₦airaland Forum

TheGidRedpiller:
They should be able to

I checked, I need to join the one recognised by my work place. And currently, I'm out of job.

tydi:
Stop saying shitty things you don’t know anything about. Eyes are watching you.

Shatap there... Which eye, na so una deh use silence person.

Anuohia

Monogamy:
Update From Direct source in Dubai.

Alcohol selling caused the problem.. Even though the selling of alcohol is illegal but the fight was about customer snatching by rival cult..

I have details about the tribe involved but keeping for now...

So many people have been truly killed while so many blacks not even Nigerians alone have been arrested

E fit them. It is really appalling. It's why I have refused to travel to a Nigeria dominated country. Even if I go, I go jejely go to cities with less Nigerians.

murphyibiam15:
Mostly yoruba groups of Lautech graduates

What a show of shame

Please stop being silly. Aren't you old enough to know that whatever consequences that arises from this will include you that is not a cultist?


Ode, blame some part, that way the problem goes away. E.diot.

thebosstrevor1:
What can i say

The same people driving fulanis herdmen and accusing them of crimes inside Nigeria are the ones carrying out crimes in dubai

Bros you are a confirmed nincompoop. When they stated cultists, did they state any tribe?

It's bad enough that Nigerians with their dumbness took it to another level in another. Only for you to come point fingers.


When that country decides to ban Nigerians from there, will they say since its Igbos that did the cult activity, Yorubas and fulanis are allowed in?

You are very st.upid very very.

DaddyRochie1642:
What else will bring such number of death if not "Money matter"... People go Crazy over money, know this and know peace.

You will be surprised to know it's not money issue.

Ilekokonit:
For similar reasons such that you have stated above, in the UK there is an organization called Fathers 4 Justice which is a fathers’ rights organization in the UK and there is also a Political Party in the UK called Justice for Men and Boys founded by a British Politician and Former Consultant to the British Ruling Conservative Party Mike Buchanan who said he established the party because the state is anti-male and considers the male sex to be "pretty much subhuman"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fathers_4_Justice
https://j4mb.org.uk/about-mike-buchanan/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mike_Buchanan_(politician)

Can I a student join those unions?

Ilekokonit:
No worries. I myself have been put through the washing machine in the UK by employers for decades that now nothing fazes me and I now tackle them fire for fire as long as I know that I am in the right and that I've been with them for at least 2 years. Racism or expecting me to be subservient just because I am black and have an African accent is something my spirit (which is similar to Fela Kuti's own) will just never take from anyone especially seeing that in my younger days as a Medical student at UI, I dissected the human brain indepth and have seen that it is exactly the same as that of the white mans.

I can't quote your previous post as it is too long and putting into consideration other readers. That said.


I experienced racism in my previous job that I had to quit and tbh it is really difficult to get another job although I'm still a student. I had to tackle one stupid white who wanted me to over work myself and the guy went to call the big boss on me like I stole his candy or something... Someone as old as my father.

Na their I come know say oyibo deh lie well well.

TheDarkGamer:
We all know the situation of our society and how it tends to favor females over males.

I want to proffer a mental image. In the situation where a woman slaps or hits a man, what should he do? Assume that there will be repercussions for his actions. Should he retaliate and take a risk of losing his job, societal standing, etc.

I know some might be thinking that if you set your boundaries and had your frame, this situation would not occur in the first place. I know that, but let's just over look this.

I just need unbiased and concise responses please. It is a hypothetical question.

I would sue for physical assault as this is a thing and could get her indebted. Heavily indebted.

Ilekokonit:
You are a very wise man.

The reason why a lot of Jamaican boys in London join knife wielding drug dealing gangs is because MOST of them were raised by single mothers and a lot of Nigerian single mothers who use British police to kick out their husbands from the house in order to claim single mother benefits from the government in London are in for a rude awakening as they may end up raising a boy that will stab them to death sooner or later.

This is already happening in America where a 14 year old black boy shot and killed his single mom as she lay sleeping on the couch because she didn't want him to join a gang and in London a Nigerian boy (21 year old) stabbed his Single Mum to death some years ago and I happened to have a friend who knows the family and he told me that the woman was brought from Naija by the husband but she ended up frustrating the man that the man is now in and out of Psychiatric hospitals whilst the woman thought she could now start frolicking on Facebook and at parties but one day something snapped in her 21 year old son who avenged his dad's maltreatment by stabbing his mum to death .

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2606287/The-real-Norman-Bates-Cross-dressing-killer-stabbed-mother-death-dressed-bright-pink-clothes-fool-neighbours-thinking-alive.html

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2107504/Joshua-Smith-14-shoots-mother-Tamiko-Robinson-death-slept.html

Shit is now backfiring...

The problem here is competition. These women loves to compete with one another. It's so insane.

bukatyne:
No, the beginning of the hair is whipped with the attachment (very tightly) before braiding or twisting it.

No pain, no gain, sweetheart.

bukatyne:
Three days would not solve the pain of this particular style.

I'm thinking she somehow somewhere offended the hair stylist.

This is the kinda I mistakenly stepped on your shoe and didn't notice and neither did I apologize for it. Then I come to your shop and you deal with me.


