IsaacAdetunji1: How 1billion naira contract tears Naomi's marriage to Ooni apart
I billion naira contract scattered Naomi's marriage to Ooni of Ife The supposed dissolution of the three- year old marriage between the Ooni of Ife, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunsusi, Ojaja II, and his Queen, Silekunola Naomi Ogunwusi has continued to generate unending controversy making it global attention via the digital media The manner, circumstances and nature of the news was not only strange but shocking and disappointing particularly learning the fact that a marriage doused in traditional vestiges in the home of Silekunola Naomi's parent was single-handedly dissolved via an announcement of ' a divorce notice ' by the erstwhile Queen of Oduduwa via her Instagram. Since the release of her' I have moved on ' a letter purportedly written by Queen Naomi where she analysed her reasons for singlehandedly dissolving and divorcing the Ooni, the global digital and social media has been taken over by self-appointed judges, critics, bloggers and commentators spewing and making judgemental statements without burrowing into the root cause of the crisis. Though Queen Naomi explained in her ' divorce letter' that her decision to divorce the revered Monarch was not based on an allegation of immoral conduct against him According to her “Let it be known that this decision to move on did not come because his majesty is married to another queen. As many would love to assume, throughout our life as a couple, I was the only married wife to him. There were side attractions, but it was never an issue.' She also never mentioned maltreatment, harassment or untoward behaviour from the King in her three years marriage All that she pointed out in the letter was the general experience expected of a typically responsible lady should go through in a typical African marriage. ' I did my best to endure and make it work; many times, I smiled through the struggle, but I have finally realised I had just one assignment, my son, and when God is done, He is done. He chose Saul to be king, and when He was done, He told the prophet Samuel I have moved on. Religion was never an issue between us; please refer to my interview on News Central TV. Instead, His Majesty has a picture he would love the world to see and perceive him as and another one, which is his true self' Going through the letter, one should ask himself, are these genuine issues or good grounds for a divorce? Has the marriage broken down irretrievably? No Has there been an allegation of adultery? No Is there an allegation of dissertation? No Insanity? No Then if these characteristics or grounds of divorce are not pointed out by Naomi in her letter of divorce something must be wrong somewhere particularly as the palace has kept mum over the issue. This and the fact that not a single effort has been made to unveil the real issue behind the ' I moved on ' letter of divorce on Naomi's Instagram page. The fact According to Factcheckers, an independent investigative blogger in its finding uncovered five major reasons 1. Ooni's impetuosity at empowering the family of whoever he wedded 2. His eagerness and unfettered desire of making any marriage work by over pampering and over satisfying his spouse 3. Naomi's Childish and youthful exuberance and her agrarian affection for her family member 4. Cross level mentality or class up the ante 5 Naomi's mum, her brother Gbenro and the gold-digging attitude of the family. An investigation by Factcheckers uncovered an Ooni Ojaja who was smarting out of a controversial marriage believing he must of necessity and image married a God-fearing lady who will be able to be a Queen in need and deeds. Some elements of which she found in youthful Silekuola hence she decked her in surplus latitude and wide discretion. The first was the issue of not tampering with and being a cog in her ministrations enterprise This comes in two folds, that the lady will be shuffling between Akure her base and Ife her home. Also, that she will be left alone to carry on with her prophetic business. Both granted. In making her comfortable at executing this, the Ooni relocated the family of her Queen from the room and parlour accommodation outside Akure and planted them in a palatial duplex at Ijapo GRA in Akure with 24 hours monarchical attention. Silekunola moved every member of her family, the Mum, all her singing, Simi, Gbenro her brother and six others into the house. And whenever she moved to Ife also, she does with all the trains and family wagon. At Ile - Ife, immediately the marriage was consummated and a private residential quarter was allocated to the Queen, all the above members of her family were always there with her. Whether Naomi's mum was always staying there permanently whether her daughter was in Ile - Ife or not. Factcheckers found out that Naomi's prefers staying in Akure for her ministration works. And to her credit, she has never kept a straight one week in Ile - Ife to attend to the king neither has she cooked a pot of soup or ordinary egg by herself for the Monarch not once since their marriage. According to the investigation, the golden rule in the palace is that ' The Queen and her family must be comfortable ' Thus the deliberate lapping up of the excesses of Queen Naomi's family particularly the Queen mum who always go to the market to buy things on ' won't you sell to the Queen's mother?' and Gbenro, a former trailer conductor who was heavily rehabilitated by the Ooni. It was even found out that Silekunola has a strong attachment with her family and thrice told the Ooni of Ife that if the occasion warrants her picking an option between he Ooni and Tadenikawo on one hand and her family on the other, she will not bit an eye to opt for her family. And this according to the investigation was displayed by her during the last coronation anniversary that she refused to attend the major occasion just because the Ooni refused to send a special convoy to come and pull her and all her family in Akure even though