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Nice2023:
Why would u even allow a child to sleep on a bare mattress.

It is absolutely unhygienic to start with.

I think that is the genesis of the problem.

Nope it is not !

tammyf:
How do I treat my son's skin condition please mum's in the house . He cries every night scratching giving me sleepless night .I have taken him to the hospital.was given drugs and cream to rub but to no avail. It's over 3weeks now. Please has anybody experienced this and how did you treat it?he is a year old. It's like chicken pox or rashes .

For starters it’s called Monkey Pox.
It affects the whole surface of the body - predominantly-legs and around the Instruments and face.
What I did was to bathe him 2ce a day with a drop of dettol. While naked and I rubbed on him hydrocortisone cream. Like so
https://images.app./b5gsuiGnqbw7U9gv5

It eventually went away after about 2 weeks.
This was about 2 years ago.


We do not know what caused it - bacteria or viral not sure as he was the only one that caught it.

Good luck

Well hope you got house Insurance and had a fire extinguisher!

You were watching …. I was thinking… just a thought and I was flooded with ads!!!

At this point ! I don’t care … I ain’t a terrorist nor scammer so whatever information they have . I prefer for it to be accurate

Prechgold1180:
Like does the net has it own use

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Purely aesthetic.
In some cases it’s used to catch the gas from escaping the cylinder.

Winner444:
Xmas hustle maybe, abroad guys are coming back. Just maybe tho.

That’s very deep ! Break up Christmas —- Make up New Year

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

What legal options?
I mean if your supreme court could rule in favour of BAT on a technicality. Are we not all still in the same Nigeria ?

I know you’re hurt ! Hurt deeply but you are partly at fault. You put the cart before the horse.

The process usually is the following
1. Boy meets girl
2. Girl likes Boy .
3. Boy meets girls parents.
4. Boy parents meet Girls parents.
5. Parents plan marriage.
6, Marriage occurs
7. Children arrive.

You jumped all the way to step 7.
As long as she is living in her parent’s house and eating their food. Their rules reign.

Your gf - if your girl was okay and matured about being pregnant she would have kept it a surprise . She put her parents in a difficult position . Nonetheless she could have put her foot down and said she doesn’t want to kill her child. Her body her rules.

The parents - you and their daughter shattered the dreams and hopes they had for their daughter. She knew that her parents are old school . She knew that unprotected sex would produce a child. She knew her parents would not want a child out of wedlock. The mother just couldn’t reconcile telling her friends that her daughter is having a child out of wedlock.

So some parents would have their daughter live with their “mistake” while others have decided to ask for forgiveness and abort.

My advice - drop the legal threat.

If you still love the girl then do things the right way with these parents.

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/west-african-leaders-meet-amid-coup-scare/

Now this is how world leaders take group picture not the King Charles and Pre Bat one

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

It all depends on chemistry- some people during chatting have so crossed many borders( like Sex chatting) that it’s evident to both parties that sex will happen . What would kill it would depend on if the lady is a glutton and the dude has to pay or if the man says something stupid.
Besides that I don’t see nothing wrong having sex on the first date. What happens if you cross the road and get hit by a vehicle ( just saying !!! )
Some relationships start off being a one night stand to develop into something strong.
I find if I have to toil for something and it’s not good , I wouldn’t value you. But if you give me an apple and it’s sweet. I’ll buy the whole box.

Deji07abcd5:
Big Big Something !!!

I love Big Yansh as much or even more than the next fellow. The problem is cleanliness. Most big white ladiss you’d see the stains around the ass down to the “ womanliness “ for black - the melanin hides this..
but one thing sha is their flexibility- they can hold back their legs wide sha …

ask4bk:
As teacher, a 16 Yr old girl failed and had to repeat the year.
She came into my office begging that I should pass her. I told her she has to repeat.
She crossed to my desk, rubbed by thighs and body and said "I'll do anything for you just to pass" . This happened in seconds.

Now, this girl then, though 16, had an adult body. Fair, slim, but huge laps, asxx, and huge buubs.

I told her to sit down. I could report her to her parents, but I quietly told her that her approach of wanting pass with sxx will not help her in the future. While saying all this, my John Thomas don rise finish.