Nothing personal...

justwise:
That has happened to me once because I used the back brake while riding on the snow, that bike formed figure 8 and I went home with few bruises.

I am glad I didn't ruin the car. Spent £23 on repairing the bike. The job that made me buy the bike, I didn't even get the job sef.

Drella:
Good to hear.
At the bolded,most ladies will feel awkward by that and might want to back out knowing it can be used against them in the future.

Question

If it is signed in the prenuptial agreement that in the event of a divorce,assets won't be shared (and all of those troubles that comes with divorce will not hold).If divorce later happens,will the agreement still hold since law requires sharing of assets et al which negates the prenup.

Do you understand my question?

It does negates it. But then, an agreement is an agreement.

How did he do it?


I have been trying to befriend one Hadizar in Abuja but she only comes out once in blue moon.

Lexusgs430:
Let's try to always remain safe.........

True. True.

Karlebolu:
This is exactly why you should learn programming because most people find it difficult. I always laugh when people say in some years everybody would be a programmer.

If it were that easy by now the supply we be more than demand and companies will be pricing developers 30k per month.

But the reverse is the case. The demand can never meet the supply, not even in USA or India or China.

Don't mind them. If they set up python IDE they will now say it's easy. Since yesterday night I've been trying to install a framework to allow me code email templates ask tensazangetsu20, he will confirm to it.


I'm not sure I've made a head way. Programming is not easy especially the part that will make you money.

Lexusgs430:
I now know who caused that dent to my vehicle.....

Omo... I won't try it at all. Imagine if I was drunk... Or under the influence of something like weed?

Lexusgs430:
Did you sleep on your bicycle........

No oh!

I noticed the handle bars were not straight, before I could look up and face the road, I hit a parked car. Checked the car, no scratch and then checked myself.... Thank God say the car no get alarm... I for don hear am with bills.

Drella:
Firstly,If you are a feminist,I can never have a thing for.

Oh God,any normal lady I will marry and will later turn to a feminist,let me not know her in the first place.Amen.

They can be so domineering and manipulative.
If you marry a nigerian feminist in the western world,she will threaten you with divorce to manipulate you.Cos if you divorce,it will be to her benefit.

God guide all men out there.

My housemate a white elderly woman, once advised me when we were having tea and a smoke. She said to me, Kelly I know you will marry sometime in the near future, you have a bright one, just listen to me. There's no right girl, make sure that girl signs a prenup. I told her she could sign the contract and still tell the court I forced her and with a drop of a tear, I am screwed. She told me, make her to get a lawyer, you also get a lawyer, also get witnesses too.


Don't ever let any woman screw you over in the name of marriage.


This is a woman who got married although her husband is late, she has refused to remarry despite the fact these white women can divorce and remarry like mad talk more of when it involves a deceased husband.

I just learned a lot here..

Ilekokonit et Al you guys are packed with a lot of experience. I hope to learn more from you guys.


But who drinks and smokes weed and then drive afterwards.

Once I wanted to head out and ride my bike, but I forgot I was going to ride my bike then drank beer. I thought to myself, I'm never climbing that bike, I'd rather use the bus because I have fallen from my bicycle once and I wasn't even drunk. Boy was it painful!

pansophist:
Edo na Italy joor. Na dem get their place.

Omo, they are taking over Newcastle. 60% of Nigerians in Newcastle na Edo.

pansophist:
Na London those yoruba women full. Those one wey de fight inside bus and subway, and them de usually fat gan

For Newcastle na Edo people. But the thing is, them deh respect themselves sha pass Yoruba women.

Learn to cross road using the cross walk...


Me bus for don jam me when I wanted to cross road the naija way.


On the note of minding your business, abeg try mind your business well, don't because you see your neighbour outside you come down to join them, na lie, e fit embarrass you gon gon... Only join them when you are invited and most times, turn down their invitation they were only being polite not really inviting you.



I learned all these the hard way since weh I land UK.

Mutmainneen:
You won't understand


I understand where you are coming from. This is exactly why I don't like to talk about my predicament in public. It's just a complex situation. Here is what happened:
Mum was doing very well in her foodstuff business prior to 2012, until her container was robbed the night after she had stocked up with products. They emptied her shop. This happened shortly before my admission came through to study in the university. I remember vividly how we all sat down in the parlour confused and sad when I saw my name on the admission list online. While many of my mates were happy to have seen their names, I was wishing my name didn't come out when it did. That was how she gave up the little savings she had left for my school fees...last last the container was eventually sold for the sake of my school. Dad already lost his source of income, but before I gained admission, dad had two lands. He sold them one after the other while I was in school just to make sure I graduate. I remember resuming 200 level almost two months after resumption (missed assignments and quizzes). Though I refused to tell them why I failed to resume on time because I don't discuss my situation with people, If any of my departmental mates see this part of my post, they will know exactly who I am.
My family have tried for me o. I will always help anywhere I can, even at the expense of my own self.

Brother they will never understand.

ubunja:
lol I couldn't sleep and felt like causing a little bit of violence.

And guess which country is first worldwide for partenity fraud?
Jamaica.