she has 7 cars and retinue of attendants at her disposal. The investigation revealed that Queen Naomi's mannerism and modus operandi was tolerable by the Ooni but her family's patent idiosyncracies were contemptible particularly Simi, the lady whose weird dance, nearly brought down the roof of the hall during one of the events of the royal, the mum's waywardness and Gbenro, her unemployed brother who is intoxicated with the simplicity and generosity of the Ooni. Since her marriage to the Ife Monarch, it was discovered that her mother, her brother (Uncle) and other siblings reside in the palace until a few weeks ago when the Ooni insisted her mother and siblings must vacate the palace as the ostentatious life being lived and the untoward attitude disgraces the monarch especially among his friends, who have become "mugus" of the olori family waywardness. However, the last straw that broke the proverbial camel's back was the decision of the Ooni at emancipating and empower the family of his wife forever. An opportunity emerged from a long dream of the Ooni who wish to plant the most luxurious Housing and Property Resort in South-West Nigeria. A project of 20 billion nairas in Akure, Ondo State. He this decided to appoint the firstborn of his Queen mum, Gbenro who has nothing tangible to do than feasting on the palace and his younger sister, Naomi. With proper consultation and agreement with his Queen, Ooni Ojaja II handed over a sum of 1 billion nairas to Gbenro for the commencement of phase 1 of the housing project! That is where the beauty stopped and the commencement of the disintegration of the 2nd marriage of Ooni Ojaja II. Gbenro moved to the site with enthusiasm and promise to deliver. He started on a good note that the Ooni did not blink an eye when he requested for additional 50 million nairas, another 100 million and another 50 million nairas, making 1.2 billion nairas in all And so soon, the structure put on and supervised by Gbenro started collapsing, giving way to the ground after a little rain! Alarmed that the project abinitio has developed a fundamental problem which if not nip quickly and promptly in the bud may kill the dream forever. Investigation revealed that Ooni Ojaja II called a meeting with his wife, Gbenro and others telling them to see the necessity of disentangling Gbenro from the project and assigning another competent fellow to do the task And before that was done a quality and quantity assessment was carried out on the job done at the site as supervised by Gbenro. The assessment revealed a job done at 567 million nairas while 1.2 million has been collected by Gbenro! Ooni Ojaja II realised the institution of the cult of In-law and his prime intention of emancipating his wife's family overlooked the issue and the money and re-assigned the project to another competent person - one Victor at another cost without asking Gbenro to refund any money. Investigation revealed that even though the Ooni carried her Queen along in all these decisions to disengage Gbenro for the benefit of the project and the Royal family, Queen Naomi and her family were bitter and angry and swore to square up with Ooni Ojaja II. The first sign of rebellion came from Gbenro who after his disengagement from the site which was being handled by Victor, twice, led a band of marijuana smoking guys to destroy the work in progress and constitute a nuisance. Investigation revealed that in each time of nuisance Ooni always called the attention of his Queen who instead of cautioning her brother always put the blame on ' Kabiyesi too should have not disengaged him too' Tired and frustrated by the report on the malfeasance of Gbenro, Ooni was said to have called him to the palace for cautioning. In the meeting, Gbenro was said to have displayed what an eye witness described as " an animalistic behaviour, totally unexpected by a sane human being at that Royal forum' It was gathered that Naomi was there watching his brother behaving in an uncultured manner without a word of reprieve from her. Despite Gbenro's crude intransigent and bellicose attitude towards the Monarch, the investigation revealed that Naomi never for once chastised or admonished him Investigation revealed that while Gbenro was exhibiting his madness and the Monarch was impressing on her the essence of making the Akure project an excellent one, all Naomi was up to is how her brother would get the project back whether he is competent or not minding the consequence for Ooni's image and their own immediate family. ' She made many attempted to change the mind of the tender heart Ooni to recall his brother Gbenro back to the site, a request flatly rejected by the monarch who appealed to his now-estranged wife to look at the issue from his point of view as his wife and mother of his prince.' It was also gathered that Olori Naomi told the Oba that his brother must return to the site or she will not have anything to do with the Ooni and she will not visit Ile Ife until this is done It was also learnt that while the volte-face between the Ooni and his now-estranged wife was getting to its a crescendo, the father of the monarch as a responsible elder, called the attention of Naomi's mother, who insulted the old man, and in the process, the said Gbenro hijacked the telephone from the old man and lambasted him severally, which made him cry. The monarch got wind of the irresponsible act, called his wife to report the unruly act of her brother, but she was vehement that it's either her brother returns to the site or nothing again, while that was ongoing, Gbenro again, snatched the phone from her sister, lampooned the highly respected Yoruba Oba. It was gathered that Naomi has not been to Ile - Ife in the last 6 weeks claiming that she could only come home from. Akure to Ife with all her family members, including the mum and Gbenro who has been on a rude spree to the Ooni with impunity This we gathered that Ooni refused her prayers telling her that she cannot bring into the Royal stead those who fouled and despised royalty.
