₦airaland Forum

Goodmarlian:
I am igbo I was born and bred here in yorubaland but i have lived at least 3 years in igboland,igbo people are great people especially their men they are hustlers and goal getters, but you see igbo women they are a no no for me.

You see,just because nature blessed them with beauty and light skin they believe they world revolve around them.
I have worked in jibowu,ladipo and some popular igbo markets because i have lots relatives in lagos markets,i have seen lots of nwaboy being brought from the village to serve their oga and one of the advice their oga always give them is to avoid girls during their years of service especially igbo girls,e get why igbo women are the most hypergamous women on earth and they dont hide it,they say it straight to your face.i think most igbo men from the village are narurally simps and have no game its not their fault it because of the hypergamous nature of igbo women over there.
Yoruba are akwaibom ladies are the best,dont get me wrong,l its not that they dont like money,but it is lesser,i remember when i was still in a lagos polytechnic my dad died in my year 1 i had no choice than to look for a side job to be able to sustain myself and education that period i was so broke and lost my looks due to working in the sun,my yoruba female coursemates still respect and cherish me but the igbos ones looked down on me for real.can you believe one day an i was actually playing with one igbo girl in my photocopy shop in school and her friend aske her if its photocopy boys she now dates i just laughed.igbo women are just too hypergamous.
Yoruba girl open their hearts to men irrespective of his financial status especially if he is serious and doing something but igbo women want a ready man and will be too ashamed of you if you are broke.


I'm also from eastern Nigeria and I couldn't agree more with u,my bro.
Personally, I have had dealings with girls from various tribes in Nigeria of which, after my comparison, I hope not to end up with an igbo girl cos they are just nothing to write home about.

No offense pls.

udofia234:
OK sir!!! I've concluded to take her myself to the park and pay for her fare down to ekiti from akwa ibom

emmyluizzz:
unhappy marriages are pretty common. Look, you all have seen the stats. The chances of ending up in
a lasting marriage are essentially based on a coin toss.


becareful how you choose your partners

udofia234:
Good evening guys!!!


Some guys are just so evil, in fact I've called him and told him how disappointed I am. This guy na my neighborhood nigga, there's this girls that came to an event place in my area for a party, I think they where this party ushers, the others left after two days of the event they came for, so this girl couldn't get anyone to give her cash for transport, she then met this guy in a bar behind were they were lodge( After the landlord sent her out)...


This useless guy offered to give her the 30k she needs to return to ekiti where she came on the condition that he will bleep her all tru the night , out of desperation she agreed, after everything this guys sent her out without paying her...


I could remember that same day the girl was there I came visiting him and I saw the girl in his sitting room, we just greeted casually.

Now after the guy sent her out, she might have seen me enter my house which is closer to that of the guy, she sat at the gate and my neighbours asked her who she was looking for and she described me , so they came and called me cos it was getting dark, so I went out and was shocked to saw her, out there she narrated everything to me, guys!!! I was mad, I never knew that was how irresponsible the guy was.

she has no where to sleep so I allowed her to sleep in my apartment. Guys she billing me to help her with the cash and that shes ready to do anything I want(If u see this lady on question, she's talk chubby with big front side and back side).


I told her I can't give her that cash(I have the cash but I no want be her maga), I'm sited outside now, I just went in a few minutes ago guys! what I saw was very tempting that I just had excuse myself from the house, immediately I told her to sleep in the room while I sleep in the sitting room to avoid any form of temptation.

I can give her even 40k but I want something else I can ask her to do in return without having sex with her!!! i just feel irritated knowing say that my guy for area son Bleep her tire all tru the night. As I'm typing now she's inside the house waiting for me to come in.

Guys I want her to think differently about me, I don't want her to say all guys are the same. I need your advice!!!!

Kemistri4:
You meet a girl, both of you vibe well...

But what's that habit or character that she displays that'll be an instant turnoff for you?


Me: Being Clingy


Let's hear your responses

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Muzanet:
Getting married to someone is one of the biggest decisions of your life, and it is wise to make your choices carefully. Dating or relationships can be pretty tricky if not done wisely. You can end up with the wrong person if you are not careful about whom you want to end up with. Unlike breakups, divorces are not easy. It involves not only emotional stress, but also financial and legal hassles. So, it is always best to make sure you are marrying the right person.

