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armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

Don't you have your own account?

shortgun:
Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers?
They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.

I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.

She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride.
I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!

The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?

I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people.

But why you carry woman matter for head?

Future wife loading.

If only BMW can employ me now, I have seen a marketing strategy for them.


But na my employment kill am

This one na "after set na me" mantra

mikaael:
No flaws But how Dem take put paper inside egg for the doctor??

My God!


You are right.

I fit go this weekend. Small money just enter my hand.

Wow... Umahi, you had to go that low eh...

Commentor:
Don't agree.

You get a lot of flavours in UK.

Vanilla is boring when it comes to flavour.

That means UK is boring.

JaneYave:
A man that sleeps with the son's girlfriend has no sense too. Infact, men are the main cause of women's silliness.

Na lie. The man force am?

UK na one kind bland country. Vanilla kind of flavour.

Martinez39s:
Bayus2003

My phone was stolen. Drop your number and I will contact you on WhatsApp with evidence of my identity. Thanks!

Did you retrieve your line?

Back your contacts to Gmail that way, you wouldn't loose any number

Una don leave boko haram come East weh no get problem. Una be cowards.

ikdaddy01:
As In eeh. The guy just de write plenty rubbish just like that. Make i go write my own too

I am yet to understand the point of this thread. I came here with hope of reading how op is fighting with his wife cause of sex that is everywhere but was disappointed because he didn't have the bone to say it without mincing words. Just like he doesn't have the bone to get sex else where.

Hope Gumi Sheihk when e see this one?

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to this lady, and she said

She is sorry but she can't return the love

I asked if she loves me but she said NO but she likes me

I asked if I should forget about her and she said, ' Let's be friends, anything can happen'

What should a guy do In this kinda situation? Thanks

Anything fit happen, so hang on

FutureIsFemale:
Maybe he was swapped at birth.

I'm stating the possible outcome. Remember in my previous thread I stated clearly that I don't support infidelity.

Iwu otu.

Swapped kini, na you swap am?

This apology weh twitter no post on their wall. I thought Lai said twitter apologised, why this second one? Abi twitter is doing individual apology?

So it's no longer PDP but colonial masters who left 61yrs ago.

We asked for it.

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

Always trying to make it a men's fault forgetting men needs women's consent before sexual intercourse takes place.

Abi women's consent is no longer relevant once she's married ni?

Ashawo don drop post.

justwise:
I rather delete or bin it.

Bread go get small patch weh deh manageable, you go hear bin it.

Chai my days for warehouse... Omo!

justwise:
Low self esteem , inferiority complex, lack of confidence ..I mean I can go on and on.
I suggest you stay in Nigeria if you are so afraid of carrying your skin colour with pride.

One last good news for you… you are born black and you will remain one even if you go Micheal Jackson just to claim “white”.

Honestly you should be disappointed with yourself for asking this embarrassing question

He's never heard this saying:

"Once You go black you never coming back"

jaelz:
So I met this girl sometime back in March in Abuja she was very beautiful and was working in a spa back then, I approached her and collected her number after which she never picked my calls or replied my chats after I tried contacting her afterwards.

Fast-forward to last two weeks she contacted me out of the blues that she was sick, didn't have transport fare to work, she was broke and didn't have any money for food as she hasn't eaten in a days.

I got dressed and meet her in the location she gave me and bought her some little foodstuff and provisions then gave her 3k to hold for transportation to work until they pay her at work.

Guys could you believe that this girl blocked and deleted my number the next day? I tried calling and she it was telling me busy till I used another phone to call it and it went through, I asked her why she did that after I revealed my identity and she couldn't say a word she was just mute on the phone for about 30 seconds till I cut off the call.

I am still so shocked as to why some women behave they way they behave atimes.

You got what you deserved!

November24:
U guys are unbelievable
I married at 32. Happy with my husband and 3 kids.
Non of what u wrote was true Abt me

Then you are really good at the game.

Looking for a political position or trying to retain the one you have eh?

Dizzyyish:
"They want the power of men, privileges of women and the accountability of children."

Pansophist is the first person I saw with this quote.

Mynd44:
Yes.

Why? Because they are humans and have the sane rights as men.

You needs anymore reasons, build a time machine and travel back to the stone age and stay there; I am pretty sure that will suit you well

Abeg which organisation pays women less for the same job men do?

Martinez39s:
LOL. Let's not forget that DNA tests and machines can be faulty and not reliable. It is not 100% correct.

#PunIntended.

It is real jareh... Which one is PunIntended?

thesolutions:
This phone has been restarting itself since last night. It is currently overheating and the heat is burning my lap.

I don't want to reset the phone to factory settings. Any hope of what to do to solve the issue. I have cleared the phone cache

Redmi 9 weh I deh use? Tarh go an sit down.

Olalekank:
Comrade, I know not about that

I was mainly referring to your initial post about delving into AI

OK. But try.