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Logs for yesterday;

30 minutes kickboxing with Adrienne White, nice one!!!....

@HG, wished i had the time to be going to the gym, love challenges like that.

REALITY101: Yes Really

OK!!!!

shymmex: I don't think you guys are still connected, you just can't seem to let go. You will be surprised if and when you meet him again - and find out you don't have feelings for him any more.

My dear, i thought soo until......(this is a public forum can't go into details), we never spoke for a longtime, and i did not really care about him again, but he was just that special person, funny enough, out of all the guys i had dated and subsequently fallen for, it had to be him? common now, the others are gone for good, he is married now, i am married too, and we both care for our families deeply, but what has been happening to him, happened to me too, it is like, we have this life that we share not physically but through our hearts of hearts, it is only him that understands,and i am the only one that understands. it is just the way it is, can't be explained.

REALITY101: Only parental love are real and true. Btches love are conditional no matter how much she try covering it up. I get some much love from my fam n friends that I ain't expecting much from any chicks. Who cares if you love me as long as you're hot, bangs me whenever and anytime i want it

Apart from kids women should be just sex subject.

Really??

shymmex: How do you mean?

Only because something similar happened to me, like years ago, when i was much younger!!!!

Had this guy, who adored me and i adored him too, he was very poetic, loved his grammer die!! loved the way he talked, smiled, whispered, very assertive and would look into your eyes like there was no tomorrow, infact i was loving....i was in the pure bliss of love, we would write each other letters and poems, his love inspired me, i guess my only inspiration so far was from him and i guess it ended with him too.

Then everything started when i got an admission into the university, infact, the problem was not really from me, it was from him, i would go to school and come back and i was hearing stories of him asking the ladies in our area out,especially my close friend who was going "gaga" for him, did not know how true that was, knowing me my jealous type, and for the fact i turned so many guys down, the guy knew how much the competition was on me, he was the least in terms of appearance and acheivement, but he was the best, the man that owned my heart.

So i ended the relationship, we both still talked, the feelings was there, but i was already ''gone'', then came distance, and now the gulf is so far apart, that nothing can ever bring us close physically,though we are still firends, but i will not lie to you, when i say, our hearts still belong to eachother. Just because you are no longer in the relationship does not mean '' true love'' does not exist.

harakiri: @Davidylan (again)

Did you just say the earth is a "circle"? Is that what your science books tell you? Anyways, before you start shooting yourself in the foot and "explaining" how circles have "corners", let me drop a few more :

(1)Isaiah 40:22 says two things. . .First the earth is a circle and second, it has a circle above it. Read your bible well David. You so called religious folks lack "proper understanding of the bible".

(2)Job 38:13 : That it might take hold of the ENDS OF THE EARTH that the wicked might be shaken out of it (Can you imagine the absurdity of this statement? And you call yourself a scientist).

(3)Jeremiah 16:19 : O lord, my strength and my fortress and my refuge in the day of affliction,the gentiles shall come unto thee from the ENDS OF THE EARTH and shall say,surely our fathers have inherited lies and things wherein there is no profit.

(4)Daniel 4:11 : The tree grew and was strong and the height thereof reached unto heaven and the sight thereof to the ENDS OF ALL THE EARTH (You can't even see far enough from Mount Everest and this is a dumb a$$ tree we are talking about).

Do i need go on?

So are you saying the Earth is not ''spherical in shape'' as we were thought in primary schools??, and so because it has a spherical shape (if you agree) does not have ends or corners? just asking though.

Still the post smells close to home!! i wonder why??

[quote author=fresh_dude]With due respect I disagree, and IMVHO the above is wicked and evil and at best grossly misleading. This lady's misdeeds are now being watered down to a trivial misdemeanour(wickedness and talking of iregbe). This lady (Ogbeche hear me well well) SCHEDULED an appointment with another man(and by man I mean a male with a functioning d...ick and a gameplan on how to use it on easter monday) and then LIED(the purpose of which was to eliminate any and all obstacles to said schedule) and you are here(in full glare of the whole country, nay world) telling this scorned brother that it was 'harmless flirtatious fun?' I cannot believe it/you ma. For all intents and purposes this girl has been straffed by this dude(though not physically), if ever Jesus' thought-sin rule of adultery applied to humans this is a perfect example.[/quote]Cool your temperature, you want me to tell him to kill her he has done the right thing!!! but i believe in 2nd chances.

Hey guys!!! how are you all today?

Log for yesterday. 45 minutes dance, danced makosa, kabakaba, have this reggaeton cd with different songs, needed to burn calories yesterday, and it was fun.