 

If you are looking for a lifelong commitment with a woman, make sure you make your choices wisely. The first thing to do is to find out if the woman has any of these five traits. If yes, you should rethink.

Types Of Women You Should Never Marry
Read in full here >> https://muzanet.com/five-types-of-women-you-should-never-marry

Franciscabless:
He met me with 1 child who is 3 years 10 months we only did introduction ,I have 1 child for him 1 years 5 months and I am pregnant with another one, he is working but he won't provide for me and our children I am tired of begging my mum everyday for foods and money she doesn't have much but she is trying her best to provide for me and my children she is paying for my first daughter school fee which it is not her duty to do so. I am tired of the marriage and I want to leave him please I need advice no insult if you insult me I will insult you back

chim14:
Its very common in Lagos espercially Lekki/Ajah axis to see girls wearing beads or chain on their left leg.

What does it mean, is it some sort of talisman or something?

Am curious to know what u guys think.

RealLagosBoy:
I was just catching cruise sha.

unamamatoto:
She pushed me away from her apartment and called me all sorts of names because of the things I got for her today being her birthday

She hasn't taken my calls since I left there in the morning

The economy hard on me

mmadu5:
Hmmm these girls thinks money is plugged from trees . How can a below average looking girl expect any guy to pay 50k 100k for short time .Is the pussy made of Gold? I wonder if anyone actually pay that much for a short time . It makes no sense atall just waste of money in this hard economy.

And they are mostly girls that stay in a brothel . Dirty ugly things

Ammmy:
I'm just coming from a church where it was revealed to me that I have a spirit husband. It has been the cause of my lack of progress and delay in marriage. I tried to argue with them because I've never been seeing any strange man both physically or in the dream. But I do have sex in the dream occasionally, especially if I'm Hot in real life. Please who knows the herbal cure or remedy to this menace? Yorubas in the house, your attention is needed . Don't tell me to pray because I have done that to no avail. I need another alternative. Something real and natural. Thanks

Ready100:
please permit my grammatical error please.

I work as an house keeper in one hotel here in kogi State. They do pay us 18k monthly.

One outstanding rules of the hotel is " don't collect any customer number, inrespective of the situation." so day before yesterday morning a guest check in, then yesterday morning I went inside to clean his room. I greeted him and start my cleaning, then he start asking me where I'm from, and my level of education and I told him. he said me based on the way I greeted and attend to him.

So later in the afternoon when he was checking out he came to the reception and ask for the guy That clean his room. he don't know my name cos I don't tell him.

They called me and in the presence of my supervisor and the deputy director the man ask for my phone number. at first I was shocked. I don't even know what to do or say.

For it not to look as if I don't want to give him, then I called out the number for him. He said he's travelling that when he will be coming back, he will call me I then thank him and went back to my department.

I get to work today my HOD said the deputy director is calling me in the office only for me to get there and he handed me my deducted salary that I am sacked. I asked why, he said I should meet my supervisor that he don't have time, I start begging him even though at first I don't know what happened.

I went to meet the supervisor and he said I gave out my contact to a customer yesterday. I went back to meet the deputy director and he ask the security to ordered me out.

I was weeping as I was trekking home this morning.

only God knows where I will see another work to take care of my siblings again.

Damojoy:
iPhone users won’t like this latest development on the App… Elon is strictly a businessman

udofia234:
Good evening my people!!!

I know I can always count on your wonderful advice!!!


October this year I met this lady in one of our church programs and we became friends, from that friendship something deeper started and its eventually growing to become marriage.

Guys there is an issue at hand, she's older than me with 7years, she is rich and own her own business, house and other properties but she's not married, she just relocated from the US early this year before we met, Guys she's being nice and I won't hide that!!!



When she mentioned marriage I told her am not buoyant enough for an elaborate wedding that she wanted , she offered to sponsor everything, she even offered to buy me suit if I don't have the money to buy, she said she will carry everything from her side and my side. Guys all my life I've never met a lady like this!!! I'm scared and at the same time short of words!!! she's a worker , decent , respectful.