She started crying and at the end agreed to repeat. The next year she passed everything with distinction.
I called her and reminded her of the previous year and she said thank you so much for patiently teaching me life the right way. I repeated but I learnt far better this year.


If not that it was imprinted in my head that she's a minor and don't want their wahala... Omo... Who knows i would have chopped wella.

Thank God for my morals sha.

Morale of story …. You don’t like Womanliness.

marvellous2222:
Can a man be this wicked to the wife of his youth? 😭

I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years. I reside in Lagos.

I am not the type of woman that monitors or interfere in my husband business or his staffs. Though I know some of the staffs but not much closeness.

7 years ago 4 youths corps served at my husband office but one lady among the 4 corps member was later retained and employed as a secretary to the director who is my husband.

Though my husband told me when his secretary wanted to do her wedding at Port Harcourt 4 years ago. I didn't go but being my husband staff, he went with some of his friends. Less than a year after the wedding the Secretary gave birth to twins. I even went to visit her at home in gbagada, Lagos with gifts for the new babies then. When I asked for her husband I was told he is out of the country. I never knew I was being fooled.

December 22, last year, the Secretary gave birth to another baby in a private hospital where my immediate sister got employed less than 3 months as an accountant. It was my sister that witnessed everything and told me.

The lady I thought is just a secretary is my husband-wife. The wedding the Secretary did in port Harcourt then was between her and my husband. The twins she gave birth to then and the new baby she just put to birth are my husband children. The house I went to visit her in gbagada was bought to her by my husband with a saloon car.

My husband didn't deny it when I confronted him. Even his parents and siblings all knew about it. I didn't know I was in darkness for years.

I am still in the shock because all is still like a dream to me. I asked him of my offensee to have punished me that way but he said I did nothing wrong.

Since the day the whole secret was exposed I have been mentally sick and disturbed.
What should I do? pls admin approve some men can be extremely wicked.

Fabricated Story … READ THIS BEFORE on NL.

Ifemelu80:
Hi,

My ex called me yesterday, out of the blue, after 14 years of radio silence.
He was my first love and I thought we were in a relationship for 3 years only to find out I was just his side piece to the side piece.
He broke up with me by blocking me on his phone and social media and that was it.

A mutual friend reached out to me about 2 weeks ago. We had also lost contact for years. We talked about everything but him.
So I was very surprised to get a call from him. He said the mutual friend told him about our reconnection so he also wanted to get in touch. We chatted for 10-15 mn, he asked me about my life and told me to save his contact.

Now, I'm wondering, why would a man call an ex girl friend he didn't really care about, after more than 10 years ? We were never close friends and don't have any common interests, personal or professional circle anymore, so what's the point

Simple story is that he is not getting the intimacy you both had at home.
Something happened or is happening and he wants to feel some emotional connection during intimacy. Something he had with you.
He just wants to have sex with you if the opportunity presents itself.


With 3 kids he is likely getting sex with Madam as an afterthought. It’s no more passionate or organic but rather just stick and go . He was driving to work and said to himself “ Should I continue to visit the brothel or call this babe ( YOU) and chat her up “

Stupid Analogy comparing humans to a thing ?
You are bashing Single moms …. Was your mom a virgin before she met your dad ? or your sisters before starting a life with their husbands. ?

LikeAking:
I still dash babes millions.

Be Precise ….Millions of sperms you mean !

Hmm 24 trillion this …. 5billion that … against what income is the money being spent against ? Una just they print money dey go . With the country’s credit rating . OTIDA
There has been no talk on balancing budget and paying down debt . How on earth will things recover when everybody spends …and no tightening measures

World leaders ko … world leaders NI !
king na world leader. ? Which policy can the head of state decree ?
Another click bait pic

This story is click bait ! Give us full details!