@babs you are welcome.

ogbeche77: But Ronke ... If it just 1 guys I can say playing around... But 3 diff guys? I think she's was weighing up her options... There's no hiding that fact that she loves me & still do, but I just can't withstand a cheat... Even though I don't know d next gal dat ll come my way

Ok, gat you!! and i respect your decision, wish you the best!

ogbeche77: Funny!!!!!!! What if I tell u I first met her in a similar way online & we started dating.... Except for then she was still single
More also when dis current dude ask about her current bf (Me) her reply was that am a CHEAT & she wants me out of her life

Common now!!! like you don't know those lines...d babe is just sizing the dude up, i am not trying to cover her up, but am sure she was just flirting nothing more, moreso that statement came from the fact she thought you were cheating on her, insecurities can also make her hit on other guys, only for the fact that she does not know what you would be doing behind her back! But those thoughts are childish, anyway, she wants to be A playa but does not really know how to do it codedly. But i admire your decision on the whole matter, that will jolt her back to reality.

If you still have feelings for her and know when she is truely sorry and remorseful and can see through her that she means it, FORGIVE HER!!!.

Really poster Just because you think you are free, does not mean you are really free, good to be positive minded though, if she was really your true love, your hearts are forever tied. I like your thinking though. But my dear, it never goes away; no matter how you try. Good you both are friends.

ogbeche77: Am at a cross road going by the advice of fresh_dude & ronkebp....
Totally confused.. But I ll surely follow my heart...
And to include this... Dat guy is not d 1st she ll hit on... I can count @ least 2 more... Just dat no deep conversation btw dem & she has not began to use d 'love u' word 4 dem
But she promise 2 meet them when in lag
Una go open mouth if I paste d details of there conversation, but dat ll be takin it too far... How cheap girls can be

How serious is your relationship with her? from what i have read, she is just playful and flirattious, we have flirts like that, that all they do is have a good laugh with chatting and mouth, but the real action is a no-no. It is a harmless flirt, will one go crazy, seeing such things, Oh yes!!!! can she pull through with it? Maybe! can i trust her again Oh yes!!!.

kola oloye: Pls don't hit your chest,their case is inconsequential.

Oloye baba!!!! really what type of pictures do you have on your page nice one though, very funny. , howdy

harakiri: An Atheist has NOTHING to prove to you about your god. You on the other hand believes in this god and the onus rests on you to prove his/her/its/their existence. Simple question :

WHAT CONCRETE PROOF CAN YOU BRING TO THE TABLE THAT VERIFIES THE EXISTENCE OF THE BIBLICAL GOD OTHER THAN WHAT YOU'VE BEEN TAUGHT TO BELIEVE FROM CHILDHOOD?

Hmmmm?

You and I are not friends, so please don't quote my post.

I really don't know where the ''intelligence'' lies, when you cannot intelligently prove to me or others that there is no GOD. only when that has been proven, then i can hit my chest and say ''An Atheist is an intelligent man or woman''.

Otosdd: U could see guilt on my husband face even dat of d girls face both of them were uncomfortable wen they saw me. Even right now my husband is not taking with me its as if nothing happen business as usual. I am really unhappy about everytin dat happen, u know wen u have this trust about ur husband dat he cannot cheat on u but only for u 2 find out dat he is not wat u think. Its realy painful. I dont know wat 2 do i am stil crying uptil now d painful tin is dat i am pregnat. Its just 2 much for me 2 handle.

My dear, calm yourself down ( i know it is easier said than done) but really calm your nerves, you need not worry yourself like this in your condition.

ogbeche77: I posted the story of my break up yesterday.. For those who missed it here is the link....https://www.nairaland.com/905721/single-again.......bad-break-up
But the girl in question av been begging and begging ever since yesterday... Almost every member of her family av called.. When I refuse to pick her call she has bombarded me with text messages....Telling me it was her first time of flirting around & was just teasing up the guy by using d 'love me' word.... I don't believe a word of those crap
Though av made up my mind already because a cheat is always a cheat....
But do u guys think am over reacting?

You have not overreacted, but you have just killed her soul. I won't lie, sometimes, you just want to experiment with new things, that does not mean she does not love you or she wanted to really hurt you or break your heart, sometimes things happen that you really do not have any good explanation for, I will say you should give her a second chance, especially since she is begging with her all!!! But the fact remains that you have made it known to her that you will not tolerate any form of cheating, and she soo gets the message, and this is only because she has not even met the other guy. People err.