What sort of gold digging family is this one abeg? Honestly I feel for the Oba.
Femi8586: Are you trying to say you can do same as that stupid man in the picture?
That women are designed to be worshiped?
Some men sef
Oga, Where in my post did I mention 'worship' Pls learn to read and understand carefully. There is a thick line between worshiping and pampering women ok.
I made a harmless statement but look what you sent to me.. You don't even know who you are talking to but just cos you have a phone and data,you just expose your shallow thinking self. Well thanks anyways ,didn't expect any less from a punk who spits fire at women at the slightest given.
You are a menace we will have to keep dealing with on the social media.
TheGidRedpiller: Pls leave all the part where he said he would do all the chores and skip to the last sentence. Are you not disgusted by the kind of mindset these fully grown men exhibit because they have to look appealling
Let me just draw the whole picture for you to understand here; If you are a man and you plan or hope to treat your "Beautiful Wife" like the idi0t in the photo below then just understand this in advance: 1. She really doesn't care about you or whatever you care about, you can go to hell and back for all she cares, the only reason she is with you is because of what you are offering her at the moment that MUST NOT SEIZE TO FLOW by the way!
2. You are like the owner of a company using your tongue to clean off your employees shoes every morning.
3. You are as useless as the letter K in the word used to describe what your wife will be doing at your back since you give her so much leverage!
Don't get me wrong, treat your "Loving Wife" right but don't put her on any pedestal!
TRP IS GOLDEN!!!
Stop taking life too seriously bro.. Like it or not , women are designed to be pampered.
garfield1: I believe strongly that the south south ethnicities like efik,Bini,urhobo,ijaw,itsekiri but I'll place the efik culture as the number one...
Truvelisback: Good day, Fellas. How do u Bachelors cope living alone? I lived alone in Delta State for like 6 years before coming back to Lagos stay with my mum for awhile. To be frank with u guys, living alone isn't fvcking easy. So, to the guys saying they would never get married, have a gf or have anything to do with ladies. Have u lived alone before? How was it like to u? Take the mic and tell us ur experience. The same goes to the Bachelors. in Inyanya's voice: All my ladies, u are not left out too.
Since I can cook even better than most females and do all my domestic chores all by my self , tell me, What do I need a female under my roof for, If not for what's between her legs..
When it's time to get married, we 'll cross that bridge jeje but for now, I'm doing fine.
Sadiqali24: Tell us the funniest nickname you gave a teacher back in secondary school. And how did the name came about?
Mine, our PHE teacher was always calling his cane tumpapia, funny thing, this tumpapia is a name of a medicine, he left us with no choice than to start calling him by that. Share yours.
Lastlook: North Korea is famous for many things, from nuclear powers to weird customs and leaders. Here is a list of some of the most fascinating yet frightening facts about the isolationist country.
1. North Korea uses a different dating system.
While the rest of the world is in the Year 2021, North Koreans use the Juche Calendar and are in the year 110. Although not adopted until 1997, The Juche Calendar begins at the birth of the first founder, in 1912, which is counted as Year 0.
2. Highest number of military personnel.
Despite being a relatively small country, North Korea boasts of the highest number of men and women in their military workforce. In terms of the strength of their active-duty personnel, they are ranked fourth in the world.
3. Taekwondo, now an Olympic sports game, originated from North Korea. While China and Japan boast of Kung Fu and Karate respectively, the art of elaborate kicking techniques belongs to the Koreans.
