oh, if you keep sleeping around with several ladies then that makes you a hoe ,you aren't any better.
Stop shaming ladies, if anyone decides to be sexually active or loose then it's none of your business!

Still a cutlass to me.

MODIFIED
nairaland is replacing cutlass with cutlass. Is it just me or?

gunners160:
That one certain na. It already started last season when we beat Man U, Chelsea, Liverpool, Man city we do all of them strong thing. Besides, there was a time we were nothing and was being raped by these club 4-1, 4-nil etc. Now we are going for pay back. I love Arteta, he does not take nonsense. U misbehave, u enjoy bench and fight for your shirt. Lacazette is suffering for those goals he missed, Pepe is fighting for his shirt and now he is playing gud football. No time for Arsene Wenger dead mentality. Yes, we might not play well at times but we get the result

Chai Man u don become a laughing stock. My club, but with the new signings, make we see how far.

Rainbowpill:
I'm not lost to anyone. I want to get married and have a family and I've found a lady to do that with. And the redpill wouldn't have helped me get to this point.

Well, you could have done it without us knowing, I mean, you are not the first to get married. We @nairalanders don't care about your private life.

Rainbowpill:
The redpill isn't as foolproof as most guys on Nairaland make it seem.

First thing I'll like to say is that all women are not the same. This is a fact redpillers have to get into their heads. Most redpillers usually advocate this as truth, but it isn't. Women are different. Not only do they come with different complex personalities and mental capacities, their ideas, opinions and world views are shaped by the environment and cultures that they grew up in, and to an extent the kind of books that they read while growing up.

For a lot of women, yes following redpill truths and applying them works, but I've noticed that they don't work on smart women

Now I'll define what I mean by smart women. A smart woman is one is intelligent, observant, introspective and rational. She is skilled at observing her environment and making logical deductions. She also has a lot of respect for herself and doesn't feel she needs a man to be fulfilled.

Of course this sort of woman is different from your everyday bimbo/slayqueen. But you see this is the kind of woman I go after. I've reached the stage where I don't want to have casual sex with women but I actually want a serious relationship that would lead to marriage.

I'll illustrate with a real experience. I met two girls. Girl A is physically attractive but personality wise and mentally, she isn't my type. Girl B isnt just physically attractive, she is also SMART. So I decide to use the redpill on both women; I don't give them too much attention, ignore their calls sometimes, let them see me talking to pretty women, don't text often, hang out once in a while and all that redpill stuff.

Girl A became even more attracted to me and would bombards my phone with calls and texts, beggin to me to visit or to come visit.

Girl B on the other hand began to pull away. She began to text less and call less. She wasn't as responsive to my requests as before.

Bear in mind that Girl B is the one I actually want to pursue a serious relationship with.

So I decided to shove the redpill aside and actually talk to girl B. I decided to tell girl B how I actually felt about her. And that was when she opened up. She was shocked that I actually had feelings for her and that I just seemed like a player who only was interested in sex and she would never take such a guy seriously. She said she had similar feelings for me but didn't show it because she didn't want to get burnt emotionally.

Fast forward to today, I'm officially engaged to girl B and we are getting married soon. And she is the woman of my dreams. Physically, mentally, financial-wise, character- wise and wife material wise.

The point I'm making is that if you want a serious relationship with a smart woman, don't take the redpill seriously. This doesn't mean you should sacrifice your masculinity on the altar of love. No, be a man, lead your woman, don't tolerate disrespect, but at the same time, show her love, treat her well, fuçk her good and give her that emotional security that she needs.

This is where you are contradicting yourself. Isn't Never take disrespect, don't sacrifice your masculinity on the alter of love, lead your woman and Bleep her good part of the redpill teaching? How would you know when you are hell bent on chasing clout.

Ishilove:
Have you asked her why she fell out of love with you?

And when she tells him why or what made her fall out of love with him, what next, he starts to do those things to win her back?

It won't be real anymore. Because why did she fall out of love in the first place. It's perfectly normal for couples to fall out love with each other, but it's disrespectful for either to cheat and not disclose to the other partner that the fire isn't burning anymore... And it's insane for the other partner(like the op) to not move on after finding out. It's madness trying to fix what's already broken.

emmaodet:
Ok ooooo
U sef, u be Odogwu now

emmaodet:
Wetin happen bro? Wetin i do?

Nothing happen. Una be real G

franchasng:
list 10 of your most pressing needs right now in your reply to the PM, indicate your shoe size also.


Thank God for His grace not man. You will shine okay. All man were born into poverty at some point in life, so you are not alone okay. Stay blessed

You see you and emmaodet, na God go bless una.