I rejected that offer because of my integrity as a man, she might want to use that against me in the future!!! Though I love her but u know women and their attitude, she might say I married her because of her wealth!!! Pls should I agree to it or reject this tempting offer and looking at it I'm in my early 30s and I really wanna get married.

At least I'm okay but not rich like her, and most times she offers me expensive gifts which I rejected , I have never collected any gift from her, the day I took her out payed the bills.

pls help me my able nairalanders!!!!

udofia234:
Good morning my wise nairalander and once again I believe I can count on your advice....


work with a company, but as a hustler I have just few home lessons I do for selected people who can pay my bills.


This years July I got a home lesson through a trusted friend and believe me guy this people are paying me good money, what I get is more than half of what I earn in my work place, I go there only twice a week.


The parents of the said student I'm teaching are working with the govt, the dad is a colonel in Nigeria army and the mom works with inec, so this people are rich.


They have a son who am preparing for waec, neco and jamb, he is just 16years, I shouldn't be saying this here guys but I'm fed up, since I got this lesson I know how much I've made apart from my pay from the parents, this boy offered to pay pay me good cash to permit him go out to get his market(drugs) which I rejected, his parents are strict, they instructed me not to allow the boy go out of the house when ever I'm there , the dad specifically called me to monitor the boy and report any strange behavior..

On many occasions I've had few altercations with the boy, to my utter amazement this boy threatened to report me to his father that I stole his iPhone and his money, and nobody wants to end up in a military barracks.

This boy doesn't have that freedom to go out anytime I'm not there for lesson because the parents had also contacted a nanny to watch over them, so when ever I'm there for lesson the nanny is on off, so her off is 2wice per week. May be the nanny allows him too I don't know, but I have invested my time on this boy but he is so addicted!!! He was withdrawn from the hostel where he was schooling may be because of this bad character, I don't want to leave the job without helping the boy!!! The boy can go to any length to frame me before his parents.


Just last week I went there before my resumption time because I came back from office a bit early, so instead of going home direct I decided to drop, guys as I got into the house the door was not properly locked, I found the boy and the nanny smoking weed!!! My God!!!! I was perplexed!!! I knew something was fishing right from the time I saw the nanny attitude towards the boy!!! she claimed she was just helping the boy out of her love for him, cos I will never allow him buy that stuff when I'm there!!


The nanny have being pleading with me not to tell the boys father, that she only helped the boy purchase the stuff out of love and that she does not want to hurt the boys feeling, can u imagine that rubbish? my colleagues at work said if that attitude doesn't affect my huge pay I should just shut my eyes and continue my work, but my conscience will not allow me, some said I can be framed if I say anything. if I tell the dad is in two ways I must provide an evidence to make him believe me, secondly if I do, the son can frame me up before the father and that could spell doom for me!!!

There must be a way to help this young boy out of drugs!!!! Pls help I need your advice wise men in the house. There are still many I can't even be saying here guys.

Animegirl:
Ever since I started serving as a youth corper in Abuja, I've been getting free rides and money from older men, in exchange for my phone number and couple of meet up.

Everywhere I go with my corper uniform I attract older men. Why the obession?

antinarcotics:
I am a Nigerian scientist and researcher based in the USA. Recently, I vsited my town in delta state, Nigeria for a research on substance abuse.

What I saw, to say the least is alarming. A whole town in delta state is hooked on a drug called SWINOL.

This drug contains Flunitrazepam, a highly potent and dangerous benzodiazepam, which can be lethal and highly addictive even at a dose low as 1mg. This is very worrisome, as the addicts to SWINOL cuts across all age groups in the town.

I made some background research and findings reveal that the drug is produced by Swiss Pharma Nigeria Limited.

I visited the open drug market in Onitsha, and I got the drug easily. It is virtually sold in all the shops I entered. This is a schedule A controlled substance, the how come it's every where in the open market. I visited the open market in Lagos, it is sold there too freely. Other brands I saw include Rophynol and Hypnox.

We must do something urgently about this life threatening drug called SWINOL. It is killing the youths in my town.

