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Quite the opposite of ubunja's chosen. I would have pointed out a few things you missed here, but that will be cheating as you have to write this either from your packed knowledge from the past or do research.

Morray:
quite an expository read. My girl has been trying to use the first and gain control over me which I didn't allow. She loves me so dearly according to her but few months ago, we had a Lil squabble that resulted in us not communicating for 3/4 days. She apologized afterwards and we were cool. She's been so good of recent and it hasn't stopped me from professing how much I love her. Now she's gone mute and it's three days. Reason for the recent quarrel: I called her and she was pretending as though she was talking to her ex knowing fully well it was me. I turned the table and pretended I was talking to my ex. Telling her how I picture her in my thoughts when I'm with my current girlfriend. It angered her and we've been mute with each other for three days now. I really wanna know what to do in this regard. How best should I handle this issue. I would never call to apologize cos she started it. Knowing her too well, I reckon she'd apologize in few days. Ubunja please what do I do when she calls. I ain't wanna make it easy for her

When she calls back, tell her you've found a new girl, but you are open to he being your side chick but you can't commit to her as before. This should be whether or you found a new girl and you should either be on the look out for a new girl or develop yourself.

One simple solution to this is to conduct a DNA test. Laycon has the money now. He does it shame the girl.

Crab12:
you see your fucking life.you think everybody that chats with a lady wants to sleep with her... people like you are the ones that kneel and beg for pussy smh

The hypocrisy in this statement You think anyone that's chatting with a girl wants to sleep with her? has made men become foolls in the eyes of their woman. I mean if it isn't business and sex, why in hell would I chat a girl? To compliment how cute she is? Or how her name struck something in me?

This is stu.pid really. You must have a reason to chat a girl up. And if that reason ain't credible enough, toss that idea of chatting her aside. You can't tell me you are chatting her to know how she's doing, that will put you straight to friendzone.

Tbh MR, YOU DON'T VALUE YOUR TIME AND THAT SAYS A LOT OF BAD ABOUT YOU. This isn't about simp or alpha male thing, put a price on your time and attention. God! I'm really pissed at your stupiditi and even worse, you are defending it with a stupidd line i]You think anyone that's chatting with a girl wants to sleep with her?[/i] Jesus! Christ!

Dalil8:
What if your mum was impossible to live with? What if your mum was the problem?

Look, no sane man would abandon a good woman that gives him peace of mind and look elsewhere.

Someday you'll become a father, then maybe you'll understand why your father left.

I'm already past this stage. Shit happens, life moves on.

michaelandre:
I know how u feel because my dad has 8 kids and only pays attention to 3 of us which my mom gave birth to until she advised him to accept his 1 son back after almost 30 years of birth in 2012. he grew up in cotonu with his benenoise mother.. sometimes its not his fault u don't know the circumstance that lead to ur birth or why he left u with UE mum.. or what made him not marry her... until u forgive him and go back to him like a son and talk to him that's when u will ever understand. my dad went through a lot and when he says his story and why he left some of his kids u will shed tears because it was very deep.. forgive ur father because he obviously doesn't hate u...

I already did. Can't hold him to a grudge... For my growth actually. I need all the energy I can get.

Ps: he married my mum. But for whatever happened, happened before my birth (I'm the first son) and I can't bother myself with it. We forge ahead.

Death be like: You can run. But you can't hide my little dear.

Asekhamid:
Any man who loves his mother more than his father is purely a simp
I love my parents the same and give them equal treatment..
Yes my mum gave birth and nurtured me,but my father made a lot of sacrifices for me(he sold his only car just to pay my first year school fees)
I see men always choosing their mum over their dad and I just believe the feminists agenda is really taking over the World.
if you love your mum more than your dad then you will value pussy over your friends and that will be the start of your downfall..
i Love and cherish my parents equally

To an extent, your statement is true. But there are people like me who never knew what a father love is despite he's still alive. My siblings and I were abandoned by my father, thought it was the usual women being bad and all, till just last month I observed that my mum fell for a bad guy/a player and is reaping from it. My dad is a typical player, though may not be educated, but he sure is and he may not know it. I used to hate him before, but after finding out this reason, I became indifferent with him.