4 Caste System
North Koreans are divided into three based on their status in society: Tomatoes, Apples, and Grapes.
That's right, and it's named after fruits for some reason. Red is the color of Communism, so as tomatoes are red outside and inside, the term is for those of high status. Politicians and high-ranking military personnel make up this elite class.
Next are the Apples. Red apples are red on the outside, but not on the inside, so the term is for the common civilians.
Coming last are the Grapes, who are the delinquents and the lawbreakers of the society. Certain rights are available for the Tomatoes; rights which the Apples and Grapes may not enjoy.
5. Tunnels into South Korea
Everyone knows of the eternal discord that exists between the two countries of North and South Korea. Presently, both countries have ceased fire, and for the time being, no direct act of war is allowed from any of the two.
Even so, South Korea has discovered 4 tunnels that the North Koreans have dug into their country. These tunnels are so big that they can easily accommodate 30,000 soldiers and transport them all the way to the South in little time. It is believed that there are 20 more of these tunnels.
When asked about this obvious violation of the rule, North Korea claimed the tunnels were for mining coal, even though there was no coal in the area.
Outrageous!
6. Kim Dynasty
North Korea is ruled by the Kim Family, which is the ruling family. The role of president has been passed down from father to son over three generations now.
The most ridiculously absurd thing about them is the biographies written for the two past leaders. It is published in North Korea that the founder, Kim Jong Il walked when he was three weeks old, and could drive a car by the time he was 3. What's more, he had the power to change the weather conditions based on his moods.
7. North Korean elections.
Funny enough, North Korea holds periodic elections, once in five years. The funny part is that only one candidate contests for the election, who is no doubt the well-known Kim Jong Un.
8. North Korea has only three TV channels.
The government controls the media fully, and as such, they're only three TV channels, which of course only display shows about government propaganda and patriotism to North Korea.
At a point, the government kidnapped a South Korean movie director and made him make rip-offs of popular conventional movies like Godzilla, using Korean style and surely, advocating North Korean policies.
9. Internet access.
Have you ever chatted with anyone from North Korea? Certainly not.
The country has a very limited number of websites and IP addresses, and the information network is governed and strictly monitored by the country. What's more, you need to have a license before owning a computer.
10. Limited number of haircuts.
As men, you can only choose one of the 10 approved haircuts, and as women, you may choose from 18 approved haircuts. Disobedience is seriously punished.
11. Jeans are prohibited.
You can't just walk about in Jeans and expect not to be duly prosecuted. It is believed in North Korea that Jeans are symbols of American style, and as such are strictly banned.
12. There's Generation Punishment
Perhaps the most bizarre rule is the policy of three-generation punishment. Under this policy, you could be jailed in a brutal labor camp for a crime committed by your grandfather or your nephew.
Imagine spending years in a labor camp because your cousin put on Jeans.
13. Principle of Self Reliance.
North Korea is governed by the Juche Principle, which emphasizes the importance of self-reliance. In that way, North Korea does not seek assistance or engage in any mutual relationship with any foreign country.
14. Poverty and Corruption in North Korea.
Yes, many parts of North Korea are drowning in poverty, and have suffered many famines, owing to the lack of enough natural resources in the country. Admittedly, the nation has a 99% literacy rate, which is quite an achievement.
15. Death penalties.
Like many other countries, death penalties are still in use in North Korea.
Yet North Korea remains unique, in that it can exact death penalties for even crimes considered minor by the rest of the world.
Such crimes that have resulted in death penalties include defecting and the possession of the bible.
This brings us to the end of this list of bizarre facts about North Korea. You could go on and on, but let's take a break here.
Ocholu: Omo!! Them don de plenty for this town. Everywhere you chook head na runs Girls. I went to Cubana the other day to unwind, all I saw were very young ladies, littered around the area waiting for men to come pick them up. These girls fit reach 1k for ground. It was like a Market-Square.
You enter social media; just tell any babe "hello" the next thing she go tell you "is it short or night". Some of them even message you 1st. See the picture below.
Make I pack my bags enter Owerri like this.
Ina ehn!
Bros no be lie o Its so alarming right now in the east. The table has turned, it's now girls bringing the game to you.
Truvelisback: Good day, Fellas. I saw this pics on fb, so i decided to post it here to hear ur views. Why did the prisoner choose the bread instead of the key?
In my opinion, I think the illustration clearly depicts man's selfish quest to fill his belly than emancipating himself from mental slavery which gives rise to growth and advancement.