Ruth Oluwaseyi: Is it right for a lady to have an affair with her boyfriend without even knowing if he'l get married to her or not in which the probability of even getting married to her is low.

Am sure you mean have s/e/x with your boyfriend, i don't know how old you are, but if you think that is the only thing he is after, there are other girls out there who are ready to give it to him, if you are not sure about his feelings for you, then by all means keep your self from ''chop and run'' guys. Don't come here in another 3 months and say your bf dumped you, after he slept with you.

tOO BAD!!!!!! A man that cannot kiss??!!!!! oh no!!!!! can't survive there, he can't roborebe?? am sure not even ***snail** haba, so what is sexy about him then?

; D @ POST.

Your friend does not know all this info, but you do!!! how come?

My dear if you are a true christian, then you will know what to do. Don't allow the devil to destroy your home by his pranks. The most annoying part is that as a christain once you are married you cannot, divorce your spouse on religion grounds, so if you are thinking it, do away with that thought.

My advice, pray for him specially, remember the Bible, if God does not call them to Himself, there is nothing you can do. My dear this is the time for you to tighten up your belt, if you would normally sleep for 8 hours at night, reduce it to 6 so that you can be up praying for two hours, even if it is 30 mins, God answers, You need to pray for him ( your hubby) that God should show HIMSELF in his life for your sake and that of your children.
Who knows if God allowed the marraige so that you can stand in the gap for him. Do not let you faith to be affected, God will always come through.
Don't argue with him over anything, just smile when he starts to quote wikipedia or guiness world book of record, still love keep loving him, The Lord is your strength.

Op Calm down, i know your mind will be on fire with the touchy, touchy.....thingy.

1. Call your wife, sit her down and ask her questions about the ''we touched...but did not do anything'' what was the level of touching, kissing, smooching, masturbating.....and so on?

2. You have to let her spoilt arse know, that when couples have mis-understandings, it is very childish to leave your matrimonial home to take refuge with a friend who apparently has a good 100% control of her own house. And for the fact that she remained there for 4 full weeks? over what kitchen cabinets Common now,and she was "roborebeying"..... she just ridiculed herself infront of family and friends, it would have been a different thing if she left because you hit her or beat her to a pulp.

3. You two need to have a long talk.... you need a list of ''do's and dont's ''. I commend you for going to take your daughter from her.

Don't say anything, your husbands knows that you will bring down hell with what happened, if i were you, i will disappoint him by not bringing down hell, go and cool off first and then come back.

And so this epistle has now become, the truth? really? , why is the friend coming out to support Kevin, why not his family memebers or the late wife's family? what of the the late wife's friends, we need more testimonies to corroborate what he or she has said.

Good morning guys!!!!! everyone is doing great i see!!! nice ones.

So ...my journey so far, no exercise for me saturday and sunday (though spent 2 hrs in the mall on saturday, working to and fro, i guess would count for a workout )

So on friday 03/30/2012 did 40 mins of ''kempo kick-boxing'' ( guys that was really challenging but great, did not have the kempo workout thing itself, but i just followed every movement and i was sweating like crazy, the guy said that workout burns like 650-700 calories. There are more exercises on you tube. and great workouts too, incase anyone is tired of doing a routine exercise.

Logs for yesterday: 45 minutes runninmg and jogging, the whether was not too bad, so i decided to take it outside. was great too.

I guess will see you guys tomorrow!! ciao...

maclatunji: ^Which cabal? Those pictures are disturbing. If she is so bitchy cut are loose by all means but don't kill or maim her. There has to be a better way.

Johndoe, neyostical n the mighty Harakiri?

The cabal have spoken!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[quote author=Miss_Ife]thanks all for your replies

I'm actually a bit disappointed since I was expecting a whole new dish, but it's just "beans porridge" with corn in it.[/quote]Laughs!!!!! you have forgotten that beans is very boring, you only enjo it when you make moin-moin out of it. That beans and corn i love, very healthy, i add dry fish to mine when cooking it.

This is exactly what happens to women that cheapens themselves to go after a man, thinking they are inlove,i just wonder when women will really learn.

Anyways, you have to leave the man, whether you like it or not, the maltreatment will never stop, just so you know HE IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND, but YOUR BABY FATHER( since he has not properly wedded you). But i will suggest you finish your school first and lie-low....do not do anything that will make him start kicking you and hitting you again. If he wants to be coming home late and drunk, let him do, if he is having an affair, let him go ahead. But my dear, after your school, carry yourself to a far place that he can never reach you or your child. God will help you.