Not all men who don't love their fathers are simp. But men who don't value the presence of their fathers in their lives are the simps/foools that should be stripped off their manhood.

Zzor:
what is special about you that you are announcing your yeye new account mtcheww

If you wanna know, stick around.

DenreleDave:
Omar Omar.. My guy my guy.. I Don dey find u....

You don meet me now. How far?

Acidosis:
Well, you're right.

But if as a father I have to choose one of (1) correcting my child through assault and (2) having my child assaulted by SARS for wandering at night, I will choose the former.


It's funny how no one care about the trauma his father may have been through. He probably may have called his line severally all through the evening only for him to show up at 11pm.

He wouldn't just be assaulted by SARS physically, his father would have been too financially.

So choosing the former is a win win for both.

AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck

Niggarr!!


Disgusting!

This is what a poverty stricken mind can cause!

The oppression just start!!

Hustle o! So you nor go perform this rubbish wey just happen for here.

I got nothing else to say but hustle!!

And after hustle it ends where?

Truth is an undisciplined man with money is a recipe for disaster.

Nansense and I got nothing else to say...

Skepticus:
The bolded is unfair and unnecessary to one who has contributed so much to this thread. A lot that you have learnt from. Shutting down another man who has been very active with the pills here, when you haven't contributed one seems a bit extreme.

I do agree with the idea of letting a lady that is close to you or who you consider a deep friend (sister, niece, close friend etc.) know that whoring is not a good for her. In the end, it benefits men and the society too.

Even, if you strongly disagree, you could express your opinion without the insult. He is not paid to contribute anything here. All has been done out of good will.

We don't have to act like mindless brute to each other, at the slightest disagreement when we agree on a lot of things. Society doesn't have much support system for men. Let's not make it tougher on ourselves.

Ginzalo Lira made a video where he was advising young women about whoring. And in that context too, he advised men to guard their daughters. I don't see any wrong in what CaveAdullam said. I totally support it. Because one girl who wants to be saved that is saved equals a young man out there who's gonna enjoy his relationship.

Peace.

pansophist:
How exactly did the brush went down his throat with its rugged shape?

Nuff' gaggin n' stuff.

About what we discussed, they refused to grant me my request. It's a dead end.

Madibah:
God created a special leaf
A magnificent leaf
A wonderful leaf
A fantastic leaf

A day can pass by without me taking this leaf

Try this leaf bro
This is best remedy I can prescribe for you

In all its essence. You would be taken afar off from the reality of life and give you in depth understanding in another dimension.... What am I saying sef...

OK... You'd just know how to royal rumble your way...

Fucking sleepy!

Skepticus:
Contrary to what most people think, this damaged slût is not playing the victim card to get her videos deleted because she wants to turn a new leaf and marry the danish SIMP she just found.

She is doing that because she intended taking her hoeing to a new level with Fans Only.

Her nonsense petition to delete her account was made after she joined Fans Only and requested SIMPs to pay but most of the SIMPs objected on the grounds that they can't pay for her nude when it's littered over the internet from her pornography career.

That lady is the perfect example of extreme degeneracy in western women.

Zabiboy Regex Ubunja Caveadullam

Dude you smart. I didn't think it this way. Oh so she joined ONLY FANS?

I thought as much. Her simp fiance was fine walking her down the isle with all her nudes littered everywhere.

pansophist:
Men are destination oriented. Women are process oriented. Women count score of a man's love when he continously still do things he did before winning her heart (eg, continously buying her expensive stuff), while for men, it doesnt make any sense.

Anytime a woman ask you why you stop doing things you did before she fell for you, reply her with, "Ever seen a fisherman gave worms to the fish he already caught" ?

#RandomThoughts

Omo this one off me

ubunja:
lol I have been meaning to speak on this. "ANTI-SPAM BOT" is just mods banning you. I realized that some time ago. Lmfao.