Even the ganja did not save them... That's weird.

Martinez39s:
If this is not sorcery, tell me what it is.

It is sorcery in the highest order.

Milky1017:
Greetings Nairalanders,

I'll try being as brief as possible. Please pardon my typos.

I met this girl about three years ago and we dated for about a year after which we broke up because she was like she isn't really feeling like being in one again. I pleaded and asked her to reconsider but it was all effort in futility. And I was pretty broke then to be honest.

Well, fast forward to late last year, we got talking again. (I got a lot better financially, a whole lot). But this time she changed churches and became 'born again'.

So she had accomodation issues, so I squatted her at my place from January uptil last month when she got herself a place (with a little assistance from me and her savings). While she was staring at mine, I was taken my care of every bills you can think off even her pads. I did all those because I felt like we had a future together and I legit have plans of getting married to her.

Now, the thing is she has a best friend, a guy, a member of her new church. She has his Chat pinned on her WhatsApp. So somehow I was with her phone and I got to see their chats yesterday

Omo!, I had the shock of my life yesterday. They were talking about me and the guy called her my boyfriend and she picked offence, warning him not to repeat it again. That wasn't the worst, I listened to a voicenote that she sent to the guy saying that she actually wants to cut my off from her life, she's just putting up with me.

This is someone I've started a business for twice, someone I've bailed her mom from police cell when she had issues, someone that I promised an iPhone 12 pro and a new laptop, a whole lot of other things I've done/plan on doing a whole lot more. Thinking I'm building life with my future wife lol.


Now the thing is, I want to know the best approach to go about this. Should I confront her or act like nothing happened and quietly withdraw or something. You guys should help me with suggestions. It perturbed me all night. And before I forget, she said she doesn't want to be getting intimate again so for over two months, it's been non-sexual.

Ideas, suggestions, even insults are all welcomed.

She wants to cut you off because you didn't buy her the iPhone 12.

Kenogidi:
@caveadullam

So what's the benefit of the redpill if you're not getting more pussy?

Lots of em. This pill depends on what you want it for.


Mart wanted it just to develop himself and go monk, it is working for him. Will now say he's got no benefit?


On the other hand U.bunja wants em for more pussy and not just pussy, women's money and I think this is as a result of the environment he found himself in.


So don't ask that question as the benefits are relative and differs from one person to another.

MetalJigsaw:
"She arrived at my hotel room and we bargained and agreed on 15k for the Mouth Action and it was worth it".

- An idiot from the so called Ashawo beer parlor thread. What a stupid thread.

I kept seeing folks mentioning that stupid thread and decided to see what its all about and got disappointed.

I've never been to that thread and once I got in that BS was what I stumbled on.

Full grown ass simps feeling fly at fooling themselves Wasting money on worthless hoes.

My best buddy in Nigeria, his girlfriend came to him and told him it's over between them. Guess what, whilst the girl was ranting on how he was not a good boyfriend my guy brought out his dick and asked for a Mouth Gig. Babe give am Mouth Gig in his car in public. Car no be tinted oh, although it was raining.



So a bj is what someone paid 15k for... Sigh...

Zabiboy:
Thanks bro...
Nor fear, your junior bro go soon change

I pray.

SOZINN:
Thank you for the question. Let me try to answer with a past experience. Before, I used to send friend requests to many people on facebook, men and women alike but predominantly women. I used to send direct messages to women I thought to be charming, (maybe weeks or days after becoming friends) in hopes of taking it to the next level. Not that I wanted to throw myself into some kind of amorous entanglement or whatever. I just wanted someone to share nudes with (if we were in a long distance relationship) or someone to call for sex if the person was in my state.

Back then I thought the only road to this destination with "responsible" girls was through relationship. To be candid with you, I blocked a lot of girls, because many of them were not interested, though I was able to get few but I blocked many. Let me give you an instance, *girl posts alluring pictures in her story, I hit her DM with compliments, if she replies I kick start a convo, we flow until that part where I ask for her number, if she says she's not comfortable sharing it with me, my response will be, nice meeting you, then I proceed to use the block option, end of story *

Until one day, I forgot to block one of them and I should have done so because I checked her profile later and uncovered that she refused because she was in a relationship. But even after my discovery, I didn't carry out my customary ritual and I still don't know why, I think a call came in and I left that profile. I like to advertise on my story, my stuff and that of my friends (my commission is involved if I get customers). My guy used to make boxer shorts for men (still does) and I'd post for him. Shockingly, that girl hopped into my DM to order for those shorts, she told me that she showed her boyfriend, who deals on male clothing and he requested a sample.

I connected her boyfriend to my guy and everything went well. In fact, the first set he sold was 350 pieces and now he is a regular customer. Why did I bother typing all these nonsense, I just wanted to show you how we met, but see how she helped my guy. If it's only sex you want, ditch those women, fine but personally, I no dey block again. She was fûcking beneficial, the question is, are they really useless? Have you considered everything? I hope you understand me. I thought her nudes could be the only benefit, but??
But??

I get your point tbh, they are not useless. Well, a lot of men don't know how to deal with rejection. It will take time before they reach that level, it's a gradual process.