I call on the Federal Government to look into the sales and distribution of SWINOL, HYPNOX AND OTHERS.

You can read about substance abuse from this piece. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/331829047_DRUG_ADDICTION_AMONG_NIGERIAN_THE_WAY_FORWARD

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FactBoyz:
Take a look at Her Excellency Mrs Margaret Obi in Benue today for the Obi-Datti Campaign

Antoeni:
Out of frustration and anger, the man cancelled the wedding and relocated to the UK alone.
A Nigerian man has reportedly cancelled his wedding and relocated abroad alone after his fiancée insisted that N1 million is too small for their wedding.

According to Twitter user @CRawkeen who shared the story online, the couple were planning to relocate to the UK together after their wedding and the man was footing all the bills as the lady and her family were struggling financially.

He further disclosed that the man had a lesser budget for the wedding but later increased it to N1million but the lady insisted that the money was still too small for her dream wedding.

Out of frustration and anger, the man cancelled the wedding and relocated to the UK alone.

tweeted,

“Heard a gist of this guy that told his babe that he only has ?1M to spend on their wedding.According to him,he upped the budget to 1M cos the lady’s family were having a bad time financially.But the lady insisted 1M is too small,so the guy cancelled the wedding and japa to UK

Let me add a bit of background so you can see that boys are trying . The would be best man told me his friend initially wanted a very lowkey stuff cos money no too dey and the fact that he’s the only one to shoulder everything.


It was out of i want to satisfy my babe that made him shift ground only for her to say 1m sef no go reach. This is a woman that will not be spending a dime o. Even the schools they applied to for Msc as a means to japa after wedding,it was the guy footing all the bills. You get !”


https://www.yabaleftonline.ng/man-cancels-wedding-relocates-uk-alone-fiancee-insisted-n1m-small-wedding/

motionarena:
Dear Mr Seun.
Please can't you control the large amount of Pornographic materials in your site.

Most of us come here to read funny romance stories and experiences but 90% of topics on the page is all porn. We know where to go if we want to watch porn.

Please seun put some order to this
Thanks

Zontrident:
Seriously why are more Nigerians not talking about the fact that Airtel lies about their data subscriptions, if you subscribed any data plan on Airtel you can only use like 50-60% of the said Data plan before it is exhausted.

Their 500 naira for 2gb only allows you to use like 1.2 gb before you will get a message that you have 200mb remaining and that 200mb will finish in a matter of minutes.

I'm shocked nobody talks about this nationwide scam more, glo also turns 60 percent of your data plan into night bundle that expires when the daylight data finishes WTF is wrong with our ISPs

I'm gathering some evidence on their fraudulent acts when I have enough I am going to sue Airtel by Gods grace.

FhiBi:
- My wife�

- Momma

- Heart beat�

- Mine�

- Dearest one

- Fatty bumbum

SuperWriter:
Jesus is Lord

GodHatesJews:
Graphs are illustrations for ret@rds .

GodHatesJews:
So in summary, one in every 5 Igbo male between the ages of 18 to 45 has been locked up .

This is really a very terrible situation and calls for deeper reflection on Igbo society.

Candidlady:


What nonsense man are you becoming? Potential rapist ?

Helping her just so you could get under her skirt


If you like yourself you better don't have sex eith her if not just know you now have a permanent roommate abi wife sef

Five days he is already saying is a man after having numerous sex with the girl in his mad

Inshort waka there...

A man can never help you without hoping to get anything in return

FieldMarshall06:
Nigeria is a Secular state. No agency or institution of Govt should promote one religion over another.

For the new Naira Notes, The CBN has 2 choices.

A) Remove the Arabic inscriptions on all Nigerian currency. OR
B) Leave the Arabic and add Christian inscriptions on the new notes.

We either remove religion completely or balance the currency with Christian inscriptions. Simple as ABC. Nigerian Christians aren't inferior. Remove all Arabic or add Christian inscriptions too.

Godwin Emefiele has a constitutional and a Religious duty to choose One option from the two above.

Godwin Emefiele must not be a coward. Pls Emefiele must see to this, stamp his feet down and Do It.