Na you get experience pass us . They don't like that we are liberating men who wants to be liberated.

Lastmankc:
Have you forgotten that you are talking to the snake god?

I come from the house of Slithering. The elders sent me a messenger to Lord Lalasticlala for he violated their rule.

I am but the a humble messenger.
Don't shoot the messenger.

lalasticlala:

It is a big sin for you to create a thread and still steal FTC.

You will be summoned by the gods in 4 eke market days for cleansing.

The eye of the gods have spoken!

Jwonder:
Don’t say such, that kind of mentality is bad, the masses are the ones to suffer the consequences of government’s bad policies, when they try to enforce such policies SPEAK OUT, Else your silence is encouraging then to continue with such bad policies.

No be the same masses put them for that sit abi na St. Marks?

dami24:
You have a previous refusal?

I have never applied for anything abroad before.

Skepticus:
What sensible thing can come out of the brains of all these "urgent 2k" hoes?

Your guess is as good as mine!

War war war war war war!
War war war war war war!

It's war!

@justwise and or anybody...

I just got and submitted the ukvi consent letter from Teeside university. After that, what next do I expect or do?

CAPSLOCKED:
YOUR HEAD NO CORRECT, HOW MANY OF BILL GATES FAMILY MEMBERS HE USE DO RITUALS?

All of them. No mind the ediot.

Zabiboy:

You ladies( just like my sister) like over-hyping yourselves and make it look like y'all are special when in reality, there's nothing special in you...
1) I dont NEED a woman....she needs me...bcz she is just a compliment/bonus to me
2) The best way to be loved is to be loved by yourself
3) Children are everywhere ma'm...orphanages are full...Also, a man who knows his onions would have ladies begging to carry his genes
4) only a weak man cant control his konji...there are millions of things aside sex( and masturbation) that can satisfy konji..
5) Who tf cares about Marriage ...I can cook any dish i eat and there's washing machine for clothes....we also have hands and dry-cleaners
6) I would stare at the breast developing in my bank account....its succulent and firm
7)I rather admire myself than admire someone's bum....Who bum help...
Note: The "I's" above not just refer to me But any man out there that knows his onions..
Also Note: If you cant reply me without insult, then get ready to be starved of attention...
GL

Her question and your answer proved one thing I keep reading here:

If a man can control his dick, wash his clothes and make his food, he is almost uncontrollable...

Laple0541:
Are you for real? Did I hear you calling Erica "innocent"? Perhaps you should check out the definitions of the word innocent.

She is nothing but a cheap public dog cum gold digger, how can any decent girl open her legs for a man you met less than 2wks especially on a reality show being watched by millions of viewers around the world; that is the hallmark of irresponsibility.

Kiddwaya is a smart guy, he can't take a girl like Erica serious.

Except for the smart guys here who would love to read this, but I think you wasted time explaining this to him/her.

To them simp: Kiddwaya is the bad guy.

Dpsychologist:
I just hope it will not end up being a barrier.

It will definitely be. You just have to use em as breaks. Anytime they ban you, you relax. After the ban, continue posting.

Ask ubunja how he rolled.

Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

It isn't their fault that they can not contribute tangibly to such topics above and it's for a reason (I'm not making excuses for them but rather telling you the truth). The reason being, women are emotional beings they live and thrive on emotions and as such, those listed topics does not hit them on an emotional level. The above topics are logical and hence they will not contribute nothing to it and that's because of the way the topic was thrown to them.

But when you ask them how this present economy has affected them, they will bitch and whine about how pad price has gone up.


They won't contribute logically, but emotionally, so it's not something you should feel bitter about or open thread for.

Martinez39s
Skepticus
Ubunja
Pansophist

Dpsychologist:
Mehnnnnn!
I am just coming out from ban a 2nd time.

Welcome to the biased site.

pansophist:
Why na?

Na so the guy deh reason en own.. From where you know expect, him go throw you bomb.