SultanOfPuna: You said you cant teach a man how to raise his kids.. So why are you quoting bible teaching parents how to raise their kids? You people are so confused mentally and physically
So sorry Oga, I knew what I said pls and I stand on it. I think it's you who has a problem with comprehension. Learn to read and understand properly before opening that hole on ur face you call a mouth. As far a parenting is concerned, the Bible only guides you ok it doesn't teach you..
JackDaAlienz: I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing
How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids. He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.
The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games. If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them. He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them. A grown man begging his kids to go to bed.. Wtfffff And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.
He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.
Some men are not fit to be fathers some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.
You can't teach a man how to raise his kids, it's his sole responsibility but if that's your uncle's way of raising his kids, it's fine with him...but he should always remember that the Bible says Parents should train their kids the proper way so when they grow older, they won't depart from it..
While North African are the number 1 choice... In terms of beauty because they are white...
Compared to West and South African women...
When God created man, he sat back looked at him and he (man) was pleasing to his eyes.
In my opinion, beauty hasn't Got so much to do with race cos every race has beautiful people.
So it's either you have it or you don't.
That's why I laugh when I see ladies turning their faces into a painting canvas all in the name of making up. Well , so sorry cos not every guy falls for that.
Reno Omokri once said.. "do not marry a lady you have never seen without make up"
kenzysmith: Have come to observe ladies or females generally like using their thumb to scratch their ampit , secondly picking their noise with their finger . Today i went to a resturant 'mama put' to eat the food was very delicious as i was drinking my pure water i watch one of the worker scratching her sweaty armpit with her tumb and later picking her noise with her fingers and i heard she was involve in the slicing of salad chai. That will be the last day i will ever go to that resturant.
Lol...see this one. Na the one wey you see you dey talk like this o How about the ones wey you no dey see for the restaurant?
Goodlyhrt: I have experienced this a lot in the course of my life. I could recall when I was younger.. Four or Five.. I was literally adopted by one neighbor in our compound. She was lavishing gifts and so much love on me back then.
Even as I grew older lots of pregnant women have shown me so much love. One time I could have had my way with one fine aunty that time but my morality prevailed.
When I asked some people about this fascination of pregnant women, someone told me there is a believe that the unborn child will be as fine as the people surrounding the mother.
Presently in my place where I currently reside, there is this newly married Preggo that is on my case. She is a neighbor. I think she wants more than just getting close to me. She wants to have sex with me I can tell.
I don't want to consciously get closer to another man's wife in the pretence of one superstition.. No.. As I don't trust my self and people's motive. So I'd stir clear off her lane.
But Africans and their superstitious belief.. It's too much!
Op pls don't get too overly excited and superstitious ok..a pregnant woman getting fond of anyone is normal she could like you for any reason it musnt necessarily be looks biko
gabazin080: I have my car but she doesn't have, so I planned to buy her one this new year. I have saved 800k already. I might chop the money so I saved it in her second account that she is not using. though I didn't tell her the money is for her car. I was surfing through her phone last night and I saw the money has reduced to 480k from 800k. I confronted her and she changed it for me o, untop my money o.
she couldn't give excuse on how she spent the money, she was just saying the money is with her that I shouldn't worry myself.
now I told her I want all my money by weekend. she has not been talking to me since last night. was I wrong to ask where my money was
So in all these years of ur marriage, you weren't aware of such tendencies in ur wife?
That woman is not a good wife neither is she a home maker.. you can quote me anywhere.
gabazin080: I have my car but she doesn't have, so I planned to buy her one this new year. I have saved 800k already. I might chop the money so I saved it in her second account that she is not using. though I didn't tell her the money is for her car. I was surfing through her phone last night and I saw the money has reduced to 480k from 800k. I confronted her and she changed it for me o, untop my money o.
she couldn't give excuse on how she spent the money, she was just saying the money is with her that I shouldn't worry myself.
now I told her I want all my money by weekend. she has not been talking to me since last night. was I wrong to ask where my money was
Lol..you never see anything. Women and money 5 and 6.
aminusodiq: try uk... I can add u to a nairaland group where u can get direct information on how you can do it on your own... Most of the guys there did it themselves.. I backed down cos i dont have enough
Politics › Re: How 1billion Naira Contract Tears Naomi's Marriage To Ooni Apart by Rickmann: 7:58am On Dec 26, 2021