That can’t be the whole story !
Even Atheists on their death bed wouldn’t mind prayers.

to me, it’s a dumb question asking how many ex’s she has had. Ask what broke up her last relationship? I mean everyone has a past . There are people who had one or two past relationships who did not enjoy sex only to get marriage with the right partner and can’t get enough of it. She may have been looking for love in all the wrong places .
As long as she is clean and makes you happy and can get pregnant .
In any case to everyone their own. If that is a prerequisite then make sure you use a lie detector test to make sure the number she gives you is correct 👍🏽

Blakjewelry:
Then you don't seems to understand the word love.

Elaborate - love is selfless , it is kind

Blakjewelry:
That guy is in bondage like if na normal mature lay, it's understandable but old mama? Comon.

Doesn’t she deserve to be loved !
If that is what it takes to be set for life - that is what he is prepared to sacrifice.

That’s dumb why wouldn’t she get a second opinion. If you are sure you didn’t cheat then get a second opinion from a different lab

Hmm as much as I applaud the ministry.
How about those at home. I mean expand the ministry here at home. Instead of just feeding the people why not create jobs , educate your people at home. N5million would go a long way at home.

pretydiva:
What’s the need of autopsy when the cause of death is already known?

I pray the deceased gets justice. Some people are devil in human form

Autopsy will determine time of death and what actually killed him. Yes he was stabbed how many times - which vein was stuck. Did he choke on his blood or bled out. Were there defensive wounds ? Cause attacker could say the deceased and he were struggling and killed him in self defence.

[quote author= post=127158721]Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/11/landlords-son-stabs-tenant-to-death-over-parking-space/[/quote]Can you imagine killing someone over a parking spot or dying because you parked where you shouldn’t.
I mean in reality the killer must have been fed up with the economic situation that he took out his frustration on the only person he could.
What a mess !!

Justiceori2019:
This lady whose identity is yet to be known was knocked down by a hit and run driver last night along Apirikom road off Chinda by Open door Church in Ada George, Port Harcourt. She was taken to the mortuary by the Ada George police.
She is yet to be identified & no relative yet. Kindly share to get her relatives go for identification at the Ada George Police.

30 days to Christmas .
What a terrible way to find out from the pages of NL that you have lost someone and that she died in a pool of blood.
If I were MOD, I’ll take the image down.

obaidan:
are you sure you are not that ex

lol .
I’ve shared this before here . When I returned from abroad after a few years I called my ex . She took me straight to meet her fiancé a soldier. Had I known earlier , I wouldn’t have tagged along but I didn’t . All he said was thanks because if I had married her then she would d be his intended. All hopes of yashi kappour vanished after meeting the guy.
The mere fact of dropping her off is that you know where the guys stays so you can come back and size him up . Whose loss is it , if an ex sleeps with her . Not you .. you would know she’s a ho and. Annoy be trusted. For any relationship trust must be present . She was open . Meet in an open area don’t meet at his place . Who else will be there . Just don’t go alone would be my advise

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

The mere fact she is asking you is a sign of respect. She could say she is going to visit a friend or a colleague . I would go with her and meet the dude and drop her off and pick her up. There is no way anything would happen after that. I can guarantee.

steeltrust:
yea, people told me that before i left Nigeria and i told them, if it the will of God for me to live Nigeria. no power can stop it. and guess what as i'm typing right now i'm in america. I don't believe in that bullshit.

Yes we aren’t saying you won’t get to your destination however it could with ease or with issues during the travel.

The fewer people the better. A lot of people walk around with negative energy and thoughts in most cases unbeknownst to them. They hear about your travel plans and before you know it road blocks and obstacles just show up. I ain’t saying they are the cause but the fewer people that know - the fewer people you can look at and observe.

Souzin:
Honestly don't know what to title this thread.

Well, I never thought I'd japa any time soon from this country until recently.

The plan to japa was presented to me by my cousin, who will sponsor the entire thing but it has to be an affordable university < €10,000 for fees

Now, I have been trying to get Information on where one can go study for cheaps in Europe with less stringent visa application process.

Most the information/thread on Nairaland are either old or abandoned.

Please, I'd appreciate any information, especially from those who recently travelled or are in the process of travelling.

PS: UK is totally out of it.
I have a Bsc. Statistics - Second Class Lower
And looking to do a Master's in Data Science/Analytics

I hear New Brunswick Canada . 🇨🇦